M74
How important is an erection?
January 10 2020
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’m sorry for you , I’m not woman and I can’t judge , but for what woman are looking here , is basically for sex , someone sometimes look for little bit mental interest and not only dick, but this don’t means the dick is not important, they basically need both for get orgasm. I can say you honestly, between fake profile , between woman what not really keen to make true theyre fantasy , is already hard for young functional man. I’m nothing special , but not bad as well, I’m fit , well endowed , and in the end I found only few woman’s couple a year with lot of effort as well. I think for you is better found elsewhere , if you have that kind of problem, should need someone love you and that problem will be not that important maybe
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RHP User
6 years ago
Welcome back ole boy, good to see you’re doing better.... Mr Dragon
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bonefide
6 years ago
Good to see u back, young fellow all the best for 2020.
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madotara69
6 years ago
Awesome news. I’ve chatted with Tara on this. If you couldn’t reach erection and it was because Tara or us did something to put you off then it’d be a bit of a worry. Otherwise, yeah no, it wouldn’t matter as long as we’re enjoying ourselves, be you included. Fairdinkum Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
6 years ago
G'day lovman, glad to see you back. And well done beating that cancer. Now the thing is. these young blokes think they have the franchise on sex and anyone over 50 should piss off and leave the 'field. Fuck that. I turn 70 in March and I'm still just as interested in playing as ever. Just because were getting older doesn't mean life stops at a given age. For any shortcomings (pun intended) we have talented fingers, tongue and imagination to make up for it. a dick is just a dick. There like Mercedes, everyone's got one. I am not going to be the old man I'm going to be 21 and some months. So don't you disappear from here. We look forward to your input and reports of successfull meets. G
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
It’s great you are open I’m glad your recovery is going well. Some women are looking for sex and want penetration. For them it will be important. For others they may feel fine with being pleasured in other ways. As long as you are being open and honest that’s the main thing. Then it allows others to make an informed choice and you can proceed from there or not . All the best .
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hey there lovman. Thanks for having the courage to put this out there and be so honest with your current situation. Really interesting topic and I will follow this to see what people think. I took the time to read your profile and you sound like a very interesting person with a lot of experience in the game of life. Good luck to you sir.
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wildcrazyloving
6 years ago
There are people out there whom enjoy intimacy without penetration. Eg some women with endometriosis can find sex painful, though they can enjoy oral sex. If your comfortable adding this personal info to your profile, it may assist in attracting suitable playmates. Extending on your sexual interests and highlighting that you still get aroused despite the erectile issue, may offer reassurance to those whom are concerned about how they could aid in satisfying you. I have met a few people at work who have erectile issues due to the removal of the prostate. The internal penile pump is effective for those who may be considering it. A wonder if there is a thread on people seeking playdates without penetration.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Or I didn’t explain good or someone didn’t understand me, my English is not my first language and maybe I did explain me good, I want clarify my post . I didn’t means offend him or anyone over 50 , like only the young one can have sex , is not what I said or means. I just wanted give my point of view about this website, I wanted to say even attractive perfect single still will struggle to found something here , the real woman and couple what are looking for a single are only few , but single are many. Basically any time I meet someone , It will be just matter of luck , means found the right person looking for you at right time. The people here what are going really to meet other people usually is for sex , having problem on erection is just one more excuse to not get selected. I means or too young , or too old , too fat, too skinny , too short , not enough well endowed , don’t like how you looks , basically in normal condition the opportunity are very low , this is not about my self , but I what I heard from many other single as well, basically I already give up , I will not renew anymore the membership , is just a waste of time.
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RHP User
6 years ago
When I was not paid member I got few nice meet, with a couple we could meet more often if was not for the distance. Because of that I choose to try paid membership, when you are paid member is worth to put more effort , but in the end didn’t change anything, statistically I get 4 dates a year. I’m not top model but in the end I’m not bad as well, and I’m not looking for top models , I’m here for looking for fun, not for wife or girlfriend, I’m looking to make real some kinky fantasy , something what in everyday life I will be too shy to chase. Basically I’m ok with any age , size , I don’t pretend anything , and still Is very hard to get anything from here . Basically my point of views for lovman8 , was my honestly view and I didn’t want be arrogant or anything else, I just wanted share my honestly point of view, in the end I means is not worth the effort for most of single, I see outside here I cannot get the kind experience I’m looking for , but I can found easily with less effort than here. In his situation , Basically I already give up, in his situation I will give up to this website and looking elsewhere , where maybe don’t found the same kinky person what can found here, or need more time for bring out of them, but at least can found people what will make you feel happy and that problem will be not a problem, if you found a woman what like you, she will be happy already for Your presence , and will found the way to pleasure each other.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I forget to mention at least for Victoria, other state , I don’t know, but about Victoria is most of time just a waste of time , is really only few the woman and couple looking for a single . And the worst is lot what will make you feel interested, but they are just fake profile and many of them even easy to understand.
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
Welcome back mate ,glad you have given cancer the heave hoe As per your question , you may or may not know last feb I snapped my dick and required serious emergency surgery ,not the best day of my life trust me ,lol ,we had to have that chat about what if it never works again ,😪😳and was not allowed to use it on mrs b or anyone else for that matter for the minimum 6 weeks ,let’s say it was a long six weeks ,but I must say to you ,there was plenty of sex my libido was roaring just to fuck with me whether it was mrs b grinding my thigh or me using my genius toungue (private joke lol) I managed to help her orgasm plenty of times Also May have helped me going a little bit over compensatery and buying a treasure trove of new big dildos and vibratory objects ,we had a great couple of months with no penetration by me ,so in short I’d say find the right women who wants to spend some one who wants naughty time with you and you will find a way together ,as above plenty of women out there with endo or internal problems could find you a blessing ,it’s not always what you do it’s how you do it ,best of luck for the future ,your a survivor and a winner regardless , Ps wish me luck I’m back for surgery to fix up a screw up they made and get to do the surgery and six weeks all over again but admit they did a great job under damage control and I have plenty to work with thanks to them on the day Mr b
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RHP User
6 years ago
Thank you all for your reassurance and welcome. I was a little nervous about how the topic would be received. And while it wasn't that impressive I woke up with best hard on I've had in over 3 years
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usrightnow_Again
6 years ago
Hi lovman, we're so glad to see you back posting again. Sounds like you've been through the wringer since we last saw you as a forum semi-regular. Terrific too that you woke with a bit of a surprise package this morning. . As others have said, it may be a case of finding the right woman, who, as EQ. and Mr. b (best of luck with next op), have pointed out, may be relieved to find someone on the same page. Perhaps note that in your profile, always try to own and use your deficits to your advantage, as it will sometimes allow people to perceive a situation in a new light. . As I think I've mentioned in the past, men do tend to ascribe at least a degree of their masculinity to their penis. Likewise, some women will see something like an erection, as fundamentally important, that's okay, they will find what they need elsewhere. As I said, focus on what you bring to the table, if a table is part of your repertoire 😃. You've always been very candid with all this stuff, that won't be lost on some. Best of wishes from us. . Mr. & Mrs. urn. .
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Good to see you back in the foray. Never ever give up. Life and all its desires are worth the struggle. Hope your search ices your cake again. Good luck x
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LoveBiBoysNGirls
6 years ago
Have you researched using a hollow strap-on dildo? There are a lot of men out there who have this issue or something in a similar vein. I even think they have one that vibrates inside and outside as well? But I may be wrong... Here's a link to a few on an Aussie site. https://www.wildsecrets.com.au/search?search=Hollow%20strap%20on&gclid=EAIaIQobChMInbGQtpb75gIV1B2PCh2wvgZHEAAYASABEgJyz_D_BwE&aid=2852 Good luck! 😊
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RHP User
6 years ago
firstly …… glad to read you are cancer free. I’m response to the question, be honest and up front with potential partners. penetration is just one part of a fun evening. There are so many other things that can make an evening lots and lots of fun
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nightingale8
6 years ago
No, not a dealbreaker to a first meet. But not to sugar coat it it just means expectations may be higher in other areas - how good you’re with oral, your hands, with toys, your capacity for good conversation, making her feel confident/sexy/attended to/important. State what you can offer unapologetically with confidence and the right people will respond. For me personally, once I start to take on a caring or sympathetic role for example where the other feels the need to apologise for himself it’s a quick turn off. Not saying you’re doing this OP but just in case it ever comes up. I think many women are less concerned about a hard dick and more concerned about being made to feel sexy and special.
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Tall74nHard9
6 years ago
Sorry for the late response. I haven't been watching the Forums since about last August - they just were becoming increasingly banal around that time, and just couldn't be bothered any more. Hope you're still on track and going from strength to strength. RedHot has been checking around to see if you've been on line, and has missed you. If you can, please contact her (same contacts as before) - she would love to hear from you and see how you're getting on. Best wishes from the 2 of us. Tall
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