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Honesty and Respect
June 02 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Bit of a sweeping statement there Chilli.
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RHP User
13 years ago
mmmm know some women that are just like that also soooo is this a generalization or just a case of SOL?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Integrity is a given in any new alliance (or it should be unless alternative behavior parameters have been set/contracted).Respect for another individual is a personal value upheld by each of the union. Not collectively as whats acceptable to one may vary to the other. In the discovery of an inequality in attitude and behaviors affecting the happiness of either from the other, an agreed way of being may be established as what's unacceptable and what's not..If exclusivity has evolved to be an ideal or natural progression of the relationship, and both agree declaring it so, but one breaks the deal by incident/choice/behavior. They corrupt the foundation of the union therefore(in most cases) force an end to the relationship by either partner..People make choices full knowing the possible ramifications of their actions. One cannot have complete observational control of another and therefore has to deal with the actions of the other that each may deal..In other words "You'll do what you do, till you don't".
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cop a bad fish did you? Oh well throw it back as there are tastier ones out there. Personally I like the Mangrove Jack.
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's a bite in the bum that's comes from a bitter place me thinks. Sounds like you're meeting the wrong type of men.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
There are some very respectful and honest guys on this site, unfortunately you have not met them yet.
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RHP User
13 years ago
just a bit of a generalisation!
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sweetgem
13 years ago
Is done by all genders, not just men or women, and it happens everywhere as well! So, just because we have run into a couple or a few or some, it doesn't mean that everyone is like that. Therefore, your question/thread maybe a bit too blunt in generalising the scene. I certainly have had good dates with some nice gents and we are still friends to date. Never give up, perhaps be more selective and have some kind of filtering process to leave out the not suitable ones before you even start chatting to them :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've ONLY met respectful and honest men on here.....that's not to say we've agreed on everything or even that we were looking for the same thing- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'karynb'I've ONLY met respectful and honest men on here.....that's not to say we've agreed on everything or even that we were looking for the same thing Like everywhere else there are the good and the bad. Sounds like you need to fine-tune your screening process a little. If you allow a guy to be anything less than respectful to you, even in their first message, throw 'em back. Plenty of other fish, like Inspirit said. Though I'd prefer catching a Sweetlips.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Even a Tongue Sole.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't know you, but I feel sorry for you. Maybe a little more context to you statement before slapping all of us across the face...
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RHP User
13 years ago
ya both met me. so much for ur theories. moohahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
When you gonna let me be disrespectful to your arse. I hope to be you town in October
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have had ladies ask me tro do all sorts of things some real kinky I have never nit respected them even to a few times I had to watch to gals get it on but I was not allowed to touch and that was frustrating LOL..
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RHP User
13 years ago
we have not moved pass generalisations or stereotyping. Too sad.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Give it to receive it AND by placing us all in that bag Chilli you certainly aren't showing us any!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Crap
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not all men want to do you over and be dis respectful.Some of us have had strong women in our life who we respect,weather it be our Mums,sisters,aunty's or lovers.Wish you luck in your search
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh wait... no... no I don't. I think, just a theory.... but it might because of.... um.... bitches like you, perhaps? Listen to yourself, re-read what you wrote, and perhaps come to the realization you are well and truly past your use-by. I'm sure there are some nice women out there, but clearly honey.... you ain't one of them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Op don't let a few bad grapes spoil the bunch!!! Any of my dealings with RHP men have been very pleasant!!! Gypsy💋- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yup, men bashing is just so easy to doI'm a good judge of character and don't have too much bad luck...and I won't accept b/s....and I will say what I think is b/s
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RHP User
13 years ago
Grow UP!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'cold_ass_honky'ya both met me. so much for ur theories. moohahaha You have been nothing but respectful. Guess that makes you a real man... You too Kizza x
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're saying I'm dishonest and disrespectful because I'm male. You don't even know me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Oh wait... no... no I don't. I think, just a theory.... but it might because of.... um.... bitches like you, perhaps? Listen to yourself, re-read what you wrote, and perhaps come to the realization you are well and truly past your use-by. I'm sure there are some nice women out there, but clearly honey.... you ain't one of them. Can you save your hateful mysogyinistic dribble for the regulars, who already know what a fucked up cunt you are? No need to frighten the newbies. Appreciate it x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cunts are awesome. You are not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Oh wait... no... no I don't. I think, just a theory.... but it might because of.... um.... bitches like you, perhaps? Listen to yourself, re-read what you wrote, and perhaps come to the realization you are well and truly past your use-by. I'm sure there are some nice women out there, but clearly honey.... you ain't one of themwhy do you need to be so offensive?..... Its not clever, its not amusing, and its certainly not adult.... grow up will you?
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RHP User
13 years ago
dear,sometimes men tell women what they think they want to hear ,to get want they want....sad but true....not all men of course ,just some....if you are looking for a serious relationship it may be difficult to find it here though..
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RHP User
13 years ago
you obviously haven't been spanked in a while and I have a brand new paddle,now bend over for Auntie
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Hanna_ybbn
13 years ago
You've beautifully proven my point - thank you http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/DE-Generation-40801CheersHanna
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RHP User
13 years ago
* Gasp * what happened to not call people names? Lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes Chilli is generalizing and she has probably done that out of frustration no doubt. Think some of the responses to her are a little rough don't you? Too much bitterness for some peeps. :(
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RHP User
13 years ago
Call = calling.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'* Gasp * what happened to not call people names? Lol. It was said in the most caring way. And it felt amazing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
what topic? bahahaha I don't think it was chilli's intention to make a broad sweeping comment about all men so lets not jump down throats etc. as for this nck wilde paper cut out, you all don't realise you give him his strength. a simple "MEH" would suffice. might change my name to cold_ass_thomas or even boomy_schopenhauer. but only if it helps me get laid more. bahahahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Like I said before, the generalisation of this thread is a bit hurtful, but wtf Nick...since when are the forums used for all out rudeness. You not only proved the OP's statement, you also managed to show to everyone else how childish you are.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't see chilli's post as offensive...and I kind of agree....some men do demand honesty from their women, even from casual playmates.......we've seen it ourselves, guys getting all possessive and demanding, wanting to know the where, whys who's and what's of their gal pals day....while keeping secrets themselves....sometimes of staggering consequence (he never said he was married/father of 3/had bashed his ex/was unemployed/lived with mum) and yea...I get how some men demand respect...loudly and rudely....and never understand its something that's earned, not given automatically........ perhaps wording is the OP's only mistake...who knows.... but its certainly not a slap in the face, or an insult or slur, unless, of course, immaturity or misunderstanding steps in and twists the statement that way....
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RHP User
13 years ago
you are right of course. But I object to being tarred by the same brush.There is no respect from the op.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Perhaps you were having an off day??...Because you WERE respectful! LOL Quoting 'cold_ass_honky'ya both met me. so much for ur theories. moohahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '50zkool'you are right of course. But I object to being tarred by the same brush. There is no respect from the op. .........the OP doesn't say "all men'...so i think its a broad and fairly innocuous generalisation, meant for no one in particular, but quite probably someone we all know.....and i don't see how there's any tarring ..... men do these things..so do boys, girls and other women.....we all do to some degree.... maybe there's the possibility her statement was fuelled by frustration with men in general...something i can understand, and give her a bit of ground on....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just put''some'' before men ....I assume that this is Chilli's first post and she looks far too gorgeous to be wielding a brush dripping in tar....welcome to the fora Chilli.
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RHP User
13 years ago
One day, some of the kids from the neighbourhood carried my mother's groceries all the way home from the store. You know why? It was outta respect. :p Love yourself and you can't help loving everyone else. Forgedabowdit ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
One thing I've found here, is that empty vessels make the most noise. Not making any accusations or mentioning any names, but had a case recently where someone who seemed ok contacted me (btw, their profile reads "not into games" etc) asked to see my face pic, adding "only fair" blah blah. Then proceeds to accuse me of not being genuine and without right of reply blocked me. No harm, no foul... Except to say that the one using the words "fair" and "no games", was actually guilty of exactly that. Unless you can be clear and confident of what you're offering, don't ask others for it. Just my 2 cents....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'cold_ass_honky' as for this nck wilde paper cut out, you all don't realise you give him his strength. a simple "MEH" would suffice. Look, on most forums I will look at his posts and think exactly that. There has even been the odd one that I have agreed with, or laughed at. However, this was a new poster. If someone had called me a bitch in response to the first forum I ever posted, I would have been devastated. Just because us regulars see these ramblings for what they are, doesn't mean we can expect others to do the same. And seeing that: 1. My first comment is still there 2. I haven't lost my instant posting rights, and 3. The thread hasn't been closed yet, I think some powers that be don't necessarily disagree with my assessment. p.s. Haters are still dicks.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'AuntieEdna'welcome to the fora Chilli. I do hope you weren't scared off by this rather eventful first experience. And fora... Love it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Honest and respect are, from my experience, very personal perceptions. Unfortunately, what one partner feels is honest and respectful the other partner may not find so.Take the concept of 'cheating' for example... Where do you draw the line - glancing at another man/woman, perving, porn, kissing, fucking, becoming emotionally involved. It all depends in the individual. And that is where it all comes unstuck.What it really boils down to is, do you respect your partner enough to understand and accept what _their_ limits are, even though you don't agree with there limits? To me, that is the ideal measure of respect (alas, it was one I didn't quite grasp before being thrown out of my marriage :( )
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RHP User
13 years ago
i believe it or not have been judged by other lets call them men , of disrespecting women . well i never disrespected any one . and i have eyes i see the truth the only thing people can hide is what on there minds the truth there contiance . myself im at piece as i have nothing on mind no regretes... the respected quotation is a equal give and get , but theres grudges and not sures in all genders . you see a profile on here and you see a totaly unwraped women bareing all for all to see is she respecting herself . i say yeah shes happy with what she has and shes got nothing to hide evry things out but her personality which serioously carnt be told by her exshabitionist qualities this person may be quite , a air head , highly inteligent , and very repectful of others you carnt tell until your in same room talk see there true selve .. not just a on line cam sesion or a pic of there pussy .. i respect myself just dont like being pushed around getting what i dont like and been told eat it or finding out later that ive had eaten something as a joke by others for some pay back for something im inocent of... i have eyes i see reality i access dont judge , i keep to myself and look for company that i feel are respectful of me and in return im of them.. i usual treat things like a fist fight hey why not you through a insult or a hurtful comment sugestion and run away no you get one back ..hey ive never been the intiator ive just defended my self in self defence.... women and men should respect each other and if need to get some payback for a insulting bit of disrespect acted, or remark do it up front so the truth comes out and defence came be made not cowardly ... i couldnt respect myself doing a coward acted ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
glad to see you've stopped with the capitals.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Had a friend (female) drop over earlier this morning & one of the topics we talked about was about dating sites, she pointed out how in this virtual world its easy for shallow people to lie/ or falsely portray themselves online. Disrespect does cut both ways tho & I see it as somewhat disrespectful when I send a message that doesnt get a reply. And while it might frustrate us all at times you cant dwell it. And others have said either use it as a screening tool or change how you screen/ eliminate the also rans.
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RHP User
13 years ago
again....how is that we 'assume' we deserve or merit 'respect'? its not a 'given', not at all...respect, and trust too, are things that can only ever be earned.....we might defer to someone elses age, or experience, or even sex.... but its not really anything more than good manners.....we'll save our respect for people we know, like and trust thank you....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'again....how is that we 'assume' we deserve or merit 'respect'? its not a 'given', not at all...respect, and trust too, are things that can only ever be earned.....I will respect every stranger until they (potentially) prove me wrong.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I cant do that Ms D.....I cant respect anyone if I don't trust them. And I certainly don't trust anyone I don't know. I will be polite and courteous, but thats plain good manners and common decency.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Honesty and respect ? Well how come most women in Brisbane make a date and don't keep it . I work away so when I get back 2 Brisbane I look forward 2 catching up with a woman but at t last min they chicken out were is t honesty or respect there ? What is it with women in Brisbane ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
So if there is any women out there that will keep there word look me up lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hanna_ybbn
13 years ago
If that's been (largely) your experience then there's 2 possibilities; (neither are intended to be offensive)1. You are not doing your 'due diligence' as far as vetting your possible dates2. YOU are the common denominator in each of these 'failures'ok there are actually 3 - 3. Plain old bad luckMaybe you need to change your approach?I wish you all the best,SincerelyHanna
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RHP User
13 years ago
...War between the sex's, then there will be no people left (Joe Jackson)..I didn't take chilli21's comment as a male-bashing slur. Guess some are a little sensitive looking back over the comments?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not all men come under this category. Most of the men I have met have been respectful, some both honest and respectful, and thosethat I have not met didn't quite meet my needs but not outright rude or disrespectful.I always treat everyone with respect, honesty and consideration, it usually comes back in kind.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tickled_kink'...War between the sex's, then there will be no people left (Joe Jackson)..I didn't take chilli21's comment as a male-bashing slur. Guess some are a little sensitive looking back over the comments?we thought some were being unreasonably sensitive, and a couple were deliberately finding offense, when its plain to see...none was intended....some people thrive on drama......lol.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Honesty and respect are not a want, they are expected. Maybe you have mistaken what he wanted, as there is many things men may want, now when the cordless reciprocating saw hit the hardware stores, most men wanted one, and one of them whacked a dildo the end of it, the women seemed to think they were a very nice priced tool to wrap up for the Chrissy tree.Hope you can cheer up for what may come of tomorrow.Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
Self respect honey... The men in your life will reflect the relationship you have with you and the value you place on yourself. Keep It Simple Sexy: spend not a waking hour on such men... A simple 'meh' would suffice.- Posted from rhpmobile
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