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Lets play a game
November 18 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
but it wasnt his kind of thing. Sure for me I would love to give it a go but maybe he was concenred that others might hear the egg? he would lose the remote? he was only out for a fun night and not to see how turned on you could get? he was a little upset you needed a toy to turn you on (his mind only)? There are many reasons why it just wasnt his thing. Maybe next time think about offerring that sort of thing for a quiet night in watching a movie - some people arent into the public thing and the thought of getting caught might of actually been a turn off for him. Kisses Focus
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wannabyummymummy
13 years ago
I am curious to know how just how much you talked about this before hand? Did you discuss it and he was keen and then got cold feet? or did you kind of 'surprise' him with it and it caught him off guard?Like focus said there are a miriad of reasons why this wasnt his cup of tea but there may be alternatives, and you are only going to know if you have the conversation with him.To answer your actual question i dont think there is anything wrong with what you wanted, in fact this is something that appeals to me also however i think maybe you just didnt communicate it effectively.I would suggest having a chat about it in a non threatening way, ask him how he felt about it? if he would like to give it another go in different circumstances? maybe explain exactly what the appeal is for you, what you would get out of it and what the rewards for him will be.
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RHP User
13 years ago
if you did the same thing to me you could not wipe the grin off my face, but every body is diffrent, if he was not intrested thats his loss, move on and dont let it bother you, im shore if you gave it to any other man he would jump at it, i know i would
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe he just wasnt that keen on the idea . I once had a gf who came up with the same idea we turned it into a game if she had the egg or not and many times she would hand me the remote while we were out and i had to find out if she had the egg or not . The times she didn't i felt let down but other times she did it was a huge turn on for us . The look on her face while at dinner and i'm buzzing away was priceless we often never made it home without some kind of sex act . I think depends on how long u known each other and if he has a kinky side or wanting to try new things . Good luck . Give me the remote and i'll be happy to play with it :P .
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just saying games can be a lot of fun.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I spoke to him many times about this and he was very keen on it. We also went to thesex shop to buy the egg together. I communicate very well shutting me up is the problem lol. Ive know this man for 3 years on and off had a fling with him. I didnt think that i put him on the spot but i may have. Thank you for you response. I may have to use a different tactic in furture and maybe just do it in doors with us. He hasnt explored much but i am very open minded so i may just have to take it easy on him.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey PG sounds like he got a little insecure when reality set in. I have had the good fortune a number of times to control the remote :) apart from the horny results lol it makes for a lot of laughter looking back particularly the more daring you both get. Soothe his fears and encourage him to give it a go, let him dictate the pace.cheers
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'HE.... was not a MAN. He failed to lead, failed to show creativity, failed to participate in your initiative and creativity, and essentially failed to consider your needs even when encouraged. FAIL Man fails to lead and show creativity: FAIL, not a MAN. Woman leads and displays creativity: errrr... pass, a REAL MAN! Man fails to participate in woman-induced initiatives: fail, not a man (unless woman's initiative and creativity involves shoe shopping, then PASS, real man) Man doesn't consider needs of woman, even when encouraged: fail, not a man. Man doesn't respond to pressure, knows what he wants and likes, aware of his own needs: fail, not a m... wait... what? *** I think your system has a few kinks to work out, DG. *** And speaking of kinks, I agree with Focus - it's largely a question of personal tastes. For me the idea doesn't really do anything - I'm not an exhibitionist by any stretch of the imagination and don't get off on the thought that other people 'have no idea' what you're doing (or especially if they do!), though around the house I think it could be fun. I suppose I could see myself giving it a whirl (oh wait, no, egg - a buzz) if my partner was really fantisizing about it and it was a big deal for her, but then again I'd find it a distraction if I was at a friend's birthday or dinner or something. There'd be common ground somewhere though, so that's the angle I'd take. Other guys however would jump at the opportunity, and would probably be packing extra batteries. It IS a bit strange if you'd planned this before hand and talked about it and THEN he backed out. I guess the best person to ask is obviously the other member involved in this (non) exchange! So to sum up my response to your original question: no, you weren't wrong to think it might be a turn-on FOR SOME, but like anything, not guaranteed to be a turn-on for all.
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wannabyummymummy
13 years ago
Quoting 'partygoer101' I spoke to him many times about this and he was very keen on it. We also went to thesex shop to buy the egg together. I communicate very well shutting me up is the problem lol. Ive know this man for 3 years on and off had a fling with him. I didnt think that i put him on the spot but i may have. Thank you for you response. I may have to use a different tactic in furture and maybe just do it in doors with us. He hasnt explored much but i am very open minded so i may just have to take it easy on him. as a fellow mrs chatterbox i get what you are saying but one thing i have learnt in recent times is that there is a HUGE difference between talking and communicating, what i mean is maybe you talked about it but maybe you didnt get a lot of feedback from him about what he was comfortable with, maybe he was intimidated by the publicness of the event or maybe he just got cold feet about it, you have known him for quite a while so really only you can know why things went the way they did. I think that some of the guys comments are a little harsh i dont think your friend is less of a man because of this i just think maybe he needs a little help, be gentle you dont want to break him lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
A man having the power to bring a rapid amount of pleasure to his woman with the flick of a switch?? For so many men, the question "how do I give her pleasure?" Has been answered for this guy, and he ran away?? If only all women could be turned on with the flick of a switch!!! :p. that all said, I don't think it's a question of masculinity, but a question of how willing some men are at experimenting. For me, I'd have fun with it...as the waiter takes down our order "click(maximum)" and as her eyes roll around, being creative enough to think up a story to entertain the waiter would be a classical Kodak moment :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
I bought one for a little bit of exhibitionist fun for a date. I thought I'd better test it and thank goodness I did! Bloody remote got stuck on 'high' and wouldn't switch off. Just imagine ... sheesh... bathroom NOW!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'A man having the power to bring a rapid amount of pleasure to his woman with the flick of a switch?? For so many men, the question "how do I give her pleasure?" Has been answered for this guy, and he ran away?? If only all women could be turned on with the flick of a switch!!! :p. that all said, I don't think it's a question of masculinity, but a question of how willing some men are at experimenting. For me, I'd have fun with it...as the waiter takes down our order "click(maximum)" and as her eyes roll around, being creative enough to think up a story to entertain the waiter would be a classical Kodak moment :p I'd be more concerned about how I'd explain the saturated seat and giant puddlle on the carpet!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'HE.... was not a MAN. He failed to lead, failed to show creativity, failed to participate in your initiative and creativity, and essentially failed to consider your needs even when encouraged. FAIL DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
It was all about timing and inclination.If you hadn't had a practice run then he probably got cold feet because he didn't know what to expect.It doesn't make him less than a man Why do men always need to take the lead DG,?It is the noughtie teens btw,not the nineteen fifties. Men are people too,x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Agreed, re: the switch
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RHP User
13 years ago
So many manly men... What's a girl to do. LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
What man dose not play with the remote?@ Partygoer101 maybe he needed a couch to kick back on? @ Meeka why must you taunt me with a New picture everyday.This place is sending me BLIND!
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RHP User
13 years ago
the.man.-make,sure.his.open.mindeed.enough.to.play.any.game.you.want.do.a.test.run.first.i.agree.with.paintime.shes,intuitive.knows.the.situation.-creative.experimental.will.paticipate.asks.about.your.whole.sex.menu.role.plays.kninky.side.the.lot=.know.how.to.please.you.fully.in.and.ouut.of.bed.while.being.mr.cool.in.public.asu.use.your.eggs.a.good.team.effort.use.a.battery.tester.u.dont.want.a.flat.battery.half.way.thru.dinner.as.your.being.switched.on.james.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'huggybear206'Hey PG sounds like he got a little insecure when reality set in. I have had the good fortune a number of times to control the remote :) apart from the horny results lol it makes for a lot of laughter looking back particularly the more daring you both get. Soothe his fears and encourage him to give it a go, let him dictate the pace. cheers I have spoken with him since posting this and found out the problem. I will just take it slow and see how things go, I scared the poor guy even after 3 yrs of having a fling lol.Thanks for your advise huggy
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RHP User
13 years ago
TO IT SOUND LIKE YOUR MAN DIDNT WANT CONTROL OVER YOU BCUASE HE DIDNT WANT HIS CONSITRATION TAKEN AWAY FROM OTHER GAME HES PLAY SORRY IF I AFFEND YOU , BUT THAT HOW IT SEEMS TO ME I MEEN WHOS TO HE HAS I REMOTE IN HIS POCKET SO LIKE ISIAD HE MIGHT VIEWING AND HONEING IN ON ANOTHER . HEY ID LOVE TO HAVE TOTAL CONTROL OVER AND LASS AND THE ME .
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RHP User
13 years ago
your welcome
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RHP User
13 years ago
If two couples decided to do the same thing on the same night. I doubt remotes from the same model vibrate on multiple frequencies. Or more fun still, you don't even need a partner! Just walk around town on a Saturday night, press at regular intervals, and scan the couples in the crowd for reactions...
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Zsuza69
13 years ago
Sounds like you need a man that likes to take control of you and the situation but alas you have to again be the one who initiates things. From how far away will the remote work??? Now if he didn't like the idea of him having the remote maybe you should of suggested you have the remote and insert the egg in him. Bet that would get him moving on the dance floor. ;-) Mr Zsuza - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ive always wanted to do this. For the woman: she would never know when it was going to be pressed. For the man: he could have a lot of fun and she would be so horney and pounce on him when they get home.
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Zsuza69
13 years ago
Quoting 'Kinky_on_wheels' Ive always wanted to do this. For the woman: she would never know when it was going to be pressed. For the man: he could have a lot of fun and she would be so horney and pounce on him when they get home. Or pounce on you before ya get home lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi i worked in adult shops for 3 years and i know of the type of product you are talking about , in fact once demonstrated it was one of my biggest sellers . Do men not yet know that it takes a little more for women to get in the mood ? Foreplay is like saving up for youre favorite car when you finally get there it is worth the wait . All i can say is this egg is a great device , and a lot of fun . If this man went into the adult shop with you and you both chose it then there should be no problem . Remember this egg works on a wireless system so why not wear it round the house leave the remote somewhere and when you move out of range it will stop but when you come back into range Oh Boy have fun regards Iain
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RHP User
13 years ago
My first pleasure of a remote control egg was absolutely delicious & the repercussions were absolutely amazing.My ex & i were headed up the coast for a dirty weekend away without the kids. About an hour or so before we left i walked up behind her & whispered in her ear that i wanted her to do something for me. When she asked what i put the egg in her hand & asked her to slip it inside her panties & open her pussy lips so it was sitting on her clit. She said ok but where's the remote ? I told her it was in my pocket & i would have control of the remote to tease her all the way to our destination.She smiled knowingly & agreed. As i'd had a couple of drinks that afternoon she insisted on driving, which meant i had to be very careful not to completely take away her concentration but Wow the teasing fun i had varying the speed of the buzzing & turning it on & off at my leisure was such an incredible turn on for us both. I don't think anyone has ever checked in & got up to their room with such haste as we did that night & the amazing long hot orgasm & pleasure sesh we had that night will linger in the memory forever...After telling Mrs fun this story long ago we too have many hot sexy amazing memories from similar encounters.In summin up i would reccomend this form ot teasing to anyone. Mr fun
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