M37
Hey sydney
July 27 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your profile is awful. Write something about yourself and put up some pics that show you in a good light and you might just get a few bites.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for the advise Jude added new pics and wrote my own profile lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
your reply got some action Awesome, was going to check out if that was a Corona or not, profile locked. And Newtown is and always has been fairly hip, not real sure how you could get bored there
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RHP User
12 years ago
Change your user name. Bored? Really? Women don't want to be your entertainment. You can pay for that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You should try out some of the events. It's a good way of meeting people. Apparently the Purr parties are very good although I have never personally been.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeh the response on this has been quite helpful :) still leaves me with another question, can guests respond to messages ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Really....inferring that the guys profile name is an issue is like saying someone doesn't look like their real name.....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, guests can respond to messages. Just to let you know that the younger girls on RHP will be inundated by messages from lots of guys, so you need to stand out a bit. Truth is you may not get many replies. But that's true of every body. Contributing to this forum or trying the chat rooms is a good way of getting to know people too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
IDK but i think women and men are both trying to find what they want,some want sex,others a relationship,some want to be friends ,but only a few take the next step to actually meet and enjoy one another's company.I think most people here have trust issues and are to hung up on past experiences with ex lovers.Give people a go i say! Be clear with what your looking for and don't take 2nd best or lead people on !Welcome to the "having trouble finding club!" Good luck Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fair enough then, I almost couldn't be bothered with this anymore. I've looked through a lot of the other forums and it seems 90% of guys are in my boat hahaha, oh well I guess it's a bit of of a lottery then. Got to be in it to win it haha- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Really....inferring that the guys profile name is an issue is like saying someone doesn't look like their real name.....- Posted from rhpmobile in his profile.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh..... 😳 Erm.... So how's this weather we're having?? Lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot'Really....inferring that the guys profile name is an issue is like saying someone doesn't look like their real name.....- Posted from rhpmobile It's the first impression we have of a user when they appear in our inbox - even before their thumbnail. It's not the deciding factor, but it definitely frames how we approach their profile and/or message, so it does have an impact on how we respond to them. Lisa - A rose by any other name would still smell as sweet. Bart - Not if they were called 'Stink Blossoms'. Marge - I wouldn't want a dozen 'Stink Blossoms' for Valentines Day. T&S
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hmm the forum is full of these posts. Make an effort, be honest and genuine about who you are - it's that easy. Starting to get tired of seeing this topic all the time in the forums.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do get your point, but looking at a vast array of women's profiles, and men's for that matter, they're as an overuse of 69, sexy, sweet, etc in such names yet we all mostly see through all of that, and write it off as BS anyway, so why are ones like this any different?? I just think they're just names. Perhaps I should change mine so that there's no potential suggestion that I may be lurking in places that are.....erm....somewhat creepy?? :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
but you've got to write something worth replying to first.Read their profiles first to see if you fit what they're looking for and send something more than just your mobile number
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot'I do get your point, but looking at a vast array of women's profiles, and men's for that matter, they're as an overuse of 69, sexy, sweet, etc in such names yet we all mostly see through all of that, and write it off as BS anyway, so why are ones like this any different?? I just think they're just names. I totally agree with the overuse of 69 and sweet, hard, fun etc. But if someone cannot even make the effort to properly advertise themselves to attract their target audience, nor understand its importance, it tells me someting about them. When looking at the beer menu, would you be more tempted to order a Hoptimus Prime or a a Moose Drool*? *Yes, these actually exist.
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RHP User
12 years ago
In all honesty, I make a lot of decisions based upon my mood at the time. Which gets me into trouble sometimes I'll be honest. So I'd probably try both, as how many times in a lifetime do you get the chance to drink salivating moose juice?? Lol I do see the point you're making, in that it sounds nasty(moose drool) so if that's what it tastes like would I want it?? However, I think that sometimes we over analyse names instead of taking things for what they are. Which in your example is beer and not actually collected moose drool. When it comes to sex, and relationships(friendships or more so) I'm a picky bastard, and to see me naked means I think very highly of someone, and it's a deeper appeal than a name. Does that make sense?? I'll be honest, I'm having some trouble finding the right words to convey my point with clarity.- Posted from rhpmobile
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sistolu
12 years ago
In my opinion there's nothing wrong with your profile buddy. I could write whatever in my "about me" section and be a totally different person in real life. Just give people a fair go, especially when they make the effort to send a message. Nice to see how many ppl judge a book by its cover...... I call it SHALLOWNESS!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot'However, I think that sometimes we over analyse names instead of taking things for what they are. Which in your example is beer and not actually collected moose drool. If you're a nice beer, make sure you advertise yourself as one! When it comes to sex, and relationships(friendships or more so) I'm a picky bastard, and to see me naked means I think very highly of someone, and it's a deeper appeal than a name. I do think I understand, but this being a site based on finding playmates more than soulmates, why wouldn't people judge books by their cover?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well, because I actually thought, that most people were after a good connection with their playmates as well?? I think Meeks summed it up in a different thread by saying similar to "we want quality over brawn??" I personally see some appeal in everyone. But it lay not in their name, but in the exchanges and initial approach, as I'm sure is a more defining indicator of quality, don't you think? - Posted from rhpmobile
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sistolu
12 years ago
Because those who judge a book by its cover are not very "curious" people in other words they are shallow, in fact how can you possibly asses whether someone might interest you or not based on what they write on their "about me"?? Just give them a fair go, you might find you were going to miss out if you didn't...my two cents worth. Grrrrrrr cant stand shallowness and judgemental people!!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am deeply shallow and judgemental re books and covers...your profile is thin but you is veryyyyy pretty
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RHP User
12 years ago
here is 2cents,it'sfrom D.G.
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sistolu
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'I am deeply shallow and judgemental re books and covers...your profile is thin but you is veryyyyy pretty Thanks Freya, you are very pretty yourself even though you are shallow and judgemental
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sistolu
12 years ago
Also who is D.G.??? :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you wear a t-shirt that has the words fuckmehardpenis69 printed on the front and approached a girl at a bar or at a club she would most likely be disgusted and walk away. Why? Because only an asshole would wear a shirt like that. Fact. That isn't an act of being shallow - it is just common sense. Same applies here. Your name is out there for everyone to see, it won't get you laid but it might prevent your chances from even getting a chance. And that's what this thread is all about right? Increasing your chances... In saying this I see nothing wrong with this guys username - but definitely something to keep in mind when thinking about what to call yourself. And food for thought for those who disagreed so passionately.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey thanks guys for the in depth response to this post I really appreciate it. I may consider changing my name, it seems I have apached a few aspects of the whole online thing wrong. In saying that this is my first time doing anything like this online and I guess a few rookie errors wer expected. Now wile I have some experienced people involved I must ask has anyone got a Gide line to a good first message that makes a good impression, concidering I'm no the kind of guy to say " hey babe lets fuck " and also keeping in mind that I'm after something reoccurring if there is a click but not looking for a relationship. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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sistolu
12 years ago
Quoting 'slickz'If you wear a t-shirt that has the words fuckmehardpenis69 printed on the front and approached a girl at a bar or at a club she would most likely be disgusted and walk away. Why? Because only an asshole would wear a shirt like that. Fact. Only an asshole would walk away just because someone who approach them is wearing a t-shirt like the one you described. Why? Because you can just judge someine based on what they are wearing. Do you judge your facebook 'friends' based on their status updates??? Don't let common sense rule your life common sense is for the average people! Grow up mate
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sistolu
12 years ago
Meant to say 'you CAN'T just judge someone...' :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot'I think Meeks summed it up in a different thread by saying similar to "we want quality over brawn??" Quoting 'sistolu' how can you possibly asses whether someone might interest you or not based on what they write on their "about me"?? May I remind the gentlemen I was merely referring to usernames, not profile content, looks or "brain vs brawn"? Quoting 'slickz' If you wear a t-shirt that has the words fuckmehardpenis69 printed on the front and approached a girl at a bar or at a club she would most likely be disgusted and walk away. Thank you! Couldn't agree more. Quoting 'sistolu' Only an asshole would walk away just because someone who approach them is wearing a t-shirt like the one you described. Why? Because you can just judge someine based on what they are wearing. Do you judge your facebook 'friends' based on their status updates??? Why, thanks. We are not talking about clothes, but about statements people make. Whether they are verbal, on a t-shirt or a via a username doesn't matter to me. And I most definitely judge Facebook friends by their status updates. Last year a Fb "friend" posted an anti gay-marriage slur. She found herself un-friended within about a minute.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agree to disagree me thinks :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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sistolu
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' May I remind the gentlemen I was merely referring to usernames, not profile content, looks or "brain vs brawn"? Why, thanks. We are not talking about clothes, but about statements people make. Whether they are verbal, on a t-shirt or a via a username doesn't matter to me. And I most definitely judge Facebook friends by their status updates. Last year a Fb "friend" posted an anti gay-marriage slur. She found herself un-friended within about a minute. People don't always make statements, they don't make statements through their clothes or facebook that's for sure. Those who are shallow and very judgemental see statements eveywhere. Stop taking life and especially the net too seriously.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Yes, guests can respond to messages. Just to let you know that the younger girls on RHP will be inundated by messages from lots of guys, so you need to stand out a bit. Truth is you may not get many replies. But that's true of every body. Contributing to this forum or trying the chat rooms is a good way of getting to know people too. Thanks Meeka, this tip will prove handy.Just in the process of updating my profile also and adding a couple more pics in.Any other advice on my profile?Not sure if it's updated yet, it's got to be approved by someone...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just received an email titled "hi hun" My advice: don't give nicknames to women whom you don't know. Use their username in your message heading and even better: refer to something in their profile. It makes me want to open that email first, rather than the other twelve titled "hi" and "hey".
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll keep that in mind... My instinct was to include something mildly interesting in the header to catch their attention.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You asked for my opinion so I thought I'd let you know what I think. I'd change your profile pic and not have one of you sucking down on a long neck. You say "ask me" about smoking. I don't search for anyone who smokes so maybe that stops people looking at you. You also don't mention your 'important stats' below the belt. I am judgemental.. sorry and think if someone doesn't list that (don't all guys love to boast) then I might not be too impressed. Again like others have mentioned. Females can get a lot of attention and it is hard to get back to everyone. If you contact a lady, don't start with "hey baby, you're hot, I'd love to taste your pussy". We do get those messages and we just skip over to them. We do all like, I am sure, to talk about sex, and don't mind dirty words but we don't want to hear it with a first email. Good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
the best thing to come out of Sydney is the road outta there lol, been on that a few times
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