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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  16 years ago, after school on the lounge room floor of my parents house with my then bf. It was over in 5 minutes, uneventful and not particularly enjoyable. But I still remember it clearly and have fond memories of him in general, he was a great friend, so I'm happy with that memory. Mrs A x - Posted from rhpmobile

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  EarthQueen

  8 years ago

  I went to a blue light disco, yep remember them. I met this hot, wild 19 year old who probably snuck in hoping to meet an impulsive, naive 17 year old like me. My parents were away and I decided I was sick of being a virgin. So I took him home and had sex with him. It was average. He wanted to go down on me but I was too scared, so I didn’t let him. Silly me. 🙄 I don’t regret it. Kind of like that even as an extremely, shy, insecure girl I did what I wanted Felt empowering. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  According to the age on your profile, you were 69 when you first had sex. Wow, bet that was an experience lol. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  According to the age on your profile, you were 69 when you first had sex. Wow, bet that was an experience lol. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I've shared this before so I don't mind doing so again, in a little more detail, simply because it is what the OP asked and has done so himself. Mine was 4 years ago (April 2014). I had made a successful contact via RSVP, who had the same life interests AND for some reason wished to continue seeing me as more than friends after the first few hangouts. A fellow dog owner etc, and 9 years younger than I, her still living at home (22 vs 31). Each date(s) progressed in stages: kissing, french kissing, hands over her top through clothing (at her request). At this point I actually told her I had not been this far. She was kind and sweet about it, and said she wasn't going (away) anywhere. Then the next stage was being topless, then next a topless massage for her. Was actually pressed for time on that occasion, so I knew without any discussion that her next visit would be the lot :) On my first time (she had previous boyfriends) because of my healthy imagination we did much she had not even done, including cunnilingus (I was most eager for that); her previous boyfriends apparently were very vanilla - her on top, them on top, pretty much. After a couple of other positions I had not come and she was surprised (some type of DE symptoms perhaps). But it was now quite late and I was also very tired (I'm a morning person). So we slept, and when we tried again in the morning fresh and awake, I did come this time, in a reasonable time :) Other issues relating to distance, age difference, life stage etc etc meant it didn't end up lasting despite my best efforts (also some relationship inexperience), beside the fact we were eventually both using the L word. Would I prefer it to have happened sooner? Of course. Would I change anything about the way it actually happened? Certainly not. ... (Aside form the long term heartbreak afterwards, my new sexual confidence remained high, and via joining these sites, I found the swinging scene and the second "person" was someone's wife at a swingers party. Go figure...)

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  MsSuperFoxy

  8 years ago

  I'm still friends with him, friendship is close to 28yrs. My mum did warn me that having sex can lead to beautiful things. She was right. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Erotic story here talking about my throbbing manhood injecting my thick custard into her violently 😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  The doctor confirmed that three weeks later.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  My first time was a one night stand lol 16, a boy I met at the local pools while visiting my nan in the country, I just wanted to get rid of it. Don’t even recall his name. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  25ish waited as I wanted to be with "The One". Sexual frustrations finally got the better of me so hooked up with an older lass by ten years. Was the most soul destroying thing I have ever done to myself and I've done a heap of stuff. Just a cold and empty feeling and I was very ashamed of myself and strength of resolve.

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  Home_Eric

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'countrytouch' I've shared this before so I don't mind doing so again, in a little more detail, simply because it is what the OP asked and has done so himself. Mine was 4 years ago (April 2014). I had made a successful contact via RSVP, who had the same life interests AND for some reason wished to continue seeing me as more than friends after the first few hangouts. A fellow dog owner etc, and 9 years younger than I, her still living at home (22 vs 31). Each date(s) progressed in stages: kissing, french kissing, hands over her top through clothing (at her request). At this point I actually told her I had not been this far. She was kind and sweet about it, and said she wasn't going (away) anywhere. Then the next stage was being topless, then next a topless massage for her. Was actually pressed for time on that occasion, so I knew without any discussion that her next visit would be the lot :) On my first time (she had previous boyfriends) because of my healthy imagination we did much she had not even done, including cunnilingus (I was most eager for that); her previous boyfriends apparently were very vanilla - her on top, them on top, pretty much. After a couple of other positions I had not come and she was surprised (some type of DE symptoms perhaps). But it was now quite late and I was also very tired (I'm a morning person). So we slept, and when we tried again in the morning fresh and awake, I did come this time, in a reasonable time :) Other issues relating to distance, age difference, life stage etc etc meant it didn't end up lasting despite my best efforts (also some relationship inexperience), beside the fact we were eventually both using the L word. Would I prefer it to have happened sooner? Of course. Would I change anything about the way it actually happened? Certainly not. ... (Aside form the long term heartbreak afterwards, my new sexual confidence remained high, and via joining these sites, I found the swinging scene and the second "person" was someone's wife at a swingers party. Go figure...) And similar to mine. Like you I wouldn't have changed the way it happened. I was younger when it happened to me but if I had been older maybe I would have held on to the relationship longer. We had five years though, and a lot of good memories in that time, so I'm grateful for that. Thanks for sharing.

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  usrightnow_Again

  8 years ago

  Thank you to all those that have shared so far. .. ct., thanks for sharing the extra detail. Yes you have shared aspects of that part of your life previously, however, I appreciate you feeling comfortable enough to share that extra information. Sharing so often helps others do likewise. In doing so, they can realise, they're not alone, in the experiences they may have had. .. The one thing that seems fairly consistent, is that we all remember some portions of those occasions. Which is interesting. I don't, for instance, remember the first time I drove a car. And, of all the other times I've had sex, (there was a thread back in 2016, from memory, asking people how many times they'd had sex. We didn't contribute at the time, however we did calculate that that number was conservatively over 25,000 times), I remember comparatively few, although, many were awesome occasions. .. I think sex is so often built up when we are teenagers to something that doesn't always initially live up to the expectation. .. Mr. urn. .

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  ... and I get flashbacks whenever I hear a specific song from an album that was very big at the time. (Note: even though it looks like I might be going into every little thing that happened, I'm not going to lol. I just tend to talk a lot.) I was 16 and she had just turned 17. We were in the same home class together in high school, and we'd been flirting with each other at school for a couple of weeks. We started hanging out at nights, just walking around and talking at first. We lived in a small, quiet town, of only 10,000 people. She was the aggressor / dominant one who wanted sex, which is weird, as I prefer to take that role now. The first time she wanted to 'engage' with me, we were in a botanical park at night. However, when we did start getting heavy and about to undress we heard some rustling and two voices - we took off so fast and spent the rest of the night talking. The second time was 'the' time. It was the next weekend and I had the house to myself, as I'm an only child living with my mother and she was working in a bar at the time. So we had arranged that we would watch a movie at home and then move into my bedroom. I don't remember much about the movie that we watched - or even if we finished watching it at all. But I do remember everything else. I actually enjoyed her 'showing me the ropes', as it may, and she was very good at what she did for her age - I've actually not had an encounter this erotic since, and that is disappointing to say the least. I has a stereo in my bedroom which gave the room a nice dimly lit blue hue with the light off. We put some music on, the 'Faith' album by George Michael. If you know that album, then you know the theme. The song that was playing, when it finally happened (coitus), wasn't 'I Want Your Sex' Part's 1 or 2 (or 3), but it was 'Father Figure', and whenever I hear that song now, it brings back to that amazing night, and dredges up my feelings for that girl, whom I have long since lost touch with. We were a couple for 6 months in total, but no other times were as intense as that first night, as would be the case for most of us I'd say. Tony

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  AKAHunk

  8 years ago

  My first time was very silly looking back, and not at all romantic or sexy... A small group of us had been wandering around my girlfriends neighbourhood (we'd been together about 6 months at the time, both virgins) stealing peoples garden gnomes...you know, the shit you do when you're 17 and bored. Her mother was pretty liberal with sex and had told her it was fine to do it at home, she figured it was safer there. So we started fooling around on the bed but it was incredibly creaky so we moved to the floor. We weren't very well organised, hadn't exactly planned it, so the only condom we had was one of those novelty ones on a lollipop stick! On it squeezes and we start going at it missionary style, completely in the moment, only to be interrupted a few minutes later by a thudding on the wall from her mother's room and her calling out to keep it down lol. We then realised we'd been making a thudding noise every time I thrust into her...it was her head banging against the gnome we'd stolen, which was knocking against her bedroom drawers haha. Everyone in the house heard it, many sly grins and sheepish looks the next day!

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  It was Australia Day 2002. We had been going out for a few months. Took her for a drive to Double Island point when the lagoon was still there. We played around in the water, got super frisky but way too many people around. I was nervous as by the time we arrived back home but I didn’t waste much time and we hurried to the bedroom. I think foreplay lasted an hour or so before I finally decided enough was enough and it was clear she wouldn’t take the lead. I remember it was missionary and was over quite quick and I started wondering what all the fuss was about. We continued our fun for a few more weeks after that before breaking up. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  usrightnow_Again

  8 years ago

  Dallas, great and memorable story. If the gnome is rockin', don't come a knockin'. .. Anti., you've been reading too many threads. 😁 .. EQ., I remember Blue Light Discos. My friend and I often went in the last couple of years of school. As we were the only ones from our year or the years around us from our school, we were something of a novelty. I think it's terrific you still had the confidence to be in control of yourself and the situation. It's important young people, especially those that lack confidence and young women develop that confidence and have that control. .. And to be fair, at the time I was far more after a girlfriend, in order to hang out with somebody, talk, maybe hold hands and occasionally kiss. I might well have freaked out a little if sex was offered. .. Obi., it's interesting you indicate her role that way. Unless being manipulated, broad definition, or et cetera, women are frequently the party who decide if there will be sex. And I don't think that's a bad thing. Men so often want sex almost all the time, so someone needs to help control that volume, as well as the male taking responsibility for that too. Women should also be aware of that in order to gain confidence in their decision making. .. It's also interesting to note that some women are initially reticent to have oral sex performed on them, however, certainly in the last twenty years, men almost expect it, especially when younger. I guess the first American Pie movie wasn't watched by everyone. It's important we all develop an acceptance of our bodies, from a broader societal perspective too. Of course ladies, later in life you can be propositioned by guys who can give oral sex for three days, only breaking occasionally because their knees and backs are a little worse for wear, as they are a little older than the age they state on their profile, lol. .. Libby, you've been around long enough to know I'm fifty, so that first occasion was when I was nineteen. The delightful Mrs. urn. is heading to that number herself, fifty that is. Doesn't time fly. .. Mr. urn. .

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  2 sets of 2 teenagers in 2 single sleeping bags in the fork of the drive at a Catholic institution and this girl here was deflowered evermore... Peachy, has had quite a life

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