Horror stories

January 23 2020

We've all had those meets where by you hadn't done enough due diligence into the person we were meeting and it didn't work out quite as expected. I've had some meets that definitely made me think about what I would need in place before wasting my time meeting up and being put in an awkward situation. So my question to the forumites is what are some horror stories of some meets that didn't go quite as expected and how did you deal with it? Besides the chat, phone call and then meet what are some other things you do to ensure the meet is worth the effort. Thanks Lib. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Libertine001

    Libertine001

    6 years ago

    For me there was a woman that we got along fine chatting and exchanged pics then we had a chat on the phone which didn't go so well and she said after she was nervous. Long story short is we had arranged to meet at mine then go for a bite to eat and a show. We struggled with any conversation as it matter what subject I broached there was no segue into any sort of meaningful conversation and we were stuck together for about 4 hours. I did ignore my gut feeling and bit of way more than I could chew.. Lesson learned..🤔

  • Cucknshells

    Cucknshells

    6 years ago

    I think that is why it is probably better to catch up for a coffee and go from there. Its hard as you try to cover all the bases but sometimes it just was not meant to be. Spoke to a man once who said he was travelling through here. All was good except I think he got a better deal before he reached here. At least he told me he wouldn't make it. I think he might have had some regrets.He contacts me now and again out of the blue asking if I will be in Melbourne this weekend knowing full well I don't live anywhere near there and under the illusion that I didn't mind being plan B. Can't figure out the way some peoples mind works. Probably for the best in hindsight. Shells.

  • wombat13at

    wombat13at

    6 years ago

    We had been chatting for a awhile with another bi couple not far from us all seemed to be in order made arrangements to meet at their place they had spare room so we could stay over and have a couple of drinks well we got there they we half drunk should of left then anyway started chatting which went on way to long they got drunker finally started to undress mess around and down to panties and fingering and the fem said wait i have an idea turned to the mantle pirce lifted an ornament and produced a bang of cocaine as they were drunk as we had enough at thig drugs point and started to dress to leave risking dui they started to argue full on who was having first hit we left then an hr later get a txt were did you go

  • missy_mo0

    missy_mo0

    6 years ago

    Too many so called “DOMS” that think agreeing to meet up is a yes to dominant aggressive behaviour and assault. I’ve found that I have to specify with clear details what my boundaries are. Never thought I’d have to tell someone not to bite, pinch or slap me on a first encounter or at least, not unless discussed first. Yes I had screened this person and I thought knowing of him and having many mutual friends gave me some level of security. It did not. Also mixing alcohol into play meets, anything more than a few drinks, it’s a no from me.

  • HotAdventures

    HotAdventures

    6 years ago

    Sadly there are many people who will make judgments or assumptions on how they see & treat you based on their lack of understanding or their own ego. It can often be difficult to spot who you can open up to and who you shouldn’t. I would suggest to any one who likes to play sub in D/s play to not say too much if anything until you’ve had a 1, 2 or 3 successful meetings and play vanilla the first play session to see how controlled a potential new Dom is. If they can’t do that then how can you trust them?