M36
Intimidating physique
May 06 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
mmm don't worry about them, concentrate on the ones who aren't intimidated
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RHP User
10 years ago
Talking as a mature woman who likes younger guys, I dont find you intimidating at all. But....when I first joined here I used to think " why would these buff young guys be interested in me?" Now I realise that its sexual confidence that attracts them so I dont give it a second thought. Just a question...do you yourself look for women with what is regarded as the perfect body?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is she a small woman and feels overwhelmed perhaps ,does she feel you are too perfect? ..Only she can tell you why,everything else is just speculation ..ps you do have a hot bod btw😈 Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm more aware of my imperfections when with someone who is sculptured, as you definately are! I'd appreciate that you've put in effort and you look amazing! I too put effort into my body, I exercise for health and well being, I take care of myself but I love my body, if someone else doesn't, their problem not mine! I bear the scars of womanhood and motherhood and they add to my physical 'imperfections'! I'm not sculptured, it's not the look I want for me nor do I think it suits my body type! But I'm more than the sum of my body, a great person will see the 'whole me' and enjoy me! Mary
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well, you are exactly what my naughty wife loves (though she likes men 6'4" and over). No intimidation for her, pure arousal...as she runs and lifts weights everyday
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RHP User
10 years ago
call me shallow but I'm only attracted to muscle defined/toned and tight bodies. Whenever I've tried to hook up with guys who are not in the greatest shape, I don't go into it in a negative way, but it never works for me, just doesn't turn me on. Future hook ups don't usually happen. Obviously other factors come into it, but physically that has to be there. Body hair is also something I've been struggling with, I'm just not good with it. Aside from the appearance, it's the sexual act itself that I've found to be so much better with a tight fit body. They fuck tighter lol I love the European guys, lot of them are hard workers and tight bodies, and they just seem hornier. Then again, I have found over time that I like it to be full on/dominated. I wasn't sure for a while what I was wanting, but now I've come to realise slow and sensual just doesn't do it for me. At least not at this point in time, things change obviously and I'm only human, I wouldn't knock back a massage most of the time though, I'm never intimidated, go for broke
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RHP User
10 years ago
Isn't EVERY woman..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
I don't find your body intimidating but rather great to look at and even better to play with!! 😉 I appreciate the hard work you put in in achieving your physique as I do work out at the gym and watch people sweat out to be fit and cut. My daily dose of eye candy. So ask her. Maybe she was being flippant. Dont worry. You can 'intimidate' me anytime... ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
...that are tapping their toes to your music.
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RHP User
10 years ago
and falls flat on is face :S 💃
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RHP User
10 years ago
👀
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RHP User
10 years ago
Women are sometimes saying stupid things just as men do. Even beautiful women lol ..'so they may say one thing and mean something completely different', people do that from time to time. She must be an intellectual when you take her words so seriously .
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RHP User
10 years ago
You will only know her reason if you ask her. And you didnt at the time? I would have replied with..."what you talkin' about Willis?"... But at your age, you wouldnt remember that joke. Keep on being sexy and enjoy your body
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RHP User
10 years ago
Perhaps it's not so much about your body and down to the way in which you hold yourself? I have been told I cut an 'intimidating' figure by some people. I'm tall, toned and strut my sparkle in heels that in their own right could be seen as intimidating. I feel however that the observations were made because I am confident in my body and who I am. I feel as if for some people who might not be as confident they could perceive that as intimidating. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'cat_n_the_hatter' Women are sometimes saying stupid things just as men do. Even beautiful women lol ..'so they may say one thing and mean something completely different', people do that from time to time. She must be an intellectual when you take her words so seriously . 😱
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RHP User
10 years ago
that can be your word of the day
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RHP User
10 years ago
You could be the most juiciest delicious watermelon there is, but there's still going to be someone that hates watermelon. Keep doing what you're doing and don't worry about it too much 👌 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
than you. She could just be feeling you out or searching for a compliment from a man she sees as in peak condition. I find mannerisms and facial expressions more intimidating than physical attributes. Best to ask. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
... I might find a man with a super buff body "intimidating" in a sense because I'm not sculpted and the common assumption is that a man who is super buff would prefer women who are very athletic and fit, aka Sports Illustrated Models. :P However, throughout my life, I've encountered fit and buff guys who are lovely and gentlemanly. Since I'm a Curious Georgette, I have asked these guys questions like, "How do you feel about ladies who are chubby?" and whilst some would say they do prefer slim and fit ladies, there are others who are really nice and who are accepting of different body types. One of my long-term ex FWB's was actually a runner-up in the Australian Men's Health magazine Mr Body Beautiful competition one year! I was initially very uncomfortable about my own body but because he was very down-to-earth and appreciative, he soon put me at ease and we got down to ahem... more important stuff. ;) I liked the approach he took when we discussed the body issue - "People become fat for various reasons. If one eats and doesn't exercise, one grows fat! So start exercising to become slimmer!" Very matter-of-fact, no shaming involved, no disgust nor repulsion, etc. Because of his attitude, I was never self-conscious with him and never found his physique to be "intimidating" because frankly, it's not so much the physique that's "intimidating"... it's more the fear of being judged / criticised for one's own imperfections in comparison. :) Darnit... wish there were more guys like him around! We're still great friends although we're no longer FWB's (I left because I eventually ended up in a relationship) and the conversations we have till today are always super frank and no holds barred. :) He's got the body of Adonis and a heart of gold. :D
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm sure you were genuinely puzzled OP. Good on you for securing so many new positive responses to your physique.
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RHP User
10 years ago
very true,,my experience is let me tell you,,i do weights and a bit muscular and when women see my pics i was told so many times that i look big,,too muscular,,intimidating,,all that,,most%90 of women feel scared of muscular or big men,,believe me,,and i am nt even that big,,just 175 cm and 92 kg,,i was turned down so many times cos of my size or the way i look,,this happened a lot
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting '2GuysWithRespect' I'm sure you were genuinely puzzled OP. Good on you for securing so many new positive responses to your physique. The good ol' humblebrag....seen often on the RHP forums (yes...I've done it too ).
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