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Interstate connections
September 04 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
For you I would fly anywhere ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
But Brisbane and Sydney. Although, I've also caught up with friends at the same time. Definitely worth the trip.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But my answer is yes yes and yes....i went to canada, not interstate. It was years ago and we are still long distance friends....and i did it again a couple of years later for the same man, but at least this time i knew him face to face ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
flew me to Darwin to see him. He was lovely, the sex was great but he is just too far away. We have remained friends and I would def catch up if I was up there again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have done it and it was great. One thing I will say is that I would always pay my own way, I would never accept someone else paying for me and then feeling like I owed him sex. That just feels wrong to me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey Koko.How have you been?I think interstate connections are great. You get to have a lover across the country and someone to hang out with when in town.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have chatted on here long term with a guy in NSW and finally after 8 months I happened to be in Sydney and we finally got to meet and OMG was it worth the wait :) He has since had a trip up here and we managed to catch up again. We still chat and txt and the occasional call now 2 years I think we have been chatting. I'm heading to Sydney next week and hoping that work times and life etc give us the opportunity again.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Why not? If it works, it works. Living proof here. :) Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Resent trip to Sydney was fun,needs planning but if lady is worth it ,what's money for anyway,lol Can be very exciting ,especially if built up chemistry over time! Nothing better than looking into eyes over dinner watching body language to me that's the Essence of dating! Sweets if connection,not rocket science ,lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
For the right person 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why travel interstate, when i am right koko :D haha
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RHP User
11 years ago
Holly hell,,,,i would not travel interstate for a lover,,,no way.. People cant travel an hour and you talking interstate noway hozay huny.. He dam well have to be worth and i don't think there is one out there hell nahhhhhhhh.. LOL,,,Had an experience with someone i adored and he fucked around so much that i had to give him the FLICK....God that was a draining experience...Fuck that no way never again...He only lived an hour 15mins awayand it was a drama....Why do people play games can some one explain to me please... Rainbow7 xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes of course it is.....if there is a connection, Mr_Big01 isnt that right :P
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MissBishere
11 years ago
To meet a man from Perth. I also go to meet others while I was there which was awesome and has built some great friendships. (Male and female) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Yep hearing you loud and clear about living 15mins away and they fuck you around that much. It's simple really, no mind games, no nothing, just a simple message........."They just are NOT that into you". One can not make a person do anything they don't want to do, like/lust/desire in return or choose do to something you want. It's a choice THEY make. NEXT!! Time to let go and move on. :) Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
who was coming to Sydney to visit relo's anyway.. I was expecting she would'nt look as good as the pics she sent but was was just as hot in the flesh.. no regrets there and still a great friend.. For me ? I wouldnt travel far unless she was someone really special' I dont like the idea of a long distance relationship, sexual or otherwise.. But then again' I dont really want a relationship anyway.. FWB is different.. Agree with Meeka.. if I paid for a woman to come to me I'd feel like I was buying her. By paying her own way she shouldn't feel any obligations .. Not into gratitude nookies Mind you ' I wouldn't allow her to pay for anything else but...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I went from Sydney to (near) Wollongong..... does that count
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I went from Sydney to (near) Wollongong..... does that count Christ! I have a 10km rule.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
It would be wonderful to have all the resources and time in the world to meet 'potential' lovers (I read that as someone that you have connected onver the phone or email but never met personally) whenever. Sigh...It may be wonderful or not at all. I will only go to further to connect with somebody if I have met before and made a great connection. I will meet potential lovers interstate only if I am treavelling there for work But I would be keen to meet lovers locally, within a 30-45 minuite drive (bloody melbourne traffic). I have taken out my compass and drawn my 'circle of joy' territory. Further than that, they come to me or we meet halfway. Most are happy to come over. I hate driving so I will use Mlebourne's very efficient transport system.
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RHP User
11 years ago
long way to go for sex, much easier if they drop by
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Some of my best connections are with people from interstate. Yes I have been interstate to meet some of my connections, yes they were exactly what I had anticipated or even better and yes I would do it again, soon I hope..... For me it's all about the connection and if I have to travel to get it, then I say why not......💋
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Some of my best connections are with people from interstate. Yes I have been interstate to meet some of my connections, yes they were exactly what I had anticipated or even better and yes I would do it again, soon I hope..... For me it's all about the connection and if I have to travel to get it, then I say why not......💋
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Some of my best connections are with people from interstate. Yes I have been interstate to meet some of my connections, yes they were exactly what I had anticipated or even better and yes I would do it again, soon I hope..... For me it's all about the connection and if I have to travel to get it, then I say why not......💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
No, I tend not to start chatting from anyone too far away. Don't really see the point if you don't know when you will (if ever) meet up.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I only date guys from Sydney, though I once made an exception and flew to Melbourne to meet a former forumite. I have to say it was absolutely worth it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes and yes again ... I have been interchanging state hoping here for the post two years with a Guy .. we take it in turns every 8 weeks to transverse the 2000 k.... and yes its worth it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
But I now only shop locally as it's to hard
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6exxy
11 years ago
I've thought about it ☺️
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' I will meet potential lovers interstate only if I am treavelling there for work But I would be keen to meet lovers locally, within a 30-45 minuite drive (bloody melbourne traffic). I have taken out my compass and drawn my 'circle of joy' territory. Further than that, they come to me or we meet halfway. Most are happy to come over. I hate driving so I will use Mlebourne's very efficient transport system. Just be happy you don't live in / around the Sydney CBD - it normally takes your 30 - 45 mins just to get thru' the CBD here, yet alone to any part outside of the city. Unfortunately our public transport system here isn't up to scratch to make up for that either. As for travelling from the 'outer' suburbs to and/ or thru' town - I'll just say pack your lunch and dinner with ya. Tall
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Yes. Sydney is worst than Melbourne interms of.traffic. I used to live in Kirribilli for 13months as work was in north Sydney. I love public transport as i hate traffic as you would.not believe. Specially in asian cities. Arggh. So i Just walked or took public transport from milsons point to city or all over sydney for work or social engagements i made it my.busimess to learn the system and knew timetables by heart at one point. Lol. I would fly back to melb Friday night to visit my.new groom and fly back to Sydney von Monday morning. love sydney public transport. Driving there would drive me mad. And if I had to to meet a man my mojo would just disappear in the air so quickly. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Yes. Sydney is worst than Melbourne interms of.traffic. I used to live in Kirribilli for 13months as work was in north Sydney. I love public transport as i hate traffic as you would.not believe. Specially in asian cities. Arggh. So i Just walked or took public transport from milsons point to city or all over sydney for work or social engagements i made it my.busimess to learn the system and knew timetables by heart at one point. Lol. I would fly back to melb Friday night to visit my.new groom and fly back to Sydney von Monday morning. love sydney public transport. Driving there would drive me mad. And if I had to to meet a man my mojo would just disappear in the air so quickly. - Posted from rhpmobile Yeah Lily I've seen plenty of examples of the Asian traffic - road rules - what road rules ??? But saw an even worse example recently on 7 'Sunday Night' about driving in Russia - makes the Asian cities look like they're orchestrated !Being in Kirribilli you would have been OK as far as public transport goes, (Train and bus both alright) but believe me, the further away from town you get the worse the situation. Probably similar to newer outer Melb suburbs I would imagine. Driving here is crazy for sure, but unfortunately it is something you actually get used to (although I wouldn't go so far as to say you would ever enjoy it). Can agree with the Mojo quickly flowing away.... Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
I live an 8 hr drive from Perth and get regular offers from men to drive down to me. Regardless of how well we have been getting on, I haven't accepted yet. What if they come all this way and are completely different in person? I would hate to feel obligated. ....but I know i would. Different side of the coin anyway. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree... you can find just as much good sex in your own backyard... if they live within driving distance its much easier .
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RHP User
11 years ago
if she's special ? hmmm
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Ma momma told me I am special.. Pats my own head... :-p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are all special.......thanks for all the posts, I would certainly go for it if I had the time and money. Til then, I can dream......
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RHP User
11 years ago
went overseas and interstate, never for a lover but just to be friends with people. Some are friends today still. but I would not ever go over with expectations of finding true love etc. I do not even go to Perth for a bonk it is an hours drive and I would have cum on the drive up just thinking about it. I never reply to flirts or messages from other states cannot see the point at all. I am so lazy I have now narrowed my search down to a one block radus
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I went from Sydney to (near) Wollongong..... does that count Christ! I have a 10km rule. But... I was on my way to bring a boat back from Kiama... so it was a very handy and enjoyable3 pit stop
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your momma was right... You lil gem you...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes if they not into you fucking grow balls and say so don't you think ???Why fuck around,,,people are just inconsiderate AH that's all ( in my opinion )
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RHP User
11 years ago
I flew to Melbourne for work timing a trip for when a lady I had been talking to on here was also going to be in Melbourne. Funny thing was she only lives 100k's down the road at the gold coast and had a great time with her and have spoken since ;-)
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' We are all special.......thanks for all the posts, I would certainly go for it if I had the time and money. Til then, I can dream...... Just off topic. where are you in perth. Is there anyway we can contact each other and meet up with fellow female rhp for a drink? would be nice to put a face to a name. I am on kik. if you have app on your smartphone that would be great to touch base even for coffee as we both need to work around our work (me in perth) and family schedule thanks sweety.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im on it......
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RHP User
11 years ago
obviously you must get to know eachother.......but fun is fun x
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RHP User
11 years ago
He was the one who travelled..a disaster...Why not just travel to a meet and greet interstate..then there are no expectations xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
The first woman I actually met off this site was from Melbourne and I did not regret flying to meet her one bit. In fact I've considered it on many, many occasions because there are just so many good looking women in WA. Maybe they are just over represented on the chat rooms but that has been my experience anyway. I even joked about organising a WA tour just to I could fly over and meet all my favourites :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
for that.........yes I would travel............even just for the fun of it and the passion.......is good for the soul x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' We are all special.......thanks for all the posts, I would certainly go for it if I had the time and money. Til then, I can dream...... Just off topic. where are you in perth. Is there anyway we can contact each other and meet up with fellow female rhp for a drink? would be nice to put a face to a name. I am on kik. if you have app on your smartphone that would be great to touch base even for coffee as we both need to work around our work (me in perth) and family schedule thanks sweety.
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RHP User
11 years ago
precious , enjoy life lovely xxxxxxxlove Kx
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RHP User
11 years ago
who live interstate that I speak to regularly by phone....one I have been chatting to for over two years...and yet we have never met...and maybe never will...it matters not to eitther of us.....relationships haver many different permutations xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sex never, but I have had a few bonks when I got there. Now I am strict with that, what is the point of the long horny drive? And its worse if it turns out that you connect and want regular sex. So it can be a deal breaker for me. That being said I had a lover that was fifo and he would book my own room at a hotel in perth, I would drive up, he would come fuck the stuffing out of me and then go after a few hours and I could get some sleep. Airline pilots are also good, nothing like a five star hotel and you see them once a week or fortnight and they tend to spoil, as in room service and sticky date pudding at the Hyatt. But most just want to do the wild thing and then go. Most guy want you to host, something I do not do. The thing is that many of the younger guys have flat mates or live at home. The fifo guys are better as they can get a hotel if need be. I have no idea why guys from east would contact me, unless they have a cock that can span the GAFAGreat Australian fuck all of the stretch from east to west. I have been offered airfares and hotels to go east, but I would not do that. What if the poor prick did not like me or I him , that can be awkward. Besides that apart from the guy paying a hotel I would rather pay for my own flights. Its bad enough when a guy thinks he can fuck you because he paid for the coffee. I have also been offered money for sex on here, but again I think 20 bucks is a bit much
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
The excitement and adrenaline of a normal meet is amazing. The build up for a FIFO arrangement is all consuming. Have done it once to Sydney, she was having a party but didn't quite get it done with her. Her best friend had different ideas and ended up with her who happened to live in Melbourne. Brief intense relationship then she moved to the west and I moved on with a broken heart............. ( sob,sob). As virginqueen said above, that's the risk you take on FIFO strike missions. Fall in love and your entire empire becomes heartache and turmoil. That's why I don't have single women in my interest list. I could never fall in love with a guy but women are my downfall. Sweet things they are.....
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
even the strongest defences can be worn down by constant flirts and very subtle ways (such as what bought me here).Lmao. She's clever. Not to mention hot and sexy. Enough for the "1000k's to be overlooked.......maybe. FIFO. Should have joined the special forces......they get the job done and get out. But then they don't wear dresses....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with you, and if you have a sexy, memorable and enjoyable time, thats fantastic, if it's not what you expected, at least you won't be wondering "what if ", At my age I'm going to take more chances, after many years of being under the thumb
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
I once had a rendezvous in Bali. We were both from Perth so not sure if it counts. It didn't work out. He was not the person I thought he was through chatting online. Luckily I did have a back up over there
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've driven as far west as kalgoorlie and as far north as Townsville... But Unfortunately nobody wanted to meet on those two trips...and if they did I was unawares of such things.. However would I meet them for sex?? Probably not.... Would I meet for a coffee?? Probably...depending if it was able to be organised at the time. I tend not to divulge my travel plans too much as I don't like people going out of their way just meet me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wow, some success stories. Might just have to start looking interstate...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes it was worth it.Friends, yes. My situation has changed though.Is that brief enough? ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
at least not for a first meet, but if I have to travel for another reason there are definitely some people who I will be looking up whilst I'm there...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Koko I travelled Sydney to Adelaide and back to meet up with this lady, but she wasn't from RHP. I ended up going too and from for about eighteen months. I was on a 3/1 Roster and I ended up spending my week off in Adelaide. It was great. Hardly came out of the house.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' I agree with you, and if you have a sexy, memorable and enjoyable time, thats fantastic, if it's not what you expected, at least you won't be wondering "what if ", At my age I'm going to take more chances, after many years of being under the thumb You are a very courageous lady and being true to yourself and so honest. That is why we love ya! You are one beautiful person. Take care... xxx
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Seachange73
11 years ago
I do not shy away from chatting men from interstate if I find their profile interesting and we share a lot in common. And of course he has to be physically appealing to me, emotionally stable and intelligent. The latter 2 can only be found out via chatting online or via phone calls/text. Saying that, if we click, there may be a good chance we will meet via my frequent work trips interstate. I have met so many rhp friends via my work trips and the experiences were mostly just so wonderful (not all are sexual). Koko, you are one of the nicest and warmest rhp person I have met and I felt so comfortable around you very quickly. thank you for your time and friendship and certainly will see you again in Perth (missed seeing you last week ) in 2015.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some might actually say distance based relationships are more intimate and successful than live in ones, you would be like dating forever, always have energy for your partner when you meet and build up a lot of passion in the meantime. Having freedom and no everyday pressure combined with intense shared physical experiences, sounds sensational. (might be hard having kids together though)
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