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Mixed signals

May 26 2015

Hi been awhile since I asked a question here! Anyway one if the mums at my daughters school asked me for coffee little while ago? I thought it odd as she is married? Couple days latter she started to tell me how she would need play up? Some days when I pick my daughter up the mother will go out of her way to talk with me and then other days she won't even look my way (seems when certain other mothers are around) she has confused me to no end. Guess my question is has mixed signals been sent to anyone and how did you get a one way or the other answer...

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  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    .... ask a/the question ... and let your bullshit O meter do the rest ..... .... ie ask for the coffee rematch .... and gauge the response The was a forum on female/male brain wiring the other day ......... and I think that women have a far more developed sense of body language then their male counterparts ..... unspoken body signals and far more tuned to flirts and the odd Freudian slip ;) .... it may be a generalisation ..... but my female friends seem to smile knowingly a lot (when I didn't get it!) ... around school is a pretty sketchy place for someone who wishes to dabble in the dark side ..... from my own experience she ends up sitting on the desk of the cool long haired music teacher Q. 'would you really want to go there ... at your child's school'?

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Sound like the signals are mixed to me..she just doesn't want other busy body mums to know that she fancies them pants right off of you but,danger there Will Robinson ...and to answer the question ,probably but I can't remember when xxFreya

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    There are no mixed signals.... where you dont wish there to be. She's married........ be the Man.... and call that off-limits, and get thoughts of it out of your head. Focus on the other hens which done already have a rooster.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    so she's married but obviously not happily married...and I come to this conclusion because she feels the need to keep it on the down low... Problem is...someone has already noticed...and that is a fair assumption in my tiny little head lol.. What do about it....who knows?? The answer to this is no different really in asking "should I be the one that fucks the absolute arse out some horny nympho mother that is married ??" It's a minefield big guy....but I'm sure you've got a plan... Have I received mixed signals before?? Yes. So here's a Steven king novel of my very first love. The year was 1923....I was 16-17 working my arse off at the local maccas, and I became quite friendly with another chick who will remain nameless except my pet name for her 'sparky' She would look at me as we worked and just smile...I remember thinking that she could possibly know that secretly I was blushing my heart out every time she would just wink with that cheeky smile. We had our breaks together a lot...talking about anything and everything but it never escalated...she'd walk past me and tickle me and later if do the same to her...one day she stood beside me in the grill area and says "I wanna go see Romeo and Juliet....I think we should go". So we went... After about 6-12 months of us hanging out more and more I gotta say...I fell head over heels for this woman. That's when one of the other workers laid it on me that she knew about how I felt about her. I just looked her n the eyes and said "no idea what you're on about...we're just mates" "Yeah well; you maybe fooling yourself but both of you ain't fooling me....so how about I tell her how you feel??" "Nahh...I'm good...it'll just ruin everything...besides it really should come from me..." "You won't tell her..." She fired back. "So what?? But I can't control what you do....as long as I know nothing about it 😉" I replied. So she told her....I heard back that she just rolled her eyes when she was told... "How could I have got it so wrong?? Surely we had flirted with each other...and she was quite forward in her inviting ME out....why doesn't she feel the same way??" I remember thinking... So I just sucked it up and moved on. Cried lots....ached to hang out with her...but I knew I had to leave that one alone.... Watched boyfriend after boyfriend after boyfriend come and go....listened to her stories for years....we even ended up going to a 21st birthday together...lol...she ended up fucking some other guy in the deserted house next to the party venue...I got told come up here there's a chick in here about to fuck some guy...I walked up...saw it was her and walked off back to the party. Lol drive her home even after the party. Told her years later.....after she married and had 3 kids and I've never spoken to her since....her marriage busted up soon after and she's dating again....one of our old bosses from maccas I believe.... Point is big guy....unless you give it a go....you'll never know....and by the time you do know; it can all be too late.... Sorry if this doesn't help any.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    LOL There is thing about signals, they always over lap, they are always mixed. A radio station for example plays easy listening while the one next door is hip hop and rock. Both broadcast their signals far and wide but lucky me I can tune into the signal I want, blissfully unaware of the other crap. On occasion I find someone has messed with the tuning. But that's OK I know what is good for me and its easy to move the dial. Too easy with the signals from all the stations to just tune to the one I like. I find people do much the same, they tune into what they like oblivious to all the others. OP you are not getting mixed signals, your dial is tuned to "69OH fuck yeh" and the signal is coming in strong and clear. Your problem is that not all the tunes on the play list are to your liking. If you adjust your tuning there will be no problem. On another station there is no funky base driven porno music, no need to raise the pulse. But i suspect you like the station, just not the crap tunes. You could always ask them to stop playing the tracks you don't like, or turn the volume down. As I can feel a morality surge coming up, I will say, dont forget to dig deep and give generously to the St Vincent de Paul Society, there are many reason people end up on the street alone and cold. Every little bit helps. As for what you do in regard to said lady, your both adults so that is up to you.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    By any chance is your name Forrest, Forrest Gump? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    are you Wendy?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Farrout....you guys are bloody hilarious. Seriously, ....this is far more entertaining than the correspondence side. Lmao...lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    ...... 1923 ...... you have got to have had work done ! .... keep up the Oil of Olay ...lol ...sometimes ...it is what it is ...... a moment in time, never to be recaptured

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Is it a possibility that married men and women can flirt? People flirt for plethora reasons other than opening up the prospect of naked boogie nights.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    More then Likely won't go there with this lady, however new friends is never a problem... Guess it's not so much my cock thinking in this situation but more my lonely heart. Thanks to you all for your diligent input...

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    lots of screwing 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    you need to find this woman again now. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    is that big ocean or body odor?? 😝 Cos that idea stinks lol no I truly do not need to find her at all....it's just a chapter in the big book of awesome that is me 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Book of awesome hope its not a paperback ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    might be a mattress back 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    ...could be indicative of her mixed feelings.