F47
Impression killer
May 14 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
is that stupid Sydney University crap. If I see that or something similar on someone's profile it immediately puts me off, no matter how good the rest of the profile is.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone has their likes and dislikes, but I also would find the term "yuck!!!" to describe a persons lifestyle choice to show ignorance and small mindedness. Very possible they are narrow minded in other areas of their life too.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I dont like the Sydney university thing but it's not a total deal breaker if everything else is good. I would of been put off by the yuck part too. I saw one recently where it was like I don't like those who have sticks up their arses or think that they are better than everyone else.. that was a mood kill. Oh and I dont like seeing the whole 'just broke up with my partner 2 months ago looking for fun.. ' i just dont see the need for me to know that you just broke up with someone. If it comes up in conversation then fine but not in a profile. I also really really dislike - no strings attached
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good for you for posting your concerns... it is unfortunate that we still live in a world full of prejudicial and judgemental people. I'm often put on the back foot when I read profiles here albeit never quite sure if there is a definitive reason or simple instinct. We all have the right to choose.
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RHP User
10 years ago
that we are judging people based on 1 word and some exclamation marks???? we are all different and we say we understand that yet we cannot give that extra amount of grace, consideration to others when we read stuff online? dude might have written "please no gay guys to contact me, yuck!!!!" Does that make him a HORRIBLE PERSON? One might not agree or or favour their choice of words and might find it disrespectful is because we view it through our own eyes - our own values perspectives etc- but does that mean that person is a bad person? we all have things we don't like.. I could put "Please no couples to contact me as I don't enjoy company of women, yuck" - am I then a horrible person?????? just for saying "yuck"??????????????? I do not understand the world of internet ......
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Can't some people stay on the topic instead of picKing on the content of my post?! I didn't say the man in question was not allowed to choose what he likes and dislikes, nor did I have a go at the guy as a person! I just find that to put in the word "yuck!!!" in a profile is simply unattractive! Am I not allowed to dislike this kind of behaviour, SYDnobarbie? :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's more about what does attract me in a profile..Too numerous to list the what doesn't Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' I'm always disappointed when reading profiles of supposedly single men looking for something ongoing, and I see the phrase "discretion is a must". Not into being anyone's secret. - I refuse to be anyone's secret.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SYDnobarbie' that we are judging people based on 1 word and some exclamation marks???? we are all different and we say we understand that yet we cannot give that extra amount of grace, consideration to others when we read stuff online? dude might have written "please no gay guys to contact me, yuck!!!!" Does that make him a HORRIBLE PERSON? One might not agree or or favour their choice of words and might find it disrespectful is because we view it through our own eyes - our own values perspectives etc- but does that mean that person is a bad person? we all have things we don't like.. I could put "Please no couples to contact me as I don't enjoy company of women, yuck" - am I then a horrible person?????? just for saying "yuck"??????????????? I do not understand the world of internet ...... It doesn't make him (or you in your example) a horrible person, but the statement says a lot about the persons ideas and values, which certainly don't align with mine
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RHP User
10 years ago
smoking and lots of ask me is a total deal breaker but until yesterday I have never come across a profile that was very off putting. In fact I did reply to the simple message about wanting to chat by saying I'm well, thanks for asking and a chat would have been nice until I read your profile. Very anti women!!!! And although I do understand the frustration of some men....and women....and couples on here the profile was, IMO, venomous towards women. So nice respectful message....vs venomous profile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Much as I like people being relaxed and easy going, I take a back step if they look like a party animal, you know when every single picture has a drink in their hand, off their face drunk, or worse, poking their tongue out or doing the kissy face as for the written part, it's usually a combination of pictures that are a bit suspect or that don't appeal, and what I read. I'm not a big fan of template 'I'm a sexual animal' etc although I make allowances for new profiles. It can take them a while to get their profiles set up properly. Negativity would be a turn off though for sure and baggage, I run from that
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RHP User
10 years ago
As soon as I see "no time wasters" I move on... I think it shows an attitude that doesn't match mine.... Also "no crazies" usually there is areason this person is encountering so many "crazies"..... IMO anyway 🙈 Xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
...I have this irrational urge to waste their time. Just for the hell of it. Like they threw down a gauntlet at my feet... 😆
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sweetgem' Can't some people stay on the topic instead of picKing on the content of my post?! I didn't say the man in question was not allowed to choose what he likes and dislikes, nor did I have a go at the guy as a person! I just find that to put in the word "yuck!!!" in a profile is simply unattractive! Am I not allowed to dislike this kind of behaviour, SYDnobarbie? :) that is not what I was saying. I did not say one is not allowed to make a judgement and dislike whatever they wish to dislike. and I am not taking an attack on you at all. my question is aimed at trying to figure out how come that we (I have used the term WE all along in my post!) seem to be so judgemental that we make impression about people based on 1 word...1 word...that is my point..and I maintain my question as an objective one..
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RHP User
10 years ago
People who need to tell you how good they are and how attractive they are make me immediately look away. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not here but on another site.. You will not wear perfume,you will have short nails so you won't scratch me..I guess the wife didn't know he was a cheatin' Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, the said person could of used his vocabulary better, however, some people are still homophobic, that's their choice. Online seeking is to me a total waste of time trying to judge/decypher if someone suits you or not. Unless you meet the person, only then can you 100% have an informed opinion of someone. I've met people who have "ask me" and Ive met people "just looking for sex" and I've met those who take the time and blah blah on their profile. Some have been wonderful people and some have been twatwaffles. It's all to subjective and allows for instant judgements. That is just my experiences and thoughts. I'm not here to be attacked or belittled. Find another moving duck to shoot down. Ta. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Grouse33
10 years ago
But when I see somebody who hasn't written anything in their own and just used the profile builder, I suspect they're fake. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
For clarifying your point made in your first comment. I like and appreciate constructive discussion and thank you for taking the time to make your point clearer :) Yes, it took only 1 word to take my impression and interest away from this said profile because, words are important to me as they paint a picture to me when I read them. Therefore, to see someone has literally put in the word "yuck!!!" to emphasise his disliking of homosexual people out loud (in writing), it is not a respectful vibe I receive because, what if a homosexual person, who had struggled for so long to come out, saw that kind of expression towards their lifestyle choice, imagine how would they feel? I know it's an individual's choice to choose how people want to interpret words, but it doesn't hurt to be a bit more sensitive and mindful of what we say, and what effects would our words bring on other people. Don't you agree? :) I am also not having a go at you, SYDnobarbie, I am just trying to explain why one word would matter so much to me :) perhaps because of my English language barrier, I can't seem to always be able to express my view about certain things without bringing negativity into it 😛 and this has proven that words are too powerful and can have the opposite effect if not carefully used :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Thank you for your comment. However, I am not sure who are you referring to about being anti women and venomous profile, etc.??? If, only if, you were referring to me for not seeking women, then I think you have taken my preference far too personal 😛 Anyways, your mentioning of venomous profile and anti women is completely off the topic, unless it is one of your deal breakers otherwise :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' ...I have this irrational urge to waste their time. Just for the hell of it. Like they threw down a gauntlet at my feet... 😆 lol I always think is someone going to sit there and think oh yeah , actually I'm a time waster, this profile says no time wasters so I wont contact that person.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Jennifer was referring to a profile that she had read.A man's profile.Her comments had nothing to do with you and were on topic Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
In one way or another...? Isn't that basically what everyone here is saying? Perhaps just let others discriminate In their own way and then you will discrimonate in In Your way as we all logically need to and then the world will finally live in peace!!! 😳😝🤔😂🙃
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sweetgem
10 years ago
For helping to clarify Jennifer102's comment as I couldn't work out who was the target 😛 @Jennifer102, please pardon me for unable to understand your comment at the first instance. I am sorry for my comment and hope I did not offend you :) I know language barrier is not an excuse, but I honestly am having certain degree of difficulty in understanding, and using, English language properly at times as it is the sixth language I learned in life 😛 Therefore, to everyone in this forum land, please bear with me, or pardon me, if I ever misinterpret a message or comment you make :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
the 6th language? Wow, that's impressive
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd hazard a guess that the reason why we are much more judgemental online is because we want what we want, when we want it..... Obviously this is no justification for it, but let's be honest, we're all about finding that perfection in as little time as possible..... I'll expect a few people that disagree, I doubt anyone is going to date every possible candidate and it's just a way to narrow the field down quicker.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Yes I_touch_myself2, I had to learn how to speak several languages (at different stages of life though) in order to survive in new countries/environments throughout my entire growing up. It is one of my survival skills I gained in life and English is the latest language that I have learned, which you can tell that it's not grammatically correct all the time 😛 and I mention this not because I want to brag about my language skill, but to share that I truly do have some difficulty in using English language correctly at times, if not all the time! 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SYDnobarbie' that we are judging people based on 1 word and some exclamation marks???? we are all different and we say we understand that yet we cannot give that extra amount of grace, consideration to others when we read stuff online? dude might have written "please no gay guys to contact me, yuck!!!!" Does that make him a HORRIBLE PERSON? One might not agree or or favour their choice of words and might find it disrespectful is because we view it through our own eyes - our own values perspectives etc- but does that mean that person is a bad person? we all have things we don't like.. I could put "Please no couples to contact me as I don't enjoy company of women, yuck" - am I then a horrible person?????? just for saying "yuck"??????????????? I do not understand the world of internet ...... I think we are a little more discriminate as we already have each other and a great sex-life. It's not like we are desperately seeking company more complimenting what we already have, so unless they actually fit our criteria with a good well written descriptive profile (a good profile to us shows a creative person) we make no exceptions and why should we. Everybody has dislikes and everybody has a choice so why not be picky?
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'sweetgem' Yes I_touch_myself2, I had to learn how to speak several languages (at different stages of life though) in order to survive in new countries/environments throughout my entire growing up. It is one of my survival skills I gained in life and English is the latest language that I have learned, which you can tell that it's not grammatically correct all the time 😛 and I mention this not because I want to brag about my language skill, but to share that I truly do have some difficulty in using English language correctly at times, if not all the time! 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile I do get you wrt to fluency in expressing oneself in a language where one is not a native. I too have learnt several languages as we did move around a bit when we were growing up due to my parent's professions. English is my first language but my fathers native tongue is Spanish and mom is SEAsian language (dont want to name it as may be giving away too much). Living in different continents in Asia, North America and Europe means I have to pick up the language or even other form of English (read NOT strayan) in order to blend in for work and social occasions. I find that even if I am fluent in some other languages, I do misread or misunderstand some subtle messages or points that only a native speaker could understand as they would be able to pick up the nuance of the language. But I have a go and we all have a good laugh. Lots of good stories to be told how I get myself in trouble when first learning and speaking French overseas. That is for another post. Lol On topic, there are just too many and I will be back to short list them. Most of them been mentions above. Cheers.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PoisonIV' Quoting 'Koolgrey' ...I have this irrational urge to waste their time. Just for the hell of it. Like they threw down a gauntlet at my feet... 😆 lol I always think is someone going to sit there and think oh yeah , actually I'm a time waster, this profile says no time wasters so I wont contact that person. Ha! Yeah, that thought occurred to me too. I always imagine the "No time wasters" person is a bit stuffy and wound up too tight. That's when I get the mischievous urge to wind them up some more...just for the fun of it.But in reality, I couldn't be bothered. Waste of my time..
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RHP User
10 years ago
profiles/posts by people with multiple errors of the same kind, suggesting that the mistakes are not simple typos or autocorrect creating an auto-error (e.g. loose v lose, there v their v they're, you're v your, then v than) * Those leave me with the impression that in person you'd "aks" questions, think Chernobyl was a "nucular" reactor, and use "youse" as a plural. Now, youse might be real top cunts, philanfropits and good people who save puppy dogs and never subject your Facebook friends to Candy Crush invitations, but to me those things are like nails dragging down the blackboard (though I actually don't find the "nails on a chalkboard/blackboard" noise a problem the way some do :p ) * where English is their first language. Sydney Uni may not use my post for research purposes ;)
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Thanks for sharing your story on learning various languages :) I, too, would still give it a go in speaking (and writing) the languages that aren't my first language, that's why I keep making responses to the forum posts, as well as making my own ones, while I know my grammar is not always correct 😛 I am a learner, so I am not afraid to get laughed at when my sentences are grammatically incorrect, as I see it the only way to learn and improve, and if I get lucky, I might come across someone who is kind enough to correct me and help me improve :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
The last paragraph of your comment is so funny 😂😂 Sydney Uni might take your post as an example of someone writing in broken English and use it as part of their teaching materials 😂😂 On the serious note, it drives me nuts with the grammatical errors of "your and you're" and "there, their & they're"! And the use of text language in writing! 😕 Anyways......😛😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is it ok that I became slightly aroused at your post? You're funny and sexy 😎, a wicked combination! I'm sorry, there's a place for text talk and that's not in your profile or in a message to us! It is evident to me when people have English as a second language in their responses/profiles, I have absolutely no issue with that! I do have an issue with people who are sloppy and lazy with their language use! Call me a snob but a lazily written response/profile on a sex/dating site is instant turnoff/impression killer and we go no further! Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've noticed there's sometimes a big discrepancy between the age on a thumbnail and when you get into the text of that profile, the most recent one I noticed was 13 years which made her too young to be of interest to me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im with you..."just out of a relationship/difficult relationship/just separated trying to move on" All alarm bells start ringing! My feeling is, if they were over their partner there would be no need to mention them ☺ Also, "no time wasters/crazies" Im as crazy as they come but I certainly won't waste your time 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
For your contributions and time given on this thread xx This may only be another forum topic to you, it is indeed a valuable learning opportunity for me to improve on my English skills, and to act like a grown adult and take appropriate action when I've misunderstood a post. I enjoy reading all the comments and hope more would be coming soon 😛 so keep them coming peeps 😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was of the belief that everyone was entitled to their own opinions, including their sexual preferences, I was not aware that posting them on here opened them up for someone elses opinions to be given more acceptance. As anything on the web, just scroll on past. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' is that stupid Sydney University crap. If I see that or something similar on someone's profile it immediately puts me off, no matter how good the rest of the profile is. ahahahah so true
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RHP User
10 years ago
Couple profiles that have a huge list of demands! seriously we appreciate that you want your meet up to be special and fulfilling but remember there's gunna be 2+ other people there that may want to enjoy themselves - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'sweetgem' Thanks for sharing your story on learning various languages :) - Posted from rhpmobile when somebody told me that men like cunnilingus, I thought they meant 'Cunning Linguists'.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Handy74Andy' I was of the belief that everyone was entitled to their own opinions, including their sexual preferences, I was not aware that posting them on here opened them up for someone elses opinions to be given more acceptance. As anything on the web, just scroll on past. - Posted from rhpmobile I agree with you, but as long as no one is named and shamed, then anonymity is maintained.Your questioning what is at the core of public forums...just opinions...and it'd be a much duller world if people don't question what others say and do.
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is yuck 👉💩 This is not yuck 👉 🌻 🌼🌷
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Pommyfuckers' Couple profiles that have a huge list of demands! seriously we appreciate that you want your meet up to be special and fulfilling but remember there's gunna be 2+ other people there that may want to enjoy themselves - Posted from rhpmobile There is an upside though, the demands are a good opportunity to see if it would fit what you're looking for. Some people have a specific scenario and if it doesn't suit then "next". Main ones for us would be lots of ask me and a lack of photos, we're all here for much the same reason, who are you hiding from and how can we even consider making contact as there is nothing to draw interest? We're not here for a lucky dip! Maybe a fucky dip ;) Mr D
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tank__girl
10 years ago
Anyone who rates themselves as "Very Attractive". Cringe. Confidence is great, but that is just too much. Let me be the judge..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Can I use you for research purposes? 😇 only if you promise it wouldn't be accepted by an ethics committee ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe that poor guy had been bombarded with dick pics or whatever and was finally sick of it. Who knows but some are very quick to pass judgement and pigeon hole people. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
True, people are quick to judge, and we dont know anyone's reasoning for the way they act or react. But with this online bizz, a profile is all we have to go on. Its similar to speed dating in a way. We have a small window to make an impression to somebody reading us. Everything is magnified on here. Its hard to see compassion and acceptance within a sentance that we wouldnt say ourselves. Keep posting though, I like reading your torso... Oops I mean posts.😜
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'leeleigh' Also, "no time wasters/crazies" Im as crazy as they come but I certainly won't waste your time 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile I even state in my profile byline that I'm crazy, so the ''no crazies'' people know to stay away from me
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Are just personal views about something and/or people and we are all entitled to make them :) My original post was about an impression that I had on a profile that I came across during the browsing, not about how horrible the said profile owner is, as a person, that is a big difference! 😛 Anyways, I am hardly interested in involving in a heated debate type of discussion, and I respect that everyone is entitled to form their own opinion about something and/or someone. Therefore, it is truly none of my business if I am seen as judgmental and quick to pigeon hole other people because, how I am seen in other people's eyes is merely their opinions! 😋 I only need to remember not to point a finger at other people, as a person, because I would have all other fingers pointing back at myself if I did! 😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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SexyDeviants
10 years ago
When there are more; 'Will no', 'you will not' 'we/I will not' Than any actual substances to their profile... The Sydney Uni thing is a annoying, but not a deal breaker! 😂😁
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Sweetgem you sweetie. I totally got the intent of your thread. People seized on your example unfortunately. The word "Yuk". Its not the word itself. Its the intention of its use. The user is obviously homophobic. The fact that he is homophobic is my turnoff. But i have my big girl panties on so i just swipe left . I'm not offended, just disappointed. Its 2016. But i would be offended if he had said it to me. Thats the difference. Back on topic. Its "Ask me". Maybe not one say for example relationships. Some situations need explaining..... But several ask mes indicates something else. They are wasting my time by having to ask And i hate timewasters........ This is starting to compound itself. I should stop.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is yak poop 💩 This is not yak poop 👬 Ok ok Im done, I pwomise :D
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Your posts can always make me laugh and enjoy being in the Forums 👍🏼😙 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
...I will put forward a perspective which has not yet been offered by others, and which in some ways relates to the thread concerning female only venues, events etc. Firstly, I would suggest the person with offending profile (with the comment: "Yuck"), clearly exercised poor judgement in his choice of words. Everyone has opportunity to think and consider their words before they put those words to voice. We all have even more opportunity when communicating via keyboard! Also though, I would say it is not just worthwhile, but important to remind yourself that as much as you may wish others held the same views/values/opinions/manners as you, it frequently is simply not the case. None of us ever are likely to change that. People have enormous capacity to offend. Some will do so quite deliberately, others may be found completely ignorant of the affect their words and actions have on others. Whatever the case, just as we all have opportunity to choose the words we offer in conversation, we also have opportunity to choose how we react to what we see and hear. (I still find it incredibly difficult to suppress what I'd really like to say at times. I frequently fail in that endeavour. Fuckin' Fuckin' Fuck Fuck!! Bastard! Bass Turd! Sometimes Base Turd! With nine years of lower-deck Naval vocabulary training, you can be sure I can swear like a trooper. You can take the boy out of the Navy, but you can't take the Navy out of the boy, as they say). It may well be the owner of the offending profile is indeed homophobic. Also it is true to say attitudes to gender and sexuality have been changing over recent times. I think it worth questioning the reasons someone might harbour such feeling toward homosexual people. This is where you might draw a parallel to the attraction some women have for the concept of female only places and events. Some of those women may feel threatened by a male presence in the gym for example because they do not appreciate leering men and unwelcome sexual advances. Some of those women may have been subject to this behaviour before. Perhaps worse. Perhaps as young girls. Most people would surely understand and appreciate such hurt may live long in the memory. Perhaps forever. The prospect of a sweaty, leery man having a perve at the gym might be expected to evoke a "Yuck" response from some women (likely many in my estimation!), if not actual fear. Similarly, a sexual advance from a man might evoke such response from another man who has previously been subjected to unwanted, or even outright predatory behaviour. I think there are some circumstances where people have been damaged by other people to such degree that it should probably really come as no surprise there is a loss of trust. Perhaps even respect. Many of these people would likely struggle to confront the source of their trauma, much less seek to understand the emotions or motivations of those they perceive to have offended against them. Now, I do not suggest that all gay men are paedophiles, or even that all paedophiles are men, that all victims are either girls or boys. Rather, I would suggest there are all manner of people out there of both genders (and even transsexual) with a propensity for predatory behaviour of one sort or another. I should note I refer here not only to predatory sexual behavior. These people tend not to show outward signs of such tendencies; more often having gone to great lengths over long periods of time actively suppressing any tell tale signs. All of that said, I will reiterate what I have said previously. I think all of society is far better served by more, not less open communication, discussion and debate. I would consider any reversion to segregation or suppression as a major step backwards. P.S. I am not the creator of the profile in question, but I will confess I am a recovering homophobe. I was never sexually molested, but that was not for lack of trying on the part of several individuals separated by time and space. Several times through my childhood and into adulthood I have been subjected to unwanted sexual advances from men. Consequently, I have empathy for others (of either gender) when I notice they are not comfortable with the approach of a would-be suitor. I understand it can be a really "Yuck" feeling, though I'm quite sure nowadays I am better able to express myself (even if I do swear a bit much sometimes). I sometimes might be considered a bit fucking rude, but then, what's more offensive?
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4_yourpleasure
10 years ago
In this world of emailing and instant gratification people don't take the time to put pen to paper and write for the sake of writing. We don't communicate or look people in the eye for the simple pleasure of communication, so sad! We are all guilty of saying and doing the wrong thing at times.Emails...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find that people who fill out the profile criteria by using the generic examples that rhp provide and fail to update them at a latter date anoy me purely because Im left to guess what they are really like and do I contact them because they like" coffee with friends"I mean everyone likes coffee with friends,and to say" hey I see you like coffee with friends,wow me too! we must be soul mates "seems really false and boring. Please people if your serious about meeting someone dot the I's and cross the T's Otherwise I will be left to wonder why.....and you will probably be bombarded by people who may not even be interested in you purely because they have no real impression of your actual self. Must update my profile now.... 3 line descriptions.. Haters goanna hate😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
.....he wasn't homophobic but just doesn't personally like having sex with men and that's what he found yuck, not the actual people who did?
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RHP User
10 years ago
And if I saw that sentence my first thought would be "yuck" and closing the profile. Not because of their sexual preference but because it doesn't sit well with me - my preference for meeting open minded people. As far as impression killers go things like "I can make any lady squirt at least 5 times without failure" and "I will lick pussy all night, making women cum like they never have before" etc turn me right off. Firstly - don't you have anything more interesting to fill your profile with and secondly - I'm not for being someone's challenge, keeping a tally of orgasms, just being a pussy on legs to conquer.
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
To actually answer your question, for me it occurs when you see the profile in the listing, with a possibly good headline opening, and once you check out the profile, all it comes down to is one of two scenarios.Either it is full of "ask me" for every option, or further down the profile it is full of the template stuff in two or three lines, such as has been mentioned 'like having coffee with friends' or 'like shopping'. Crikey, give us a break !It if really can't be bothered writing a few lines about yourself, why bother coming here in the first place ? Tall
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