F51
Guide, Instruct, Encourage
August 02 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
sexual experience doesn't matter a jot. I'm just as happy and can have as much fun with a playful inexperienced "vanilla" lover as I can with a sexy seductress who knows enough to fuck me into next week!
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RHP User
9 years ago
if I was entering this as a relationship, her sexual experience would not be an issue at all, I'd be more focus on her attitude and commitment towards extending it in addition to how open minded she is.
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
be the gentleman and respect what she is comfortable with. Simples. If she wishes to be more 'adventurous', then take it in steps that she feels at ease with. Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
We have a good conversation with people before we meet and then when we meet, so we know what level they are are at. If we come across a Unicorn that has little experience we enjoy helping and pushing new frontiers for that person if that's what they are looking for. If we come across inexperienced couples that have not played we don't go there at all.
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RHP User
9 years ago
are they open to trying new things, or against it? interested to hear responses
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you have that sexual connection thats all that I'm looking for. I think you can make any situation work if you have a open mind. All of your examples sound hot to me or maybe I'm just easy?
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RHP User
9 years ago
It wouldn't bother me in the slightest. I'd just be happy that I having a romp with nice lady. plus sometimes with someone new. it can some people a few times before they sort of become comfortable with a new partner or fwb or whatever. So yes i'd definitely be patient and even still, I would tell a lady after the first time with that she was a dud root. That'd be pretty low thing to do.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I wouldn't tell a lady after the time I meant to say. My apologies
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RHP User
9 years ago
If I was single then depends on their mindset. If they are open and willing to try new things and explore their boundaries that roughly aligned with mine then great. If they were totally vanilla and adamant that it was all they were wanting then I would pass as they are prob not the woman for me. Sexual comparability is important so eventually over time it wouldn't work and cause anguish even if the personal connection is there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for asking the question OP as it's one that I have often wondered about myself. I don't consider myself experienced, I was in a long and monogamous marriage, with very vanilla sex. My sex drive was always higher than my husband's and it created many issues. Even though I'm fairly vanilla I am open minded and definitely open to trying new things with the right partner. I have loved reading the responses so far.
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cbdlivin
9 years ago
A bit of an open question as you can see already from responses. It depends what you are looking for with the person you are with, and of course the chemistry you have. If you have that attraction to someone and they are wanting to explore it can be very rewarding being a guiding hand for the person, as you can get a pretty wonderful reaction from a person as there eyes are opened to possibilities. I have had a number of experiences over the years that fall into this category,with a couple that come to mind where there sexual inexperience and narrow view on sex meant that it just was not happening. With others it has been great by showing patience and good communication, I have opened their eyes to the possibilities that are available, and how wonderful they can be. B
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RHP User
9 years ago
In my experience, I found some females are confident and know what they want , where other's tend to need the time to get comfortable and ooze into the moment. Whichever , I usually take it as it comes. I find both satisfying in their own way. Not into the slam bam thank you ma'am thing . If I find a female timid , I treat her accordingly..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Call her a cab. 😂😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Fucking , that's why we are here - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I loved reading all your comments! Thanks, everyone! :-D *thumbs up! (Sorry, no icons from mobile. Amos, I agree thoroughly with what you said - if I like the man, I'll take time to warm up because I'll be self-conscious. However, if I'm not too into the man, then I will just help myself without reservation. :-P Phoenix, your name is so apt - rising out of the ashes! Great that you have a new beginning! You go, Girl! I can totally understand cause I was uber miserable in a sex drought relationship. Sexual compatibility can be so crucial.
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RHP User
9 years ago
So spot on! You understand my username perfectly! Relates to more than just my marriage though And yes a sex drought relationship is soul destroying....I can relate to you on that level. Hope things have picked up for you x
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RHP User
9 years ago
sorry op I know the question was directed at men, but from my end, I have no interest in teaching, I like them experienced, men or women, it's a total turn off for me having to explain as I go. Lose my mojo. But oops sorry, not a question for me, just sticking my nose in
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RHP User
9 years ago
I like to be the one to turn to for advice and instruction and education about things new to them, and this goes for innocent (eg tour guide) and no-so-innocent activities (say no more). Yes, confidence and experience in a woman and knowing/showing what she wants is definitely attractive. However if she is inexperienced, that can be rectified if she is willing :) I would never choose against someone based on lack of experience, as that was myself not that long ago, and perhaps still the case with selected activities. So while I am happy to lead someone astray, I am also happy to be led astray, depending on both of our mutual limits and interests. In short, it is the character and nature of the person that attracts me. Anecdotally, many people here seem to be in a situation that at one time they would never have considered or thought of at an earlier time. So at the right time in life, and with the right person/people, they have slowly or quickly opened up to new experiences. So as long as someone is not intending to remain living under a rock, the degree of experience has little bearing on my interest in them.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would throw her in the deep end if I suspected she could swim. Otherwise, I would let her go. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
... most of the men who commented here are more patient, forgiving and understanding than the women! LOL! :-P But then again, most of us prefer our men to be confident, experienced and worldly-wise, no? I suppose you can't be alpha male and dominate if you are clueless.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Insert penis.....remove penis.....insert penis....remove penis......insert penis......remove penis.... Flick tongue up......flick tongue down.....flick tongue up......flick tongue down.......ooooo now here's a twist......roll tongue right.......roll tongue left..... Ya know....if ya just listen to the hokey pokey.....that explains it all :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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mrdarcey
9 years ago
I find the only bad sex is with women where we are no completely comfortable out of bed. if your open with each other and can laugh together, the great sex will follow.
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RHP User
9 years ago
One person will always be more experienced than the other. The opportunity to share that knowledge and experience is what it's about. There is always something another person can show or teach us, and the moment you start to think you know it all, is when you probably should take a moment to realise that you really don't. That said, I'm a Man, and I believe in occupying the role of leading to take the responsibility of decision making over from my partner. (And before any narks jump on that.... yes, obviously.... that is within the lines of consent). DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
9 years ago
Yes I like experienced men but that doesn't mean I rule others out. If I connected with someone and they were to become a regular playmate and they were pretty vanilla and not experienced with any kind of kink (I'm using that very broadly to include threesomes, fisting, etc) I wouldnt rule them out straight away. It would depend on their level of interest in exploring all of those things and how open minded they were. My biggest turn off is a closed mind. However, for any kind of play in the BDSM area I now only look for experienced partners. This does not mean that I'm interested in teaching any one about basic sex or how to eat pussy or where a woman's gspot is. If they want to learn how to eat my pussy and find my gspot they will take the time to get to know me. I think some of the beauty of being single is that you can get different things from different people. You don't have to find everything you want or need in one skin.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm with you . Some you like to take time with to nurture and enjoy every moment , where others may seem more like a chore. Nothing worse than fucking someone ,then thinking ' why '.. why am I here.. Mind you , I'd never say that to anyone , I think everyone deserves respect, good or bad experience ..
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RHP User
8 years ago
Would you feel you can achieve anything in this world if you had confidence.? Recognizing how to build confidence and actioning this would be a step in the right direction. I personally have had the pleasure of building up confidence in a couple of women in the past 12months, then seeing them bloom in every area. - Posted from rhpmobile
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