M51 F48
Monogamy
August 22 2015
Comments
-
RHP User
10 years ago
We tried it both ways with varying success, and some lusting (not a typo ;-)) memories... We definitely decided we enjoyed each other's company the best and have, coincidently, just returned from a dirty mid-week away, lol. Peachy
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Being single Id hope to start with good base relationship that was closed. Then make it open slowly to explore together. But you so have to communicate well, as I have experienced being in an open relationship, which he wanted. So I kept one of my fwb, when he asked me if I had seen him, he was quite hurt about it when I said yes. So I guess the point is to take it slow and say exactly what you want and also to talk if feelings change as you go.
-
Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Arabs, I'm wanting a committed relationship between 2 people, with someone who definitely enjoys sex as much as I do, who wants to explore with me, who I can have open and honest communication with and hopefully someone who wants similar things to me.... Would I be open to an open relationship with someone, yes possibly, I think once you've established boundaries and are both happy with those boundaries, I believe it can work. But in saying that, I'd also be happy to be monogamous relationship with someone...💋
-
Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
If I found the one, why share?
-
RHP User
10 years ago
If you found the one, who was emotionally and sexually compatible with you, why share? Why would you need others if you were quite happy with what you could offer each other. Its different when its a cuckold scenario, or one partner has a fetish the other cant understand. But I, for one, would be happy with one man if he was the one who ticked all my boxes and I truly loved.
-
sweetgem
10 years ago
I want a monogamous relationship with someone who wants the same. But for now, I would like to find someone to share some quality times together on an ongoing basis, that includes occasional dinners, movies, and travelling together. Preferably, I would like to meet a single man who is way too busy for a committed relationship just like myself, or someone in a complete open relationship who could do the above mentioned outings occasionally, without hurting his other half. Is my response relevant to your question, Araps? 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Being in a monogamous relationship, I have someone that knows me, what makes me smile, how I operate if you like..I know I take some work, .. Hooking up with randoms is just that, it's a thrill,I love the vulnerability of being naked, the skin touching, I love sex and I love foreplay, it's not always about the end result for me, but I love the reward of the challenge, pushes my boundaries and boosts my confidence to see if I can get someone else to that place, make them feel amazing, that and Treeman loves to see me please... So I could go either way.... Not to be confused with swing either way 😜
-
RHP User
10 years ago
What you describe is not monogamy...monogamy is when you have sex with only one person .Dan Savage coined the term"monogamish"..,It means that you are in a committed relationship but play with others that maybe what you mean..hugs xxFreya
-
RHP User
10 years ago
but are now in an open relationship, why???we were very young when we married and were both virgins, we were lucky that sexually we both were extremely compatible and it was never a problem, we have been monogamous for our whole marriage which is 18 years this year.however we both started to realise that we both felt the same when it came to wanting to explore with other people sexually, i guess having married so young and never having had the chance to explore we both felt we had missed out somewhat, so this works for us, we love eachother to death, we have a fantastic relationship and this way we can explore sexually with others and still maintain our relationship.will we do this permanantly??? i don't think so, we are enjoying it for now and i think in a few years from now we will most likely go back to being monogomous. It's not for everyone but it works for us.
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you for the correction.... Indeed "monogamish" ..... I like it :)) x
-
RHP User
10 years ago
If there was a naked woman in my own bed, I'm not going anywhere! :) But, we can certainly go other places and join with other people together... However, we won't share 100% of our interests, so that is where flexibility comes in. She might have some BDSM fetishes I'm not into. And if I found a unicorn, then I would be more than happy to let her play elsewhere, as long as ultimately she is coming back to me (and hopefully bringing a friend), but I would find it arousing in any case to hear about it... or watch... or join in.... mmmm... let's just share all of our activities shall we?
-
RHP User
10 years ago
if course your response is relevant :-P Oh and when I said open that covers the full spectrum of monogamish, swinging, cuckold/cuckqueen/hotwifing and open relationships. And Freya, yes Dan has coined some interesting words :-) monogamish, pegging, santorum lol - Posted from rhpmobile
-
JohnAnn2227
10 years ago
We have never regretted swinging and have been involved for about 15 years. It is something we both love. Could we go back to being monogamous? Yes we could but we couldn't deny that we would still think about sex with others and fantasise about it. We don't see a time in our marriage where we won't be involved in swinging (except when we are too old!). Swinging is exciting and something special that we share together.
-
RHP User
10 years ago
I had to google Santorum,wish I hadn't 😳hugs xxFreya
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' I had to google Santorum,wish I hadn't 😳hugs xxFreya Roflol, there's definitely times when being too curious can be a disadvantage!
-
RHP User
10 years ago
I have been in two monogamous relationships but been curious about other aspects of sex outside the vanilla range. So now that I'm single again I'd like to sample those aspects and if I was in a relationship it would need to start out as an open relationship so I could still explore the opportunities denied me previously. Maybe at a later time it would become monogamish or monogamous....when I had researched enough as a solo.
-
madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' Arabs, I'm wanting a committed relationship between 2 people, with someone who definitely enjoys sex as much as I do, who wants to explore with me, who I can have open and honest communication with and hopefully someone who wants similar things to me.... Would I be open to an open relationship with someone, yes possibly, I think once you've established boundaries and are both happy with those boundaries, I believe it can work. But in saying that, I'd also be happy to be monogamous relationship with someone...💋 We can monogomish you lovinit in between us two. Delightful, delectable, moorish sensual massage and edge towards euphoria and chase the ultimate orgasm to establish the heights and intensity, hazy, dazed, funky monkey intimate mind fucked uncontrollable full body muscle spasms, writhing in between us lovinit in passionate bliss, searching for boundaries maybe a blurry marriage or of aimless wandering the low lit midnight seeking a Moonbow Mado Tara xx
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Rick Santorum is a bat shit fundy GOP candidate in US who is against abortions, contraception, women's rights and especially gay rights so Dan asked his readers to a) come up with a new disgusting sex term that describes him (hence the about lube and anal) but also b) use it so much in RL that Google search terms come up the sex term higher in the Google search order than for his own page. Quite funny. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Yep all I saw was the sex term...that is indeed hilarious and I just bet Rick is from bum fuck nowhere 😝xxFreya
-
MissBishere
10 years ago
lovinit on this one.
-
Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Cutting a deal with the devil my lovely.....😘😈
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Having been married (and faithful) twice, I know I prefer the intimacy and trust and all the other advantages of a monogamous relationship... But when one's wife dies, it tends to put a 'tear in your nightie'. I am, and generally do, seek a 'lifetime monogamous realtionship', but in the meantime (i.e. during the search, I'm open to experiencing what there is to offer in the 'not so vanilla' side). Ideally, I would opt for a lifetime partner with whom I could explore whatever aspects of sex and intimacy we chose. My experience, while in such a marriage, was wonderful and I experienced a wonder and a joy that no-one could ever take away... So, I know it's possible. That's my preference, but right now, while I'm on that search, I'm open to suggestions... Thanks.
-
madotara69
10 years ago
Only here because the devil fears for his job.
-
ReyandJean
10 years ago
We are monogamous. Our commitment is to each other.... We just have sex with other people sometimes. Can't turn back the clock. It's like virginity, right? Wouldn't want to. Swinging has deepened and developed our relationship for the better in ways we never contemplated.
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ReyandJean' We are monogamous. Our commitment is to each other.... We just have sex with other people sometimes. Can't turn back the clock. It's like virginity, right? Wouldn't want to. Swinging has deepened and developed our relationship for the better in ways we never contemplated. And also understand and respect your choices and way of life. If it works for you, fine and dandy. Some people are, I suppose, just wired differently in that I wouldn;t want my partner, lover, wife or whatever label you want to give it... sharing something that I think is really the only thing we have that's ours to give (as far as intimacy goes). To me, in a relationship the intimacy has to remain within the realtionship and be shared and explored by the two, who have, excuse the expression, but agreed to basically become one and share their lives (good and bad bits) till the end.That's not to say that during the process of searching and meeting people along the way, one isn't available to share soemthing wonderful but not 'committed' (some of whom have become very good friends)... Thanks
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Countrychic, I agree completely Gordie
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Jess and I have been married for over 20 perfect years. About 2.5 years ago we began flirting mad eventually caming with other couples. She has now found her cyber boyfriend and now she wants me to have a special lady to explore with. Ever since we began this online journey it has been incredible the experiences we have had together and separately. And it turns us in to tell each other about our adventures with others. The biggest thing that makes it work is huge amount of communication, always expressing our feelings. Our open cyber relationship has been amazing and yes it can be far more intense than real meets, because in cyber one can get as emotionally involved as one feels comfy. As long as everyone e understands the boundaries..... - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
10 years ago
once you've been stirred you'll never be shaken again ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15123 Comments: 88145
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1417 Comments: 10231
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2520 Comments: 11665
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2506 Comments: 9760
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 1007 Comments: 5253
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1303 Comments: 5776
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 782 Comments: 1988
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 867
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share