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Guys wanting Cuckolding

March 28 2014

Wow, don't know if it's the weather, however since I put I play alone as well, I have suddenly had this influx of guys wanting a cuckolding experience.... I didn't think I sounded as though I override my hubby, however something is being picked up on? Do other couples get this request in large numbers, is it that they just use a search criteria? Guys, what makes you choose certain couples or is it everyone with the hope someone will agree.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    i've always had fantasy playing with some one wife / gf while the hubby/bf watched!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I got invited to take part in this once or twice, by real couples (on a kinky dating site). Naturally, being straight, I always politely decline the offers to play with couples, but this one girl said "no, it will just be you and me, I'll handcuff him to the tree in the back yard" - and he was there with her at that moment, nodding and smiling - and even though I still said no (creep alert), the whole idea got me thinking there for a moment... but only just for the moment ) Guess what I'm trying to say is, it's a big fantasy for many people... and evidently for some husbands, too

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    its strange i guess by dated standards, I cant really talk for all cuckolding, fantasies, and i dont even understand the mind set, but i so fantasize about it, only i have to be part of it, otherwise id get jelous, if my mrs, did something on her own, then thats it, marriage or relationship over, no questions asked, but however, my fantasy is to see her being fucked and liking it, and i have t o have a part in that, even if its just to lick her clit while he is shafting her, i have to be there

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Big mamma are they wanting to be the Bull or the Cuckold? if they are wanting to be the cuckold it seems a bit strange since you are already attached. I personally don't use a blanket email or a certain search criteria. I certainly wouldn't choose a couple either, i would want a woman to cuckold me before jumping on as an extra in an established relationship. That's my view as a cuckold I'm not sure about bulls though, nor can i speak for everyone. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Here is where my education is starting on this one...... I didn't even know there were 'bulls', I always thought cuckolding was simply a term used when the woman would play with another and tease hubby yet not let him play..... Obviously there is more than that! Google time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Bull is just a term used for the invited.. Guess it sounds good ,but thats about all.. Yes' there are alot of husbands that fantasise about watching their wife being pleasured , in fact quite common. This' I would say is a extention of where the couples sex life is at any given time but given its a fantasy the reality for some is another thing. Those couples who communicate and decide they're up for it must be prepared to accept it for what it is and nothing else' will enjoy every minute.. She being pleasured and he enjoying watching her be pleasured' thats the bottom line. Dont go there if you dont feel comfortable, or at least be prepared to be emotionally challenged if you do. On the few occasions I've been the invited a meeting or 2 beforehand is the only way to go. In my experience' its the couple who show each other they are No1 regardless of anything else , are the couples who enjoy it the most. Only once did I turn down a couple who I felt were not quite ready... Must of been right, they texted me later saying they needed more time. Since then , I still get the occassional message saying it will happen.. lol...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Bigmamma I look for something in couples profile that I can relate to and makes me think we could get along. Profile pics are important as an initial attraction has to be there. ..in both directions. I don't consciously seek couples into cuckold activity. I am easy going. If the man wants to play all good. If he wants to watch..no problem. Some blokes are ok with standing back or leaving me and the lady alone but not necessarily a cuckold type relationship but I do understand the turn on about thinking of your partner getting turned on and enjoying herself with another man. Cuckolding seems to be gaining more widespread popularity / awareness and there is a fair bit about it in google world. Bit of scientific and psychological stuff about the basic need for reproductive dominance. Basically the more men around a woman the greater the need for the life partner of that woman to procreate to ensure his genes pass on to subsequent generations = increased horniness on the male partner. It is an interesting dynamic and flies in the face of traditional attitudes to monogamous relationships. From what I have read like many fetishes, there is varying facets like a humiliation or dominance side to it as well as purely voyeuristic in seeing the woman you love from a slightly removed angle being a pure sexual being.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If anyone knows of any good bulls on here let us know :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Seriously, you're not even trying if you're not getting a response... The profile pic of your lady is enough to ignite the interest of nearly every guy within a bulls roar... I think you will have your hands full sorting the chaff from the hay very soon... Good luck... Jay

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Jay_me: definitely trying. She's very particular so you are right it's difficult sorting through the tonne of msg's we are receiving. She's looking forward to it though :) we have lots of interest from couples which is great aswell as I'd love to watch as a couple uses her as they please. I'm meeting with 2 single guys and a couple when we get back from o/s :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And so she should be... fussy that is... As you know, our brain is our biggest sex organ and ignites our deepest thoughts.. The selection process can be exciting but nowhere near as exciting as the actual build up once you make your decision.. I've been there so I'm talking from experience... Take your time, relax and enjoy the journey... Cheers. Jay

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I met a couple that loved the cuckold lifestyle, the husband kept telling me how much he enjoys watching his wife get it from a youngeer guy and his wife humiliating him. Initially I didn't really get why he'd be so turned on but after a few weeks I noticed how much they enjoyed it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi Tequila I have seen your Mrs pics on your profile and I would love to be part of the action. You can message me or just reply here and I will get back to you. Im in Brissy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I enjoy watching my wife with other men, and lots of them. I arrange the sessions and deliver her to the bulls. She's had as many as 12 at a time and most come back for 2nds and 3rds. She always enjoys being the centre of attention and I enjoy cleaning up the other men's mess.

  • makoman22

    makoman22

    12 years ago

    big difference in a threesome and a cuck night,theres big ,massive differences in cuck nights,some mild,some wanting more.either way,if u want a mmf threesome,then do it and have fun,but if u like the idea of your lady telling you how much better shes getting it,then look for cuck night,just remember,u might fall in love with her allk over again

  • makoman22

    makoman22

    12 years ago

    to answer your question from my point of view bigmamma,I look 4 a couple that I know talk about their sex{by talking with themaax and }then I try to work out what the male wants,90pc of the time the guy dosnt want to talk to another man about the way he feels,so usually I talk about my own experiences.if it gets to the bedroom,i usually let the woman take the lead,she knows her man and can let me hear where they are at.its a lot to take in if the atmosphere is tense,it depends on how u handle it.i love first time couples that are comfortable[I have been with couples where the guy was well bigger than me,its not always the reason]when a man can relax and let it happen,its an amazing feeling ,love it when the girl talks to him[without being too cuck]and feels comfortable.been on both sides,love it