M37
Is 19 to young
October 09 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes my friend....I'm afraid 19 is too young for me :) but keep looking you never know your luck.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Everytime I look at a photo side ways.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're expecting women to send you flirts??? Bahahaha go and learn how to be a man.
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RHP User
13 years ago
if you consiider broadening your age range that might help.However there are far more men than women here and competition, especially for young women is fierce, Perhaps you should spend less time here,ie not every night and go out into the real world where 19-25 year olds congregate. I think you would have more chance there.x R
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wannabyummymummy
13 years ago
Well there isnt really anything wrong with your profile, while it doesnt stand out as anything special you do have some pics of yourself and you do say what you are after.My concern is that you say 'I am on here every night looking for a lady' honey you are 19!!! go out and get a life, stop wasting your time online and go out and have fun, meet real life girls in real life situations and stop trying so hard.I do think that 19 is a bit young and I know there will be people out there who disagree with me but I really dont think a site like this is the way to go for someone so young and inexperienced in life, I really struggle to understand why you wouldnt just go out and have fun (maybe it is just a generational thing).Anyway you have decided to go this route and that is your choice but let me tell you girls are NOT going to flirt or message you no matter how hot you are or how good your profile is, it is tough going for guys on here and the guys out number the girls something chronic (see many forum posts on 'why dont girls reply', 'what's wrong with my profile?' yadda yadda yadda) you have to be the one to do the chasing and really the odds are against you so get used to rejection, dont take it personally but expect to send a LOT of messages/flirts with no replies, expect a lot of 'no thanks' replies and then a very small percentage of girls who actually meet, narrow that down even further to one that will find a connection with you enough to take it to the next level and that would be a realistic expectation. (see going out clubbing to find a girl is suddenly more attractive isnt it?)Anyway, good luck with it
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Zsuza69
13 years ago
Well Mrs Z here I started doing this at 18 but It was very different I went out to pubs and clubs met people got chatting told them what I wanted, you don't always find what you want on a computer get out and go have a social life.........:-) xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Go learn how to tago, do pub jive and mingle with da ladies Pubs are not always good, as you have to shout etc and its not so easy to pick up as people tend to be drunk these days before they hit the pub, and you have to shout at them anyway to be heard Go into the real world as hard as that is, because you need your social skills before your sexual skills develope to the point where you can hook up a line and go fishing on rhp Its hard enough for experienced guys , but you never know unless you try but just spend less time on here its a distortion of reality TR
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RHP User
13 years ago
rejection comes at any age' not just the young.. first of all ' you are a guy, ... thats the only criteria you need for the majority of females on here.. so dont worry.. most are here for entertainment reasons only... not to play..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Hun That was so not Cool, necessary or warrented.. Fuzz asked for constructive critisism ,not to be verbally attact for being 19yrs.. You're 33yrs and still learning .Atleast he had enough guts to ask for advice and help to make the most of his time online.. So Hun if you don't have anything constructive to say to him then don't post.. You could be so much help if you wanted to I know you're a generous hearted Guy..haaaaaaaaaaa! Lu
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Fuzz:) Thanks for asking for advice not too many Guys at any age would suck it up enough courage to come ask Personal things.. Hun as the Women here have said for Online dating 19is a little Young 25yrs is Pretty much the youngest us here right now would seek as a Friend/Lover.. They're right the ratio is about 20-1 that's if you're a 30yr old Hunk.it increases with age too the further on the scale you get in your age younger others their Maturity..So you're certainly not alone.. I checked out your Profile .You have what's required to interest but not stand out as was said.. I didn't notice your age seeking criteria .If none then maybe add 1 close to you age..Very few Girls Online are seeking younger too. Hun those Females who are meant to come into your life will at the right time.. Sometimes you need to be patient,.. Get out and be noticed too around your hometown and surrounding areas,Clubbing join a sports club play amateur footy surf whatever Interests you're into.Hopefully attract some girls. Even mates you make some have Sisters cousins.They could Introduce you if you're cool.. Unless you expect an avon Lady to knock at your door, take 1 look and want your body right there .. What's the chance of that he!he! Then Don't keep checking online and waste time and money being Home alone on here ...Good Luck! Hun Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wasn't I just educated a little more?? Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its really up to you Fuzzy. When I was 19 I had a 49 year old mates mum crack onto me, then want to run away to spain with me after six months of sneaking around and fucking in secret. That was definitely the most exciting time of my life so don't give up if thats what your after but...You would be better off getting out on the town or try a younger website (pof). You would be better off being on a dating website then a more of a fucking website. You will end up a better person in the end if you take on the dating and treating women with respect then just looking to "fuck" or "play" etc without interaction and build up, the chase and all that other fun stuff.Whatever your after just go get it mate. Don't listen to the cougars saying no, they deep down do want you :) Do what you want!! Go get em fuzz!!!
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boots_69
13 years ago
Tuscanred got it in one.Every bloke should know a couple of basic dances - a waltz, a foxtrot, quickstep, basic box jive, cha cha/samba. (any others you can recommend Tuscan)Most dance schools will teach these over about 8 weeks. Funnily enough these are one of the few places where the girls will outnumber the guys.Then get out in the real world apply a few manners and see what happens.Cheers Boots
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RHP User
13 years ago
Again.....the tone of respones to certain topics is amazing!!! Great effort Fuzz "putting oneself out there". What is not so great are certain responses (again) choosing the glass half empty point of view to a person asking for help. Amazing!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dude, firstly, the advice you get on here is from the handful of women that probably spend a lot of time on the forums...giving advice.Go out with your crew from school or who you grew up with, RHP is your backup.Theres not gonna be many 19 year olds on here anyway, but thats cool, profile for woman from your age up to 30 or something you'll get an awesome education. Hell 19 year olds will probably bore you afterwards.Probably have to spend a bit of coin to be premium etc so your profile stays up near the top, but send a few flirts, on Thurs or early Fri arvo, leave RHP on while you go out with mates, then save some coin when you come home Fri night and send a few more flirts.As long as you saved some taxi money you should go alright.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Fuzzy, heard of stalkbook?? its like facebook but you can stalk your pray so you know your time is mint pmsl!! Enjoy :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
just pray your prey, doesn't stalk you backx R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nah mate.. there's a block button for a reason haha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yeah i work a shit load 6 days a week 12 hour days so i got saturday night to go out thats why im doing this but im trying to get out more but yeah thanks all for the help
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jezebel_jj
13 years ago
JJ here. When i was very young about 11 i think, my mother gave me possibly the best advice any mother could give. She said, "woman go head over heals for a guy who can 1. Dance 2. Who wear a uniform". Initially the idea of say becoming a pilot appealed to me, but as i was only 11. So for the interim i would learn how to dance, 16 years later im still dancing. Im not a pilot or a man in any particular uniform. However what i discovered was that, from a very young age i was never uncomfortable around woman of any age. By the way, ballroom dancers like a lot of professional dance forms, guys and girls (usually dance couples) train so hard together that they generally live their lives centred around one another, they get dressed in the same room (ie you see everything that can be seen), eat, go to the bathroom etc etc. So years later when i started actively chasing tail, i was confident and assertive. At 16 i was picking up woman close to 10 years older than me. At 25 i was sweet talking woman from 18-50 without any problem at all. Personally age was never a consideration for me, attitude, bahaviour, my mannersims from a young age portrayed me as being someone older and wiser than i really was. I attribute all this to Ballroom Dancing.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Personally yes you are too young for me, but that doesn't mean that you are too young for others.... I agree with madam butterfly - good on you for having the guys to get on here and ask for advice....
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