Ghosting

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  For some it is! I have mixed feelings about Ghosting. It has it's Pros and Cons. However, if it is just exchanging messaging, there should be No expectations or pressures, especially if one has not met. Best not to be emotionally attached during message exchanges. They ghost because they have lost interest, have moved on and changed their mind. They don't want to explain themselves or have that conversation where there may be a chance if being abused. People can/are allowed to change their minds. Best to move on and focus on those who are interested in you. Ms Foxy

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  Libertine001

  5 years ago

  Also the amount of messages the women have to go through. Just the way the world is unfortunately. It's no different when applying for employment as most times you don't here back. Send and forget,the ones that are worth it will respond otherwise move on.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  I replied to someone just last night letting them know that I wasn't interested and I got a reply demanding that I give them a chance. Ive also had others then reply with derogatory comments about me. So now I dont reply if im not interested. My advice - if they don't reply, move on.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Why would people waste effort on replying to a profile that’s not had any effort into its construction ?? Seriously dude....you’re 41 and you can’t make the correlation between other people’s efforts vs your own efforts in constructing a profile? Ditch the template profile, and start taking some steps to change your outcomes...sure it’s not guaranteed, but it’s a step closer than you are currently...

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Maybe you haven't read their profile before messaging?? You might not be at all what they're looking for but saying this often leads to abuse so they are fading off instead. Women get sick of being abused by guys when saying they're not interested - I mean guys are too lazy to even check which state the other person is in before hitting up for a date. But also yeah, there's nothing in your profile to show your personality. If you haven't put this in your profile and are then also not communicating it in messages I would give stop replying too.

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  ElectricDreamers

  5 years ago

  I think RHP is a space where unless you've met someone in person it's perfectly ok to ghost someone. We have a polite quick response we send to people who really aren't a match at all but sometimes even for couples who could be they slip off our radar as real life sets in and we don't have time to engage. But also there have been many times a couple reaches out, we engage and then they ghost us. And that's ok. Maybe life got busy for them. What's not ok is setting up a meet or showing real intention to meet and then ghosting. That's when some kind of communication is polite.

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  AnnieWhichway

  5 years ago

  I've had more ghostings than Casper. You get used to it. All part of the journey. Makes you appreciate the real people.

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  Hottieandblondie

  5 years ago

  It's not just you. We are facing the same situation and we are a COUPLE and an attractive one !!! People are just plain rude and time wasters

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