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M53 F52

Miss? Hmmm.........

May 26 2014

We get a lot of messages that are specifically directed at me, as if my Husband doesn't exist. I find it disrespectful, I may play solo, but that doesn't mean that he is not involved, reads all messages, checks profiles and has a say in who, what and when. He does and enjoys doing it! Just this week there has been "what you doin today sexy" "how you going miss sexyness" "mmm you look great" "hello, how r u?" Punctuation, spelling, grammar and lack of interesting eye catching content aside, do other couples find this? Is it because we live a cuckolding lifestyle? I've checked over our profile and it's clear we are a couple. A cuckolding couple rather than a swinging couple, but a couple none-of-the-less! I'm aware my photo is always the profie shot, but Hubby's is there for all to see and there are many in the pg's. I'm also aware that I post on the forums as myself, not as "us", this may add to the confusion, but I don't really think that's the case all the time. Minx

Comments

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    12 years ago

    Same thing happens to us a lot of the time.What we also get though is messages from singles and couples commenting on Mrs Luvsilver but directed to me as though she has nothing to do with RHP.I understand that it is 99% me doing the forum side of things but a lot of the messages that are sent/read are from Mrs Luvsilver and so far 100% of our playdates have been organised by Mrs Luv as well.It really does not worry us at all but interesting to see how some things are thought to be . Mr Luvsilver

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Many of them come while the guy thinks Mado would not be home, hoping Tara might feel like playing up. Wishful thinking but.............................. it never seems too happen much around dinner time, guess they must be under the thumb by then ha ha. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    They see the pic of your boobs, and... What profile?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I get messages from couples thinking I'm part of a couple. Maybe it's just overenthusiasm to make a connection?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I do too get lots of messages from couples but it's always the guy doing all the talking and it's not my scene , I need to have the lady involved too which doesn't that often happen - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Bahahaha And as funny as that is....there is more truth in it than intended humour. Totally agree - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    people do themselves an injustice by not reading profiles properly and using what they read to introduce themselves. Maybe there wouldn't be so many people complaining they can't get anyone to return their messages if they just used their heads? The one on top of their shoulders

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    if your pictures are more of the miss and not many of the mister then usually that's why.we don't mind it because we play separately if one of us wasn't keen. I know that other couples may do it differently, but this is how we do it and we're happy that way :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Also a suggestion.... 8/9 public pics are of the woman.... Why would they think otherwise?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    so you only look at the pictures? This topic has been debated many times. I'm a Hotwife, part of the kink is me being on show for others to enjoy whilst being his wife. He also doesn't want his photo's up publicly, the pg's are more even and are opened on request. His choice. Our profile is clearly a couple, anyone messaging wouldn't know which one of us is receiving the messages, therefore surely both of us should be addressed until they know who they are addressing? Imagine if he responded to one of the "wanna fuck?" set up a meet asap as expected from some and turned up by himself?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' They see the pic of your boobs, and... What profile? Ha Ha but so trueSad to admit it I think Meander is spot on if I based who I contact on the pictures instead of the profile, I'd be sending messages to just about every woman in RHP. I guess a lot of men would hope the woman in the couple would want play alone with them. There are 4 women on RHP that I would love to meet with but their profile is every thing I want but I'm nothing they want never mind any way the thinking of most men is cast a large net and they might catch something regardless of the profile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Out of the blue, no contact, we had not even viewed the guys profile.... Slightly off topic, however it just shows that some people out there have not got the sharpest tools in the shed. "Upper Eshilone eh, probably spelt it wrong. I just took on a Suntanned Suit Wearing Solicitor with an attitude like you 2 & it cost my Ex $50K. I hope everybody on this site blocks you kike I am. That's life. Paul the Povo."

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well...to be honest I think his choices are contributing. Not saying it makes your issue any more better. Your scenario however.....bahahaha can I pleeeeeeeeeease be a fly on THAT wall??? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I understand that as Hotwife you are only display so of course most of the photos are going to be of you (though stir, I was initially thinking the same thing) If you want the messages and interactions to be respectful of mr rock then why not explicitly put that as part of your profile. I know you have in your profile of wanting someone respectful but maybe flesh it out more to also include how a successful person would communicate with you both respectfully . Just a suggestion :-) Cheers, W. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well yes you pics show you and your profile states you play alone and like to be satisfied by other men. I can't blame men for addressing you directly and as I am not overly familar with cuckholding if they addressed to you both would that not dismiss part of that kink? Maybe add in your profile first sentence your are a couple first and formost.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Bahahaha Paul the Povo eh?? Lol Povo by name AND nature after that prize winning effort lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'sir_stir' Bahahaha And as funny as that is....there is more truth in it than intended humour. Minx, I don't think Stir just looks at the pics, but many do and I have hundreds of messages from men not having read my profile to prove it.My profile could say I'm a 6'5 lesbian without teeth but with 50 cats, and it wouldn't make much difference.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Cest_la_viebaby' as I am not overly familar with cuckholding if they addressed to you both would that not dismiss part of that kink? I did wonder that as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You're right...so many people just look at the pictures and think "yep I want her" The blinkers go on. The dick gets hard. And then....cranial disfunction occurs when they send their first message. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    men are pigs at times. But just a side note, its not a spelling test or English exam!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Don't call me a pig, young lady

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You got it in one! Thank you x We definately need to update our profile, maybe explain our lifestyle a little clearer? Cuckolding isn't exactly common and there are many variances to the lifestyle. It won't stop the guys who send out multiple messages to every woman or couple on site, Melbourne Babe, believe me, you're not the only one getting those messages, but may point few in the right direction. Araps, thank you, you've got me thinking, now to confer with Hubby. Stir, your name suits, judging others lifestyles is bad juju and will come back to haunt you with premature ejaculation ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Melbourne_babe, no, it's not an English test, but some of the messages are almost impossible to de code. Attention to detail! Important! Especially on a sex site. ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    younger are used to txt speak and don't get all up tight about it

  • flashjack7

    flashjack7

    12 years ago

    We also receive these messages, but what I dislike even more is the complete lack of acknowledgement of me as the female partner. The "She's really hot, I'd like to fuck her" messages make me see red - I am not Mr F's possession to 'give out'. Is it so hard to address both partners?Mrs F xx