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I'm so over it!
February 09 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
The template, bet there will be loads of ladies cutting and pasting that one... Just read the profile guys!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Awesome reply!,!, - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I perused your profile as a result of your post, and there is nothing that I could see as of 08/02/16 that suggests that married/attached men should NOT contact you. Your stated criteria does not necessarily exclude such interested fellows at all (unless simply being married/attached AUTOMATICALLY makes them lying,non-spontaneous, dud roots from out of your local area). A simple "thank you but single guys only please" would suffice to give your post a bit more credibility? Obi1
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RHP User
10 years ago
You call a spade a spade lol. Although I probably would have been more rude were I in your position.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey Bay...... I get that you're frustrated by people not reading your profile. I also get that sending that reply might make you feel better. But if they're not reading and understanding your profile.... deliberate speculators I'd call them.... then they're not going to care about reading AV template reply. You'll probably even inspire a few abusive messages from the bitter and twisted egos as a result. In all aspects of life we exercise our preferences, which aren't always met. I think you're probably better served to just enjoy this vent, and accept that there will always be speculators who can very easily be blocked. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
State in your profile,"No married men please, if you send a message I wont be replying" then you can just ignore the messages
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RHP User
10 years ago
State clearly what you don't want from any potential partners, in your profile, or anything else that is a issue, right up front as I have done. Haven't had to deal with this issue at all. I'm loving Summer's response.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'willowtree_2' State in your profile,"No married men please, if you send a message I wont be replying" then you can just ignore the messages Exactly. Sorry but if you don't state it on your profile then they're within their rights to try their luck. If you want to be rude and obnoxious in your response you're completely within your rights to as well. By the way, I'm married and in an open relationship and I can go for a meal or a drink with my friends. I think a lot of people in these forums need to open their minds a little and stop with all the constant shit on married men. Never know,,,,you may even marry one yourself one day. If you don't want anything to do with them, explicitly say so in your profile. This used to be a "swingers" site, so many here have sex outside the conventional single unattached man/single unattached woman scenario. Doesn't mean they're missing a connection, maybe they just aren't as narrow minded as others perhaps?
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cleopatrababe
10 years ago
Ive found being polite and thank you but ill decline isnt enough....they really push it ..i have no jnterest in married or attached men ...please move on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My friends suggest it all the time, as do some of the women on here lol. By opening their minds a little I wasn't suggesting she needs to sleep with married men. But the manner in which she describes all married men as liars and bullshitters if we sleep with FWB's overnight means perhaps she sees things through a different perspective. And sorry, but if every second post is gonna be from a single woman complaining about married men then I'll respond with my opinion, as I'm a married man. Sorry it doesn't conform to the way of thinking of the single women who frequent these forums but it doesn't make it a less valid opinion. You'll also note my orientation says straight...so if a guy tries to contact me it'll usually go into the others folder I'd be guessing. Which is easily ignored. This is a swingers site as well as a dating site. The OP doesn't have the unattached option ticked in her profile and has her participation level as open for anything...then complains when attached men send her messages? Then wants to send back a bitter message for recieving said messages when there is nothing in her profile whatsoever to dissuade those of us in an open reationship, or married men on the sly even. If guys were messaging me for my cock they'd be disappointed but I'd at least be a little flattered.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just can not relate. I have never been in the land of milk and honey to know the OP's particular brand of frustration. But then I do wonder, if there is so much demand why the frustration? Who cares if the inbox is full to overflowing I would not even bother opening and reading any of the unsolicited approaches, I would be too busy enjoying all the authentic people. Oh well back to staring at my inbox, I am about due for a RHP promo message, I like to let it sit there for a bit while I pretend someone is interested. Oh hum.... :(
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Like everything else, there is always a loophole in attracting the unwanted, regardless of what you try to do to stop them. I have clearly and firmly stated in my profile that no attached/married men to contact me, which the majority of them don't, but I still get flirt messages from those bad eggs (as in disrespecting my preference) from time to time. Hence, there is nothing I can do at all to stop that, except to ignore and block them straightaway 😛 Well, they get what they ask for and I'm only exercising my right, for peace 😛 To answer your question regarding your templated response, I respect that it is your right to reply in however way you feel good about or see fit. However, I would not reply in the same wording and tone IF I were you because, the content of the message gives strong frustration and angry vibe of the sender, which would not "kill" the recipient's ignorance, but your class as well as lowering yourself to their level instead! That's my 2c and I wish you a smoother journey on RHP in the near future :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Guys who continue to "push it" despite a polite "no thank you" are always the married ones. It is a proven RHP fact. The single men on the other hand, are always so nice, non pushy, and understanding. Just ask anyone on here. PS: As a result, I'm not interested in married/attached men either. Obi1
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RHP User
10 years ago
Op l get your question about guys pretending to be something there not and if only everyone was honest with themselves and all the on here, everyone would be better off, if only rhp was a hassle free zone. I'm curious about the "Can't go for a meal. Can't go for a drink in between fucking. Or if we are exhausted from 6 hours of oral and we crash, you don't have to account, lie or bullshit anyone as a result." Being a parent l don't have the freedom or free time to up and go anywhere any time sort of thing. So l wonder is there a perception for dads perhaps, are dads not seen as unattached. Is there some sort of measure for how much available time someone has that's a factor, does single mean no attachment to another adult or is there more to it. I ask because l don't feel l'm seen as truly a single person because l can't just up and go. To go for a drink or a meal would be great, to be exhausted after hours of oral would be awesome but that would take messages l write after reading someone's to get read rather sit unopened in my sent box. The reality is l find myself sitting next to Blindman, we may be on different chairs but were on the same table. Cheers Adam
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know I'm married but.... Cap'n No Beard isn't! Lol!
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
You are cranky. Totally get that. But you don't ask them NOT to contact you. So they will. Simple really and there is an easy fix; just add a line which states you do not see attached/married men, so please do not contact me. Imagine how they feel if they receive a tirade from a female for having the audacity to contact them. Makes women look a little foolish really.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why is it I constantly have to deal with all these loose lips married woman hounding and hoping to get into my Versace undies. Im tired of telling them all the time but it's like water off a ducks back. Yes ' maybe there is nothing in my profile stating the obvious, but they should know better anyhow and read between the lines. You would think ' NO MARRIED WOMEN. ' would do the trick but noooooo. All they want is to use my body then gloat to their girlfriends how easy I was. Seriously ' It's so damn hard being a spunky hunky being used as a piece of meat Tsk tsk. ( yestonguefirmlyincheek )
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RHP User
10 years ago
Looking at Baysic's profile, this stood out to me as pretty much saying "no cheaters": 'Not into deadshits who do drugs/dishonesty/and don't give a shit about anyone else (or themselves)' Or maybe I'm reading too far between the lines. Subtlety isn't my strong suit :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ladys....just lap it up and be happy there is somebody interested in you. .. it could be a shit load worse... you could be a man and be the one having to sort through the thousands of profiles that say they are looking for man woman couples etc but later go on to say theyre only looking for chics. Or the profiles where some woman is being so overly picky (because lets face it.. yous can afford to be) and ridiculous. Or the profiles with no photos but the woman is saying that if you don't have a photo dont bother. Or you could send hundreds of messages and get absolutely no response. This is a sex site not a kindergarten so youre gonna get men trying everything they possibly can to get some pussy...I know coz im one of them. Your problem is first world. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
State your criteria. Yes, even when you do that, there will be those who will completely disregard it anyway. Whilst I can definitely understand your frustration, I've managed in almost 7 years in this joint not to lose my shit or my manners at anyone who sends me a message, yet isn't a 'fit' for me. I'm inclined to agree with Mr3. There are many combinations of sexual orientations and preferences on this site and as someone in an open relationship, I get my back up occasionally when broad, sweeping generalizations get made, the likes of what you chose to unleash on the married man in your message. If you've met one man in a relationship, you really have met one man in a relationship. I think it is a little unfair to tar them all with the same brush. If you are clear about your boundaries, you gain the automatic right to dismiss that which doesn't float your boat. Flirty x - Posted from rhpmobile
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N4November
10 years ago
Yes, I need to update my profile. I suppose what I'm trying to communicate is how futile it is to contact women when you are cheating. Unless you can hit me hard with the lust-fuck-me-now stick, the chances of getting laid is next to none. Maybe my rant could be interpreted as a public service announcement hahaha! Swinging is great and marital status - or your name for that matter - isn't usually discussed. And that's cool. Time and place thing! Anyway, thank you for indulging me being ungrateful in the life of "milk & honey" I (allegedly) have in rhp land lol. My bad. Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's been a long time since the threads were current but I'd be surprised if attitudes have changed too much so I'll use them an example to dispute your point about the demand for cheats on the site..The last threads I saw that asked for a simple yes or no answer... came in at close to 50/50 about whether people would be interested in attached people whose partners didn't know about what they were up to..Just saying, Peachy. :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
We'd say thank you for the message, never offered a reason for refusal aside from the simple explanation that they weren't who we were looking for. We thought the 'who' made it more personal than saying 'what', they are people after all. And then we'd sign off and and wish them well. It worked well. :-).Enjoy... there are quite a few ways to control your profile that you might like to have a look at in your settings. Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks Bay, now I suffer performance anxiety after reading your suggested (expected ???) 6 hours of oral. I'm sure I'd leave you alone after that...... Lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's your right to pick and choose as it is for all of us. I just find it strange that on a site such as this its expected that only men who fit a certain criteria should apply. ? I agree, it would be nice but at the same time naive to think we'll get only what we want. Someone mentioned guys will say and do anything to get some pussy. I'd say some would but not the majority . I think most guys prefer the company of females with something in common. l learnt a long time ago that sticking steadfast to criteria's may get you the prize you're after, but also means you miss out on some mighty hot people along the way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'amos444' I just find it strange that on a site such as this its expected that only men who fit a certain criteria should apply. ? Yet another man who thinks that because women are on a site ''such as this'', that means we should be willing to open our legs for anyone. Well, off course, we're really just free whores aren't we? How can we expect to turn any man away or have any preferences for who we meet and fuck....hell we should be grateful for all the attention we get on here that feeds our over-inflated egos! We're obviously asking for it, putting ourselves all out there on a site like this. The madonna / whore dichotomous view of women....still alive and well.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seriously Luck Dragon. You plucked out that one sentence and built your whole rant around it. ? Forget the rest of what I wrote. It's true, just as I have the perfect match sketched in my mind does not automatically insure that's what I get. On here it's a numbers game . I'd be very surprised if you did'nt already know that.? Free whores ? Asking for it ? thats rubbish , melodramatic more like it. You shouldnt presume every man here looks at you the same way. I'm very fussy too but also a realist. Who ever wrote that saying " any old port in a storm " wasn't written for me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The rest of your comment was just a variation on the same theme, i.e because you're on a 'sex site' you shouldn't be as picky. Also, gaslighting doesn't work on me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wouldnt play with someone who is cheating. Its always the guys who are attached who get most defensive in these types of posts. And by that I mean whose other halves dont know they are on here. Yes, you think its a sex site and are entitled to use it as such, but no, not all single women want to shag people who are not. Its usually in our profiles. Summer worded it with humour but made a point......Youre a straight guy but keep getting hassled by gay guys. So do you give in to a piece of cock because its a "sex site" after all? Thought not. Bay....no, not bad at all xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
whether his other half knows or not and what their arrangement is....it is not fair towards me...if I am looking for a friend to hang out with and also have some fun times then why should I just settle for a fuckbuddy?? i want more..I want companion - a friend with benefits...fuckbuddy is someone you fuck and then you or they leave...a friend is someone to ACTUALLY talk to and interested in what they are up to etc...friendship first then play :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
If two people are going to decide the boundaries of my dalliances, then one of those is me - and the other is the person I bed. If I wanted a threeway interchange of what my interlude will need to be - I'd bed a (more) couple(s). I'd rather set out the course of my journey with a fellow journeyman - rather than need to fit within a pre-described circle of acceptability. Like for like. Capisce?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SYDnobarbie' whether his other half knows or not and what their arrangement is....it is not fair towards me...if I am looking for a friend to hang out with and also have some fun times then why should I just settle for a fuckbuddy?? i want more..I want companion - a friend with benefits...fuckbuddy is someone you fuck and then you or they leave...a friend is someone to ACTUALLY talk to and interested in what they are up to etc...friendship first then play :) just to play devil's advocate (me? as if ;) ) does being coupled up necessarily preclude a guy from being a friend who can hang out with you? similarly, does being single mean that they are someone who could hang out with you? (I know I've met some girls and thought they're incredibly hot... but I'd rather have my teeth pulled than spend the day with them) As for amos44's comment - I think he could've worded it better, but the gist seemed to be "sometimes you click best with people who aren't exactly what you think you're looking for". Not that being on an adult dating site (does that mean there are children dating sites? do you get complimentary registration on an offender list when you sign up to them?) means you ladies should just spread your legs and take all comers.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Only you know if you're really up yourself. Really ' i don't care one way or another. It's up to you lady's to direct your anger to those you're so pissed off with. For the record, I'm very fussy also ( within reason ) but I do bend the rules for those ladies not high maintainence.
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N4November
10 years ago
I'm a sole parent as well and never do these world's collide. I don't have the luxury of spontaneous meetings. So when I can make the effort to meet someone, I expect them to be around 85% of who they say they are. That's not gender specific, just common courtesy! Because I don't put in as much time to screen/vet potential buddies lol, it's the lying cheating ones that have been getting through. In my opinion, cheaters are good at taking but not so good at giving. It's all about them. They're self observed. Get a hooker is my advice. You don't waste my time including your own and it would end in a happy ending after all! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Where on your profile does it say No married men? There could be married men out there that could after 6 hours of oral, crash with you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I thought this was a site for people to hook up, not a dating site? If I was on eHarmony then maybe I could understand your rude response, however if you are on a sex based site wanting dinner, coffee and/or wine and fail to mention on your profile that you don't want to be contacted by married or attached men, then I find your response really frustrating. A simple, 'sorry, I don't entertain the idea of meeting with married or attached men' would suffice, which is similar to what I have received on a few occasions and that's more than okay, we expect that from people, not a completely ridiculous message like that!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SYDnobarbie' whether his other half knows or not and what their arrangement is....it is not fair towards me...if I am looking for a friend to hang out with and also have some fun times then why should I just settle for a fuckbuddy?? i want more..I want companion - a friend with benefits...fuckbuddy is someone you fuck and then you or they leave...a friend is someone to ACTUALLY talk to and interested in what they are up to etc...friendship first then play :) Fair enough you don't want to sleep with married men...your perogative. I just don't understand where it says you CAN'T have this with someone in an open relationship. That's the only point I'm trying to make here. I frequently hang out with my female friends from RHP. Sometimes it's sexual, sometimes not. Hence the term FRIENDS with benefits. My wife knows them too. She's slept with a few of them on occasion herself, both with and without me present. I don't see why being married cancels out being available for friends? I'd hate to live in a relationship where you had to do everything together and weren't allowed to socialise on your own for whatever reason you think is justified. I thought thats what friends did. Just because sex is part of the package to me it's no different than Mrs3 going out on a girls night if she chooses.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Brilliant reply. Although you were being really kind in your choice of words lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
What are the benefits of seeing a married guy? You cant be spontaneous, take off for a sexy weekend or have sleepovers. Oh and it may be known as a hook up site but I have male friends who like taking me out for dinner and thats fine by me. If they enjoy my company as well as my body it tells me that they genuinely like being with me and Im not just a handy wet hole. We can each make of RHP what we want, there are no hard and fast rules?
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are right,it is possible for someone in an open relationship to be available ,to have a fwb relationship.Some people will be attracted to such a relationship..Polyamorous or polyandrous where there is genuine friendship,goodwill between all parties,no jealousy and acceptance of boundaries. But this is not for everyone and sometimes people have had unfortunate experiences such as Summer has talked about on here. I have a few friends both male and female who are in these sorts of relationships and they work because friendship not just sex,is the connector. xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Quoting 'SYDnobarbie' whether his other half knows or not and what their arrangement is....it is not fair towards me...if I am looking for a friend to hang out with and also have some fun times then why should I just settle for a fuckbuddy?? i want more..I want companion - a friend with benefits...fuckbuddy is someone you fuck and then you or they leave...a friend is someone to ACTUALLY talk to and interested in what they are up to etc...friendship first then play :) just to play devil's advocate (me? as if ;) ) does being coupled up necessarily preclude a guy from being a friend who can hang out with you? similarly, does being single mean that they are someone who could hang out with you? (I know I've met some girls and thought they're incredibly hot... but I'd rather have my teeth pulled than spend the day with them) No it does not preclude a guy from being a friend (or even an FWB) if he is in a committed relationship - I do not care that he is. That is not my concern. It is his concern to ensure that whatever he does he is not upsetting his other half - that is not my concern at all. This might sound "loose" but as far as I am what he does at his home is none of my concern - neither is his if I don't tell him. But there is a big difference between married-engaged etc men looking for a fuckbuddy (2-3-4hrs of fun at a time - come-cum and leave) and friends with benefits..I do not care if a Friend with Benefit is a married etc..not my issue...but the last thing I want (and this is why I am gone into somewhat of a hibernation on RHP) is married men fuckbuddies. See I would not call FWB as "relationship" I would say "companion-ship of some sort" Relationship is a scary word :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
We joined this site as friends, we are bith simgle but due to work commitments i am in karratha wa for next two years she is in newcastle nsw (massive distance apart) so we decided to keep this profild as she has the group of friends there and well i need to make new ones here. Our profiel gets lots of looks but most assume its another guy possing as a couple. Seems it dosent pay to be open or honest but ghats what we choose to do. Everyone has there story there reasons for being here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I believe honesty is the best policy and it is good to know these things before you take the plunge ( pun intended ) if you have all the information at hand you can make the right choice for yourself BUT I do agree with norush66's profile there is down sides cant go out and have that social level of interaction with that person which does suck...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' just to play devil's advocate (me? as if ;) ) does being coupled up necessarily preclude a guy from being a friend who can hang out with you? similarly, does being single mean that they are someone who could hang out with you? (I know I've met some girls and thought they're incredibly hot... but I'd rather have my teeth pulled than spend the day with them) As for amos44's comment - I think he could've worded it better, but the gist seemed to be "sometimes you click best with people who aren't exactly what you think you're looking for". Not that being on an adult dating site (does that mean there are children dating sites? do you get complimentary registration on an offender list when you sign up to them?) means you ladies should just spread your legs and take all comers. come on now...that first paragraph is a total strawman. I expect better from you Of course none of us expect that a guy being single is enough for us to click with him and want to hang out with him, and you won't be able to point out a single instance where any one of us have suggested that. I'm also pretty sure all the women that have commented are intelligent enough to realise that yes, an attached guy could have the personality and other traits that mean we could get along well together. However, what you're doing is taking relationship status completely out of the decision-making equation, when for me and I would guess the other women as well, it's not something that can be removed. Just about every decision in life means weighing up pros and cons, balancing the things that are important to you against each other and yes, accepting that you might miss out on something. For me, theoretically I might get along really well with an attached guy, but I've weighed up the pros and cons of that situation and the cons win out, so I'm perfectly fine with taking the risk of missing out on getting to know that person. That's my decision and not up to anyone else to make for me. As for amos44's comment....it's just another example of the assumptions about both RHP itself and about women - particularly single women - on RHP. For some reason we're expected to forego all preferences and be willing to at least entertain the idea of shagging any man, regardless of his status. amos44 and the other people who express that view wouldn't even consciously realise it, but it's a view that is still tightly bound to broader societal notions about women's sexuality and sexual behaviour.
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RHP User
10 years ago
As a new member to RHP i and understand that the women are mistrustful of guys being attached or married, and those just thinking they are going to be giving a lucky lady some sexual pleasure and they should be grateful. So how as a divorced guy with no kids do i get to be trusted in just seeking a friend. Yes i would like some real physical meeting but it's no the only reason i am on RHP.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Last time I visited Hell I had one of those. It was yummy!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' just to play devil's advocate (me? as if ;) ) does being coupled up necessarily preclude a guy from being a friend who can hang out with you? similarly, does being single mean that they are someone who could hang out with you? (I know I've met some girls and thought they're incredibly hot... but I'd rather have my teeth pulled than spend the day with them) As for amos44's comment - I think he could've worded it better, but the gist seemed to be "sometimes you click best with people who aren't exactly what you think you're looking for". Not that being on an adult dating site (does that mean there are children dating sites? do you get complimentary registration on an offender list when you sign up to them?) means you ladies should just spread your legs and take all comers. come on now...that first paragraph is a total strawman. I expect better from you Of course none of us expect that a guy being single is enough for us to click with him and want to hang out with him, and you won't be able to point out a single instance where any one of us have suggested that. I'm also pretty sure all the women that have commented are intelligent enough to realise that yes, an attached guy could have the personality and other traits that mean we could get along well together. However, what you're doing is taking relationship status completely out of the decision-making equation, when for me and I would guess the other women as well, it's not something that can be removed. Just about every decision in life means weighing up pros and cons, balancing the things that are important to you against each other and yes, accepting that you might miss out on something. For me, theoretically I might get along really well with an attached guy, but I've weighed up the pros and cons of that situation and the cons win out, so I'm perfectly fine with taking the risk of missing out on getting to know that person. That's my decision and not up to anyone else to make for me. oh did I disappoint you Summer? I trust I'll be suitably chastised for my behaviour ;) I understand the reasoning for using attached/unattached status as an indicator for "do they have sufficient time" and that would be the best you could do if only using the profile search filters. I'll ignore the people who don't want attached people for moral reasons or because they may want possibility of an exclusive relationship or for whatever reason where it is a direct answer to the question - but the one I was interested in is where "are you attached" is used as a surrogate for the completely different question "will you also be my friend and spend time with me". If I only wanted taller ladies, I could just say "over height X please" instead of saying "foot size over Y only please" because I'd heard the two things were usually linked and ending up with a bunch of hobbits replying. (Hobbit isn't used a pejorative term, merely referring to very short people with comparatively large feet from the Shire - too short and Cronulla is a bit far to drive) The thrust of my previous post was why not just ask the question directly so that it is clear what the person wants? The status used a proxy is a poor one. e.g. koko might see my profile as indicating I'm free for spontaneous weekends away... yet particularly during my main season that is anything but the case. Just a note: I don't see questioning the reasoning for something as not respecting/adhering to a person's preference. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
@Blindman love your post. Prize for reply of the day. #illusionvreality - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Just a note: I don't see questioning the reasoning for something as not respecting/adhering to a person's preference. :) However, on this thread a number of women have given multiple reasons for why they aren't interested in men in open relationships, yet some men continue to say that they don't understand and continue to ask the question. That's when it gets into not respecting preferences territory, and gets bloody annoying.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' I know I'm on your mind, but I think you meant to say Luck_Dragon? :-P haha, indeed I did (and indeed you must've been ;) ) so to clarify, yes I meant my previous post to be addressed to LD :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I heard my name....... your arse will be getting a damned good seeing to!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' What are the benefits of seeing a married guy? You cant be spontaneous, take off for a sexy weekend or have sleepovers. Oh and it may be known as a hook up site but I have male friends who like taking me out for dinner and thats fine by me. If they enjoy my company as well as my body it tells me that they genuinely like being with me and Im not just a handy wet hole. We can each make of RHP what we want, there are no hard and fast rules? Ummmm....pretty much those exact same benefits actually. Nowhere in the rule book does it say us married guys can't provide those exact same benefits. I can be as spontaneous as I chose, take off for a weekend and have sleepovers...I'm a grown man lol. I frequently lunch and dine with my female rhp friends. And you know, not all single men can provide those options either. I don't know if you're talking cheating married men or married men as a whole here, but if that is your sole criteria then single dads, those who work weekends and FIFO workers are also off the list. But it is YOUR choice, and all the power to you. Anyhow, thats all I'm gonna say on this subject. It's quite obvious you girls view open relationships in a very different manner to me and our friends, and we'll just have to agree to disagree.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seriously, there arent that many open marriages like yours. From my experience anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
if you went to a car yard to buy a new Nissan Pathfinder, and the only car they had in stock was a Mini Countryman, would you still buy the mini?? I'd hazard a guess at no....because the pathfinder has the features, and options that you want....you'd be wasting your money.... It's the same with this site.... Men are selling themselves, and women want to buy.... But if man A is the mini and man B is the pathfinder, man A is destined to miss out.... Like it or hate it, no one is really going to give a shit....the quicker people accept it however, the quicker they'll start to enjoy it :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have poor car recognition ..I have even been known to hop in the wrong car thinking it was my friends..do they really have mini Countrymans..How pretty are they?😘 xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
yup...they do...they're a big almost like a small 4wd.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
wondering if any women actually want to hook up? I'm here to listen, laugh, learn.. But come on. If you're not in it for the spinach you should get the fuck out of here and go back to oasis. Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm glad men aren't that intollerant to married females geeeeeeez
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes we do.......we just dont broadcast it every time. And the guys Ive met I wouldnt have if theyd had your attitude. Be nice Popeye xx
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
That post speaks volumes of who you may be. Respect. Get some. Or perhaps you should leave......
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RHP User
10 years ago
Fuzz, there are many of us who just want to hook up. You just haven't met anyone who wants to hook up with you. I suppose it's more comforting to assume that there must be something wrong with the women on the site than do a little introspection as to why you aren't having any luck. If you need any help with that... Start with the attitude that anyone who doesn't want to fuck you is 'up themselves' 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
lol I loved your 'about me' cracked up with the sweet let me know 😀 I'm here for the spinach. Actually I could use a good seeing to right now 😊😇
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Just because you named your profile name as Fuzzpatrol, it doesn't automatically put you in an authority position to tell us female members to get off this site if we don't just hook up with just about anyone! I am here for the spinach, but not just for any spinach, especially not for the rotten ones with an attitude of yours! Who can blame me for not wanting to degrade my preferences when I had met some really wonderful gentlemen when I first signed up? 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Do you think Fuzzy might be implying we're Brussels sprouts? Might need to go to the vegie section with my pipe, to ponder 😯
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'GenGirl' I'm glad men aren't that intollerant to married females geeeeeeez It's not intolerance FFS. You do what you want, so don't be a hypocrite and judge what others do.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd say l'm open minded and non judgmental yet your attitude exceeds what's acceptable imo. I could say the message your sending is as ugly as it is wrong. I could say any women in your life must be pleased with your attitude towards women. Or comment on your demanding attitude towards people and ask if people were so unreasonably demanding of you would you accept that. I could question your messages might be why women don't look at their inbox after being put off by your vibe. But clearly it looks like oasis is working well for you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Give me a married man in an open relationship and you have the near perfect situation for me ;) I'm not missing absolutely anything in my relationship, I love physical intimacy, lots of it! The situation is no different for married women on this site as it is for single women, however despite my frustrations with the inavailability of single men ( yep, some think because I'm married, I need less courtesy and care, go figure) there is no harm in being polite with your 'no thanks' response. Our profile isn't inundated with messages, so maybe I'm lucky that I'm not fighting off pages of messages, but even in periods of frenzied activity, I try to respond positively! There will always be people who don't read your profile properly or read what they want in it, so adjust accordingly! There are ways to streamline your responses :) Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I am married and i am perfectly clear about that on my profile. Most of the contact I get is initiated by the other person. Now I have been contacted by people who have on their profile "No Married or Attached..." seems on occasions that some people end up being flexible but it very limited circumstances. That being said If I read that on a profile I will not contact the person. You have to respect the personal preferences of the people on this site. The stock reply well I would not do that or I would come up with a softer one. LC
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