Hosting/Organising Events

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Its not about who organises parties/events. Its about their attitude and expectations.

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  DynamicCouple36

  10 years ago

  We know of a few "single" males that have hosted parties with the hopes of getting laid, nothing more, nothing less. So our question to you would be , will you be playing at the party you host, or not ? :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I'd come to one of your events without hesitation if the other planets lined up lol but i personally would prefer a guy or guys were running it. As far as a positive reputation, you already have establidhed yourself as a trusted and down to earth individual with us being able to get to know you in here. Go for it - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Ms Willow... well said... tis all about the why... not the what or whom.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' We know of a few "single" males that have hosted parties with the hopes of getting laid, nothing more, nothing less. So our question to you would be , will you be playing at the party you host, or not ? :) - Posted from rhpmobile I know of many hosts (typically couples) who play at their own parties. Sometimes they don't, if they do it's typically until quite late when other priorities such as introductions, catering and door duties are very much over. Sometimes they have employed others to act as co-hosts or door persons. I've been to about 15-20 play parties, which has helped me to be aware of the sorts of things hosts have to manage on the night. And I've basically played at all of them, as well as having private contacts, so I don't need to host my own for that purpose. Also, I might be including non-play events as ideas. For these, I've been to many other mingling nights over years, so do I have many ideas for things like icebreaker games etc. But do you think I would go to all that trouble - finding/hiring a venue, catering, buying supplies, advertising, screening contacts/messages, booking/reconfirming attendees, travel etc etc just to "get laid"? :P

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I'd be hoping the op would be playing, surely the guests expressing interest in attending can decide for themselves, and i don't know if i'm missing something here, but aren't we all trying to 'get laid'. If i had a party here there's no way i would not participate, i'm too horny and my intention would be to get action myself. Why would anyone give up their time and house just for other people to have a good time? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I've been to many a functions and honestly, for the most part it's about the host getting laid! The best parties I've been to is where the host doesn't play, or plays very late in the party, because they are busy monitoring the party, ensuring their guests are comfortable, kicking out guests who are disrespectful etc. You can't do that when your main objective is about getting 'your dick wet'! I've also been to parties where the host 'plays first' so that he can get the 'cream of the crop', so to speak! So I do look at who is organising an event and it would be a 'no' from me if a single guy was hosting! Once bitten twice shy ..... Mary xx

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I understand the sentiments and I understand sometimes there is simply no way around them, and obviously it's not possible to please everybody or have a party or function that appeals to everybody. The only control I do have, is to do the best to ensure that the people who do attend have a great time. Yes I could wait until I was a couple, but that could be any number of years down the track if at all, and having a partner won't change the type of person that I am, just people's perceptions. I say why not try to achieve something now rather than at some other indefinite time in the future?

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