M53

Have you been rejected???

March 10 2010

Tell me, in the swinging scene has there been any of you that have been rejected after you thought you hit it off with someone really well?? Were they lying to you about you being good in bed??? Were they lying about the attraction for you just cause the so desperately wanted to get off??? Or perhaps you were lying to them. Have you dodged phone calls or have you been the one who has been dodged??? It's funny really. This scene is all about being honest with your partners and significant others. So why is it that when you hook up with someone the rules don't apply? There is a way of being polite and letting someone down gently. Isn't honesty always the best policy???

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SexyArse

16 years ago

Haha just kidding.Actually everyone this topic was posted by me accidentally on Jeffy's profile whilst he was here. Whoops.SexyArseOnTap

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RHP User

16 years ago

Now Jeff im not exactly from the swinging scene but honesty in all situations whether in the real world or online should be observed at all times,otherwise people end up getting hurt and nobody likes that do they?I have been in situations with men where i've had to dodge their phone calls because they were being too direct with me and it scared me off. In regards to the rules,boundaries should be set up first so you know where and where not to go in terms of the limits of the relationship with person. sexyme21

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RHP User

16 years ago

Well if your target is a NSA greet and grunt, you should be in the position of being able to say "next" without too much grief following you around for months... I mean, that's the point isn't it. Trouble is that people do develop expectations accidentally during the process of building up sexual tension for the meet and grunt. This is why events are excellent.. you meet and grunt NSA and walk away, maybe no names, definitely no phone call, no texts or sms.... A perfectly anonymous sweaty and lusty interlude. At an event.. you just move on to the next if you get rejected... or if you reject someone... there's generally no malice. Hugs Stalky

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SexyArse

16 years ago

Hey sexyme21As said previously this is actually my post not Jeffy1978. Not that it matters but hey I wanted to claim the prize - heehe ;)

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