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Good Morning

May 21 2026

First time posting here, but always reading and commenting when I have something to say. So, my question here is, do you like when someone messages you every day to say good morning? Is it cute? Is it annoying? Does it give you the ick? I get it all the time, as I’m sure so many many of you do too. I assume it’s the person wanting you to keep them front of mind when looking for a hook up. Or maybe they just think it’s cute? Or that it’s something that you want? I don’t know! My personal preference would be a “Hey, how’s it going?” And then an organic conversation that leads somewhere, and actually getting to know the person of a more personal level with some fun sexy flirting. Not just little small talk that goes no where. For me, connection is super important, especially if it’s a FWB type thing. That connection and chemistry, along with the physical attraction, is what makes sex incredible. And let’s face it, we want mind blowing encounters, so the effort should be made in order to achieve that. None of this “Good Morning, how are you?” Everyday, receiving the same generic “morning, I’m good. How are you?” Response. Entice my mind, make me excited to hear what you have to say and leave me craving more. That’s how you’ll get me keeping you front of mind in a sea of generic daily starters. Over to you, do you like this?

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compressor

16 days ago

I like hey how are you going

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PartnersnCrime

16 days ago

Conversation starter is just a conversation starter. If there is a click a good conversation will follow from a simple Good Morning. Your "I'm good, how are you?" is not in any way better / more creative / enticing than a "Good morning". If there is an interest, people make an interesting conversation. But it's on both sides, not only from a person who sends the first message.

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OpalRose

16 days ago

Yeah it’s annoying. I don’t need daily conversations over long periods. I don’t want to feel obligated to have general chit chat. But if the vibe is right there’s probably no need for a morning hello… just continue the convo.

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MsSuperFoxy

16 days ago

After 1st met and/or seeking a HOOK UP: Everyday texts, gives me the ICK too, because it's very annoying and a distraction. Like a thirsty dog chasing a bone. I don't seek that nor want it. LOVER: Not every day do I request or want "a good morning text". I'd rather them just pick up the god dam phone and call for quick chat. I'm a full time shift worker so that suits me better. It's nice to receive thoughtful, checkin texts/calls. But if it's the same time, same text every moring that is a generic template set up. Something, I smell a mile away. I don't like it because IMO it's lazy and unthoughtful, so I ignore. Ms Foxy

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yesimsingle

15 days ago

It’s definitely a lot harder for men to continuously try and write something new and exciting because let’s face it girls inboxes are probably full to the brim of the same messages. Why? Because nobody ever gets back to us when we write something nice and good personally for me out of 100 messages I’ve sent 30. I put effort into got no reply 60 I just was generic. How are you going? No reply in the last 10 that was generic. Gotta reply out of 100. I’ve got a reply. I honestly don’t know whether there’s something wrong with my profile my pictures me or you women are just fussy as fuck LOL generally after a reply conversation will start to flow. It’s all about their first initial reply back.

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Oskalabelle

14 days ago

@deetsy I’m curious to know, the person/s who send you these morning” messages “ have you had any lengthy conversations with them? If so were they a more timid type of person? The sort that might not typically lead/start a conversation but once it’s going will contribute and perhaps in a way where less is more? That might help you decide if they’re just trying to stay top of your inbox or are genuinely wanting to connect but that is either their style, they don’t have enough information for a good relatable starter or perhaps not one of their strong points.

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Pocketrocket602

2 days ago

It's annoying especially if it's generic chit chat that goes nowhere, I can't do small talk, so stop wasting both person's precious time. I have this on my on my profile and the time wasters still come out to play. I give them nothing, and hope they'll go away on their own once I reciprocate. Even fwb, I find it clingy and unnecessary, give me space. I'm not going to give relationship vibes when it's just a hook up and if they constantly message it's an instant turn off

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