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Is it me?
November 24 2009
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WATERSIDEGUY18
16 years ago
No its not you?Would of replied to your other topics as well, but I thought it would just be easier to send you a message. However I forgot to add my private pics, feel free to reply and I will send you them on hte next reply :)Look forward in hearing from you and even seeing your private pics too :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
You must really turn him on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Obviously i like hearing this... but would there be any other issue? He's 24 and can only last when he's been drinking. What the? I really like him but i can see this becomming a problem in the future...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Obviously i like hearing this... but would there be any other issue? He's 24 and can only last when he's been drinking. What the? I really like him but i can see this becomming a problem in the future...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yep actually i do recall now many moons ago that young guys often do come quickly. I don't know how serious this relationship is or where you want to go with it, but i guess you are going to decide what is important to you. My only advice is don't base a long-term relationship necessarily on sex, cos you could find someone who is good and fine now but further on down the track the sex part could all fall apart, so you need something else to fall back on.XX
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RHP User
16 years ago
well you obviously really turn him on and he gets overly excited..he just needs to get a handle on his sex drive...he will mature in time..he needs to pay attention to your needs and adjust his style to suit or you adjust yours but mostly he needs your input.........or keep him drunk lol,but thats ugly,,a quick hand job before you get started works well..and if you really like each other you will work it all out....this is the fun part pufff,,enjoy xxx D
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RHP User
16 years ago
So how long is enough? 5 min, 10 min, 30 min, 2hrs to be pumping away? i reckon i know the answer ...but all chicks are different i guess!Cheers Nev
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XtremGuy
16 years ago
Sorry cant help you there. Some guys last longer than others i guess. It used to vary with me also. Sometimes shortish if mega turned on but sometime could go and go and not cum. These days i struggle to come for some reason but it seems to work in my favor... a sure fire thing to get me not to cum is to put pressure on actually cumming. The second a girl tells me to come that's it.. it wont happen for sure.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'puffff' Obviously i like hearing this... but would there be any other issue? He's 24 and can only last when he's been drinking. What the? I really like him but i can see this becomming a problem in the future... 1. treat it as a compliment if you really like him and i dont mean fucking 2. if you think there is potential then fucken help him
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RHP User
16 years ago
At his age he should be ready again in a few minutes and he has fingers and a tongue I presume. Take a bit of control and get him concentrating on what you want. I wouldn't blame the poor guy though you are pretty damn hot.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with Noosa, he should be able to go all night!! I would suggest if he does cum too quickly take him into a shower and shower with him get him all excited again!! and as noosa says the whole experience should last ages before you have to worry about when he is gunna blow!! Just My opinion lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
it's you!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Very easy to see why that would happen with a sexy girl like you (laughing) ... however it does not take away the disapointment. Hang in there luv...
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RHP User
16 years ago
maybe blow him or wank him til he cums...then start again before fucking??or maybe a cock ring??or as mentioned about...tell him when he feels like hes at the point of no return to stop...wait til he settles...then start up again??But have fun...dont treat it as a problem...but as something fun thats good for both of you.Get him to blow on your tits...its great for the skin!!Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some Dominant women like making a submissive man ejaculate by massaging his prostate via the rear passage. This can be done till there are no fluids left in reserve... until the body produces more in a few hours. Unfortunately this often saps all desires to have sex... so he can be her play thing and he cant do much about it. Well there is a compromise where enough fluids have been bled to prevent premature ejaculation... but a helper such as Viagra may be needed to keep the penis erect. Once the optimum situation is found... a four hour constant erection is achievable... unless there are other issues at play. Dont go beyond a four hour erection... as the blood will stagnate in the penis... so circulation needs too be restored. If using a cock ring... then allow blood flow every 15 minutes... as you don't want his willy to go gangrenous. Vacuum pumps are another aid... but thats another chapter.
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floyd277
16 years ago
I know a gal that has some black skimpy undies and written in white is "caution - may cause premature ejaculation" lmao ((: seriously a lot of guys have this "problem" at some point in their lives, can be physical can be psychological, the main thing is if he is someone you care about then talk about it and workout ways it won't leave you wanting more - as others have suggested more play before/during/after may be an answer. Toys/vibe for you may be another. making him cum before you have intercourse either oral or manual - getting you so close either oral or manual before he penetrates - there are so many options and exploring them all is so much fun!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I had another problem one of my exs said i took way too long to cum , But i think the problem was no enough foreplay as in she woudl not do any oral, I am not suggesting this a solution for the problem as it was one of the many reason i dumpted that ex , but yeah maybe something to look at
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RHP User
16 years ago
When i was 17 i'd cum after about 3 stokes, now i am an archeologists treasure trove I can last for at least 7.
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ttgong
16 years ago
maybe just playing around a bit first...get him to a point before he does, let him relax and build up again...see if he can start to control it a bit better for you so you can enjoy things more ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now we know why you've been ignoring guys on here and stringing us along....you're chasing a ken doll.
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RHP User
16 years ago
2 things come to mind.1) Some girls just feel THAT good.2) He has an overactive imagination and all the thoughts that turn him on go through his head, making holding back impossible.
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RHP User
16 years ago
from now on u r not allowed to use the term 'ken doll' !!! thats all u say...:-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
The best way is to always make a girl cum first. Weather that is from fingers tongue, dildos whatever. ( i spose that is more aimed at him) But once you guys are at it and he feels like he is guna cum, he should pull and start working on you again.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I find that guys who have this problem, i did some years ago find having the woman on top and steering the pace and depth really helps you get a grip on this. Once they get the idea of how to move they can find it much easier to control. Also it would depend on how long he has waited to get some. I used to masturbate an hour or 2 prior to going to my ladys and found this helped until i learnt how to hold off
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like to blame religion for this one. The problem is often to do with poor masturbation techniques. Unfortunately a lot of guys during early adulthood nip to the toilet or bathroom for a quick wank, trying desperately not to get caught, and thus learn bad habits. I was raised by parents who allowed me complete privacy, and I quickly learned the joys of a long extended wank session (the longer it takes to wank the stronger the orgasm) The PC muscles play an enormous part in orgasm, but unfortunately most men have little awareness of their PC muscles. While women are taught to excercise theses muscles at every opportunity, most men don't even realise them. For those men reading this, next time you urinate try to stop peeing mid stream. The muscles used to do this are the PC muscles. The easiest way to prevent premature ejaculation is to relax these muscles when you feel that you are about to cum. It may take some practice (and regular PC excercise) to really recognise whether the muscles are relaxed or contracted, but it's well worth the effort. It is literally impossible to cum while the PC muscles are relaxed.For the more advanced, try to get as close to orgasm as possible before relaxing the PC muscles. If you do this several times it will greatly enhance the strength of orgasm. And for those with PC muscles that can lift a car, try contracting as hard as you possibly can at the point of orgasm. With a little practice you can still reach orgasm, but prevent ejaculation (yes it is possible for men to achieve multiple orgasms).It's as simple as that!! No need to buy into that bullshit AMI nasal delivery crap!!!!!!
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lukeyboybad
16 years ago
Quoting 'shawnie74' I like to blame religion for this one. The problem is often to do with poor masturbation techniques. Unfortunately a lot of guys during early adulthood nip to the toilet or bathroom for a quick wank, trying desperately not to get caught, and thus learn bad habits. I was raised by parents who allowed me complete privacy, and I quickly learned the joys of a long extended wank session (the longer it takes to wank the stronger the orgasm) The PC muscles play an enormous part in orgasm, but unfortunately most men have little awareness of their PC muscles. While women are taught to excercise theses muscles at every opportunity, most men don't even realise them. For those men reading this, next time you urinate try to stop peeing mid stream. The muscles used to do this are the PC muscles. The easiest way to prevent premature ejaculation is to relax these muscles when you feel that you are about to cum. It may take some practice (and regular PC excercise) to really recognise whether the muscles are relaxed or contracted, but it's well worth the effort. It is literally impossible to cum while the PC muscles are relaxed.For the more advanced, try to get as close to orgasm as possible before relaxing the PC muscles. If you do this several times it will greatly enhance the strength of orgasm. And for those with PC muscles that can lift a car, try contracting as hard as you possibly can at the point of orgasm. With a little practice you can still reach orgasm, but prevent ejaculation (yes it is possible for men to achieve multiple orgasms).It's as simple as that!! No need to buy into that bullshit AMI nasal delivery crap!!!!!! this is really true .........i read about this some time ago and have been using it ever since and it works 9 out of 10 timesit just takes practice.......although it does feel a bit weird the first couple of times puff just get him to practice excersizing his pc muscles
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RHP User
16 years ago
If he goes too soon try and get him hard again then he will last much longer. it just means he has to stave off the urge to fall asleep.
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RHP User
16 years ago
girl u make me laugh... so hot and yet she doesnt know it.... fuck yeah still a chance for us blokes... an insecure babe!!! but seriously puffff- believe me u r ok really ; physically that is...me pig again sorry ....and use a mirror dumshit :-) P.S.1 Any chance of red lipstick? would bring up your eyes... P.S.2. pufff .. we are not all aresholes... just take your time... i hope u r better now... you will be ok....just let me know...
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RHP User
16 years ago
You must really turn him on good on you. He should be on Nasal it works!
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RHP User
16 years ago
hope ya eggs get cooked though...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have the problem of women complaining i take to long to blow . We should get together and try to work it out im at my wits end .
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RHP User
16 years ago
i think a cock ring is the answer i cant blow with one go to a sex shop and shop for you both
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RHP User
16 years ago
if he is at all considerate he will work on it, sometimes in the early days yes i would come too early, but I worked hard to work out what made her tick, and now it is the opposite problem, like this morning 4am children asleep, before I headed off to work, a little caressing, bit of body rubbing just being close and intimate, maybe she lasted 5 strokes, so if you like the guy and he likes you, you will work it out, try not to compare with previous lovers or people on this site, enjoy who you are and what he is. my 2 bits worth anyway dzynr
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RHP User
16 years ago
shawnie 74 thanks for the enlightened advice, always could control PC but tried to contract to hold it back, dam I was supposed to relax See how it goes next time dzynr
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RHP User
16 years ago
Long enough may not be a reality puff, if you cant cum from vaginal penatration.
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RHP User
16 years ago
it is all down to knowing your body. I can feel when it is getting close, it being the orgasm, and can slow down and back off the sensations till it passes. then back into my rhythm. I can keep this up for a fair while, but I do my exercises when i am taking a piss, usually first thing in the morning - it is the strongest flow to stop mid pee, count to 10 and let it out again, then stop, and so on. In the bedroom, it keeps me able to get the girl to cum, usually via oral, and sometimes through penetration.If the woman goes down on me, I can usually expect to disappoint them, no woman has ever made me cum whilst sucking my dick. It has never, nor will ever happen. Dunno why, but it just never has. when we have penetration after oral, I can go for a lot longer than other men if she has tried to get me off with her mouth, and sometimes I have been asked to hurry up and cum, knowing full well that that isn't going to happen...
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