RHP

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Lifes'too short

February 17 2014

I am getting over this saying and those that use it. Its meaning seems to have been manipulated in a way as to do whatever the hell you like and forgo the consequences....... Am I wrong.

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  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    12 years ago

    I use it in a different context.... Life is too short (to keep putting up with crap from so and so). Next. Hugs Gazpacho

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    I believe it is a passive aggressive saying...I believe it creates confusion! I also believe some people say it as a poor excuse for poor behavior. Over hearing it as well. Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    1/ "Life is too short" 2/ "Just get over it" 3/ "What ever!" All excuses to pacify someone. Don't say them to me as I'll clock you over the head with my hand bag. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I believe it is a passive aggressive saying...I believe it creates confusion! I also believe some people say it as a poor excuse for poor behavior. Over hearing it as well. Foxy I also think people use it to dismiss and disregard struggles that others have. Sometimes friends and family are in a funk (per other topic :)) and they don't need to be told to get over it, move on, life's too short and all that jazz. Yes, sometimes people DO need to be told that, but there are many folk who use the phrase simply because they don't have the interpersonal skills to connect with and accept when another is having a tough time. Like gaz, I use the phrase to kick my own ass and focus myself in the right direction - to get something done, to get over a fear, and so on. Good post OP x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    At the end of the day & Moving forward

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Most sayings are borne of truth and often have deep meaningful sentiment. Then they are twisted to achieve some petty outcome, and leave a bad taste in your mouth. Life's too short is a great saying if you are consoling someone i.e. "Life's to short to worry about that stupid nob... you will find someone else". The same can be said of "seize the day". Misused, those two quote can run roughshod over a tremulous situation, but I still think that they can be used to good effect... I am waiting to dodge an errant handbag..... B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Age is just a number Cracks me up every time.Yes, it is a number and I like my numbers to be in the high 40's - 50's Not 20's - to early 40's thanks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I never really fully understood or even appreciated what that meant til roughly 3 years ago. Up til then I thought life was some kind of cruel joke and was way too long LoL. If anything these days it reminds me to not waste time dwelling on circumstances beyond my control. I use it to determine who or what I can and can't live with or without. To a certain extent I use it as a means of justifying doing whatever I want to do simply because I refuse to die wondering.

  • smo669

    smo669

    12 years ago

    Life IS too short for instant coffee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There is a lot of sayings that confuse, or as intended take the focus off the real issue. At the end of the day it's what you will accept. Wait a minute ,, why do you have to wait till the end of the day to accept or reject? There is a plethora of inane sayings that generally are designed to take the focus away from the fact. Above all," life is too short" to dwell on idiocy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Life isn't short - it's the longest damn thing you'll ever do.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    An elderly lady heard me say to my friend "I wish i were older". She told me don't wish your life away, life is too short. It is only when you ARE older that you truly appreciate the meaning of 'life is too short'.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    I have to say...as a married man on here, your profile has to be the best one I've read. I liked it. 👍 Foxy

  • Beachlover1999

    Beachlover1999

    12 years ago

    And move forward as life's to short!! That IS my motto! :))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well if you keep saying it you guessed it ?? Only your required length is life ?? Lifes to short convinced yet congradulations you are the new owner of the worlds shortest life , hurry better run grab what you can for no reason but your time is up . Game over sorry your out a time lifes so short isnt it ??? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    Its the context of how it is used. For me its used to remind me not too sweat the small stuff. I think it should be used in a personal sense rather than for giving advice to others.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...:)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Can I add to that "You only live once", "Get over it" and "In the grand scheme of things..."?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    "Time heals all wounds". Bullshit, it's how you use that time. And some wounds never heal.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    "Maybe it's for the best."

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Because it reminds me I am only on borrowed time......so in my mind I can say....ohh what a bullshit some people just dont get it......get real , fuck off and leave me alone. Live your life as best you can...dont hurt people deliberately....leave me alone with your little piddly shit . My private life is fine I can get live how I like, but in my work life I have to shut my mouth....and the older I get the harder it is to do.Because some are just so anal and pitty, until death strikes or a sickness, then the light bulbs go on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In reality... " life is too short " I have heaps of things I still want to do but sometimes behave like I'll be around forever. So when I say that' it give me a reminder to get up off my arse and make things happen.. dont forget' sticks and stones... its only words...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Light at the end of the tunnel shits me to death grrr I wasn't in a friggen tunnel grrr

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If you WERE in a tunnel.....

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    yeah, there's light BUT no-one ever said how loooooooooooog the friggin tunnel is and that the light is from a train that hits you. Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    Do I look like a chicken wrap with chilli sauce or a cream bun? Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    yeah how long is a piece of string??? FOXY

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    The word 'BUSY"... as in "I've been busy lately" Has to be the worst excuse under the sun!!!! Who the Fuck is that BUSY??? I mean if the United States of America can run a country and have time for his family - then he certainly ain't that BUSY!! FOXY *Places TWO bricks in hand bag*

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLO HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLO *echoes* anyone in there?? Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Indeed you do not look like a chicken wrap, but hell, you may have eaten a hot woman lately, and if so - then hell - you may be what you eat. I would just like to say that I have not in the past - nor do I intend in the future - to eat a middle aged man.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...something or some one to come along and bite them square on the arse before they realise their roller coaster life isn't just a rehearsal.. THEN.. They get to realise how true the ' life is too short ' saying is.? Not hard really....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me' ...something or some one to come along and bite them square on the arse before they realise their roller coaster life isn't just a rehearsal.. THEN.. They get to realise how true the ' life is too short ' saying is.? Not hard really.... Yes Jay ....sometimes life does creep up on us and Life's too short. I am saying that I have come across messages from people ...such as....hey lifes too short lets. F*&... Lifes too short why waste it deliberating. These people use the term not as a realisation that their life could slip away before they get to experience anything. They use it as an excuse to reckless behaviour....hey lifes too short why not binge drink. I dont think that the fact that life could be short is an excuse to do whatever. I knew someone who had the careless attidue with money as he would say you die tomorrow ------ which is true. Maybe I am wrong maybe it is something to embrace "Lifes too short" is it just a motto that anyone of any age is entitled too?

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    12 years ago

    "Statistics show that birthdays are good for you, the more you have the longer you live." That's always made me smile. It's the sayings that people get wrong that make me chuckle. "And then he changed his mind and did a complete 360!""I wouldn't trust him with a barge pole" - yes I know someone who really said that. "A bird is better than a bush" Ok,now I'm giggling at my own post... oh dear. Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' The word 'BUSY"... as in "I've been busy lately" Has to be the worst excuse under the sun!!!! Who the Fuck is that BUSY??? I mean if the United States of America can run a country and have time for his family - then he certainly ain't that BUSY!! FOXY *Places TWO bricks in hand bag* Oops - I've used that one. Someone pass me a hard hat?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some good points you made there and now I know where you're coming from. I agree, some will use it as a excuse to be irresponsible without really caring what they say. Guess we were coming at this 2 different ways.. Personally ' I use it in a serious way because it reminds me not to be complacent. Cheers Jay..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There are sooo many good ones.Some examples would be, "D'oh", "You get that", "C'est la vie (baby)", and my current favourite, "C'est la guerre".