M39
How much is too much..
July 16 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you don’t remember their names do they count? Nothing is 100% safe.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It’s nobodys business but mine. Nobodys
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Rlee552
7 years ago
Rather than count how many
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RHP User
7 years ago
When they said too much is still not enough.
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Or as few as you are comfortable with. Some have been there and bonked their way through a fabulous list of partners, some have been happy with a few. I've been in the first column, these days I am happily ensconced in the second. A few good men - and women - is all I desire these days. 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
Said it before Saying it again Somebody’s *number* is no reflection on their abilities or merits as a lover Example.... High school virgin taking sweethearts may be better lovers than the two who have a score into the hundreds, because they’ve grown together and fully understand each others sexual, sensual, intimate and emotional requirements I say..... if someone feels that they have to dwell on a number.....yours or theirs.... you’ve missed the point of learning from those experiences.... whether 1 or 10000000 DG
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RHP User
7 years ago
Seems the best protection for some or maybe most is to feign ignorance and forget a name and while I’m good with faces I’m terrible with names 😔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Everyone’s voice when they say it’s no ones business but their own and this shouldn’t even need to be discussed as a number doesn’t define.. I’m asking for me simply because I’m honest and when i reveal to my sexual partners how many couples and singles I’m playing with it’s a little daunting for some of them. I guess I should’ve redefined the topic so targets reactions from surprised lovers when asked if I play with other people and how many. I don’t know how to not be honest 😅 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If asked I reply “yes I’m playing with others, and as for how many, it’s not important....if it is to you I respect that but you have a decision to make....is it a deal breaker or not? “ People that concern themselves with numbers in my view because they want to be the ONLY one you’re playing with....and I come to this perspective because if it were to do with safe sex issues then they only need to know that they are not your only partner....the number is immaterial and has no significant role in exposure to risk assuming that safe sex practices are being practiced.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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nightingale8
7 years ago
In the swinging world? Duration, orgasm, penetration, oral? Ok this question counts regardless of whether or not you've attended a party (dont bite me!) but it does blur the lines. I only consider myself to have dipped my toes and I don't think I could answer the question with any accuracy 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sometimes the best honesty is a still tongue and a wise head Whatever your number, you will be judged by some. It’s about knowing your audience, being wise and knowing that there is such a thing as oversharing.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I feel as though all of the above stated would count IF you’re seeing your playmates and couples on the regular. Perhaps not during parties as they are currently few and far between for myself for attendance and usually they’re one off plays. I mean more toward current sexual partners I’m seeing atm. You all have some amazing points being made here, I try to dip, dodge, duck, drop and dodge the question when it’s asked face to face yet I always fail, something to work on I guess! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's the question that's the question. Yesterday? At the moment? Last year? In my lifetime? 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
When you’re at a party you can have sexual contact without having full sex with 10 people or more in a night. Do you consider them to be sexual partners? I agree that for people that don’t swing the number of partners or things that swingers get up to can be daunting. I remember the first gang bang girl I met who told me her record was 30 men in three hrs. I was a newbie back then and I nearly fell off my chair. Some people have had more sex partners in one weekend than I have had in my whole life (nearly :p ). Well I learnt pretty quick... also her boyfriend gave me the clap so that was fun. 😟 I was living and learning!!
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Katkat
7 years ago
Till you meet the right person, then when you meet the right person u/her/him fuck up u continue again it just goes on and on it’s just a cycle thing like a wheel. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Auflauer! It’s always 7. Sometimes multiples of seven but 🤷♂️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Touche my friend, touche - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi . Gee quess I,m on too small a boat that holds with out to much movement myself and at a time one. and at port they allways leave maybe 4 port calls in 2 1/2 years and now no port calls no one there , quess I,ll be waiting a long time for the next one , oh of cause its winter and the boat is in dry dock , maybe im too slow maybe just don't have what they expect, so numbers mean nothing to me so much for a long sexy life, let alone much at all.. ...noeleena...
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RHP User
7 years ago
And it's not my business how many people someone has slept with, nor is it anyone else's business how many partners I have had.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Then its not high enough. I lost count a long time ago.
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