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Jealousy, Newbies,Rant!

January 18 2017

Okay so we arent new to RHP.. just took a break and made a brand new profile anyway! I think i just got my first hint of Couple jealousy! As in the 'How dare you talk to others' kind of jealousy.. All i did was bring up that i was going on a date with a single bisexual lady (i can date women alone) and i see the little green eyed monster poking through! Has this happened?! Does this happen?! Have you ever had a couple get Jealous of the fact that you are talking to others? This is a first for me! The mr thinks i am reading into it to much but i know the green eyed monster when i see it! Also we have noticed how many newbies have joined which is fine! But they all seem more interested in sharing photos.... no conversation! Oh and don't dare ask them if they wanna catch up! Thats when they run! How can we get passed this hurdle?! We have not had this issue when we were on here before! If was actually EASY to get a social or a play meet! Please help me out! Where am i going wrong! Am i being to Forward?! Heck i just can not be fucked with sending photos with no convo or no meet ups! Sorry this has turned into a rant! Damn it feels good to let that out! Xx miss Sugar Xx - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Envy and jealousy can be confused. He wasnt upset that someone was going to fuck you, maybe he was envious that you were going to fuck her and he was going to sit at home having a wank? I was in a relationship where we were allowed to play separately with same sex but not opposite. It was all good. Just made the other extra horny. But every mind is different and different again delendant on moods. He needs to be honest with you and more importantly honest with himself so boundaries can be put in place. Honesty is the only thing that can make it work.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I think the op meant other couples getting jealous, not her partner? Just the way I read it. op did you mean other people getting jealous?

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    9 years ago

    Don't let it phase you. I doubt there are many couples who would be jealous of other couples interactions on the whole. It goes against form to behave that way and it's possibly gone against this particular couple in the past which is why they may be feeling a bit neglected and perhaps envious of your current success. You reap what you sow, if it's sour grapes you'll get sour grapes. No one said it was going to be easy for ANYONE to get what they want from RHP or life for that matter! Stay on the UP and remember the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind. Enjoy your tryst and make it fun for her as well ~ Indy On Safari

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Mmmmm. Thanks. Better to go to specsavers...............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    .

  • MissRedFox

    MissRedFox

    9 years ago

    Maybe not specifically newbies....but yes those who seem to only want photos and/or want sexual details but don't seem to want to meet up. But then I'm feeling tired from the general lack of effort. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Why would you be discussing your plans with other people?? To brag a little, perhaps? If I viewed your profile, would I see words relating to you being "discreet? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yes, I've experienced this but you find it helps weed out who not to bother with meeting. I think whether it be envy or jelousy, they're annoyed because; A) They want to meet aka bone you first B) They are wishing they'd found the unicorn and were the ones meeting her. Be happy you dodged that dodgy bent cupids arrow! And enjoy your date! Nibbles Xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I was refering to other couples not my partner! I wouldn't rant about personal matters that's what communication is for :-P he is very happy for me to Date Women i am lucky! I actually would love to give Poly a shot at least once which he was shocked! I can't think of anything better than us having a sexy, smart and beautiful girlfriend for us to share! Thankyou for the answers lovelies :-) it felt good to get that rant out! I am usually very positive! So there is not any stories of couples who get jealous or become clingy? I am pleasantly suprised! I shall continue my search! And give these guys the benefit of the doubt as my partner suggested. How do we break the consistant photo swapping people! I have started to become overly blunt which tends to scare most away.. especially when they are very very new.. or shall i call them RHP virgins? I am going to take a wild guess and say its a nervous thing and seeking acceptance.. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I think you are intelligent enough to know that if that's how the conversation may have gone.... ....there's no cause for the kind of jealous response that inspired this topic. Don't you agree!! 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You know what you want. Go for it. Forget the rest, and as long as you and your husband are happy ( and it looks as if you are) forget the rest. Jeolousy is such an ugly thing. I've experienced it personally but not as a couple. I take the couple thing as ownership issues. You do not owe someone anything, and you certainly don't own another person. Yuck! Find those who you are happy with, and forget the rest. 😊TJ. X

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    That is a bloody brilliant idea! I shall do that next time! Thankyou summer in sydney As for mischeiviousLad - No. I never brag? It came up in general conversation when we got conversation from them.. never bragging. And when i do speak of experiences i do not include names. I am pretty honest person. So if someone cannot accept that then it really is not my problem :-P I also agree with someone else forgot their name that jealousy is far from sexy! No time for jealousy when you getting spicey with others - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm a newbie too. I find it very frustrating that there are so many people here that do not have a profile picture. I'm happy to swap pics, with conversation as well. But I'd like to see a persons face before their cock or boobs. Maybe I'm too old fashioned 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'TheVanguard' Mmmmm. Thanks. Better to go to specsavers............... I love you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Not couples but two guys I was seeing would both get a bit uncomfortable/jealous/sulky if anything was mentioned about me even messaging someone else. They were more than happy to share their trysts with me including showing me photos. Being new I let it go on. And I'm married? Anyway I agree with Summer - jealousy isn't sexy at all. There's a lot more fun out there if you continue to have an issue. And eberythinf Summer said on the pic swapping scenario too. Good luck!

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'TheVanguard' . Fucked up there !! Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Look who it is 😜😛 Haven't seen your sexy male half for so long, actually it's hard to pick who's sexier now, neck and neck 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    So do I, step aside sista 😠 you know how competitive I am. Shit, did I just admit that 😀

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Fucked up there. Lol. The other half leaving his profile on the PC..... When it said " your post has ben sent for approval" l thought WTF. I've lost instant posting! Then it was oh dear...... busted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yeah a nice memory ✌ Anyone wanna join me in the naughty corner 💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It was actually a compliment. Wasted, it would seem. have a genuinely nice day 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    9 years ago

    Some people join this site with all good intentions of meeting up and having the best sex time of their life... Yet when it starts getting real, some prefer to just send messages, photos & hide behind that - for lack of confidence, lack of courage, and maybe if they have a partner, they are not into it as much. Take it for what it is. Find what you want and let the others go Mrs C

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I actually posted a thread about this exact topic, of pic hunters and when it comes to the business end of supplying a phone number, they stop contact. My Ad's are through another site, but even verified members on here (they use that as some kind of badge on honesty) still play games. Obviously the moderators didn't like my thread as it hasn't been approved or its been deleted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yes it is a business transaction when I fork out $300+ on a room plus 5 hours travelling time etc.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm sick of people adding us on Kik just to be proven fake. Can't trust the verified profiles.