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How do you like to be approached?
June 29 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
I know I like a general hi how is it going, stating what you are clearly looking for and what you like. If you have no-face pics as my profile states there will be no response. Not an essay but not too short & sweet! Hopefully that helps! - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
8 years ago
Just because they say they want a couple doesn't mean they want you. You learn early on in the game that no reply is a reply in itself. Best of luck x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sounds a bit judgemental. I personally didn’t like the time waster Comment and the comment about not being after quickie fuck dates. You don’t have to word things in a negative way to get your point across. Women are difficult to find online by the sounds of it. My personal preference is to go to a swingers club/parties or social events to meet with like minded people myself.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Mine set to looking for a couple, but I’m moreso looking for single men. Keeping my options open. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We are in the same boat. And asked for some advice here but worded it wrong and was misinterpreted but what is done cannot be undone lol if you read our thread on shallowness tou will find some good tips from some who have giving us all similar tips which all add up. 😁 hope things turn around for you and for us one day lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
To me your profile is very demanding, a bit arrogant and you really need to lose the capitals. You just don't come across as friendly. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As much as possible we try to reflect who we are though our profile pics and words - given it is a limited medium with which to exchange information. Why drives me nuts is when we open our profile and we get the response oh you’re fitness freaks well we won’t be for you then... Again our pics reflect us and things we like to do, they don’t solely define us... for us we look for real people, with real thoughts and interest and opinions, we want a connection.. we care about getting to know you - so yes form an opinion based off our profile but that aside get to know us... That isn’t easy when people don’t respond I know... sending people messages is like fishing you never know what bait to use to get a nibble... We always give a bit of info about ourselves, ask something about them and then maybe mention something about their profile that caught your eye - give them a compliment and then just see how it unfolds... There’s no easy way we’ve found to start chatting... once a message is sent it’s in the other couples hands... Persevere and you’ll get there.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I see no dramas with it, straight up, direct and to the point.....at least you are upfront from the get go...
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blinks28
8 years ago
For us we tend to resonate with the following: A nice introductory message from the both of you stating what you both are looking for and clear photos of BOTH of you including face, would generally prompt a response regardless whether its yes or no. Anything beyond the above will be a quick delete.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
The end of the line is down.....there.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'megz85g' Mine set to looking for a couple, but I’m moreso looking for single men. Keeping my options open. - Posted from rhpmobile you can find me anytime....very sexy looking lady with beautiful eyes and would be lying if I said great boobs too
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RHP User
8 years ago
I say hi first then send a pic info on myself but not a lot of reply back - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi. And how are you this evening , I was wondering would you like to have a chat with me as I,m a single woman and don't have a lot to do with others on these forums , my photo is there for all to see , though I wont say a sexy one , just one of how I am dressed in Edwardian clothes of the 1900 -1914 times a little different as you,d expect yet still tastfully attired . Of cause you would be most welcome to ask of myself ?,s of interest about myself what interests I have and would like .I quess of cause youd have some expections that you may be interested in and I,d be quite happy to talk with you ether on this forum or in private as those concerns would then be quite sensitive for us, so if you find something that you like about myself then please do correspond with me at some time that suits you, yours sincerely ...noeleena… My approach to you in this letter is not a made up one I,m up front and very true to what I have to say about myself , I quess because I,m a mature woman I am no different in my normal life from day to day, and those who know me know what I,m like , plus as a few others from here know me and have met face to face, In Melbourne , I am who I say I am . So that being the case my letter to you express,s my true feelings you may of cause just pass this off as not worth any thing to you. and that's okay if...... on the other hand you find something of value and do correspond , That would be so Lovely,.....Thank you, ...noeleena...
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RHP User
8 years ago
I also like to be treated like a person... not just tits and ass - so treat others as you would like to be treated. Sometimes to the point works - depending on who you want to attract you have to have a profile and wording that appeals to a wide range of people and the message you send to people has to not feel cookie cutter copy and paste... nor a pornographic short story just as much a turn off.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Everyone is different there is never going to be a right way to approach people because we all respond to different things but as I said in my last message I think treat people like you would like to be.. so approach them as you would like to be approached - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The changes you've made are heaps better, good luck :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a single female, I have found the same frustration at times... Then I’m sure I must also be a culprit. I go hard looking for dates sometimes and can’t find what I’m looking for, or maybe I do. Then I go offline after I get my fill. Sometimes I’m chasing particular people who just are not checking msgs.. I think it’s a matter of timing as well as compatibility. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a single female, I have found the same frustration at times... Then I’m sure I must also be a culprit. I go hard looking for dates sometimes and can’t find what I’m looking for, or maybe I do. Then I go offline after I get my fill. Sometimes I’m chasing particular people who just are not checking msgs.. I think it’s a matter of timing as well as compatibility. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a single female, I have found the same frustration at times... Then I’m sure I must also be a culprit. I go hard looking for dates sometimes and can’t find what I’m looking for, or maybe I do. Then I go offline after I get my fill. Sometimes I’m chasing particular people who just are not checking msgs.. I think it’s a matter of timing as well as compatibility. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
In relation to how I like to be approached... to be honest, it doesn’t really matter. I know what I’m looking for. If You send me a msg, I will check you out. If I’m attracted, I will respond.. if not. I won’t. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I personally still like the normal hey nice profile, how are you, bla bla... Just a quick hi yep you seem interesting and go from there, as long as conversation evolves naturally and neither is pushing a particular direction. Especially dislike it when people try to convince you you want something else other than you know you want. Just be friendly, if you get a reply great, if not there's plenty of people around. Don't take it personally, move on and see where your luck takes you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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