RHP

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Let's talk about sex ba-by

June 16 2017

😘 Let's talk about you and me 🎼🎶🎷 Can we please talk about sex? 😊 This is an open topic about sex. Please feel free to chat, flirt, ask questions, each way banter. The only exclusion would be some heavier fetishes/kinks need to be kept in that category. This is just general sex chat, nothing too heavy, nothing too light either 😉 I'd like this to continue as an ongoing topic where you can pop in to shoot the breeze about sex or your experience, past or present, in the pursuit of that, whenever you feel like it. Everyone welcome, including people I've had issues with, I have a very short memory 😀 please come on in and chat with your friends. You are very welcome Enjoy 😜

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Who I truely connected with or why it meant something, why that person lingers on so vividly. For me they are few, I didn't love all of them and the experiences were so varied. Why so few, why not all the milestones romances, why that night, why that person. Have I forgotten? That always comes to mind when I think about sex, since they're the moments that pop into my head. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I would like to know people's biggest age difference with sex. How old were you and how old were they? I from an early age have always had a thing for older woman, like much much older when I was a lot younger. Wondering what other people have experienced and how did they find it?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ...as the first thought that popped into my sordid mind was to ask you: ''Sure, baby...what would you like to know about it?'' Naaaa....leave it alone for now!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    18 a few times all when I was over 50 and still would, so that's over 30 yrs difference 😊 love them young, no hangups, just like me, enthusiastic and horny 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yeah, I often reflect. The last few years have been the best years of my life, I hope a little piece of me lingers with them, they certainly linger with me. I'll never forget them and always appreciate what they've done for me. Re ongoing friends, age has been my barrier, but I'm quite certain I loved each one and not ashamed to admit it 😃

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    I meet this gorgeous 18 year old once who was pretty keen to get it on but as tempted as it was, I held back because thats what was expected of me. However about 7 years later we did and then I started to think what a waste of time. I waited because I thought it was the right at the time.. But since then , I look at the person for who they are , if we click that's good enough for me..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    sorry, thought you were talking about sheep for a while there (thought you had some for sale), had to put my glasses on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    😀 okay, I have lots of questions, but be careful what you wish for, I can be really annoying, Miss 20 questions 😉 Okay so a question for you and anyone else who wants to answer. Are you a come and go 😉 person or do you like to stick around for more 😇 if that changed somewhere over the years, what or who changed that?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Mostly I regard hubby and I's foray into the unknown (thinking back 2-4 years now) as the bastion of all that is horny! Gosh, those early day kicks we had swinging. We had all the high five moments! There's one from waaay back when who still occupies memory files though. Of all my lovers, I promise there have only been three of them, I only particularly linger on four! 😜🤔 High five! I feel oddly like Borat. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I have a smile on my face this morning 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I'm now very definitely a second, third, fourth and more helping sort of person...I thoroughly enjoy both the friendship and intimacy that develops over time. LOL...now as for my past? Dunno if I should tell you as I did play lead guitar and sing in a half-decent band so of course had my very own little flock of groupies. I also went on a bit of a ragged tear after my first divorce back home and well, in a small town environment got a rather sleazy reputation! Besides...I like cooking breakfast for two in the morning!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You can get away with so much more in the city 😉 and nothing wrong with choosing a career that guarantees you a root at the end of your work day 😂😂😂 all part of the adrenaline rush and resulting power/passion of the performance. You did what you had to do 😀👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You're right and when you live in a little town like LA, well...it doesn't take much to get the rumor mill running at turbo speed and the ol' reputation spins right down into the gutterr!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    RL has come into play a bit for me but I'm finding I'm so used to online, that meeting and taking it further in RL has it's issues. Largely, we have access to all their info in advance online, giving time to consider, find out if we're on the same page sexually, and otherwise, by the time you meet, it's just down to the attraction. But in RL, it's in reverse, the attraction is already there but nothing sexual has been discussed, actually quite often it has with me, not always though depending on the situation. That leaves a lot to discover, be turned on by/turned off by, and the whole muggle vanilla scenario for me can be very dissapointing. But what happens when the overall attraction, not just sexually, is there, other boxes are ticked. Leaves a dilemma and a strange new twist for me. Like a deer in the headlights hmm 😯

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ...graceful maturity and if I were not so young, could explain it to you in the morning. Who is Elton John? Best......... CM

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just wanted to talk about some things I've found are essential for me. The verbal - I have to be seduced with the verbal. I'm kinky, love role play, there's a romantic lurking underneath, it's all interconnected, but if he doesn't make me feel like he's gaggin for me, it's all over, I turn and walk away. I will not compromise, that is the number one thing Sexual comparability - obviously essential for us all, read on Wanting to please your partner, wanting to know what turns them on, thirst to know, again verbalize, listen, learn, act/respond, then ask again, always with their pleasure in mind. None of us will get to the heights of pleasure if we don't know how to give give give Continue to seduce - once you've hooked your fish 😀 don't be complacent, nothing turns me off quicker than that Right, now I'd better go, this is sounding like a lecture. Just wanted to share based on a recent experience. I have discovered a few things about myself or cemented my initial feelings. I just can't get into a guy without all of the above. Some are just oblivious and shocked with my reaction, but lazy doesn't work for me. Put out or stay out lol 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Compatibility I meant

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Have someone who ticks all of those boxes and then some 😊