How have you grown from your Rhp experience ?

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  DynamicCouple36

  9 years ago

  We have met a few really nice people through RHP. People who are not active in the forums at all. We have become good friends with them and enjoyed memorable times that have grown our experiences and outlook on life, in the wonderful Australia that we now call home - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  👍 If I may, first this will be a lengthy post. Please scroll by if you don't want to read it, all good. My experience started before rhp, those experiences were amazing and set the path, moulded me into the dirty cougar I am today 😜 So I woke up one day, actually walked out after an operation, still under the effects of an aesthetic, I knew something had changed, although still a bit 'groggy', I felt my body consumed with energy, felt like an entirely different person. My regular doctor later revealed he thought they'd put the paddles on me, that I'd died and they'd bought me back. I believe that's what happened. I had been a lazy person up until that point, not always but not great 😉 but I was bursting with energy and enthusiasm for life. I can't explain it but it came from within, it was not only physical, it was like a brain shift, my life changed from that moment. Following that, I got horny, VERY horny, I'll get to that in a sec. So was married, but not for long. The changes that came over me were extreme. I woke up the following morning extremely horny, and stayed that way, couldn't even sleep, all the while hitting exercise, had so much energy, it was crazy. I'd be laying there in the dark waiting for the sun to come up so I could put my shoes on, music in my ears, and hit the path, then I'd swim, and back to the path later in the day. A week later, I revealed the intensity of it to my then husband, what followed was life changing for both of us. I can't give too much detail about that period of time, but although our lives were starting to go in opposite directions, what I ultimately got was understanding, acceptance and respect. I needed relief, I can't describe what it felt like, but I started looking online, actually this forum was my early introduction, it was my classroom, picked up a few handy hints/tips on how to get action, and although I didn't join this site at the time, I did join another 2 sites prior to this one, I put those ideas into practice. After some hot fun at the nude beach, I proceeded to my very first online hookup. The guy was 27, smoking hot, hot car which he kept immaculate, he was so hot, I couldn't imagine why he'd want to be with me, I hopped in his car, looked across at him, and being naive or new to this, was nervous as hell, didn't even think he'd be attracted. We drove to find a spot to park, busy Sunday, people everywhere, couldn't find a private spot. I was getting more nervous, he sensed that and put his hand on my leg while he was driving. Omfg that was it, everything exploded in me, I was like a ripe piece of fruit ready to be picked, and he knew that. Eventually made good use of the tinted windows, people walking past, he fucked me senseless in the back seat, really dominant. Incredible sexual presence and energy, saw him on and off for a fair while after that, every encounter was just as intense, he made me weak at the knees. And from there, I quickly got with the program, met some amazing lovers and that first year was predominantly seeing 5 or 6 ongoing fb's with others in between, I was very active, and could write a book about that first year, and part of the following year. Then I started to lose a few of those earlier fb's and they are hard to replace. More so over time. I'm now in a very different place, not because I want to be, just because I have struggles in RL, very happy, unbelievably so, my life is perfect in many ways, but I'm not as free to do this as I once was. Still here and no matter what, I will continue to grab this part of my life by the balls 😛 however/whenever I can. On that note, I'd like to say a huge thank you to every guy I've been with, what a privilege, you made me feel alive again, desired, brought me back to life, put that fire in me. You're the best 😘

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Shit 😕 my best work yet 😂😂😂

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Speaking largely as a forumite... I've grown up a lot in my time here. Being here has been a huge learning curve mentally and I can safely say I know myself a lot better now and I feel much more comfortable in my skin as well as having more of a sense of people than I have allowed myself to recognise in the past. I'm feeling pretty good about things and quite settled in. This is my home away from home (facebook if we're talking social media) and I fit in, however awkwardly that might be. Peachy

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  In the two short years on Rhp. .. what have I discovered about myself ? I love the touch and feel of another woman I dont overly enjoy having random sex However watching others have random sex is awesome I have met the most amazing people, mainly through social events and have learnt how accepting and open RHP members are Thank you Cruising for a great topic 😎

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I've learned to value myself more, through both good and bad experiences. I've also pushed some boundaries and had some amazing adventures. Realised some fantasies and imagined up some even hotter ones. Felt like less of a weirdo amongst this bunch of crazies that's for sure!

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I have learned a lot from RHP in the 2ish years Ive been on here. Opened my eyes and my mind to what is out there and where I fit in. Sadly my everyday life has been complicated with a major illness at the same time as a nasty separation that knocked me for well more than six. Its only now that my head is getting around to understanding what I need to do and go. Ive still a lot to learn. I come here for lots of things. Searching the forum for answers. Ive chatted to a few people in that time but am yet to meet anyone. There is some frustration there but I also realise that it will take time for me to grow confident enough to make the proper connections with people. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Thank you all for your valuable feedback. Itm2 I can relate with you about having looked death in the eye. Long story but the jist of it was myself falling out of a old VW Beattle as a teenager in morning peak hours traffic going through a roundabout at Parramatta in Sydney. Then being run over by the same car. Not breaking one bone or having a scratch.Apart from a sore shin.Gives you an appreciation of every new day.lol Also relate with you Peachy as i find the forums thoughtful, enlightening, funny and most of the time sarcastic but always thought provoking.And certainly unable to post pics or say the shit that gets dropped here on the pie opposed to Facebook. 😉😂 I enjoy the cheeky banter with fellow forumites yet most of the time just stirring the broth. 😉 Greene I have definitely met some great people both here on the forum's and in RL, but plenty of crazy like minded people indeed here. Timefortea your not alone mate and been through it myself.It does get easier in time and also takes time to get to know people here within the pie. Just remember any day you wake up or don't fall out of a moving car is better then a wet and rainy day with no likes,views or messages. 😊😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I've grown wary, people have been known to switch from friendly to openly hostile quite rapidly.This makes me weary.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  😂😂😂 Definitely agree you only have to upset someone who got out of bed on the right side. Usually you find a pattern in someone's behavior that triggers there reaction. Have also become more wise in who i meet and talk to. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I thought I was a reasonable person, with a good mix of qualities that make me a good father, attentive lover and a good citizen who contributes to the society he lives in. I was wrong. Contributing to the forums I've discovered i'm a bitter, entitled, condescending patriarchal misogynist with an enormous chip on my shoulder with a penchant for carrying grudges and persecuting them. So I'll be taking a step or two back while I go to therapy and leave you to squabble amongst yourselves.Later.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I'll only charge you $50 a post if you need to sit down on the couch and talk to someone ? 😉😉 So how does it make you feel ??? (joking) Seriously now. If other's make you feel bitter, condescending or unworthy here within the forum's then you may need to rethink who you talk to, or how you reply mate. ? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Got out of bed on the right side? You must sleep on the left!

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Whilst I have grown I'm not sure I'll ever grow up completely lol. But seriously my journey here has seen me grow, be accepted here in the forums, into the homes, lives and pants of others. Finding things I like, and dislike, some of which I had never thought I would. As such I'm now more open to different experiences, people, gender, location, age, etc. The right connection, place, time and circumstances, you could have me at "Hello" ;-) But, connection is the key 🔑

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I don't feel any of it, but it's how I'm perceived apparently. Not my problem. I'm just over the continual avalanche of negativity.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Grrrr yes I did notice the typo afterwards.😔 well spotted. I'm a lefty or more of a mollyducah. but I'm able to do thing's both left and right handed altering. Absolutely agree with you Mister Playful that becoming more open minded,tolerant and intune with your likes/dislikes here on rhp and in RL sets a building platform for bigger and better thing's to enter your life. Welcome to the forum's mate. Wish you all best. 😉😎 I'll be watching your post like a hawk for any spelling fuck ups my friend. pmsl 🎾🎾🎾😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Can understand mate and your not the only one here within the forums to be judged or attacked or the last. I'm probably the biggest shit stirrer of some here. But trying to behave.😉 hence why I give as much as i take.. I don't care what a few people say or think about me as i can't change that. Best advice I can give you or anyone is to stay true to yourself. Look for the good in someone and ignore the knockers and backstabbers. We are all unique in our own way. Doesn't give the right for anyone to abuse or attack someone. Unfortunately not all people here are capable of containing themselves. I much prefer to be positive and build other's up or give positive feedback when possible as nothing is gained by belittling someone to make yourself feel superior... Hope you stick around sail. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Don't worry, keep one eye open and you'll find plenty.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  To develop a thick skin mostly, as I've found the swinging community as a whole (in my case at least) to be a lot more judgemental than my regular vanilla friends. That the mrs is more a fan of having fun with the ladies and couples than other men (and isn't a big fan of MFM shenanigans). That group play is more fun the more people involved. That an open relationship is looked down upon by many in the community (for the male anyhow, somehow this rarely extends to the female lol). And that chicken is always my friend.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Man you must have massive thick skin Brotha!!! You are still hanging out with ya mate the SWINGA😤😝. I will try to make it to your party. I will bring a date with me. A sticky date pudding. Tell me who not not let someone in the party if they brought a saucey sticky date pudding

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