Missed it by > < that much.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  missed opportunities...thems the breaks. My best tho, is one time I went to a ball with a friend, we each took a lady friend for the evening and had a great time.On the way home in the taxi, my friends date was behind me (I was in the front passenger seat), she kept reaching her foot around the seat to touch me.When we got to the place we were staying, my friends date whispered to me "after you finish with your date, come and see me".I went off with my date and had a great time :)I considered going to see the other girl, but i didnt feel good about it to my date or my friend, so I left it.in the morning, chatting to my date, I told her about this, she said "dammit, why didnt you go?". Later, talking to my friend I told him and he too said I should have gone, he didnt get along that well with his date. Dammit!

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  ...and a curse. I know what you mean Shells, as a shy, reserved, polite and respectful young man with a naughty mind I missed out on many opportunities due to lacking the confidence to speak up and make that first move. Oh the adventures I could've/should've/would've had at 20 with what I know now. Since turning 30, joining RHP and finding other like minded people... I've learnt to be more open and honest about communicating my desires and interests... Hooray for the internets. As a lover of giving anal, another lesson that I've learnt is to keep a supply of lube downstairs... same goes for condoms too... and be open to using other everyday household lubricants (ie. grapeseed and coconut oils). It saves on doing the mad dash upstairs and doing yourself an injury in your excitement... I've managed to spoil the mood a couple of times by smashing my shins/toes into furniture and walls in my haste. Cheers Rusty

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I was dating someone long distance (ACT/VIC) in 2007/8. She found me as she was searching on Facebook for guys in Ballarat. While I was in Canberra, I did have Ballarat as a mention as I was born there, so she found me. Anyway, we met and saw each other a few times in essentially platonic terms, when I was visiting as I did occasionally on long weekends etc. I even sent her a valentines day present while I was away, the first I had cause to. As it happened, I was already in the process of considering moving (back) to Ballarat to be close to family again, which I did that June. So I hoped that more would come of this situation with her. The next opportunity - which I was wonderfully hopeful about - she had issued me an invite to come over, have dinner, maybe a wine or two and watch a movie/chill out (not a thing back then). I was very excited about the possibilities of at least snuggles or affection, let alone more. However, quite close the the time, she said she had to change her plans because of a clash of an important event. True or not, I of course went along with this explanation. However, the next meeting we talked about if things were going anywhere, and perhaps I felt or showed either impatience or perhaps pushed a little too hard (if at all, but you never know). In any case, she decided to take some further time to experience singledom considering she was recently out of her last relationship, and in the end nothing further eventuated between us. She was a wildlife handler, and as she had talked about with me, to my information she ended up taking an overseas job opportunity in Africa. So I guess that is my best "missed by that much" story of something that could have turned sexual (you said ticking off from a fucket list, my first item to tick off in this case was to have a twosome!).

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