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Good men
May 15 2025
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boobsandbusted
one year ago
What makes one persons good can easily be someone else’s nightmare ,but if I had to answer it quickly , I’d say respect is a major factor
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NeoAndTrin
one year ago
I'd say there are some but not as many as you would hope for. Although not a given, most of the decent men you would think would be in couples on here
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MsSuperFoxy
one year ago
A good man was my dad. Lol! No, not looking for a replacement. Am seeking "A fully functioning adult man, who can ruin me respectfully, in and out of the bedroom." Be so weird and not appropriate if my dad did that! Ms Foxy
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Thesunlovingsub
one year ago
✅ Sustained effort ✅ Sexual / emotional intelligence ✅ Self-awareness ✅ Genuine curiosity So many guys say they care about women’s pleasure and then wanna try slide it in with two min of foreplay. Or they’re very attentive at first and then just get lazy as the novelty of me wears off and put fuckall effort into communication and experiences. Or they pretend to be interested in getting to know me then don’t ask me a single question beyond “what about you”
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Sawadee
one year ago
A good man can not be made ... if he's a naturally decent human being .. thats the best you can hope for...
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RHP User
one year ago
Firstly. No I am straight so not looking for a good man lol. I don't think it is hard to be a good man or gentleman. One only needs respect, thoughtfulness, generosity (no not monetary), a good ear and attempt to understand And lastly a clear idea of what consent truly is No doubt much more makes a good man but I feel those are the essentials
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Ezandy
one year ago
Being respectful would be a good start....
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Flexi3rd
one year ago
Q. what makes a good man? A. A good Mum.
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Ex007
one year ago
A man who possesses a true sense of self and is emotionally intellect. I'm sure they are out there but I haven't come across one for many years.
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Brian_Breynolds
one year ago
The more I think about, the qualities of a good man are almost identical to that of a good woman: - Honesty - Integrity - Compassion - Self control - Generosity - Patience - Kindness - Strong work ethic The only one I can think of that possibly applies to men more than women is stoicism.
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EarthQueen
one year ago
A good listener that pays attention to what is being said and is curious about the person he is with. He uses that information to try and make good choices about the needs and preferences of the other person and cares about how they feel when he is with them. He is honest and kind. No I'm not looking ATM.
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corny
one year ago
Hi there I'm a single man looking for a connection with a lovely lady and a relationship in the end , fingers crossed I meet my yang soon cheers
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MsSuperFoxy
one year ago
What makes a good man is following through with actions. For examle my son-in-law asks my daughter every morning, "What can I do today that will make you happy?". He actions what ever it is and follows through. He does not complain or anything. I really like that he does that for her and wants too. In returned she's happy. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
one year ago
Who knows what being a good human means? For me, a good person is someone who has the confidence to act in a way that’s aligned with their own values (whether I agree with them or not) and doesn’t constantly justify their actions based on the conduct of others. Good people for me are curious and don’t dismiss things because they don’t understand Good people are able to change their minds about something And good people know they may get it wrong, make mistakes or hurt people but they’re able to take responsibility for their actions… I guess that’s what goodness means to me Great post as always Nightingale8 - thank you ☺️
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seekandplay
one year ago
Well a recent post has shown us that a good man will not allow a woman to drive 1.5hrs to his place on their first meet & greet.
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cornman89
one year ago
A good man ? Loyal Trust Provider … yeah old fashioned.. whateva Protector Humble Not looking for a man on here cause I’m straight ( thought it was funny, maybe maybe not) but since the forum is here and there’s plenty of worldly advice been thrown around, I’d say if your a woman… be a good woman with an actual profile that conveys this and a good man might gravitate towards you !
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SweetSerenade
one year ago
Neither of us were looking for anything more than casual here, but we became more after meeting on RHP and now married.
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RHP User
one year ago
A good man can only be made by living his life and learning from past history. A good man that wants to be better man, that's great man.
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Redfan737
one year ago
I think the days of "a good man" are in serious threat of being numbered. The shift towards toxic masculinity, particularly with the rise of social media, pornography & misinformation is frankly alarming. As for your question, that would be entirely in the eye of the beholder. Every woman is different and needs to be respected and treated in a ways that are right for that particular individual. You may have answered your first question with your second, what are you really looking for or expecting to find on this site?
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Temptress_T
one year ago
I think your second question is the better one. What are you looking for on here? If you are looking for a life long partner it may be the wrong site for you (try eharmony) Are you looking for a good man that can satisfy your sexual needs, emotional needs, mental needs? All of those can mean different character traits and may not be all in the same person
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ozrocks
one year ago
Seems that most have neglected the second part of the topic, which is " and do you want one" which brings you back to the well documented topic of "why do all the ' bad boys' get the hottest chicks.? Given that its not difficult to use manners, be courteous abd respectful etc, it seems that often times it results in being friend zoned or being shown up by someone who is demanding, coarse or just plain criminal. Which can lead a bloke to emulate that behaviour. A good man should never pretend to be someone they arent, and generally cannot pull it off anyway. I am not basing this on past experiences but from observations ( and I like to play devils advocate)
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The_Spartan
one year ago
I think this question is one of those vague ones, blending multiple questions into one. There's 'being a GOOD man' and then there's 'Being GOOD at being a man' not necessarily the same thing. E.g Ned Flanders (yes, from the Simpsons) is a GOOD man, but he's not particularly good at being a man Bane (from batman, played by Tom hardy) is not a GOOD man, but he sure as hell is good at BEING a man. If you ask most women who they'd rather be railed from on a saturday night, I think most would opt for Bane. If you asked which one is probably going to make the best father, most would probably go for Ned. It's really a question of Masculinity vs Morals And yes, you can be both, it's just that most good guys try to make up for their lack of masculinity by being overly 'good'. Masculinity is what straight women are generally attracted to, so you need to level up in both. I know i'm going on a bit here, but to me a perfect embodiement of the two would be Maximus(played by russel crowe) in the mover the gladiator, or watch brave heart, Vin diesel in the fast and the furious is also close (though probably a bit less on the 'good man' side of things. Aragorn out of lord of the rings is another. Mature + Masculine + kind is what you're aiming for here.
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SweetSerenade
one year ago
Mrs Serenade found Me here, 3 years later we're married. She thinks I'm a good egg
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AlphaMale
one year ago
A good man isn’t just one who’s kind or loyal — he’s present. He listens with intent, leads with confidence, and loves without ego. He doesn’t perform goodness — he embodies it. And yes, you can absolutely find men like that here. But the real question is… Are you ready to be met with that kind of energy?
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jhonpet
11 months ago
A good man is confident, respectful, and knows how to treat a woman with care. What kind of connection do you enjoy the most? Are you here looking for something exciting or meaningful?
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Ready4Whateva
11 months ago
I would say that a good man is honest and genuine, firm, but fair, never goes out of his way to intentionally hurt others or cause drama and is both dependable and trustworthy, helps to solve issues, not create them. But I am a guy, ladies might have a different definition. I don't know, nor do I pretend to know Oh.....and no, I'm not looking for one haha. I can't give advice on where to find one either, considering I'm almost certain that I am invisible to the opposite sex these days
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Ilovewomen200
9 months ago
A Goodman is one who takes your opinion and either agrees or tells you why. Also makes sure you come fi4st
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missedbythatmuch
9 months ago
Its all about what the woman wants and what works for them. I can be the nicest most respectable guy who loves going down on a lady, the most caring afterglow of cuddling and sensuous stroking, but it's probably because of my age that I never get the chance to display these or any other attributes. There will always be somebody younger, or fitter, or bigger girth/ longer length or more amazing tongue etc. A lot of good men get simply overlooked. Simple as that. No issues ladies, it's all about choice, but to be asking where are the good men... look along the wallflowers at the edges and surprise yourselves!
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RHP User
9 months ago
I am a good body massager, treat everyone with respect, I am need and clean, average slim fit body, i do regular exercise and do not smoke. however, I am not sure all these tick your boxes of the check list of a "good man" :)
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gameofphones
9 months ago
Good seems to be way down the pecking order
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davehensen
8 months ago
Respect, Honesty, Loyalty, Equality, Empathy, Accountability, A mature mindset being able to understand other people's point of view and being able to discuss it and absorb it in a calm manner. Having said all of this it pretty much is the same for a good women aswell.
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Dickadick
8 months ago
Hi I'm a good man it's just unfortunate females walk right past guys like me everyday not even taking one glimpse
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