Married with kids... turnoff???

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I suspect it's the fact you're married, not that you have children that might be the issue.

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  Hottie1

  8 years ago

  I'm a parent with children ... And no it's not a turn off at all. It may make more spontaneous meets a little challenging but people should understand that. Most of my bi fun has been with ladies who are mums ... My best friend, who is also on here, is a mum. Her family attends my kids functions and we spend time with her and her family. We have fun whenever we can and it's not every time we get together :) I've not found being a mum an issue at all, even with women who are single and don't have kids themselves. Mary xx

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  In here, because there can be a sexual agenda, there can also be an unfortunate undercurrent of deception Just because a profile lists as a couple or single female, doesn't always make that the case. A female profile is occasionally a front for the She to have a He lurking in the background (so many profiles supposedly written by the She, have a line which says something like "I/she plays alone, but I have a partner and he would like to watch and if all approve get involved" ?) Translation, .... the male lurking in the background is often the one driving the agenda and using the lady as bait In here, that will be the issue, not someone's children DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I've literally only just signed up on here, and I doubt here will be anything come from it unless I pay as it seems a bit hard to make actual contact with anyone without paying, which I'm not really wanting to do. I've had other encounters (both with and without my husbands involvement). I guess I can see why people would see married and assume it's going to be a threesome, which is not what I'm looking for(I'm greedy, I actually don't want to share him lol)

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  Sawadee

  8 years ago

  I don't see why it would matter but that's me.. ? It's not as if you're looking for a life partner to come and mind the kids and are just as much a woman as the single's. It's about having the itch scratched.. Right ?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Bi or straight meets, kids shouldn't be a problem. I have kids, it's never turned guys off because I separate my life with them, and guys, kind of, I'm open with my kids but don't put it in their face, they don't want detail lol and neither do play partners. Fine to tell them you have kids but then leave it at that. They need to know to give better understanding of time restraints and unexpected things that can come up. Beyond that, shouldn't be an issue at all. A relationship would be a little different but I would still start out the same way. And in reverse, I actually prefer if guys have kids, they are quite often more grounded and caring, because of the emotional attachment they have with their kids. I find guys with kids sexy as hell. Can't see why you would be viewed any differently by women? Just my thoughts. I hope you don't encounter that kind of bias

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Unless I missed it I can't see if your husband knows?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Does he know I'm bisexual or does he know I'm on here?? He knows I'm bi, we've been together with other women, and I've been with women on my own. Does he know I'm on this site? No not yet, but I wouldn't hook up with any girls without him knowing. I wouldn't risk my marriage on a bit of fun.

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  MsJonesy

  8 years ago

  No. Are they a turn off? No Not much else I can add....unless I am missing something.🤔

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Was pretty funny when it was on tv.... And Christina Applegate was a spectacular actor :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Isn't with kids, or your relationship for me. It's that your hubby doesn't know about the site. I've had 'girlfriends' who were married with kids before and had amazing relationship with them.

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