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Men judging
January 16 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
I hear what you're saying. Just tell those guys to get a life.I'm sure you'll find many guys that are not judgmental. Enjoy life.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If you were in Vic you would have likely received already a decent, respectful message from myself in the hope of dating (your profile shows non-smoker, intelligent, dating/relationship listed as a possible interest etc). We are not all that judgemental of your choices, or looking only for sex on here. But take it from me that I have met other decent men also. In what situation are you finding these comments from men? Messages on RHP? At adult events? Those you have tried to date? Real life in other situations? I can only say at adult social events, if any are applicable up there, you will likely find genuine yet sex positive individuals, as opposed to the masses that might come through your inbox. There are some regular socialites on here from Qld, they might have some ideas for expanding your network. All the best. CT.
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sweetgem
8 years ago
Let them judge! They might be jealous of your daring character and what you could be achieving in satisfying your sexual desires 😜 let those narrow minded ones be the losers they deserve! Nowadays, I don’t let any worthless negativity gets to me and how I do it is, I treat those who aren’t worth my time and/or energy like dust! I don’t see them and so I don’t pay attention to them! 😎 you will find life is a lot easier when you can let negativity goes invisibly! Hold your head high and keep smiling no matter! 💪🏼🤗 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Same here. To put it simply, they're more than happy to fuck the living daylights out of us but to be a keeper 😉 this is the checklist> 1. Must be a poodle 2. Pain in the neck 3. High maintenance 4. Jealous as fuck 5. Paranoid they're cheating 6. Monogamous all the way baby 7. Will love sex for about 2 weeks before never wanting it ever again That oughta do it. Tick all of those boxes and they'll take you home to meet Mum 👍 or cough, the kids when you get to my age 😊 Then they'll have the prize to show off to the family and sneak back on here to look for chicks like us 💋
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RHP User
8 years ago
Double standards all over the place... For genuine positivity>>> Focus on the good ones. Make them your aim. Back in my teens, we were Easy and that was the kind description. Easy found her man though, because she was easy to love. ([part of a song from my teens) Focusing on the positive... Countrytouch's post sounds like a positive lead to me. All the best with that. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
I do like a good keen girl.I also get the double standards thing and that' why the straights piss me off.Good on you for having a functioning libido.Fuck the NUN"s and to all the virgins out there, thanks for nothing.
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RHP User
8 years ago
It’s themselves, they have no faith in their own character to keep you interested. So they get little women, and then whine.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Their judgement comes from their insecurities. They are scared of your sexual confidence because they don’t fe in control. It’s sad really, that they would say they want a woman with a sexual appetite, but they can’t handle yours To that I say...... if they can’t step up, they can walk off 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wanting FWB seems to be code for 'she's good for casual sex only' in most men's eyes (don't rant at me, I said MOST!).This has been MY experience anyway.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have friends who judge my lifestyle... either ‘happily’ married ones who can’t possibly imagine having sex with more than one guy in the same week or month or others who are too uptight to go out and find a guy and get some action who give me a disapproving look when I say I’m out enjoying myself and getting whatever I can if it’s on offer and as long as I’m not hurting anyone in the process then it shouldn’t be an issue and it’s definitely not anyone’s business if I have a sex life. I’ve had guys ask me how many guys I’ve been with.... my number is still less than 10 so I don’t think that’s a big number but I also don’t think it’s anyone’s business if it was over 100. I wouldn’t ask a guy how many partners he’s had... - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
There seems to be a perception, amongst many men, that if a woman sleeps around then she is a promiscuous slut (hate that word). But if a man sleeps around he is a great stud. To be respected and admired it seems - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The flip side consequence to that.... are people using throwaway lines like “not seeking a relationship but don’t rule it out”..... as a way of preventing being screened out by people who avoid phrases like FWB/casual only etc - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
... maybe this is a result of a one-track mind? The males of our species have less neural connections between the left and right brain, whereas for females, the neural connections between both sides of the brain are massive and very complicated! 😉 Because of that physiological difference, men tend to be focused on ONE goal, and find it hard to think in a multi-branched with sub-branches, sub-sub-branches, and sub-sub-sub branches style, if you charted and compared thought patterns. 🤣 Soooo... a man who comes into RHP wanting hookups and NSA only has ONE goal on mind - "Fuck Me!!!" 🤣 They don't want to talk beyond, "Where? What time?" and because they are in this singular "fucked up" mode, when they meet women who actually are nice and could make a decent partner, they stumble, do the deer in headlights freeze, and run because they were only on RHP for fucks and they can't handle the sudden change in circumstances. They'll need time to process it. They have already boxed ALL ladies here in the "For Fucking Only!" category and any sudden deviations is trashed because it was never part of the plan! 😛 Maybe they'll decide to stop seeing you because they like you too much, they can't think of you as "just a fuck" and they are so confused that the thought of seeing you seems overwhelming and puts too much strain on them. So they'd rather just boink another Sheila senseless. Better still if they like her enough to boink her but don't like her that much to fall in love and develop feelings, that means they are achieving their goal, their raison dêtre for being on RHP, so mission accomplished. 😜 Not all men are rigid with one-track minds, of course! This is merely an illustration of how physiology might contribute to the oft-noted pattern of men in here categorising women they meet here as "For Fucking Only". 😝
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RHP User
8 years ago
...still exist although in Australia although it's veiled, disguised and hidden. Some women may live in a "sexually liberated" manner and whilst that might be acceptable here and amongst peers in the same scene, the rest of society still operates on a norm that's still rather conservative. Until the day marital fidelity and sexual liberation becomes the deviation rather than the norm, any sexual lifestyles outside of the norm remains as a deviation. Sad, but true. Opponents just stay quiet in front of "deviants" because unless someone's quarrelsome and itching for a skirmish, no one wants to disagree with anyone's sexually-liberated lifestyle preference. The men may nod their heads, appearing to support female sexual liberation here but come on... if it gets them the free fuck they after, they will just appear to agree, but deep inside, continue to think of such women as "loose women". Reality is often harsh. But in order to win at the game, you need to know the other team's tactics well. No one can shove acceptance of any sexual lifestyles down anyone else's throats anyway. Women are empowered in making choices here. But we aren't able to change other people's point of view sometimes. If we want to do something that breaks the mould and defies conventions, then be prepared to stand your ground and pay the price. Often, to avoid clashes and arguments, society puts up a front of acceptance, but there are always whispers to the contrary behind one's backs. This doesn't just apply to sexual issues - the workplace is always full of gossip against anyone who dares to be different. 😝
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RHP User
8 years ago
Agreed but you missed number 8 8. Will only have 2 positions for sex and will not vary outside them Op I hv actually had guys say this too me to the point where I have made a comment in my profile about it. Regardless of NSA fun I do not wish to form a friendship with anyone with double standards as it will show in other aspects of their life/thinking. - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
8 years ago
Everyone makes judgments of others from their own world view. One of the life lessons is, barring matters abasing the law, for the better good of humanity, is to source people who are like minded and not to be discouraged by those who beg to differ. True, we must question the law at its edges, Yay same Sex Marriage, and re-evaluate ourselves progressively.... but that's a life lesson too. I tend to nod, knowingly at the retards who just don't get it, or who, for some reason, religious belief or moral crusade think it's their job to apply their own destination to my situation. There's no point in getting them all confused and out of shape. HugsGaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
These men need to grow up. LC
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RHP User
8 years ago
Those who choose to live in their little boxes and enjoy their cushy lives the way it is will never look outside the norm and are happy to criticise others who live life and all that it has to offer. Women will always be judged if they have sexual freedom by those with closed minds for whatever reason that may be. How they were raised, religion, morals, afraid of their own sexuality......I could go on. PurePeony touched on the many reasons and couldn't have put it better myself. Men are perceived as a stud and women are still labelled a slut if she chooses to have sex with more than one man or multiple partners. I personally over the last few years have chosen to embrace my own needs and wants in a way that satisfies me. If I am judged for that then so be it. Sex was always a chore and I did what was expected to do and never explored what I wanted. I do not have time for those with a small mind who can't look beyond what is considered "Normal" by the little boxes standard.
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RHP User
8 years ago
that you have some bad experiences. I am sure you weren't generalizing as there are many of us here who do have some class and respect. Just ignore it as hard as that may sound. I can guarantee it comes from immature, bitter men who you have either rejected or is done so due to their own insecurities as mischievouslad mentioned. They joined the website expecting to fuck many women and discovered that because they have no respect they are being constantly rejected, thus bitter and clearly unwilling to accept that 'they' are the problem. Just think of it this way, they are making it easy for you to weed out the losers so you don't find out at a more inopportune time! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
of this is that I've been told that my profile is highly offensive. Unsolicited comments like "you'd fuck me if you could" from the same women Im trying to avoid! I haven't approached anyone at all yet so its not like its been in retaliation for something I have said. I just laugh it off and refuse to become bitter because of it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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voyeursmf
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Same here. To put it simply, they're more than happy to fuck the living daylights out of us but to be a keeper 😉 this is the checklist> 1. Must be a poodle 2. Pain in the neck 3. High maintenance 4. Jealous as fuck 5. Paranoid they're cheating 6. Monogamous all the way baby 7. Will love sex for about 2 weeks before never wanting it ever again That oughta do it. Tick all of those boxes and they'll take you home to meet Mum 👍 or cough, the kids when you get to my age 😊 Then they'll have the prize to show off to the family and sneak back on here to look for chicks like us 💋 This is the best reply I have seen in ages!!
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Still the same arseholes giving the rest of the guys here a bad name.. Ladies ? THESE INSECURE CRETINS ONLY TALK FOR THEMSELVES ' WE ARE NOT ALL THAT INSECURE ??? There are guys here who respect there are ladies in this world who have a sexual appetites too ??? To me it's a no brainer ?
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Nice pic ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can confirm that not all men are like that, just as not all women want commitment and marriage. But a lot of us have been brainwashed into thinking that girls, need to be chaste and virginal. Anyway, keep looking. Cool guys who are not threatened by women’s sexuality exist. I’ve met some! 👏🏻
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