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"Hot husbanding"
May 14 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wife sits in a cage with a vagina lock while folding laundry and making sandwiches... while a man gets to shag other women in front of said cage? Holy fahck. This is lotto type stuff.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Buy a chastity belt?..you can purchase one online. Apparently it's a myth that metal ones were used by knights in the Middle Ages to lock up their ladies while they were away for years to fight in the Crusades...she would be dead within a week....it was a joke by a 15th century engineer who sketched one in is book of designs.....a five hundred year old joke :) Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
I much prefer the hot wifing scenario
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FeistyFatty
9 years ago
I'm with langton11.... sounds a bit boring. Good luck and let us know how it turns out x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had a lady (one of my wife's best friends) who LOVED the fact that I would come to her place as soon after sex with my wife.. OR another woman as I could... She would encourage me to fuck her friends.One night, she invited wife and myself over.. then took off with said wife to some venue, leaving me with her other friends.. one of whom had me do her rather crudely...When wife and woman came back an hour or so later... woman cornered me in the bathroom and "Cleaned" me up...Wife didn't find out about THAT woman.. but soon thereafter found about another...Which is why we are not still married.. *Siiighs* Everything has to end eventually!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
My BF casually dates other people sometimes or goes to clubs and I enjoy hearing about it. Makes me happy to see him so excited and happy. I have never put a cock cage on him though Qefenta. Doesn't that make it more like a slave situation? Or do I have it all wrong?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Misread that! Chastity belt not cock cage. 🙃
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your bf dates or sees men though, isn't that what you said before? How would you feel about him seeing other women, I imagine that would be how hot husbanding would work, if comparing to hot wifing?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't see why it would be boring, quite the opposite I would think, and shouldn't be any different to hot wifing, the only obvious difference is women get jealous of other women, some men do, but women aren't good at fully sharing their men. They will allow them to play with men, but not women. Why is that? I think it's delusional, just means you won't know when he's with women, but he will be. There are exceptions of course, not all partnered people need sex with anyone else, nor desire it, because they're fulfilled, more so in the honeymoon stage of a relationship, but men who are or have been swingers, into open sexuality, expecting them to then be faithful, suddenly embrace monogamy, not realistic, not even appealing to me. It screams insecurity. I will never want a partner to have sex with me only or the same room bs, I would want him to be free to be with whomever he wanted. Yes it would be nice if he chose to come home to me after, but if one day he didn't, I wouldn't want him back if I didn't have his heart. So the sexual part, huge turn on, hopefully he would do me good when he got home 😜 though I don't think I'd be that interested in watching, I'd want to be playing too. I'd rather spend the time with another partner myself rather than sit and watch lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
My wife shared me with another woman and watched the whole thing but she got too horny and eventually joined us. She then invited her best friend home and they both made me do some stripping and dancing before I took her friend into the bedroom and fucked her all night. From next time on, my wife makes sure she gets a guy to fuck when I am with another woman ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I guess I was looking at it it from a different perspective. The husband goes out with other people while the wife stays at home. Isn't that hot husbanding? So doesn't matter who he sees, it's more about the wife staying at home? I don't know! But yes you are right my BF only goes out with guys and never women ... yet. I secretly hope that will always be the case. Oops not very poly of me. Lol. I don't how I would feel if he had strong feelings for another woman. I might be okay with it or maybe I won't. I can't say.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for your honest response. I guess I'll never know for sure either until in that situation 👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
How many women if any does the husband expect to be able to be with somehow, considering he is now acting essentially as a single (or solo) male, and has to compete with everyone else? Not to mention that few will believe his story (that he has a "hall pass") if he puts it in a profile. Hot wifing assumes she is somewhat promiscuous, not just has a boyfriend or two on the side. How many men have the ability to be as promiscuous as a hot wife? Obviously from examples above, the wife, or the two of them working as a couple, can help to find him other partners (eg at events), but him working completely on his own, he will probably be screwed (or more correctly, not screwed) :P
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've been lucky enough to do, with my wife loving the voyeur experience, just watching. Really how is it any different to husbands enjoying watching? Certainly would like the chance to again at some point. - Posted from rhpmobile
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bedger1000
9 years ago
If a guy is being denied, whilst watching his wife fulfill herself with another guy, surely that is a form of cuckolding? Hot-wifing is surely a guy watching and/or joining another guy with his wife, so hot-husbanding just the opposite. The big difference is there are so many beautiful attached women out there that fulfill the premise of a 'hot-wife', but not quite so many 'hot-husbands'. Surely you just have to reverse the situation to remove gender bias? If a wife was going out and fucking others guys whilst he was at home, many would construe it as be some lesser form of cuckolding. Sorry Candy, but are you not therefore a bit of a cuckolded wife by definition (not that there is anything wrong with that if its your preference/choice)?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hot wife/husband is the other finds it hot to watch (and may or may not join in during or after) their partner with someone else. It's not cuckholding. If that's anyone's thing, all power to them, but they aren't the same thing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
So if one person is watching/joining in, then vice versa the next night, then vice versa again the following night, it's just about play interests and not necessarily the hot wife/husband scenario. Otherwise you would have to call their relationship something different each night something different happens. I know it (hotwife for example) as where the guy enjoys or gets off on the fact the wife has a "hallpass" to see other people, and may actively encourage it. In this case, he may have equal permission to play with others himself but does not necessarily need to or want to, his wife may be all he needs personally. Cuckolding is an assertion of power or control over the other person and being in control of what they can and can't do, while issuing herself a "hallpass". Cuckolding activities could include using a cockcage on the male etc (like a certain member here uses) however that would not be much a part of someone in a hotwife relationship. If a hotwife relationship is just about one watching and/or joining in, then that could possibly refer to almost all swingers as most would probably have done similar activities at some point, and render the "hotwife" label quite redundant. The same play activity can theoretically occur in each scenario (hotwife or cuckold) but the description is about the relationship and intent between the male and female partner, not exactly what they get up to or not.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I wouldn't have a clue! That isn't much clearer. Haha My boyfriend goes out and dates other men on occasion. He has never dated another women while we have been together these last 5 years. I mean one on one meetings. We used to attend sex parties quite frequently and my BF has lots of friends in the scene so we would have group sex a lot. So I would watch him having sex with other women in those situations. Sometimes I would join in and sometimes I would just watch. One of my favorite sexual memories from those days is my BF and me and two other women. A MFFF. That was fun. Although I prefer the MMF bi situations the most. It's all a bit of fun. :) Cuckold? Isn't the female version a CuckQueen? Sorry, I haven't really researched all these terms.
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RHP User
9 years ago
That last sentence, agree there, spot on 👍
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