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Just wondering......
June 10 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Getting down to Earth, . But I like to think of men as still human? . Selectivity yes, insensitivity, no. . Peachy
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are rude narcissistic people everywhere..I don't go into the chat rooms they sound a bit scary to me 😨..oh and next time you go to the supermarket leave a trail of breadcrumbs,that always seems to work 😜xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Fully agree with you Koko, some people are a little too full of themselves I think. It doesn't hurt to be nice but some people have no idea very sad for them, but better for the rest of us who can be xo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We see that behaviour everywhere, just look at the forums. No matter how someone looks, I think attitudes like that are a great way to make yourself unattractive very quickly. I agree it's easy (especially for the women) to let the attention go to your head. Like Voltaire (and Spiderman's uncle Ben) said: With great power comes great responsibility. I personally think it's good thing when people display that kind of behaviour in public for all to see, rather than in private messages. Sometimes I want to comment, and other times I feel that giving someone enough rope to hang themselves is the way to go.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Because I like a bit of more privacy. So the people who go there, wouldn't it be because they like ALL the attention.....they are there so everyone can see them, do they even have the RIGHt to kick someone off? Hmmm don't get the mindset. its like LOOK AT ME LOOK AT ME....................but not you......
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think it sums it up nicely....and yes it's been modified slightly to suit the context.... "Just owning a fully functioning vagina does nothing to inspire me to approach a woman's profile... While I realise women have the luxury of that arrogance; it does come across as hypocritical at best when you see thread after thread, complaining about the quality of the men on here, yet their own actions attract nothing less than the men that they hold in disdain." P.S. My Ten Commandments for women's profiles won't be ready until the weekend btw 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
11 years ago
I've most recently ventured into the chat rooms. I lurk a fair bit only because keeping up at times gives me RSI 😜 I've had my cam on twice and I don't care who asks to see, I give them access. I talk to everyone who says hello but I decline private chats from anyone, only because I want to be part of the chat room! I think people forget we are all on RHP, you are no better than anyone else, and I don't subscribe to that theory at all. People are rude and full of themselves at times and hiding behind the screen gives them ' more power' to ridicule and exclude. I haven't yet received a 'wanna fuck' message but I've received some pretty close. I still send a polite no thanks reply! I have met incredible men through chat and forums, and I'm going on a date tonight 😎 with one such gorgeous young man! Be polite at all times, regardless of what you are getting in return, is my philosophy. Mary xx ps: happy belated birthday beautiful lady xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree, there are some lovely guys on here, and I count myself lucky that Ive met some fantastic ones who have remained friends. Enjoy the date...... and thank you xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Agree with Freya Please leave a trail of breadcrumbs when you go to the supermarket on a Saturday morning. Much appreciated. Thank you XX
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RHP User
11 years ago
These people's judgment on who is "fugly" means little and those opinionated comments should have not escaped their narrow minded, and clearly ridiculously good looking heads. I know who I'd rather associate with, and that would be the gorgeous fuglies. Respect to you Koko for raising the topic. Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hope the mods let this through. I have been on another site where the standard procedure is to ask before you click on a cam, you can put your cam on "ask" or "anyone" mode, up to you, personally I think it works much better as it removes the sense of entitlement, maybe someone who uses chat can suggest that to admin through the proper channels. Koko agree with the rest 100% and would say a few guys have the same superiority complex, such is life.
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
We used to frequent the chat rooms, here on RHP, when we were paid up members, and found that we got dozens of really lewd and disrespectful whispers from so called single guys - you know - the ones that start out along the lines of hot pix wanna fuck etc etc. We had clearly stated, within our profile wording, at that point in time, that we were NOT interested in receiving whispers and messages from so called single guys, but that did not deter them at all and we were bombarded with messages from guys simply disrespecting our wishes and taking chances with the hope that we would lower our standards , compromise and play with a so called single male. Clearly they did not respect our wishes. We are certain that the female profiles on here, get swamped by such whispers & messages and to be honest it can become tiresome and annoying, and its because the guys dont read and dont listen, that people get pissed off and then snap at them, tell them to p*ss off / take a hike and get lost. They can be like a pack of bloody seagulls swooping down on a plate of french fries ... extremely annoying. The same happens at swingers clubs, on those nights that they allow single males in - exactly the same behaviour. Its as if they become so horny that they are then unable to think clearly and then they start to behave like brainless predators. We no longer go to any swingers clubs and parties where they allow single males in, its just too stressful and too exhausting, having to turn them away. We dont think that the attention that females and couples get on here, goes to their heads as in a narcissistic way, but rather it just makes them fed up and frustrated ... its a never ending stream of messages, whispers, all saying pretty much the same thing ... that the majority of these guys are just after a quick shagg and see the women on here as cum-buckets and holes to be filled. Obviously they only behave in an unacceptable manner on here, in the chat rooms and at swingers clubs. We have often asked them if they use the same lame opening lines when they walk up to someone at a bar, at work or even at the supermarket . Perhaps they feel that as this is a sex site, that it is acceptable to talk to the females / couples on here in such a clearly disrespectful manner ? And they think that this will make the female/couple attracted to them and that as a result of their comments, they will score with that female/couple ? Clearly they dont understand the difference between a fantasy cyber world and reality. How would you all react if a complete stranger walked up to you, dick in hand and started saying that he wants to fuck you, wants you to sit on his face, whilst he does unmentionable things to you ? A more gentle, tactful approach would be much better. Just our opinion, based on our experience. And not single male bashing here . We have had a few couples sending similar messages and its always turned out to be the male, of the couple, making the lewd and disrespectful comments. We tend to send a polite reply that we are not interested, and then ask that they read our profile wording again. If they persist with the messages and or comments, then we simply block them and they then cease to exist for us.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Which supermarket ?
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Koko, hehe. that made me gigle. Now, you dear, know me enough to say I am borderline Chat Slut as I would chat with almost everybody thee. It wasnt that long ago when I entered the chat room (could be March 2015) with a lot of depredation (and deprivation lol) to satisfy my curiosity as I read about it on the forum. You were the only one I knew there then and you welcomed me with open arms... That gave me enough courage to log in occasionally, wave a little bit to the chat regulars, and lurk until I understood the dynamics. Lurking is good and it takes a lot of courage, and great speed-reading skills to boot, to carry a convo with the people there. thank you for your encouragement. since then, i have made myself part of the furniture, chatted to people, newbies and regulars, in a avery social, fun-filled atmosphere. I am respectful of people, not getting too familiar or overstepping the boundaries with the name-calling unless I am friends with them (it becomes a term of endearment after that) nor getting into fights. pfft. We can be selective with the people we want to chat to, why not. we do that everyday in rhp and real life but it does not mean I am entitled to be rude to them. Manners still runs thick in my blood. I just say I can't chat to them. I dont have a cam available (my story andc will stick to it) but I like to be part of the cheeky banter in the chat room rather than the private chats. It's like a cyber food-fight in the cyber mess hall. See you in the chat room, gorgeous.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Totally agree - some people let their ego inflate passed the boundaries of bearable. However To those who somehow feel validated by this, despite not being 'real' - each to their own. I am only concerned about those whom interest me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Get a life. Great thread Koko
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mexicans
11 years ago
Thanks Kokoflamingo . Some women on here do have high opinions and thats ok but , lets be lovely and civil towards each other.
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precious142
11 years ago
Give the supermarket a big miss.... Lets stick to our fav bar......... That's where the real (and real nice) people hang out.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I understand the frustration of the serial lewd whisperers thing, but in that case you just block. Im talking about the guys who pluck up courage to try and talk to people and get shot down in flames because they are obviously not what these people are looking for. No need to out them by name, which happens.....Oh, "so and so" would you not whisper to me/us again, you are so not our type".. Thats what Im getting at, people being arrogant and rude. Or up themselves, as I would say. Manners and being polite cost nothing, if someone becomes offensive use the block button. Saying that, 50zcool, you are right. A certain RHPer, who lists himself as Very Attractive, was on chat earlier and said "Have you seen the Perthsocialites"profile page? What a bunch of hideous beasts". Charming! I wonder if he will ever find that gloriously perfect woman that he is obviously looking for? Oh, and 50z........... that would be the one near you?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just like in real life you're gonna have people who think their shit doesn't stink. Usually it's those who have the upperhand - in this case attractive women. Also partners of said women who don't like single men going near their women (but seem fine annoying the single women themselves lol). Personally I find a lot more mud being slung in the forums than the chatroom, but it all amounts to the same thing. Some ppl just build themselves up by tearing others down.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Saying that, 50zcool, you are right. A certain RHPer, who lists himself as Very Attractive, was on chat earlier and said "Have you seen the Perthsocialites"profile page? What a bunch of hideous beasts". Charming! How does he know I'm hideous! I had a bucket over my head!!! He is just jealous you did not invite him to your nekkid lawn bowls... I expect that my invite is in the mail?
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RHP User
11 years ago
We shall arrange naked bowling for your next visit Followed by a cock tail in Andaluz, gorgeous! xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I looked at the Perth Socialites page and all I can say is ,that the man you refer to is the hideous beast..hugs xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
You cannot choose how people behave towards you.... ..... but you can choose how you respond. Regardless of any so-called "RHP hot" factor.......it seems that a LOT of guys in here choose to behave in a manner that earns them being ignored or blocked. (in the non virtual world, that behaviour would earn them a smack in the gob) They have the capacity to learn... or not to learn.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you, I dont know what he looks like but it seems he thinks he is all that...I just hope he realises before its too late that true beauty comes from within xxx
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Some people are just assholes....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
Perhaps a hat full of arseholes 😘xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
When entering the forums, chat or even just signing up to RHP. You are going to get messages from people who dont read a profile before hand. Also getting a mouthful when you so no thanks. The chat room is what you make it, ignore those you dont like and chat to ones you do. That is why they gave us the block option isnt it. Personally that guy who said all the people in the profile perth socialities are fugglies. Well looks like he will miss out on hanging out with some great people. His loss
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RHP User
11 years ago
Indeed... because the people in our social circle are the most beautiful friends I have ever met xxxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are surely not what they used to be. I stopped going into the chat rooms months ago now, can't really say I miss them either, or the attitudes of some. Is a shame really.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' We see that behaviour everywhere, just look at the forums. No matter how someone looks, I think attitudes like that are a great way to make yourself unattractive very quickly. I personally think it's good thing when people display that kind of behaviour in public for all to see, rather than in private messages. The ugliest behaviours are the ones we don't readily see in ourselves. It's right up there with 'the truth hurts' and, more often than not, it's not until someone brings it to our attention that we're any the wiser. There's no denying some people are deliberately offensive, but it's fair to say, to a certain extent, sometimes it's not so much that that was the intent, but sometimes individual belief systems have been confronted (if not challenged) in some way, on some level which is where, I think, the danger of things escalating out of control lies.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hello to all new to the sandpit thow have been sandbagging for a while and have learnt so much in the world of rhp Ive posted a bogan style profile which has worked wonders for weeding out the shollow full of themsevles competitors out real fast and have been enjoying some quality chat with some very interesting ladys for all walks of life Thoes shollow full of themselves types wouldn't get a crack in the real world The only advice I think of giving is people need Tom's additued, Tom doesn't give a f@#k what people think Thanks enjoy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hello to all new to the sandpit thow have been sandbagging for a while and have learnt so much in the world of rhp Ive posted a bogan style profile which has worked wonders for weeding out the shollow full of themsevles competitors out real fast and have been enjoying some quality chat with some very interesting ladys for all walks of life Thoes shollow full of themselves types wouldn't get a crack in the real world The only advice I think of giving is people need Tom's additued, Tom doesn't give a f@#k what people think Thanks enjoy - Posted from rhpmobile
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