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Guys..... fess up!

February 21 2015

Im so over guys messaging me then asking to meet and at the last minute cancelling and in one instance blocking me. In three cases I found out why. One was very obvious, after meeting for drinks one night ,I was out that weekend with my girlfriends and in he strolls with his fiance (ring on finger) He texted me later with a "Sorry its complicated" message.. I dont meet attached guys, please respect this when you read my profile. Im not being judgemental, just saying...if you are attached, please say so. I do have attached friends, which is completely different, but will never play with attached guys..Be honest, putting single on your profile is just plain bad.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If they do that,they may never get root..or so one man told me 😘xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    put that in your profile rather than posting on the forums?

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    I like to make a decision for myself if I want to see an attached man or not... Just be honest with your status, intentions, wants, needs, expectations and things will work out much better guys.....Plus I don't need your angry Mrs screaming down the phone at me, when I have no idea what the fuck is going on, I much prefer to be in the loop.....Honesty is still the best policy.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sad isn't it.... that people feel that they need to lie.... just to convince someone into being sexual with them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Of course they are never ever ever ever going to tell you that. A rare few do say they are married. Good for them to be honest about it. Women can say they are married and it makes not one speck of difference to their sex livesMen say they are in a relationship and they have next to no chance of sex on here. They lie because they have to lie to get what they want. You have to be vigilant. If he cant stay the night, he is marriedif he cant take you to a public place he is married If he does not hang round long, as in bonks and has an appointment ten seconds out of your pussy he is either married or things your a free hooker. its the nature of this site, we are fair game , to most men its a sexual hunting ground. No matter what sweet things they whisper in your ear. Its to get the elastic in your panties to melt away. never mind the up side is men are like grass on this site. just head on over to another pasture.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ive chatted with guys who have been straight up about being married and attached, and they all have their own reasons for being here, (at least they are honest), its the attached "single" guys I am talking about. Yes, Freya, that sounds about right, but as Lovinit says, what if the wife finds out? Then you are the "scarlet woman". The Peach, your posts are always so matter of fact and funny, and the comment about the grass is a good point, but its when you are talking to and meet someone that you get on with and think is single, then youre not interested in other pastures. Mind you, its not just guys, one of my friends was seeing a woman, and her angry hubby turned up on his doorstep one morning. She was "single", also

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I do have "looking for unattached' on my profile. Sorry, forgot guys dont generally read profiles.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    And she wasn't a wife,an ex girlfriend who was still a friend...She was most unpleasant.I told her that I would contact the police if she ever called again..She didnt even bother to hide her phone number,xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thats my point....we take these guys as genuine. Sorry that happened to you, not nice for you to take flak for something that wasnt your fault?

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Yes but we still have the right to decide and make that decision for ourselves.... I'm no dickhead and I know when someone is attached, it's not rocket science to work out. I'm also not saying I haven't or don't have playmates that are attached, but that's my choice to make. What I'm saying is that I want to be able to make the informed decision for myself, but if they want to lie, then by all means they should move to the next cow in the paddock, because I don't really give a fuck....💋 And I don't know about you, but it takes a bit more than a few nice things whispered in my ear, before my panties come down....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No body likes being lied to. Disproportionately people for some reason think its ok to lie. Lying is at the dead set top of my NO GO list.....You lie & its goodbye..... OP ive been stung with this one too, the one off first meets are one thing but being in a relationship with an expert serial liar - well that's so much more fun - not. SAx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ** Nobody

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am the old brown cow in the back paddock. They just have to yell out, get along Daisy it's time to squeeze ta udder. That's it they have me. But that's just me, a woman off low character and morals. And the smoother the dude, the hot looker. The easier it is to ignore the lie. When the hottie starts to lie . The ear is deceived by the hearts / pussys need. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    So are we saying everyone should be honest? On RHP? Looks like a few people may have to change up their profiles. And the the age of the average person on here just went up 5 years hahaha. If it is ok to lie about your age why not marital status? A lie is a lie is a lie. There are no white lies or little lies. I'm all for everyone being an open book, but it'll never happen. Men lying about their marital status to get into someons pants, women lying about their age, it all amounts to the same to me...deception.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya79' If they do that,they may never get root..or so one man told me 😘xxFreya It won't happen overnight but it will happen Koko I'll plead NOT GUILTY on that count, I've always been up front about my status and always will be too. Those who don't want to play with don't have to and I'll never disrespect that...consenting adults only for this little black duck. Koko did you publicly embarrass the cad? Wouldn't blame you if you did, it might have even done the fiance a favour!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Brown cow.The,enticement of a bit of bull 😘xxFreya

  • zoe69r

    zoe69r

    11 years ago

    Koko I couldn't agree with you more , why do guys put on there profies single when they know there not . Mind you we could say the same with a lot of the profiles on here . I dont get it with a lot of the "ask me " responses , you ask and then you get no answer at all or some couples put down that the hubby is bi and you start talking to them and you get oh no hubby's not bi at sll, I personally just wish the admins would change things on here so you have to put down proper answers and not ask me , thats a copout , lets just be honest why we are here , yes I would like a FWB or to meet someone for a relationship and of course just meet people for friendship, maybe im just off living with the fairies

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya79' Brown cow.The,enticement of a bit of bull 😘xxFreya won't break out of a walk...but he will pace himself

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Absolutely nothing at all. In my own opinion I am gob smacked STILL why many people do assume truths on here, considering we have seen all the whining about the lies on dating/sex websites such as the following: Ample : I am fatter than I am letting you believe 7 - 8" thick: I really drive a Porsche (Cock Extension) Very Attractive: My mum thinks so Always safe sex: Except if drunk First Meet/Play Later: Escape root if you're ugly and fat Sexual Interests: Wish list Fetish Interests: Bigger wish list Relationship: Yeah - what ever Age: I am really 5 years older/younger There are always tell tale signs to married men who pose as single. A: They are not available just at the drop of a hat - there is always an excuse - usually work commitments B: They are generally very quick to pique your interest C: Generally message M - F during work hours - other hours are family time D: Will meet some where in a quiet cafe or pub though not out for drinks in a popular bar E: Say's all the right things - Your hot etc F: Will put other woman down on the site - "You're far more intelligent than most woman on here" ......... and the list goes on.......and..........on Savy up Ladies and Gents

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    I'm going to drop my age by, let's say 10 years, fuck yeah I think I could pass for 36. Change from average to very attractive, from a little bit of padding to slim, from social meets only to play meets only, from experimental to anything, change my sexual personality to selfish cunt, oops they don't have selfish cunt, hmmmm ok we will go with sex maniac, from safe sex always to never.... Then when they realise I'm nothing like that and get the shits, I will just say, oh sorry I thought it was ok, because heaps of others do it..... Wish me luck everyone, I will see how i go and I will be sure to keep you all posted.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Don't you know that they got married between meeting you and when you see them stroll in. Is that not why guys are here?To find someone to spend the rest of their life with, to show respect and honesty. I think its great that they can get married so quickly, could be in part a desperate need for sex, but its good that the good old fashioned god fearing ways are still being followed. Ohh..... RHP.... sorry thought I was on Respectful Honest Partnerships. Have to be careful with all these social dating sites.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just get over it. Maybe RHP is now a "dating" website. Seems it is heading that way from past forum posts. No need for the anger though. I mean really?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There is no point at all to get angry about behaviour of others on the net. You will find truth to be wounded or laying bloody on the cyber floor. Yes , people shave if years, shave if kilos shave if a wife and three kiddies. Humans are funny creatures, we bend life , love and lies around us. In the eternal per suit if happiness. Getting pissed off is natural, but don't be naive about what this place really is. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    RHP is marketed as an adult dating site. Ive had many dates with some of my male friends, outdoor movies, dinner etc, thats how I like it. Fuck and go doesnt interest me. The anger isnt so much because I keep getting lied to by these guys, but because Ive been cheated on by a serial shagger and it is not a pleasant feeling, I feel sorry for the wives who might end up feeling the same way one day. These men dont worry about anything except getting a root. Im just the kind of person who shows their feelings, be it anger, happiness, love..... something a bit worrying about people who seem hard and devoid of feelings?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes, I know youre taking the piss, but it WAS funny.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Serial cheaters (*) have one flaw that can be exploited to learn the truth. They are excessively self absorbed, and they like nothing more than boasting about their ability to get away with it. So if you suspect someone then take a neutral stance on the subject of cheating. If you let them know how wrong you think it is, they will clam up on that subject, and you will only ever find out by chance. If on the other hand you project a stance of "There are some circumstances where it is understandable." ( a little white lie ) They will still lie, that's what they do, but the lie will not be about not cheating, it will be why they are cheating. They cant help them selves, they cheat to feed their ego, and give them reason to brag and they will crow like roosters to the morning sun. Then it is up to you what to do with that info, oh and don't fall for their story of woe as that will just be another lie. * Not all cheaters are the same, serial cheaters are people that have been cheating constantly their entire lives. The first time cheat, the guilty boarder line remorseful cheats can not be tricked that way. They are more prone to the truth "you don't like cheaters." but it could go anyway. Personalty after having had to deal with the negative consequences of other people cheating. Their jealous girlfriends and boyfriends. I just take the stance of, "I don't care if they do or don't.", and I really don't as I seldom ever make the first move and thus feel no responsibility. That way I don't inhibit them from telling the truth and I can asses the situation and be ready or say nice to meet you, good bye.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' Just get over it. Maybe RHP is now a "dating" website. Seems it is heading that way from past forum posts. No need for the anger though. I mean really? I have to agree, this is a sex site, but it does seem that it's becoming more benign with some of the reactions to posts, not only this topic but others. We are all adults here, so lets not get upset when somebody on a sex site is actually looking for, well, sex.... As for guys lying about being attached, well sure there are lots of men and women who are lying. But you know personally, I prefer to be honest about my situation. If it is a deal breaker for you then that's fine with me, I prefer to let you decide early in the chase. After all sooner or later you will be found out, so why bull shit from the start. I just think it's unfair for the other person. Having said that I have also made some great chat friend - women who weren't interested sexually or because I am married. So just be truthful and the right person/people will find you... Happy hunting.... ;-)

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Sorry who's getting angry????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sounded to me you were lovin. Koko..not directed at you. All too hard and out of context. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am really the in house sociopath - devoid of feelings and emotions. Please don't feel sorry for me Koko.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Nope not at all, didn't say I'd go him with a baseball bat or anything, I couldn't give a shit one way or the other.... Really just having a bit of fun with the whole thing, lighten up ladies.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    is totally lacking on this site. I have some morals and I like to assume that people treat others the way they hope to be treated. If that makes me naive, then so be it, I would rather be naive than not care about how I treat others nor do I have to accept that people don't have to care just because I am online. Maybe if more people stood up for how they should be treated than just accepting it because it is the 'norm', then others will have to lift their game. People will get away with what they can and while others let them, the more they will do it.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Since your posts are clearly about me then I think it only right that I respond. No I don't think or treat RHP as a dating site, I treat it as an experiencing everything that I never thought possible site, meeting interesting people site, listening and learning site, just like Fetlife..... I'm here to learn about myself and others, to push my own boundaries and others if they let me, to experience all there is to experience..... My passed posts are either from experiences, learnings or my opinion, nothing more or nothing less. A temper I have yes, but not in here, it's takes an awful lot to make me angry and really why would I bother, it's the RHP forums, oh and I also have sense of humour that not everyone seems to get.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's your fault for being attracted to dicks with cocks?? 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    I have the ingredients here for sone french kisses: Champagne, Chambord, Cointreau and a squeeeeeeeze of lemon garnished with strawberries. Koko in relation to the topic, I think liars are onlly deceiving themselves in the long run, they may be getting their instant gratification but the novelty wears off eventually unless they're a total greasy sleazy. Men like that are so easy to pick. I've had long term married Lovers when I was also married.....Peach had a lot of wisdom to share at that time that helped me through some developing feelings and managing my expectations which Lovinit also helped/s me with in closer proximity. I think you two ladies have just a wee bit in common and may share a laugh or two in the near future. I prefer to see a guy show he's married and give him the chance to share his side of the story, it's then up to me to decide if I wish to go there. On another note LOVED Inspirit's interpretations, just for the record though.....I still think I'm curvy as in curvy not curvy with some squishy sexy bits and my age is spot on. If I expect to meet genuine, quality individuals/couples/groups then I think it's only fair to be genuine also. I share Lovinit's take on the site and what it potentially offers by way of social/physical/sexual/companionable/spiritual and educational development. It's never been just a sex or dating site as we have often expressed and those who view it that way really aren't getting the most out of their RHP experience let alone bang for their buck! Happy Sunday morning everyone I'm off for a dip in the pool ~ Indy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    men use love to get sex as much as women use sex to get love... You can either buy it...or leave it.... I'm with inspirit in the sociopath corner eating on people's brains - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    For goodness sake, its Sunday morning, this cocks and dicks talk is getting me all flustered.........

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    I've always been honest in that regard. My profile says attached. And yes I am complicated. And my select few close friends know why I'm complicated. Wish I wasn't complicated.. You will never change people's reasons for wanting to lie in regard to getting sex. But you ladies with the female intuition usually work it out. It's been honed from centuries of dishonest men. But rhp have made it easy to work out most of the married ones. It an answer called "ask me". Now that's the question that should be asked. Why is so fucking hard to put a proper answer there for status. You can be honest, you can lie but really "ask me"? Wtf?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well I do always compliment on woman on this site even if they are looking for unattached men but I'm just being friendly and polite. If I see a beautiful woman I tell here straight out and it doesn't meen I'm looking for a fuck just very old school ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    lol reverse that scenario shall we?? Talking about cunts just doesn't have same effect 😝😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' There are always tell tale signs to married men who pose as single. A: They are not available just at the drop of a hat - there is always an excuse - usually work commitments B: They are generally very quick to pique your interest C: Generally message M - F during work hours - other hours are family time D: Will meet some where in a quiet cafe or pub though not out for drinks in a popular bar E: Say's all the right things - Your hot etc F: Will put other woman down on the site - "You're far more intelligent than most woman on here" Damn, I seem to fall into these messaging practices, because: A: I work 12 hour days, have to travel to meet and and can be called up for work. B: I don't see the need to "wait" before messaging someone (back) just for the right appearances, if that's what you mean - men being too quick to reply. C: I often work weekends and have odd weekdays off. D: I don't (really) drink. And I like places condusive to conversation. But I don't see the relevance here. E: I don't tell women they're hot (very unoriginal), but I do try to say the right things. Why not? F: If I find a woman with a good attitude, I will compliment them on it (but not at the expense of others). But, as everything, it might come across in the wrong way somehow. So obviously I do come accross as (secretly) married. Funny because it's been suggested about me before. So in all seriousness, what do I need to change? Or less seriously, do I need to upload a "Stat Dec" that everything in my profile is true and correct?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We must be out of the ordinary as our profile is completely factual. Could this be the reason for our lack of success?? Our major issue is people not turning up once a meet is organised, especially when "they" were the instigators!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'The_3somes' So are we saying everyone should be honest? On RHP? Looks like a few people may have to change up their profiles. And the the age of the average person on here just went up 5 years hahaha. If it is ok to lie about your age why not marital status? A lie is a lie is a lie. There are no white lies or little lies. I'm all for everyone being an open book, but it'll never happen. Men lying about their marital status to get into someons pants, women lying about their age, it all amounts to the same to me...deception. Agree it is all deception but lying about your attached status is worse than lying about age or body shape. Why ? because a lie about relationship status vicariously affects a 3rd person ie the unknowing "partner." So if a married guy contacts me and wants to be friends I say sure provided I get to meet your wife/girlfriend in a non sexual context. No surprise that I have not had any men take me up on that offer.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Newer no what coming better meet married people singles newer trust - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    These "single/attached" guys just ruin it for the genuine guys on here. They let the little head rule the big head and care not for the damage they create. I was in a 30yr LTR, the last 10yrs was a waste of my life, the intimacy was gone, but I never cheated. I can handle the rejection on RHP, but nothing hurts more than getting "gee'd up" for a meet and then being stood up. If I arrange a meet, baring a "disaster" I'll be there, sadly not everybody has commitment. Cheers P.L.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm completely honest about being attached, I don't feel the need to lie about it. I have a few play mates and they know I'm attached and are ok with that, I leave the ball in their court as it's easy for me but some people just aren't up for it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' I am really the in house sociopath - devoid of feelings and emotions. Please don't feel sorry for me Koko.... - Posted from rhpmobile Ted Bundy, and we all know it. I get the feelings part of it, especially for single women. I am married so emotion never comes into play for me. I would think the best thing is, before you get your gear off. Have a coffee first and say right up front Are you married? do you have a girlfriend? do you women mind if a man has another fWB? If a man said to you, I am seeing other women. How would that go down? Single women often want more than a one night stand, they want more than just a guys cock. So men need to man up about this. Women have a shit time of it as it is, especially if they are single mums trying to juggle family work and spending time with you. Only to find they have been shat on from a great height. So think twice before you use a woman like a blow up rubber doll for your amusement.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    But nice pic Mithras71.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovinit28' Since your posts are clearly about me then I think it only right that I respond. No I don't think or treat RHP as a dating site, I treat it as an experiencing everything that I never thought possible site, meeting interesting people site, listening and learning site, just like Fetlife..... I'm here to learn about myself and others, to push my own boundaries and others if they let me, to experience all there is to experience..... My passed posts are either from experiences, learnings or my opinion, nothing more or nothing less. A temper I have yes, but not in here, it's takes an awful lot to make me angry and really why would I bother, it's the RHP forums, oh and I also have sense of humour that not everyone seems to get.....💋 grabs a hand full of bum and runs back, laughing mwwwwahhhhhhh

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'On_Safari' I have the ingredients here for sone french kisses: Champagne, Chambord, Cointreau and a squeeeeeeeze of lemon garnished with strawberries. Koko in relation to the topic, I think liars are onlly deceiving themselves in the long run, they may be getting their instant gratification but the novelty wears off eventually unless they're a total greasy sleazy. Men like that are so easy to pick. I've had long term married Lovers when I was also married.....Peach had a lot of wisdom to share at that time that helped me through some developing feelings and managing my expectations which Lovinit also helped/s me with in closer proximity. I think you two ladies have just a wee bit in common and may share a laugh or two in the near future. I prefer to see a guy show he's married and give him the chance to share his side of the story, it's then up to me to decide if I wish to go there. On another note LOVED Inspirit's interpretations, just for the record though.....I still think I'm curvy as in curvy not curvy with some squishy sexy bits and my age is spot on. If I expect to meet genuine, quality individuals/couples/groups then I think it's only fair to be genuine also. I share Lovinit's take on the site and what it potentially offers by way of social/physical/sexual/companionable/spiritual and educational development. It's never been just a sex or dating site as we have often expressed and those who view it that way really aren't getting the most out of their RHP experience let alone bang for their buck! Happy Sunday morning everyone I'm off for a dip in the pool ~ Indy I think we will all get on like a house on fire.. Look out Brissy I have packed my zimmer frame and some incontinencepads cause I know you ladies will make me piss myself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What about guy's that have been left stranded just saying it takes effort to be ready and free for a meet or what ever has been organized. It's not a nice feeling but i can sense bullshit coming on or i understand if genuinely it may have been just something that came up. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    11 years ago

    Wow it's not a good way to approach this situation from someone you decide to meet. Shame it happened and hopefully the next meet will be wonderful for you. As for the liars, well leave them be as karma knows her way around. Love and kisses to you. 💐😘

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    No I don't care if my playmates have other FWB, because I certainly do and have no intention of giving them up at the moment. I can also separate my emotions from the act, most of the time anyway and yes he knows who he is..But no I don't really want a one night stand, I prefer an ongoing arrangement with my playmates where we can chat and become friends also. I do want more than their cocks, I also want conversation and friendship.....💋 As long as you're laughing Peach, that the main thing....😃

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Now you want me to cart adult diapers and incontinence pads?!?! Should I also bring tampons and aspirin? 👻 fck I'll need a roller trolley bag thingy.....AND the silk rope to tow all you drunken types uphill to the hotels!!

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    His definition of exclusivity is currently that he claims me as his partner and I can do and date whomever I want.....😳 and I get every 2nd weekend off to play with my girlfriends and do whatever I need to do. I'm stull trying to get my head aeound his thinking but anyways (shrugs) let's not put a label on it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There's a bit of a canter round the paddock today.aint there..Some people are here to find sex,some people are here to find sex and trip over love,some people don't know why the hell they are here.I find it ironic that anyone would think that the reason they are here is the only valid reason and that we all have the same motivation and experiences here...a narrow minded view from so called broad minded people..Oh and I am here because I amuse myself greatly xxRuby

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'countrytouch' Quoting 'inspirit' There are always tell tale signs to married men who pose as single. A: They are not available just at the drop of a hat - there is always an excuse - usually work commitments B: They are generally very quick to pique your interest C: Generally message M - F during work hours - other hours are family time D: Will meet some where in a quiet cafe or pub though not out for drinks in a popular bar E: Say's all the right things - Your hot etc F: Will put other woman down on the site - "You're far more intelligent than most woman on here" Damn, I seem to fall into these messaging practices, because: A: I work 12 hour days, have to travel to meet and and can be called up for work. B: I don't see the need to "wait" before messaging someone (back) just for the right appearances, if that's what you mean - men being too quick to reply. C: I often work weekends and have odd weekdays off. D: I don't (really) drink. And I like places condusive to conversation. But I don't see the relevance here. E: I don't tell women they're hot (very unoriginal), but I do try to say the right things. Why not? F: If I find a woman with a good attitude, I will compliment them on it (but not at the expense of others). But, as everything, it might come across in the wrong way somehow. So obviously I do come accross as (secretly) married. Funny because it's been suggested about me before. So in all seriousness, what do I need to change? Or less seriously, do I need to upload a "Stat Dec" that everything in my profile is true and correct? MAYBE - because you over think too much. Perth is just a big country town! There is no 6 degrees of separation here - is is 3 and in the mining sector 1.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    This is the key to the situation, Be as honest as to who you are, what you want, and what you do not want.At least then everyone makes an informed decision.No one getting blindsided, and everyone getting what they expected. Unfortunately this would be in a perfect world. As for people cutting out at the last minute only to be found to be attached... maybe 10 more minutes effecting due diligence? rofl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Mithras71' We must be out of the ordinary as our profile is completely factual. Could this be the reason for our lack of success?? Our major issue is people not turning up once a meet is organised, especially when "they" were the instigators! Damn, my is 100% honest as well, and you couples are complaining about success? What about us single guys? Everyone's favourite line is "no single guys" Not turning up? That sounds like most meet up these days, disconnected several friends over repeated no turning up! Maybe we should start going after those girls that been stood up, oh bugger, that's mostly everyone here!

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    11 years ago

    Ive cancelled last minute because something has come up .. im sungle and wouldnt cheat if i wasnt. Sometimes ive felt apprehensive from the way a girl has spoken to me or demanded. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love your comments !!! It gave me such a laugh !!! You are so funny while still being serious. I love that !!! Amy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hey totally agree with you girls,But sorry its not just the blokes!!The Chicks on here who lie that their single.....OMG Seriously!The amount of hubbsy know have NO IDEA these chics are meeting up with couples?They say their going shopping for the day????Its a joke....these chics only to suck couples in for a meet.Sneak a kiss n push the boundaries and break the common decent rules of a general meet n greet!Makes me sick!

  • IamMrSilly

    IamMrSilly

    11 years ago

    As much as I hate to say it, I am sure that the guys that lie and say 'single' would actually have more success if they said 'Married' as they would attract attention from those that are into that.... Of course with the wife/husbands full knowledge and permission.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks! You have some very nice ones yourself!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It does not apply to me, as I have been single for 12-months. However, WHY, (if a person is lying and cheating on their partner or wife/husband), would they then feel the need to be honest to you ???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ..that is just sexy about a man in a Kilt! Puurrrrr

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Dearie lordie me sorry but none of above qualifies for "Frauline Cuntie Lingual Liar" of the year... I just divorced it oooops her - errrr I think 'twas a her....just maybe though.??... 😇😇😇😇 OP..... What about the liars who watch for cringe in body language, so they can use the knowledge to their own advantage later on....The Expert Manipulator! Anyways takes all types to make the world go around doesn't it?

  • blackbig

    blackbig

    11 years ago

    I like your comment. I have never taken Respectful Honest Partnerships very serious-:). But I always turn up to my appointments...-:) But it is quite annoying when someone cancel an appointment the last minute-:(((. Yesterday I had a female of a couple doing that at the last minute...She understood that I wasn't pleased and apologised profusely. I personally don't care if they attached or not. I found attached have more spike in them..😝. Just my experience..one cent worth.-:)) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I struggle to even meet 1 women let alone having 2 on the go :(

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    It was those dam Scots and English who invented cross dressing. All those medieval battlefields with burly men fighting to the death.......with their dresses on. Mmmmmmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Twas also the romans in their togas.enjoying orgies and such. And lets not leave out jesus and the deciples, they wore dresses too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Men in kilts.......and they never wear anything under them, it just widnae be Scottish

  • hornycd69

    hornycd69

    11 years ago

    And have it in my profile on here. I have my reasons for this, which I'm not here to get into, but I don't see the point in putting single, as all it does is make it harder to try and arrange anything if it gets to that. I don't make contact with heaps of people here, but I definitely don't get in touch with anyone who puts in their profile about not wanting attached people. They have their reasons for that, just like I have my reasons, so we should all respect that. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    My bad. Mind has just got stuck on the battlefield. So I get it. My background must be religious then. Hail the new sex god....dess. Oh....you up to speed with the new name thingy.....

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Yeah, no undies. Obviously they havnt worked out the delights of a nice lacy satin g-banger to hold the goods and gently floss the rear end.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yeah pretty sure im on I P

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    11 years ago

    Men are like that.. just keep that in mind - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    11 years ago

    Most women i meet off here if they actually ever do meet.. it is that rare. . They always tell of having to be quick because they have another date afterwards. And im straight up with them.. no partner no marriage no baggage. Just to show the other side - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    11 years ago

    I do.highland games.. never had a lady ask me to wear it though - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Don't despair Koko. We all get the same- I've met with women who were "slim" but barely fit thru a bus door, a younger lady who was happy to be my FB if I could cook & clean her house, single lady who still had the wedding ring dint on her finger(but was single for 2yrs) Yeah!! & a lady who gave an address that didn't exist ...but....oh well that's life on rhp.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Put it on and give us a look.....😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Check out his pics!

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'LetusFrolic' I do.highland games.. never had a lady ask me to wear it though - Posted from rhpmobile Nice kilt and cumberbun you have there....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'LetusFrolic' Men are like that.. just keep that in mind - Posted from rhpmobile ........and purrs again

  • hardnslow

    hardnslow

    11 years ago

    I have never been called grass before,lol but if you ever come to NSW I would love to nibble on yours xoxoxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ... I'm single at the moment, and haven't received any messages from you yet ...

  • Dryphuz

    Dryphuz

    11 years ago

    I'm intensely honest (to a fault sometimes) and i dont get why blokes cheat like that. Okay some women are gonna be capable of going with an attached guy with no problems, but at least say so in your profiles ya lying prats. Its just not in me to cheat. If they're inclined to do so, what does that say about their relationship. As to the no shows... I can imagine some guys chickening out. Especially if its just a meet with the main aim being sex at the end, that can be a lot of pressure.Personally if this was the case i'd be more likely to show up and admit to being anxious and maybe trying to stall out for another meet at a later time. Man us guys can be such assholes can't we...?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't know why anyone lies. If you want to fuck around behind your partners back then perhaps u need a new partner. Or be honest, u never know u might just get a surprise and realise your partner is only human too and create a whole new outlook on your relationship. We are completely honest with each other and in 6 years haven't had 1 fight. No secrets,no fights :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    People make all sorts of excuses, but it is all the same reason. They just want to deceive. No matter the hyperbole, it is simply deception. Now, why???? Inadequacy, disrespect, manipulation, disrespect, 'fucked headedness'? Who cares. It is simply deception> When you lie, it is a simple countdown to the finale when you are found out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My marriage was going on the rocks, and I had popped in here for a look. Quickly realised tho I still felt married, even tho she didn't. Guess the difference was that i was in love with her, not the other way around. So I opted out for a while.Now tho, I am most definitely unattached, tho remain legally married till the end of the year, under Chilean law. Wasn't my choice, but now that it is over, looking for a little fun to cheer up an otherwise painful start to the year. And, while I was happily married, can honestly say I was 100% faithful. So...not all guys play the game on the side.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hi all, new to this site and frankly this type of site. But it seems to me no matter where you look deception is a fairly rife in the online world. The fact that it is easy to do, has got them somewhere in the past and excites some is probably why but please don't say one thing then do nothing about it. That just wastes peoples time and there are some out there who have very little time to waste. Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I only play with bi ladies or bi curious it'helps keep the girls occupied.