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Mrs. Robinson?

January 02 2010

I was very recently having some fun with a young, very cute, very smart boy... who at one stage in proceedings called me his "Mrs. Robinson"... now luckily for him, I knew he was just being cheeky and teasing...and I like to tease and be teased.... and I am so glad he used an actual intelligent reference, rather than the term "cougar".... he may have gotten much less lucky lol... but it got me thinking...   The age difference between us is exactly 5 years... does that justify me being called "Mrs. Robinson" or "cougar"? It's not really terminology that has many positive connotations for me, it doesn't seem like a compliment... am I mistaken?   It's one of the reasons I generally avoid younger men... because while I can take a joke... some things just start to make you feel old....lol :P

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Women think too much.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Indulge his fantasy...and maybe yours. 5 years difference doenst make a cougar. and as you get older ages becum less of an issue. 35 is not old sophie ..its more a mind thing age. Mars

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Sophie,35 is not old.  :)Me, in my minds eye, I'm still 18.  The body just reminds me every now and then, that I shouldn't try to draw down on that too often.  The mirror confirms that.Mr FF. <-- Wondering at what point we are considered "old" :)  Maybe it is all relative after all...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Soph, can sorta see where you are coming from with Mr Cutes remark, I did see a couple of ladies on my own in recent past who sort of intimated, that they were really doing me a favour, and i was one lucky SOB, because how often does an old guy get to play with a woman 12 or so years his junior, now unfortunately...possiblyfor me..possibly not....lol  I i kinda took offence to the satetements of these women...and the old attraction circuit breaker tripped out immedately.But like Mars said, age is relative, as you become more mature, age matters less, what is important is how you interact with each other.I find myself constantly bemused at how ageist people can be.How many terriffic experiences are we denying ourselvesbecause of a date on a birth certificate.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I dont think 5 years difference classifys you as a cougar... the guy would have to be, well, my age. Which would be excellent! ;-)   He's only slightly younger, and 35 isnt old, so no need to worry about it in any way!   Also, at 30, im guessing he was making the "Mrs Robinson" reference to the Simon & Garfunkel - when he starts thinking Mrs Robinson was originally performed by Nirvana, then you know you're a Cougar ;-)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You see whilst you are 5 years apart by drivers license, he no doubt ogles hot twenty-something chicky-babes (too).  And the difference between them and you is closer to 10 years.  When you're a 30M, you still think you're 20-something, because you don't remember your 30th (nor should you!)   Doesn't make you old by any stretch.  Just a cougar .

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    +1 for Stalky :) a cheeky comment is just that, a cheeky one liner - either play upto it or forget it and laugh - smile either way.+5 years isn't much of a difference, I completely forgot you were any older than me - and I don't think of myself as "in my thirties" unless I'm consciously thinking about it - early 20 something at most.Anyways, Mrs Robinson conjures up entirely different imagery to a cougar - trashy, aggressive, too-tight-mum-bum-jeans with ugly 80s pumps, leathery skin and a winnie blue in hand while mixing it up on the RSL dance floor with kids their sons age. That definitely doesn't bare any resemblance to you.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I'm pretty sure the guy has to be in his 20's and there has to be at least 10 years difference before the guy can call a woman a cougar. Sydneyboy got the rest of the description spot on.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thinking I mean...particularly before you open your mouth..c'ept when your doin some mighty fine tongue lashing of the oral variety.. damn...off topic again....Sophie's post illustrates my point exactly...just enjoy each other without labelling...screams INSECURITY.....among other things...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    5 years. Is that all? Doesn't make you qualify as a cougar at all.   The Mrs Robinson comment was probably meant as a joke, because unless he was college age (which 5 years isn't) and a virgin it doesn't apply in his case.   As for feeling your age, reminds me of a comment the Spice Girls made when meeting Nelson Mandela. They said "you are as old as the woman you feel". If you feel old you act that way and if you feel young you act that way. Me I feel like i'm in my late thirties.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Thinking I mean...particularly before you open your mouth..c'ept when your doin some mighty fine tongue lashing of the oral variety.. damn...off topic again....Sophie's post illustrates my point exactly...just enjoy each other without labelling...screams INSECURITY.....among other things... I think this goes back to the other message thread about women being able to multi task and men tend to single task. We tend to speak first and then realise what we've said, at least in the heat of the moment.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hoo ya to that capt! Nerves...anxiety...intimidation....all impact on ones ability to capture the moment.... xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Fine looking set of pins there Mz J Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Mrs. Robinson: Benjamin, I am *not* trying to seduce you. Benjamin: I know that, but *please*, Mrs. Robinson, this is difficult... Mrs. Robinson: Would you like me to seduce you? Benjamin: What? Mrs. Robinson: Is that what you're trying to tell me? Benjamin: I'm going home now. I apologize for what I said. I hope you can forget it, but I'm going home right now.   Yes please !!! Anyone want to play "The Graduate" with me ?  That movie does it for me.... the quotes, the music, everything.  It's old fashioned sexy.  And I like a bit of old fashioned sex !!   Go for it Ms Sophie... you're HOT.   xxx Ms Saturn

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    This made me think of you Sophie ! Benjamin: Mrs. Robinson, I can't do this. Mrs. Robinson: You what? Benjamin: This is all terribly wrong. Mrs. Robinson: Do you find me undesirable? Benjamin: Oh no, Mrs. Robinson. I think, I think you're the most attractive of all my parents' friends. I mean that. ..............   xxx Ms Saturn

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    So does tht mean if he was with a woman 5 years his junior he would consider himself a dirty old man, or a sugar daddy?I think not...5 years is nothing...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ...can for some stupid reason can really pull a punch!   Yeah, women probably do think too much (well, I do unless there is something in my mouth ;p)...but if I was called Mrs Robinson, I would feel my young man (no matter how much younger) was putting me in a position of authority....and ummm, and thats not what I want to feel when my clothes are off.   I know I know....gotta get over myself sometimes and STOP thinking sooo much!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Perhaps if blokes put more thought into thinking women wouldnt have to think so much..... ps: Thank you for sharing your thoughts: spanks ya Nev....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    That is so unfair mynameonurlips! Read my post on "intelligent conversation"... we are already completely pre-occupied... have a rock hard disability to deal with! Women should lend a hand more often, I say! :p   Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Yes, stalky, you are absolutely right...Eunuch please take note! Stalky is the speaker of da male house....perhaps you can also act as interpreter for same...as you have so kindly done in past posts? Maybe the three L's could collaborate? A panel, if you wish. Damn...these smarties are good stuff....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    35 yrs to his 30? That does not make you Mrs Robinson or a cougar!   I would let it go myself though, do not be offended, he obviously liked the idea so it was clearly meant as a compliment. I can however one up that.......   Played with a male the other night. He was telling us about a woman he had played with who was particularly tight. Andy tells me I am pretty tight and said male pipes up and says "Not compared to this girl"!   What the?!?! I had to laugh I must say at least your guy was trying to be complimentry!! Sheesh! As for feeling old I was also chatting to a couple of girls on the same night. An old Madonna song was playing and I told them how I remember listening to that music when I was about 8 yrs old. They then replied with "Oh yeah, for me it was the spice girls" Urgh!   A couple of days before that I had a PT session with Andy's trainer and he asks me if my big quads are genetic!!!!   So, from this it would seem I am old, loose and fat! Effing fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   Lol xx Salina

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    thanks very much to all for your replies on this thread... and your positive reinforcement and encouragement and compliments... as well as the witty smart funny comments.... are all very much appreciated :)   on re-readng my original post (which I should probably have done before posting it lol) I now realize it does sound as if I was personally looking for reassurance... and while I'm as happy as any woman to get it... I didn't mean it quite like that...   I was really just wanting to share my experience and see if any others had had a similar experience... of feeling a little offended at what was absolutely meant as a fun, sexy compliment...   And yes, sydneyboy, I did smile (while simutaneously trying to hide my cellulite lol)... but I don't agree with the fact that women think too much... as Mz J so eloquently puts it... if we didn't do all the thinking 'round here, who would? (oh.... ha ha...only joking... you can smile now :P)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Give me Stacey's Mum' any day! More on that later... maybe... Mrs P'

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    See this is why I get confused. So... Soph, myname ... You're either saying women don't think too much or whatever it is you're saying... your saying it contrary to what I said.... But it's not about insecurity.... it's about young guys. right. Like that's clear now. Thanks. I think I'll stand up now. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'PeachypearWeR' Give me Stacey's Mum' any day! More on that later... maybe... Mrs P' she's got it goin on! :p

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    More information required.   Is he dating your daughter?   Regards   Mr. SR.