M51 F47
Man Enough For Me
July 27 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
"enough Man" is secret code for "oh gawd.... not that again.. ffs give me someone who knows what a woman wants... another woman... anything but that" .... or maybe it just means he's too heavy.Lolz@ the barbie... I wonder when they'll get an anatomically correct scubie steve so I can demonstrate a how to nail barbie while packing the dishwasher? Said it somewhere else but .... there's these swinging wives that occasionally have a rule that she doesn't play with other men.... (truth be known.. I think it's a convenient rule for "you're just not my type")... her husband is there to play with someone else's wife... ... I can appreciate the exceptions... women who have two husbands for instance (thanks L)... and good on them for not taking one for the team...... but these dudes.... I often wonder if the reason some women choose not to play with other dudes is because of the insecurities of the husband. So what to do when we're wall flowers... I guess we can always entertain ourselves Andy. Sure enough they won't be able to contain themselves and they'll break off whatever they are doing to watch. You mark my words.... :p Make enough noise and the natural curiosity of women will draw them like moths to a flame. That'll learn 'em. :) We don't need girls anyway. ffffft. $%+@.. girls. *kicks sand. Show them how its meant to be done!HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe Im greedy too as I/we think the same.Ive often wondered about the NO SINGLE MALES..( but step right up all you chikkee babes..)theory and thought "hmmmmm wonders if there's jealousy issues on the blokes part.We are very much whats good for the gander is equally as good for the goose..a fussy as she is!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't fuck other men, that is my choice, simple as that. The lifestyle is about choices and rules for couples, that is my choice and my rules, so i suppose i fit into that mould as well.And yes as you say...My men are man enough for me, i dont wish to have sex with anyone other than MY GUYS. But that is simply my choice and good to those that have different rules, that is what this lifestyle is all about.Leesa xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well... I'm going to set a dangerous precedent here. As much as I am tempted to say something... and I mean really tempted, I'm not going to. For once, I'm going to keep my mouth shut and give the fairer sex a chance to jump down my throat for a change.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have "No single males" This is my choice (mrs) but in a 4x situation i will "take one for the team" (tongue in cheek) Yes i have said my man is man enough for me as sexually he pleases me to the utmost but he cant satisfy my desire for the feel and touch of another woman.I wrote the profile and he just touched on things that needed to be fixed. I also say that he will always be with me but doesn't have to join in, with this it comes down to my pleasures of a woman can also be his pleasure of watching. If it was not for me being bi then we would not be here at all. I have no pressure from my man at all to 'play' and just don't have the urge of a 3x with my man and another guy.(mrs) D&B
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well Andy and Sal, we reckon you just go to the next profile it signals up to three possibilities: 1/They are only after girlie play OR, 2/ As Stalky says the guy is insecure about some other male touching his wife. 3/His wife wont entertain another guy...wellwhatdoyouknow he is a lucky husband having a wife that organises a extra bit for him.....Is he going to complain? Its great! and best bit is he don't have to share! Those profiles will have guys watch girls play....now you be a good boy Andy and sit there and watch....no touching or having sex! Or that other giveaway....Girls must talk! Those profiles ARE completely incompatible with a couple, where both in the couple is looking for sex with the opposite sex and with others they find exciting. At clubs and parties you will find them too.....girls all playing and leaving their husbands to hit on the girls that don't do the girlie play.....We say ...Say no to that too. You will be second choice to their real desire ......a extra girl for wifie and hubby. They are entitled to go after what they want and have their own rules ...it just upsets us when they take on a couple as second choice! Like some girls here say its their choice......then why do they go after a couple unless both guys agree no sex with each others wives......lol......then the female will say but I like watching my husband have sex ......lol WTF ! we aren't supplying the female its a crazy expectation. Its b/s the talk about taking one for the team, we don't really care if we get laid, but one thing sure my wife is not going to play with any guy if his wife choice is not to play with other couples husbands. Even when we occasionaly look for a MFM 3 some, any indication of this its a instant no, just out of princible!
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RHP User
14 years ago
So I'll join in this thread too, The take one for the team comment by Mrs Playmate was just that .... tongue in cheek humor No I am not jealous of other males touching / licking / fucking my darling other half We have swapped and will again, But the MMF don't appeal to Mrs Playmate in any form at all.We are here primarily to satisfy her Bi side, so as we have found single females are very hard to"tie down" . So we have to seek out other couples that are seeking the same.ie : all looking for FF fun where the guys are only watching till asked < if at all > to join in.Yes we do exist and there is alot more out there than you think. LOLWe have found that alot of the male sides of a couple are just out to jump another female and their other half is just along for the ride, and not into the scene at all !As I said if we all agree to a full swap, neither of us has a problem, as it almost always turns out that way anyway. But that is not what our main aim is, we are here for her pleasure 1st and foremost....... US is just a bonus for me when it happens.(Mr) D&B
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RHP User
14 years ago
Though Im dying to know...Im too scared to ask what Nick means....
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RHP User
14 years ago
with you there andrew , we have an open relationship , and we both have our own profiles , but i have that we will also meet couples , but when i ever get a message from a couple they only want me , the female, so not fair , if we meet couples , then its together, but if we meet people alone then i want to meet a MAN ,,,i often wonder as you did why the couples only want the female , as i couldnt do that , i would feel so left out ,lol ,,, no wonder my hubby cant find a fwb on here as most of the women only want other women,, or ,, brad pitt
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RHP User
14 years ago
Simple: The younger ladies who specify "her man is enough" Its their loss She is missing out on Nick. The Middle aged ladies ..............Its their loss they are missing out on Andy. The more mature ladies .............Its their loss they are missing out on something awesome.....me! And the ladies that just move and breath....its their loss they are missing out on Stalky!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Come on Nick spill the beans
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just need to add to this forum as i am one that has a lot of information about what couples do .......in the lifestyleI can tell you all that an awful lot of couples are happy for the girls just to play and the guys no to join in.I can think of heaps of couples that only the guy plays with the other couple while the girls play and one hubby fucks the others wife because they respect the other couples rule that the wife is not into guys just girls.So i can comfortably say who are we to judge others for what their rules are, it is simple if you dont like the rules of a couple dont go there....there are heaps of couples and single ladies that are happy to play by each others rules and have a blast at it.Leesaxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just need to add to this forum as i am one that has a lot of information about what couples do .......in the lifestyleI can tell you all that an awful lot of couples are happy for the girls just to play and the guys no to join in.I can think of heaps of couples that only the guy plays with the other couple while the girls play and one hubby fucks the others wife because they respect the other couples rule that the wife is not into guys just girls.So i can comfortably say who are we to judge others for what their rules are, it is simple if you dont like the rules of a couple dont go there....there are heaps of couples and single ladies that are happy to play by each others rules and have a blast at it.Leesaxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
To add to that, a lot of couples the hubby lets the wife play seperate and go off to a room with a couple....that is the joys of the lifestyle.Leesa
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RHP User
14 years ago
What I meant was, assuming Sal & Andy don't share their spoils, and assuming they both play seperately... all I was saying is that if by some miracle I happen to find someone one day, who is half as smart as Sal and hopefully at least half as good looking, possibly with an asphyxiation fetish... I'd be ok to share girls she was keen on, but no way would I go out hunting for more. Either that makes me a sentimental nice guy or a lazy prick... but isn't one of the major selling points of a relationship that you don't have to go out hunting for a different root every night? Fuck that sounds old fashioned now that I've said it out loud... Open relationships are fine and well and good, and so is polyamory to an extent... but in these situations, I can only imagine, as Andy is textbook proof of, even though he's taken, in theory he's still having just as hard a time finding a root as I am... and to someone like me who is single, and non-committed... that just makes very little sense to me. To use a metaphor if I may, its as if he has an apple, I have no apple, and yet he's still trying to pick more apples. Taking into consideration that women in open relationships have no trouble finding guys because guys would thank their lucky stars. Guys in open relationships, are branded liars, cheating scum,scum of the earth or any variation of that theme. Now in spite of Andy being a presumably nice, chivalrous guy, who in all liklihood wouldn't put a foot wrong by a woman, doubly so one that he was keen on sleeping with... he's obviously experiencing problems as per Sal's topical observation in the original post. Now, I don't know what to think of that. I wouldn't mind a girlfriend, sure... but a girlfriend that wants to help you get laid... by another woman? Thats a fucking miracle. When does the relationship change from significant other to... pimp? Hey... my man is the nicest guy... please, please won't you sleep with him? No really... you have my blessing. To me that just sounds like some straight up Ron Hubbard sci-fi shit. So I don't know... the battle of the sexes will rage on until the day I die and beyond... there is no real answer, no real solution. My question though, is simply this. If sex is what a man wants, single, committed or otherwise, how can he use sex as a weapon to get what he wants... if sex is what he wants? Women on the other hand, are incredibly desirable to men and to other women... and paint it however you want, but they play on it, consciously or unconsciously and its what men are hardwired to notice. Of course I only say that because I'm sick of being the pretty one in my relationships. I know that sounds shallow and awful, but its the truth - and I'd really like to start punching above my weight, instead of beneath it... for a change. I just think, on some base level, its a dark irony that in a couple scenario the female half would get more solo action than the male half, with little to no effort and therefore would probably not appreciate it nearly as much. Of course I'm generalizing and I could very well be wrong but 12,000 of evolution is hard to debate, and if the interactions are strictly sexual in nature, she unlike he, can afford to pick and choose, whereas man is reduced to a utility, a game of numbers, luck, timing and chance, single or committed. Add to that the advantage that women know what men want more instinctively than men know what women think, because men by and in large, can't bring themselves to empathize with women in the least. They weren't hardwired for it. Differientiating intellect and thought process from emotions and feelings, which can get messy at the best of times. Something as simple as 'hey wanna fuck?' doesn't exactly cut it nowadays and if you show too much interest they'll accuse you of something horrific like stalking, and if they lose interest you've put in all that time and effort for nothing. Another question I've always wondered is that if it is true that a woman wants a man to chase her, when does it stop being giving chase, and when does it start to become stalking? More to the point where is the line between playing hard to get, not interested and stalking... because I for one am getting pretty damn sick of all the mixed signal bullshit that seems to float my way. Nowadays everyone says what they feel, not what they mean, meanwhile I say what I mean and I try and keep my feelings out of it, assuming I have any left. Does any of that make sense Saturn?
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RHP User
14 years ago
we actually like single guys. mr B loves watching another man pleasuring me and will even sit on the end of the bed and just let us go for it. ( i will stop if he leaves as its about us doing something together i dont want to play without him). having said that we have found single guys can be rude and pushy and exclude Mr B and if you wont talk to him why should you get to play with his wife? most of the single guys we play with we ether chat to in chat first or is the male 1/2 of a cpl and their other half have said go for it. Mrs B
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RHP User
14 years ago
Extremely well written..and yes for the most part I really did get it! Thanks
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
Our profile says no single guys, just because we got sick of the emails and flirts.We not in an open relationship, we play together and enjoy experiencing each other being stimulated. It really is something we do together and share. The M in this relationship doesn't mind if the F chooses to play alone, but thats her choice. And she freely chooses to play as a couple.We go to CI occasionally there are always a few select single guys there, you can meet them, chat without any obligation, and if you want to play. Its far more social.J&J
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