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Have you ever........

October 27 2012

Had a new kinky sexual experience that you're somewhat ashamed of having enjoyed? Reason I ask is that a very recent encounter saw me meet a woman who was keen on getting significantly manhandled and I'm kind of ashamed that I enjoyed it because I've never considered myself to be at all dominant so I'm quite surprised at myself. Maybe I'm still just a little green when it comes to this sort of thing and experience will grant me a better self understanding. thoughts? Personal experiences?

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RHP User

13 years ago

My favorite saying after sex is " let's never speak of that again" lol I often do things that amaze me but hey, all good as long as they were an adult and it was all consenting haha ;-) roxxy

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RHP User

13 years ago

but the first time I had a guy bite my calf muscles during sex (not a gentle nibble people but a hard, bruising, see the teeth marks kind of bite) made me wonder why I enjoyed that (OK I will be honest, more than liked it, I came on the spot) but I kept going back and through that experience (and subsequent ones in the years following) I learnt what it was about the situation I enjoyed, why I enjoyed it and more about myself and my sexually than most young 20 year olds know. You shouldnt be ashmaed of giving a woman pleasure through the means she has asked of you. As long as it was consenting, you both enjoyed yourselves then there is nothing to be ashmaed of. Step back from the situation, look into it from a 3rd party perspective (from outside yourself) and analysis how you felt at the time thenmaybe you will get a better understanding of your own sexuality and needs. Since my own awakening (or self discovery if you prefer) I have engaged in acts that any others would consider to be disgusting and/or ebarrassing but for me they have been enjoyable experiences through which I have grown to myself even more. Kisses Focus

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RHP User

13 years ago

tried it - LOVED it.

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RHP User

13 years ago

That was part of the recent encounter I speak of honeybee, but that wasn't the part I enjoyed most as I was the "choker" not the one being choked(it would take a woman with freakishly large hands to choke me I think) She seemed to enjoy my amateur attempts at domination lol so I guess I got part of it right! Ok cool so I'm not a weirdo, just a little green. Cheers all, thanks for the non judgemental comments

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RHP User

13 years ago

For those that made comments about it being consensual, it certainly was, I have never and never would lay my hands on a woman in such a way without her full consent. I guess that's was part of my concern, being judged on that side of it.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Some men are brought up to believe you treat a woman a certain way.Some women take many many years to get them to unlearn that habit. It took me years to get my husband to man handle me. As long as the people involved are all there because they want to and they consent to what is going on I don't believe it effects your reputation outside the bedroom at allMrsSplicey

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RHP User

13 years ago

This is a story to tell my grandkids one day.Scene: swingers party. Hot Russian lady who asked her not-so-hot husband to invite me for a girl-on-girl play. As I was giving my husband a head job, she giving me the kitten kiss, her husband just went and sucked on my toes.Afterwards, I hang my head in shame. No, not really. Just laughed and giggled. Surprised I enjoyed it.Oh, and dog-shopping the other week. A for-sale canine of sorts started licking my neck in front of the delicious looking salesperson. I let out something that should've stayed in my head and he gave me such a funny look.

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RHP User

13 years ago

but I just can't help myself. If it's 'auto-erotic asphyxiation', it's to the self. If one person does it to another however, it's just regular 'erotic asphyxiation'.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Technicality police lol. Ok I'm more than a "little" green then.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Mrs splicey, it's an ingrained thing that we get taught from a young age, so you're trying to untrain a lifetime of teachings. It's not easy but it's doable, and quite fun ;-)

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13 years ago

Quoting 'neko68'Oh, and dog-shopping the other week. A for-sale canine of sorts started licking my neck in front of the delicious looking salesperson. I let out something that should've stayed in my head and he gave me such a funny look. Priceless!!

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13 years ago

Quoting 'amuse_bouche' Quoting 'neko68'Oh, and dog-shopping the other week. A for-sale canine of sorts started licking my neck in front of the delicious looking salesperson. I let out something that should've stayed in my head and he gave me such a funny look. Priceless!! hmmmm is it wrong to be licked by a dog at all...and am intruiged to no what was let out

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'Torturedcliche' Technicality police lol. Ok I'm more than a "little" green then.

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13 years ago

Quoting 'Splicey' Some men are brought up to believe you treat a woman a certain way.Some women take many many years to get them to unlearn that habit. It took me years to get my husband to man handle me. As long as the people involved are all there because they want to and they consent to what is going on I don't believe it effects your reputation outside the bedroom at allMrsSplicey Couldn't agree more with MrsSplicyManhandling... now that is my idea of sexy.... When a man behaves in a manner that sets him apart from me as a gentle woman... Feeling the roughness of his hands .. and I don't mean because he works in an office but just the way mean touch .. usually hard like that mean it ...God I love it .. makes me all warm and ahhhhh thinking about it..

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