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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Yep...it was as a last resort and to be honest, I did feel a litle bad for doing so...but trust me..self preservation is the strongest instinct !!!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Someone recently told me, all you have to do is say the words , "You're good to go now" and that's all it will take

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I can understand if a guy keeps pounding and pounding away while at the same time he's holding back, and she is getting past the point of enjoyment' then doing or saying something to make him shoot cant be such a bad thing.. Must admit' I have said and done things to bring on his orgasm so I can have a rest.. puff puff

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  And I am a bloke lol. Wasn't feelin' it, I was a teenager at the time and I got busted when she peeled off the condom too... Lol

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I have faked for alot of reasons but never because the person was going and going... "You're good to go now" really does work wonders...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  A couple of times. All of them have been when I really hadn't expected to get any so had had a wank or two during the day and then when the sex came along I could tell after a while the girls where getting over the pounding and trying to get me off so it would all just stop :) and well girls feel even worse than guys do if they can't get you off, so you just give 3-5 hard pumps with an "oh god" and a stupid face and everyone's happy. You just prey they don't ask you to cum on their tits :P

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Nope. Never.I'm a BIG believer in communication. .There are only three things that'll prevent me from having an orgasm;(i) I'm not attracted to, nor feel a connection to, the person that I'm with,(ii) My headspace isn't right due to external stressors,(admittedly sometimes a good, hard fuck will let you forget those stressors for a while) (iii) I've had too much to drink and whilst I can stay hard, orgasm is likely to take more time and effort than what it's worth..It should come as no surprise that (i) hasn't ever occurred, if there's no connection or attraction I wouldn't be there in the first place. I've owned up to not being able to orgasm due to (ii) or (iii) as it is my problem/fault why I couldn't and I wouldn't want my partner/playmate thinking it was due to them not being able to get me off. .Conversely, I've been told that a partner faked orgasms (months afterwards) so that I'd, "Hurry up and finish". This, to me, is deception and lies. I'd much rather have a sexual partner tell me the truth, whether it's (i), (ii), (iii) or even an unknown (iv).Yes, I may be disappointed but I'm a grown up and can understand the reasons. If all buttons aren't pushed then the mission can be a failure. (There's always morning sex or porn to relieve the disappointment) .I'd much rather stop and be disappointed at the time rather than find out that my partner/playmate put up with something she was uncomfortable with or disliked. I would feel terrible after finding that out. (OMG!! A guy with feelings and who understands? It's a frickin' curse I tell ya) .I'm willing to listen if they're willing to tell me to try something else that works or we can; roll over and fall asleep, talk until we fall asleep or I can leave if she's that way inclined. .As I said, I'd much rather have someone tell me the truth there and then rather than find out later that they were lying..CheersRusty

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