M63
Large scars
May 16 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't see why they'd be an issue...they aren't for me.I have a hip to hip scar from surgery a few years ago. I personally don't like how mine looks on my hips but then, most people have something about themselves they don't like, but don't have a problem with it on others...go figure! lol I got a tattoo down my right side that covers the scar on that side, and eventually i will get another on my left hip to cover that side. Tattoos are way cheaper than corrective surgery...and prettier!
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On_Safari
9 years ago
Always have, it also extends slightly up toward my belly button kinda in the shape of a guitar my partner says. I have a steel plate in my chin and a scar there. I am yet to come across any man who thinks my scars detract from the overall package and most women (having scars themselves from c-sections, hysterectomy, heart surgery) accept that scars are a pretty natural part of life. I love my scars, they're a part of my journey through this life and they all have their own story. OP if you meet someone and they're put off by your scar then maybe they're not the right person to begin with. Starts with the scar then they start picking about other things and gradually wear your self-esteem. If someone really likes you they'll see past your flaws to the beauty within. 👍🏽 ~ Indy
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RHP User
9 years ago
I find them either neutral or a turn on. Can't say I have ever been turned off by one. I'd be curious if there are people with no scars at all? Life and experience is etched on us, in one way or another.
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SZandG
9 years ago
I have 2 smaller ones on my face./from glass/Never bothered what people think,they accept you who you are with scars or without.If someone judge you by your scars,not the right person for you then.Mrs Sz
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RHP User
9 years ago
On other people. I love tracing my fingers over them, or my tongue. And I like hearing how people got them, it gives me an insight into what they've been through. I've embraced the scars on my body but not the ones on my stomach. I have a hate relationship with them, and as much as I've tried to ignore them or love them I can't. Because of the surgeries I've had my scars have altered the shape of my stomach. But I'm hoping one day I will accept them as a eautoful part of myself.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Scars are nothing to be afraid of, the only turn of about them is if one wants to hide em or is ashamed of em. I had a girlfriend with a huge scar on her belly from surgery, it took time and a lot of kisses til she stopped hiding it. Another positive thing about scars is, that the skin around them is really sensible, making it a good spot to caress, kiss and lick :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Love scars, they would get special attention from me 👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
They tell a story of your life good or bad but the experiences are what makes you who you are today. I am neither turned on or off by them but do love to know the story behind them all. I am very lucky that I personally only have 3 scars 1 on hand from a burn as a kid 1on other hand that was crush when a car fell off a jack but they are not to noticeable the last one is like all other beautiful mums out is from bringing my beautiful children into this world . On the other hand my hubby has quite a few on hands legs and 1 on his face from a not so good childhood but that's long story but has made him who he is today a great loving husband and a great father to all our beautiful children.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Tell a story of your life :) love the whole person. I personally have a few scars and I really love one of them as it gave me the best present of my life :) if someone is worried about my scars then I guess they are perfect themselves? hmm I would say see you later if that was the case, move over for the right person to see all of me and kiss my scars as they tell them about my life :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
And congrats on your operation,winner winner chicken dinner There's a good saying ,chicks dig scars , So just go with it ,its part of you and your story now ,I have heard bio oil is incredible for helping with scar tissue and the healing Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I could provide that
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Sawadee
9 years ago
Wear it with pride... It's there now and will fade . Olive oil is great for scars . Take it from a old footy player who has several..
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have scars on both my knees and one elbow from falling off a bike when I was a teenager - that's for going downhill at full speed with no brakes 😞 I had ovarian dermoids which resulted in the removal of one ovary and left me with one reconstructed ovary and a big vertical scar from my belly button to just above my pubes. (I know what you mean about the shape of your tummy, Soft x) I was told I might not be able to have any children which was devastating as I was engaged to be married at the time. But out popped 3 beautiful babies 😊 One last scar I have is hardly visible as it's behind my ear. I am deaf in one ear and it was an exploratory operation which involved flipping my ear forward and looking behind my eardrum. (Sorry for the gory details 😛) Unfortunately they found only scar tissues and removing them wouldn't fix the problem so everything went back as it was and I'm still half deaf 😛 but my kids say I have eyes at the back of my head because I know of whatever mischief they're up to lol I used to loathe my scars but have grown to accept mine as they're a part of me. And I love hearing the stories behind people's scars. They do shape the person we've become. A little cliche but, whatever doesn't kill you does make you stronger. (OP, I hope your operation was a success 🌷) - Posted from rhpmobile
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dudendudette
9 years ago
I'm only 28, but have very large scars from either side of my spine, all the way around to the front of my tummy, and from my upper, inner thigh down to my knee on both legs. They're from surgery to remove excess skin from weight loss over a long period. To be honest, 99% of the time, I forget they're there. They're only about 3 years old, so not completely faded. If I saw any scars on anyone I'd met with, male or female, I wouldn't think twice about it. If someone has an issue with your scars, then it's a reflection of their hangups and hollow personalities, not yours! Be proud of yours and the resilience they represent! Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have a good one beside my right eye that runs up through the eyebrow...no hair grows on it, of course, so I comb-over my eyebrow ...and I'm quite fond of the assymetry. It must cut though some nerves and I look a little bit evil in some photos because of it. Had it since I was about 5.
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RHP User
9 years ago
To all you that have replied to my post, Am feeling better after receiving your posative feedback = have paid up and put myself back out there. Thanks. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Woo hoo, I'm not alone with my scars nor being deaf in one ear. Hi tulips4u, together we could hear normally ... lol. I think scars add character & tell a story. Mine are a part of me but don't define me. I have one up the back of my head from neurosurgery that's hidden by my hair, my throat was cut last year in another surgery but the scar that actually bothers me is the one on my upper arm. It looks lumpier now to me than when it had a tumour there. I tend to wear sleeves that cover it as I don't like the way it looks. It's hard not to obtain scars as we age, either through accidents or surgery. The main thing is that we got through whatever caused it & have a chance of living our lives fully though sometimes with new adjustments depending on what the cause was.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I didn't know you had a scar 😍 look out, I'll start flirting with you again, have to give Betty the elbow first, muscle in 😎
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RHP User
9 years ago
Always happy to lend you an ear 👂😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
U went through a tough a battle and emerged out the other side. Nothing to be ashamed of. Something to be proud of 👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Betty's so kind...I'm sure she's the sharing sort..
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RHP User
9 years ago
And so do the girls. You are here with us so cherish life with us🤖 If you are lookin to make the scar smaller, try bio-oil. Man the ex-pregnant girls swear by that stuff. Also when I got my Penis enlargement, I put bio-oil on it really really fast and you can hardly tell I got an enlargement. Oops I mean a surgery.🙈💪 I think you can buy it at the chemist. Your Pal, Swinga
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi, Wow, Family detail , We Mom and I have had a few surgerys so we know what its like and I have had to undress bath /wash and redress wounds from surgerys and I was aged 11 major concerns as well , so yes some of us are well versed , and yes the micro surgery is far better now than in 1959 they are for my self are still there, as we say.... For some of us to have a life its a part we have to carry with us,, The Mental scars are far worse in... my... mind than the body scars ...noeleena....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Definitely not an issue for me. It's just another great conversation for beneath the sheets 👍🏻😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Recently we met talked, laughed, played and played and played some more with a sexy couple who were everything true to the lifestyle. We knew when going into play our new lady friend had scars, which at no point were a concern to either of us before during or after play. We did not ask about the scars because they don't make a difference, They didn't effect our time with them, certainly not in a negative manner and if anything she should be commended for her approach to loving her body as it is now. If any scars stop you from playing maybe this lifestyle is not for you there is more to this than visual aspects. Here conecting with others, respectong them, creating friendships while learning more about yourself & your partner and strengthening your relationship is what matters. - Posted from rhpmobile
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