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Is it possible... Can it be Done?

March 16 2012

We are curious to know if anyone has had success in touching on the subject of swinging with another couple to gauge if they may be open to it, BUT, without giving it away that you are into it if their response is a resounding NO?   We are talking about people you socialise with outside of the RHP life, those where you wonder if you could take it to an exciting new level with them...   How could you bring up the subject while also hiding your own RHP tendancies if required?   Is it possible... can it be done?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    That place opens up conversation for any number of sexual subjects.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Nope we never tried it. Dangerous terrritory.........Could be akin to getting your Gremlins wet....and oh so not in a good way!Felonius

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Anyone in mind? Get ready to quickly swap 'Singing' for 'Swinging' and have a fav karaoke bar ready should the question be met with 'Vanilla Shock'. . I'd love to be a fly on the wall when that conversation goes down.

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    Maybe start with telling them you heard another couple talking about it when you were having lunch one day in a shopping centre or at a table in a restaurant one night over dinner. That way yoou can get their thoughts without actually saying that you do. ET xox

  • redhotozz

    redhotozz

    14 years ago

    LOL eagertongue4u, you can now also be called silvertongue!The best way we've found is to bump into them in the spa at a party and then its all in the open, lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If you're out on the town, with your selected couple, make sure to guide them past an 'adult' store and suggest going in for a lark. Point out different things and ask their opinions and gauge their responses. With your tongue placed firmly in your cheek, say, "I'd let him jump her if I could jump you. hahaha."     disclaimer : In no way do I guarantee success!

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    14 years ago

    These were not friends of ours but ! There was a very attractive couple that i was dealing with at work.I was very attracted to her and i know he was Mrs Luvsilvers type! Maybe 3 or 4 years younger than us,interested in similar hobbies as us.On a few occasions i was that close to just asking them outright if they were swingers as they seemed to give me some type of vibe .That vibe may have just been all in my mind as i can not pin point one single moment that should really make me think that way- maybe it was just my dirty mind running away-lol Anyway I didn't say anything to them as they were customers and don't really want this secret (part time) pastime of ours. Yes i was very close to saying something to them. Yes i am glad i didn't say anything. Yes i regret i didn't say anything.   Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    As a couple of readers have said,just bring it up in a conversation any number of ways   1, friends you know do it what do you guys think of swinging 2, say you guys were going to meet some friends at a club but went into the wrong place, say it was a swingers club and the laugh your arses off, then wait to see what they say about it. 3, act dumb and say you seen one advertised in the paper and ask them if they know what one is, because most people who know what on is has researched it. 4, and if all else fails just usk them if they like to swing, say it's your fav past time and ask them if they would like to go to the park and hope on the swings lol   realldless on how you can approach the subject wiithout asking them straight out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We might even try them ourselves.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If it were that easy, RHP wouldn't exist.