RHP

RHP User

F35

Man Attached!

January 28 2012

Ok, Ive been seeing this guy for 4 months now...initially he was single, then got with another chic 2 wks into it..then moved in with her "for convenience" so he told me. Everytime Ive gone to call it off, he assures me it wont be long b4 he'll move in with me as he has a "connection" with me & he's sick of playing "pretend" with her!.He wont even admit to her being his "girlfriend" etc......Ive NEVA been the "other woman" & well, if I was reading this from someone else, Id think she was totally "niave"...but when they keep stringing u along its hard not to believe them...basically...what should I do now, as Im feeling more and more like "trash" & feeling guilty about his "girlfriend"

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    the guys a dick and just using you and you are letting him do it, believing his crap.   Move on to another guy who doesnt jerk you around

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You know what to do....Just do it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Guilt won't help anyone but do remember that what he has done to her he will have no problem doing to you. Don't get hopeful Don't get attached

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    move on, that's not the way to treat anyone male or female, you'll be the next one he will do it too

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You know what you would say if this was a friend talking to you about her life. You are being taken for a fool as is the girlfriend. What does she have to say in all this? Does she have a different or same story as yourself? Maybe it is time for you both to kick his sorry arse out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    This IS a joke isn't it???   Somebody tell me this is a joke!!!!   :) caveman... x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    People stay in the relationship for a reason... What is it that is keeping you with him? From what you are writing he is a complete bastard... If you are afraid to stay w/o sex, than what RHP is for? :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    That sounds like a mind game to me. Who needs the complications. Frankly, this is exactly why I prefer anonymous sex. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    gee isnt this a sex site hun - didnt take him long to move in with her and know hes telling u he wants to move in with u - hmmm u must have pretty low self esteem if youre willing to accept wat hes saying - dont ya think hes only gonna move onto the next one when hes had enough of u or are u gonna become a couple and swing together- reeks of a needy woman - stand up for yourself and move onto the next one

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Reading the first few lines there...Was with you, then 2 weeks in started screwing some new chick, then moved in with this new chick for convienence, and you kept seeing him despite this...for the last 4 months hoping he will move in with you (inconvienient or not). . I'm afraid you're not 'The other woman' but the (proposed) 'Host for a Parasite' by the sounds of things?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    maybe..........the first 2 weeks his 'girlfriend' was away...so he was available....then...when she 'returned' he 'moved in' with her?........... i'd say she was always his gal, and you were duped....maybe??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Agree with Mike on this one... sounds about right to me. xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    bail...take the lesson on the chin, and chalk it up to experience.... theres no happiness to be found with this guy...not long term anyway.... guys like this are a dime a dozen, they'll suck you in....take what they want....and discard you... do the same..... throw this one out with the old dishwater.... he's served a purpose, even if thats making you a little more wary and whole lot tougher...you deserve better...go and find it, and make the finding into as much fun as you can!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You know deep down you want to get rid of them, otherwise you would not have posted the question. Okay if you need validation her goes, piss him off, don't answer his calls, emails or texts and don't look back!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    "Fool me once, shame on you! Fool me twice, shame on me!" ...avoid the "twice" bit and just walk away.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You are worth more than his empty promises and bullshit lines. Remember that. And as ALL the other peeps on this thread have said.....walk away. Today.

  • contemplating1

    contemplating1

    14 years ago

    No! Forgive me! Sorry! I've read enough!   "Just piss him off now!"     I had to say that....(Forgive my language)   I've seen it all too often!   Much to be said for finding a 'lil honesty somewhere!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' Guilt won't help anyone but do remember that what he has done to her he will have no problem doing to you. Don't get hopeful Don't get attached Second, get back out there and find someone worthy of your attention.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I can't believe the advice you people are sprouting on here. Clearly she should hang around. He's not in love with this other tramp that he's moved in with - and he's really truly in love with the OP. That's what he said. Isn't a man's word good enough anymore? Sheesh!! . I say stick it out, but take every opportunity to randomly bump into him at the shops, restaurants, motels that he might frequent with the tramp... just to say hi... and you know - freak him out a little. . PS - Go through his rubbish too. That's always fun!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ha jean now that made me laugh... Funny bastard! If its true that chicks dig a sense of humor u should b getting heaps of roots! On the topic... Interesting ... Yep I'd say he was always with said gf ... But maybe jus maybe he pretended to b single on tho jus to get some action n hey he wouldn't b the first... But then maybe he met you n thought holy crap this is the chick for me I can't lie to her anymore I'll cum clean n see if she's still interested... N now he's trying to get out out of his long term relationship which hey could well take time... Jus playin devils advocate ladies ... X matt

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    JG I like your thinking lol however piss him off big time and move on to the next one.   NEXT PLEASE