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How many
August 03 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is my current number, that I'm really happy with! Regular playmates that know my buttons....and although I'm not adverse to meeting new people, I don't ave any desire to go outside my current group of FWB's
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RHP User
10 years ago
It ebbs and flows. Three was a nightmare, one steady and the occasional casual for special needs works well. 😇
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RHP User
10 years ago
Two male lovers and a couple. I would definitely tell them about the others, I'm all about open disclosure. I wouldn't mention names or what I'm doing with whom when though, unless I had permission from the person and the others asked from a place of interest.
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RHP User
10 years ago
1 steady and 2 back up sounds nice! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Do you want?..surely it's up to you and your lovers ' availability...I just assume a fb or fwb is not exclusive but I have no desire to hear about the other lovers in their life..incurious me xxFreya
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Be up front and agree? Some want to know who and how many? Some don't? Some might like every detail? Easier to discuss early on with your fb or fwb rather than later on when they discover you have a different fb for every night of the week. Awkward......
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NawtyNNice777
10 years ago
couldn't have said it better myself Meander 👍🏻 Freya it's not a specific number I'm after. I'm happy with my current number. For me quality trumps quantity 😊 NN xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Only one atm. And I wouldn't put a label on her, as sex is only a small part of the friendship - most of the time we just hang out after work then head our separate ways. Neither of us see ourselves as compatible within a relationship - we are too mental. Cannot handle more than 2 regulars. It all sort of implodes for me, my organisational levels are pretty disastrous outside of work. I'm the kind of guy to leave the house without one of my socks on.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Open disclosure. There are no double standards, I expect any fb/fwb to be seeing other people as well, if they do or wish to. I don't see the upper limits the OP suggested as even feasible, as we only have so much free time on our hands after work etc! Unless we wanted to see each person maybe twice a year! At this stage in my life, I'm happy to spend time with any one or two or three etc people who are happy enough to spend time with me. It is also somewhat making up for the many years with no-one in any capacity. Some fb/fwb will have different interests, and may have different roles in your life. One may be straight and prefer only one-on-one, one person may be bi, one may be looking to pursue different shared fantasies, another might be open to being a companion to swingers events/groups etc. Just in my opinion, it is highly doubtful to find just the one person for you who has such a wide range of interests (as I alone probably won't satisfy all their interests), so as long as everyone is up front about their other activities with other people, there's no harm done.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is good enough for me. Trying to find time to fit in a few regulars would be impossible. And I like the one on one closeness Whoever else he saw would be none of my business.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
8. One for each day of the week and a spare.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I guess it depends on how much free time you have, and how often you see a person for it to be considered a FWB arrangement. I have one regular, and at times when our calendars don't meet up, I occasionally have wished I could sub-in some reserves. I never do anything about it though. So I guess my right amount would be 1 regular FWB, with one or two reserves / FBs. Too many might be when people start feeling jilted? Or you forget peoples name, or have two people turn up at the same time (though....). And yeah, current FWB knows about other dalliances, and likewise I know who he is seeing. Same with previous one, but one before that no (broad strokes only). So depends on the connection.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Too many is more than you can cope with and still be able to feel a sense of balance in your life - not enough is less than that. So, whatever works for you is just right.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Myself, I've got a lot of things that I want to explore. and there's no way one or two people could fulfil all those things, I don't think. I seem to have a rather healthy sex drive, which is normal for my age and I have no intentions of settling down into a relationship anytime soon, si I guess the more the merrier, to a point. If I ever have too many that would be a great problem to have :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Enough to keep you smiling whenever you drift off into daydreams during spare moments of memories, I say. As for an actual number? Its a tricky combination of quality and quantity....both change over time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
A. Some one you are currently seeing relatively often.... B. Some one you see a few times a year..... A. I do not do B. I have many friends
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ideal would be three :) Unfortunately right now I don't even have the time for one :/ As far as disclosure goes, if they asked I'd tell them about the others, but I have zero interest in whether they're seeing someone else or not. The assumption is that they are, I just don't need the details thanks.
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RHP User
10 years ago
And im happy. i had 4 regulars at one point and i was just tired all the time and never got any housework done haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I need two girls for the morning, lunch time can be just a hand job so I can do that, then dinner with a nice couple would be fun😎😎
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RHP User
10 years ago
more than we currently have would be nice..anythings better than 0.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Would love to wake between my sexy Treeman and an eager helper, both hard for me to tease and enjoy all morning.... Mmm followed by a little food play, with me being the main 😉.... Not entirely greedy, happy to share with a sexy couple for afternoon tea n appetite pending, my 2 sexy hot cocks back for late dinner n dessert.... Oh n maybe a little night cap....😝 Burrrrrp*... Ooh pardon me.... Greedy guts TG:)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've evolved through this, there was a time where I'd think I was having a dry spell it I went 2 nights without sex and although nothing has changed with my sex drive, I could fuck all day and still want more, I've become more particular about the detail, the filtering, sick of the bullshit/misrepresenting bs, which I think is just a natural progression and a learning curve. I once had as many as 6 regulars but it worked because they each came back into my life sporadically which was exciting, like the first time all over again, and a few of those will remain my best, one is still floating, about 8 months later (different website for most of the above) which is incredible. But I'm finding now if I'm really into one guy or really have the hots for him, I don't feel the need to fuck lots of other guys, it's really weird, so kind of get a bit lazy responding to other guys I'd normally be going weak at the knees over. But the gems are hard to find, the real gems I mean, and when I do hit the jackpot, If I could find another 5 or 6 like that, I'd take them all, different times or together, there'd be no cap on numbers, within reason, well you know what I mean......hmm
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RHP User
10 years ago
One is enough for me, however more than I currently have. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I need to find two bi female fwb's. That way I can *accidentally* double-book them at the same time, same place
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