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If you could

April 24 2015

Change one thing about yourself what would it be?...what is the trait you most deplore in others?

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  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    people who are up themselves. Who treat you like second class people or unworthy of their presence. And for me............I would change the need to be something that others think I should be. I just need to be me again, somehow.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Change: Acceptance of the system, would have made life a little easier Dislike: Lack of courtesy and thoughtlessness

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A lack of compassion for others/intolerance. In myself: Speaking before thinking through how my words may come across.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I most deplore rudeness in others, rude to waiters, rude to spouses rude to anyone .....I think it shows ignorance, lack of empathy and a high sense of entitlement all of which I repel from! I would change my impulsive nature ....I would like to be more of a calm think it over type person ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LifeUnscripted

    LifeUnscripted

    11 years ago

    Change about me? I wish I was a little more ambitious. I am quite happy cruising along where I am, if I was more ambitious I would probably be supporting my family a bit better than I am...paychecks would probably stretch better. Deplore in others? Lack of empathy and imagination. I think if people genuinely understood and imagined what it would like to be other people living other lives, the world would be a far different place. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    change about myself: I have already made a lot of changes but I wish I could change the way I treated women in my 20's Trait I don't like in others: Grandiosity

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I could be less critical of myself and not give myself such a hard time when I make mistakes. Deplore in others? People you use their abilities or power to put people down rather than build them up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    about myself: I'm in a pretty good place these days but could do with a little boost in self confidence when it comes to being in large crowds or going to functions on my own. Dislike in others: dishonesty and manipulative behavior LG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My negative is that I probably enjoy the company of just one other person. I tend to lose interest in a larger group, chit chat is good but nothing like a great one on one conversation. Can do both just prefer one more than the other.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    To Any_Whichway's answer.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I would like to change my fear of falling in love. Elle xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I would like to change the fact that I have rheumatoid arthritis. And I hate ignorance in people. Pusscat xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'd change my introvert personality to cope better in the extrovert world we live in. I'd be better equipped to handle situations like large crowds, speaking up instead of remaining quiet, second guessing myself, etc. In others- narcissism (the psychological definition.)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If I could change anything about myself, it would be the little voice in my head that keeps undermining me. That doesn't believe in me. That keeps telling me I'm not enough. About others? Intolerance. I can't stand it, somewhat ironically.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Would be nail biting. I don't even know I'm doing it until there's blood.... Deplorable..... Drama kings and queens do my head in....everything can be sorted if you just calm down and talk about it!

  • JDM76

    JDM76

    11 years ago

    In me i guess i would like to be a bit more resilient when it comes to setbacks , For others , i agree with Leo_Girl manipulative behaviour .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Change my ability write

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'TisonlyI' Change: Acceptance of the system, would have made life a little easier soooo agree... I would love to be able to turn a blind eye to stupidity, irrationalism, science-denial and overall lack of brain..I cannot ..that makes life somewhat cumbersome..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    in myself - self-confidence. I went to a sports psychologist, it possibly helped a little, but I think more self-confidence would have made a much bigger difference when I was younger - confidence to make certain plays, or to just pick up and go overseas, etc. in others - lack of logical reasoning

  • Way2go70

    Way2go70

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Elle67' I would like to change my fear of falling in love. Elle xx That is my single biggest fear too. and for love, surrender, honesty, trust, devotion, vulnerability, warmth, selflessness..... and then hurt, devastation, despair, loss, destruction, cold, anger..... I wish I didn't feel so much but then I wouldn't want to be anything but that either...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    And self righteousness. These qualities usually mean that those with them are completely impervious to the hurt and damage they cause in others. It's either complete insensitivity or 'don't care' attitude. I'm so very far from perfect but I think I have a pretty good level of self awareness and know when I have thoughts that may hurt other people (so I shut them down.. The thoughts.. That is).. I don't like to hurt people who don't deserve it. On the other hand.. If they do deserve it.. I let it rip. - Posted from rhpmobile