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MSN/IM Etiquette

January 07 2010

I pretty much do the majority of my communicationw ith people from RHP on MSN, but I am seriously considering giving none of them my email anymore out of sheer irritation at the way they act. Maybe we should come up with a list of just basic rules to follow. The webcam- I have had guys add me, and then without saying hello send a request to see my webcam. I rarely go on webcam 1 on 1, like I will every equinox and thats about it, and those guys would know I had no intention to simply by asking if i wanted to first, instead of sendign me into a bitch fit everytime. Ignoring my away status - My computer auto signs in MSN when it turns on, I leave it downloading at night and sometimes it resets from like windows updates and MSN signs back in, also sometimes I just leave it signed in. I do however always when I'm not actively on msn leave my status set to away, and I know it automatically signs in with my status as away, yet I constantly get messages like this "Hello? Hello are you there? Well if you arnt going to talk I'm going to removes you... Well fien you fucking bitch.." I usually wake up in the morning to about 5 of these messages, if it saids I'm away you can ask if I'm available, but dont then get angry when I dont respond. Also keep in mind I have alot of people iming me at once, and also that i am frequently watching tv, playing video games etc while on, so if my replies take over 30 seconds, dont freak out. I actually got up to wash my hands the other day, which took me probably 15 seconds, and some guy had started yelling at me about taking to long to respond. I dont have to respond at all if I dont want too, so dont act with a sense of entitlement. THERE, sorry I was obviously quite irritated. Also sorry for any typos my in browser spell check isnt working.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Great post. Rather than msn i prefer to chat over the phone, or even better meet up for a drink. I don't use msn anymore because its hard to get humour across.  Send me a message sometime summer :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Bloody hell ! Why are people so rude...? It's pretty obvious when someone is busy....they just dont answer....!   And then with a nasty IM wonder why they dont get anywhere.....are there any gentlemen left ?  Certainly gives you a sense of how important they think themselves ! I wouldn't sweat it summer....those types are not worth the trouble...   Dog.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    there's a third party addin for MSN that you can use to customise responses... that way you could have it respond to people when you are away saying "I'm not here and won't see this till later"... so that they don't think you are being rude.   Sorry - we can't help the fools being rude - but we can make it easier for you to NOT appear to be rude also.  I'll email you direct with the info as I suspect RHP might block my post if I put the URL in there.   Wayne

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    One of the first people on this site that sent me their MSN turned out to be a con website after getting money out of guys. Which is why I only talk to people who have been verified on this site now. In a choice, I would rather chat on MSN once you have established a connection on RHP. People who just send their MSN details is not cool, you need to build to that, ask properly.All I have to say is be aware of the dodgy RHP accounts out there. who want to get you straight onto MSN to get money out of you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Summer, no offence but is it really a big deal if someone clicks to see your cam? Just laugh and say, nope, won't be happening till  next Haley's comet. Falling into a bitch fit seems a bit dire. lol   We all get idiots on msn -  how simple is it to just block, delete and move on?    Surely there are far more serious things in life to get worked up about?     Joanna

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I had that too summer when I first started on msn...I just do as Joanne does...I say bye bye..and block n delete......I have not had that problem for a long time now..thankfully.   Guys who continually get on my msn and cry like a girl saying..I am so horny....Well shit lil boys...We all are!  why you think we are on RHP.....derrrrrrrrrrrrrrr......pmsl.   I am thankful that the people I have on my msn are friends..We can openly talk about any topic..and they are sweeties..     block n delete summer....Dont even tell them why..If they can't understand why  ..Then they have not grown up..   hugs n kisses   sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have email accounts that I have set up on Gmail I call them my play accounts. Each one bumps into/transfers messages to  my main account so I don't have to have lots of accounts open. The play accounts have fake names and not link visible to the people I chat with. So anyone new has to gain my trust before I give them my real account. This means if I ever get a nutter I can just not have the email bump messages into my normal email. Only one suggestion but it work for me.ciaoHermes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Every bloody time you would open it, someone would be after you! Then i changed my status so when it starts it started on appear invisible.Now it is removed from my start up.I much prefer to do it retro and only do email messages now, then i can just reply etc when it suits,and if that doen't suit then tough titties.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    if you let them...   Gentlemancaller - they can only take money from you if you go to their website and submit your credit card details. Yes there are fake profiles everywhere - not just here, but you need to give them your CC first.  MSN itself is not insecure, it's how it's used (not meaning to sound like I'm attacking you - I'm not).   Nev - that's sooo old fashioned mate ;-)  We'll have to bring you up to the 2010's now... maybe @ the dinner party ;-)   For RHP - I use a different email address and MSN account to chat - then once I know I'm comfortable with people I move them over to my primary one.  I've got a utility that allows me to be logged in to two MSN accounts @ the same time - works a treat.   Wayne

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hundred percent agree with the rest, summer. Block & delete them, reserve the right for the gentlemen of the site to get in contact with you. Rude people get it in the end anyway.  Still i do prefer to chat on msn first to see if chemistry is there, then later by whatever means. Love to chat anytime too, Summer

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yeah thats me...lol.....and you should see my mobile phone, (which i would also happily throw in the nearest lake...if i thought i could get away it) does Nev have one of these fancy phones....nope...well it does a few things, but pretty basic, it makes phone calls.....does anybody do that anymore or is it just me, It does texting but i don't...lol...well rarely and when i do you can bet they are short!, It takes piccies...handy for work!  but it works all over the place..mostly...damn telstra! Cheers Nev, ....whats a blackberry now, yum!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We're as bad as Nev with the msn gig... much prefer swapping emails at our own pace, it's worked the best for us in our opinion. People would know that when they contacted us and usually preferred it that way themselves. Cheers all... Mrs P'

  • platinumblonde69

    platinumblonde69

    16 years ago

    Thank god other women think the same as me...thus why i spend 99% of my online time on msn invisible....I agree with everything summer said...My other pet hate is when in a chat room..a guy begs to chat to u on msn...so...u think mmm...hes nice...ill add him...then..during yhr first chat....on msn.....u click up yr chat screen to find him still chatting to other women and trying same line on them...I just think thats rude....I dont cam on msn....I cam in chat....So guys r always in for a rude shock when they ask me to cam on msn...lol... Anyway....great to see a post on this type of thing...It infuriates the HELL outa me... oxoxo Plat

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Everyone has made some really great comments...wayne's is a beauty re the add-on...what is the add-on wayne..??but summer, i'd like ta give ya three pieces of advice...1)...block and delete2)...block and delete....and tadaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa3)...block and delete...grinscheersjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Jose,   The program is called messenger plus live - here's the link http://www.msgpluslive.net/.  The only thing to watch is the "sponsor program" option - deselect it as in the past some bad stuff can creep in from time to time if you use it...    This program is pretty cool and has lots of options, but the one you want is the auto reply.    Wayne

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    try skype and ya dont have too type when on a call just talk much easier and poeple tend not to say nasty shit cos they are weak and to gutless to say shit guess what im saying is its easy to type and send shit than it is to actualy speak