M42
My Perfect Partner... where are you?!
July 02 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
You sound like a really lovely bloke. I don't have anything constructive to say but I just wanted to wish you the best of luck!!! Your Mrs Right is out there somewhere looking for you so don't lose sight and never give up!!! XxXx, Addickted
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im all the above mentioned,...well i should be for my age..lol and it;s me Ala natural,like most of the womenon here..would like the same traits in a man,but one who is supportive,gives encouragement,to allow me to continue to grow and be an individual, as well as part of a couple,and allow me freedom to do my own thing and together,one who is quick to listen .yet hears what i'm saying.but slow in speaking,and isn't a control freak wanting to invade my privacy..24/7..hate nosey parkers that have to know everything while at the same time keeping secrets,tells lies,24/7..i have no issues with being honest n open..BUT ithas to work BOTH ways.Affectionate,romantic,loving caring,fun loving..the list goes on...lol...Alas ....age n distance cuts us off..lol.Good luck in your search,and wish you well...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mmm. Nah. You can't use a list like that mate. Well you can. Shit I didn't read it all. Weemen are enigmas. They have a list too then they change their minds. I'll put this in to help you. The journey of a man. When I was 13 I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend with big tits. When I was 16 I got a girlfriend with big tits , but there was no passion. So I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life. In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency. She was a drama queen, cried all the time even threatened suicde. So I decided that I needed a girl with stability. When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. So I decided that I needed a girl with excitement. When I was 28 I found an exciting girl she rushed from one thing to the next never settling on anything. She did mad impetuous things that made me miserable as much as happy. She was great fun initially but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some real ambition. When I turned 30 I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground, so I married her. She was so ambitious that she took me for everything I owned. I am older and wiser now, and I am looking for a girl with big tits. Well as you can see what you want ain't what you get or as good as you want plus you both need to be on the same page. Boy I learnt that recently. So chill man you ain't my age but keep your eyes open. For the one and when you do think that you've found her. Look forthose signs that may just make life terrible. Good luck on your journey. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh dear...Good luck finding all of the above, in just one awesome women!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Go into your local video shop and ask for 'wonder woman' pretty sure that they will point you in the right direction :) .. hope that helps! -maple-
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RHP User
16 years ago
Is a thesaurus called Amanda or Suzy or a verbose request for a fully optioned something so perfect, it's perfectly hidden in your words.... and from your view... for now. Good luck - did you mention she needs a heartbeat in there?
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RHP User
16 years ago
yep got most of that stuff........(.ok im not really into wine, being a champagne only sort of girl, it makes it easier to remember what to order when i get to the bar ), many of the women here do have all or most of those traits.......most men (I generalise) just dont take the time to discover them, being too focussed on sexual activity and conquest. But alas like mumma says .......your way too young for my desires babe.......................happy hunting
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RHP User
16 years ago
That sounds like a Females shopping list! Only thing is unlike guys, they don't compromise, if you don't tick all their boxes.....its back to the reserves bench you go!Oh yeah ...and driven people don't do relaxation.....its all go...go...go!I suggest if you can find a woman who loves you, for who you are warts and all, and vice a versa.......your on a good thing!Chuck the shopping lists in the bin people!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey very nice I like it. I see you have given it some thought. Lots about that I could relate to. Of course mine would be male, 6ft plus a bit. My own age. Good work ethic. Confidence is everything to me but he needs to be quietly confident without arrogance. He would need to be completely in to me and have his own interests so we could have some meaningful chat at the end of the day. I think I will just keep waiting. Fingers crossed. Miss K
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh to he'll with all that. Let's fuck and see if there's any magic first. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thats not a tall list at all. I'm with Miss B. Some just don't break it down to see what they really have...yanno the grass is always greener patooey. Ya can't have ya Kate and Edith too. Appreciate what you have, especially when all those boxes are ticked. Even if most of those boxes are ticked, the rest you can achieve or compromise together. As long as the person makes you happy that's a good start. xxMiss Honeyxx<<
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RHP User
16 years ago
It doesn't exist. Compromise does. I think it all depends on what you are looking for too. A lifelong partner, or a sex partner. If it is the second, then i'm with Stalky with foreplay thrown in. Trish, what on earth are hotel/motel guys?? Good luck everyone, just remember there are no knights in shining armour or whatever the female equivalent is. From what i can see in life, it is compromise all the way!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
lolz Trish.. Oh those guys! hehe... I tried to take up their offer but they didnt respond. hehe. Don't get me wrong Trish, I don't mean that there shouldnt be some dandy prelims... I'm just saying that a life partner just kind of happens... with their faults and all, you just find yourself in love and disregard the stuff you might have predetermined was not to be included your criteria. It's all about the magic of the connection, in my opinion. I suppose that's an ephemeral concept for those who have not expereinced it, but for those who have, I see them nodding. Also, compromise is a word that comes to mind when it comes to long term relationships. I heard an old guy married for 40+ years on tele say that you have to learn to like the things you don't like just because your partner does. There's plenty of wisdom there even if not eloquently stated. HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting Stalkysaying that a life partner just kind of happens... with their faults and all, you just find yourself in love and disregard the stuff you might have predetermined was not to be included your criteria. It's all about the magic of the connection, in my opinion.I agree with Stalky here. I think sometimes pple get caught up with their ideal or ticking all of the boxes. Would be interesting to see how many pple who are in love or have found their life partner would say that their loved one actually fitted into what they thought was their ideal partner. If that makes sense. I think women seem to accept men and their faults more easily then the other way around. Or is that just a biased comment????xx Meeka xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'maplesyrup_42' Go into your local video shop and ask for 'wonder woman' pretty sure that they will point you in the right direction :) .. hope that helps! -maple- *applauds*Whilst you're there can you grab me a Superman x Batman x George Clooney with a little Salma Hayek thrown in...thanks ;)xo
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RHP User
16 years ago
I simply might suggest that "perfection" is not only and unattainable fantasy...but is something best found by two? Be half of perfect...you may find it much less difficult to find your perfect counterpart.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I think women seem to accept men and their faults more easily then the other way around. Or is that just a biased comment???? I think sometimes women forget that they have faults the men might be accepting ;) *ducks for cover*
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yep....reckon your right. Meeka i disagree entirely.....guys are so much more easy going and accepting than females ever were or ever will be!Any room in your fox hole Syd?Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have a wonder women suit hanging in my wardrobe if your interested.Only problems is I wouldn't bother putting it on for any man of your young vain age. Please enlightening us as to what offer you would have to put on the table.Sounds like you have taken a piece from every failed relationship, and put them together to come with an unrealistic enterty. Here's a thought, go and buy a blow up doll, dress her how you want, wine her and dine her,have long conversations with her,and make here perform however you like. Or you could go and buy yourself a collection of Barbie Dolls and have yourself a happy little harem .Good luck in your search for something that DOES NOT EXIST.
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RHP User
16 years ago
No I completely agree that women obviously have their faults as well - no doubt - and yes men also will accept them.Not sure what I was getting at there - maybe that women put up with MORE SHIT!! And no that is not a good thing......... Nev - are you seriously saying men are more easy going? Or do you mean more simple? Mmm okay maybe you have a point. Kisses Meeka
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RHP User
16 years ago
Please sweetiepie 2010 If you find your dreams v reality guy and he has a brother with georgious feet let me know,as I would put my wonderwomen suit on for him.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nick is allowed out of the basement by his mum to put others down.....sigh....so predictable. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
i think there is many women out there who have alot of those qualities and are close to what you are looking for. the question should more be how can i attract these sort of women not where are you? there are lots out there. the thing is that women with those kinds of qualities who are either perfect or nearly perfect would want a man who is near perfect too. I mean why would a woman who have all those qualities settle for someone who say smells bad when they can do way better because of how great they are. so my question to Gcrob83 is do you have all the qualities that makes a perfect or almost perfect man? if you do then i don't think you would have a problem finding these types of women. If you are the almost perfect guy you would most probably have a flock of women to chose from already. these types of women normally want a perfect guy too. example like sweetiepie's list. I am sure Gcrob83 doesn't tick all those boxes sweetiepie listed so why do you expect such high expectations from someone? sorry to be abit negative but i am kinda getting abit annoyed at the amount of men i talk to on here who go on about how they can't meet a great girl. One of the men i talked to who complained is a 32 yr old man with no job and still lives with his parents. I mean hello.... ALARM bells.. lol they complain they can't meet a great chick yet they are a 32 yr old unemployed man living with his parents. lol why would a great chick go for that when there are lots of better guys out there for them?
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RHP User
16 years ago
@Gcrob83 there is no "My Perfect Partner" as we are all individuals with our own feelings and thoughts rattling around in our heads so i believe if you have a list that they have to step up and cross all T's and Dot all i's then your setting up to fail. not trying to shoot you down as i believe also having a goal and stating them lets other ppl know what you expect and thats a better place to start from than not having an idea. and i can see from later in you post that your open for any kind of person so stick with being you and some one will see your worth, and if that fails just find someone you can put up with more than anyone else.......................lol joking on last bit
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu' i think there is many women out there who have alot of those qualities and are close to what you are looking for. the question should more be how can i attract these sort of women not where are you? there are lots out there. the thing is that women with those kinds of qualities who are either perfect or nearly perfect would want a man who is near perfect too. I mean why would a woman who have all those qualities settle for someone who say smells bad when they can do way better because of how great they are. so my question to Gcrob83 is do you have all the qualities that makes a perfect or almost perfect man? if you do then i don't think you would have a problem finding these types of women. If you are the almost perfect guy you would most probably have a flock of women to chose from already. these types of women normally want a perfect guy too. example like sweetiepie's list. I am sure Gcrob83 doesn't tick all those boxes sweetiepie listed so why do you expect such high expectations from someone? sorry to be abit negative but i am kinda getting abit annoyed at the amount of men i talk to on here who go on about how they can't meet a great girl. One of the men i talked to who complained is a 32 yr old man with no job and still lives with his parents. I mean hello.... ALARM bells.. lol they complain they can't meet a great chick yet they are a 32 yr old unemployed man living with his parents. lol why would a great chick go for that when there are lots of better guys out there for them? I'm not looking for it all by any stretch of the imagination but it doesn't mean I cant dream like you or anyone else?I'd like to think I've ticked a few of those boxes on sweeties list and I'm sure for every guy you've had that didn't meet your expectations I'd have a girl who didn't have the time of day to even give me a second look. I guess it just works both ways in a two way highway. The point of my post was alittle tongue in cheek, a little "woe is me" and a little bit of not ever guy wants a super model with no substance. While on my list is attractive and curvaceous they are both subjective and to be honest I find alot of the other items on my list far far far more attractive. None of which can be judged on first appearance and like their corresponding traits in a man are not displayed on the front page of a personals list. I'd gladly share them with anyone who wants to get to know me
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RHP User
16 years ago
" Can we dance naked in the moonlight. Throw leaves in the air" done it feel it. Like that every day. Have a challenge to put smiles on grumpy peoples faces. Some are so far gone though I feel sad for them. Lol. Well my list only really consists of one thing happiness. This above all else. Happines in spirit. Happiness in counternance. Happiness in heart. Happiness. And not just when out on show. But a way of life. As this is my choice. Everything else is a bonus. Mmmmm me like bonusses. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sassyfromsincity'I have a wonder women suit hanging in my wardrobe if your interested.Only problems is I wouldn't bother putting it on for any man of your young vain age. Please enlightening us as to what offer you would have to put on the table.Sounds like you have taken a piece from every failed relationship, and put them together to come with an unrealistic enterty. Here's a thought, go and buy a blow up doll, dress her how you want, wine her and dine her,have long conversations with her,and make here perform however you like. Or you could go and buy yourself a collection of Barbie Dolls and have yourself a happy little harem .Good luck in your search for something that DOES NOT EXIST. You bag a guy for dreaming? Rob clearly states its a dream fest, also states that he would rather someone to be themself and if they happen to tick SOME of the boxes then even better. Rob dream honey, we all do and why not? Its fun. we all have things that would make a perfect partner so why not list them? Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' I think sometimes women forget that they have faults the men might be accepting ;) *ducks for cover* lmao deude! Can I stand next to you at the Sydney meet and greet? With a bit of luck they'll take a swing at you first... hehe HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'And you all seem to think I'm batshit nuts? This guy just ain't right in the head. hahaha... It took a tremendous effort to think up all those key points. Not batshit nuts... but I'm going to go out on a limb here with you and say "unusually excessive"... :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' I think sometimes women forget that they have faults the men might be accepting ;) *ducks for cover* lmao deude! Can I stand next to you at the Sydney meet and greet? With a bit of luck they'll take a swing at you first... hehe HUgs Stalky he plans on ducking for cover. They are going to hit you inadvertently. But dont worry there will be enough of us there who will make sure you gett ALL the attention you deserve. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' There are guys who want a model, with a hot body who is super sweet, supportive, a corporate juggernaut, fantastic mother, an intellect with the SOH of a comedienne, artist, musician and all round fantastic on 24/7 porn star lover... Stop right there, please? If you know of one of these please send me the name, address and phone number! Please note that I deleted the "maid dutites". I am not looking for perfect and if she can be all of the above...I am happy to do the dishes and the laundry! | OKAY...and the cooking, too!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' There are guys who want a model, with a hot body who is super sweet, supportive, a corporate juggernaut, fantastic mother, an intellect with the SOH of a comedienne, artist, musician and all round fantastic on 24/7 porn star lover... Stop right there, please? If you know of one of these please send me the name, address and phone number! Please note that I deleted the "maid dutites". I am not looking for perfect and if she can be all of the above...I am happy to do the dishes and the laundry! | OKAY...and the cooking, too! I'm not a fantastic mother (kids yuk) and there is no way i am letting you near my kitchen but you can do the dishes and laudry Oh well Back to the drawing board Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' he plans on ducking for cover. They are going to hit you inadvertently. But dont worry there will be enough of us there who will make sure you gett ALL the attention you deserve. Kisses Focus lolz.. oh gawd...here we go... yet another evening ball gagged and chained to a table. I'm going to bring a minder this time! :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sassyfromsincity' I have a wonder women suit hanging in my wardrobe if your interested.Only problems is I wouldn't bother putting it on for any man of your young vain age. Please enlightening us as to what offer you would have to put on the table.Sounds like you have taken a piece from every failed relationship, and put them together to come with an unrealistic enterty. Here's a thought, go and buy a blow up doll, dress her how you want, wine her and dine her,have long conversations with her,and make here perform however you like. Or you could go and buy yourself a collection of Barbie Dolls and have yourself a happy little harem .Good luck in your search for something that DOES NOT EXIST. wow ... I didn't see this guess I wasn't paying attention to the nasty nature of your reply. I'm not going to stoop to your level other then to request you to list anywhere in my profile I've made myself appear vein. I've had a gutfull of age references too. The most insulting part of it all is the people who are the quickest to make judgements and assumptions about age are women. Quick to label me with some sort of previous experience and bitter hatred. I'd like to think I'm as laid back about all the common hang ups people have and the hypocrisy that exists in life and most frequently on this site. I cant understand what peoples hang ups with age are and yet you try and use it as an insult to me "young vain". I've not judged anyone based on age, colour, appearance, height,hair colour,flavour or anything. The old adage where people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones only applies when the stones are cast against you./rant off <3 thanks Meeka, not only are you spunky you are also an amazing person :) glad we had our quick chat
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RHP User
16 years ago
I dont know what you are all going on about. Naturally I have ALL of those qualities listed an more besides and Stalky? You wont need a minder at the Sydney meet and greet. I am sure there will be enough of us there to keep an eye on you and what you are up to Sugar.
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SexyArse
16 years ago
Well I guess the perfect partner doesn't really exist for anyone. Besides who wants perfect?? Where is the fun and the challenge in that?? My husband is almost everything I could have ever dreamed for. He is caring, considerate, compassionate, understanding, has a reasonably good sense of humor, loves most of the same music as me, takes out the trash, does the dishes, cleans the toilets, is very attentive in bed, makes me feel sexy even on the days I am feeling extremely UNsexy and................ he is hot! Well I think he is hot anyway, and quite a few other women do as well. Only one thing that is lacking (which he is well aware of by the way) is romance. Now some of you might say but some men aren't romantic.... well my husband is and has the potential to be extremely romantic. I know this because he has demonstrated it a few times over the years. Usually after long periods of absences when he has been working overseas. He becomes complacent but it is in there somewhere, buried nice and deep. GET OUT YOUR SHOVEL!! Heheh. Well I love you anyway Mr SexyArseOnTap. I also feel extremely lucky to have found someone so wonderful and loving.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' I dont know what you are all going on about. Naturally I have ALL of those qualities listed an more besides and Stalky? You wont need a minder at the Sydney meet and greet. I am sure there will be enough of us there to keep an eye on you and what you are up to Sugar. sounds pretty hot to me :) you know how to contact me if you would like to be treated like a princess for a day :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'focusliason' he plans on ducking for cover. They are going to hit you inadvertently. But dont worry there will be enough of us there who will make sure you gett ALL the attention you deserve. Kisses Focus lolz.. oh gawd...here we go... yet another evening ball gagged and chained to a table. I'm going to bring a minder this time! :p Hugs Stalky Stalky, is that so we dont throw the keys to the cuffs away on you and leave you there? Rob, honey, dream away babe. There is no harm and I would have to agree you werent approaching said woman in question just dreaming out loud. Kisses A dreamy Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
i nearly tick all the boxes...so do i count as perfect hell yeah i do...cause im someones perfect woman knowing my luck its the elephant man...but hey he might treat me ...well who knows hehe good luck finding her Rob....if you want nearly there, im here lol xxRxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
but my trunks full....Earl
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' i nearly tick all the boxes...so do i count as perfect hell yeah i do...cause im someones perfect woman knowing my luck its the elephant man...but hey he might treat me ...well who knows hehe good luck finding her Rob....if you want nearly there, im here lol xxRxx I'd be a fool not to have a spare key cut to my front door for you
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RHP User
15 years ago
well im only here on RHP cause im looking for a girl named sharon. shes about 32years old. of indian decent. she has recently been seeing a fella named paul. if u no of anyone that u think mite be sharon. please can u ask her to msg me. or if i can get ph# or email. i need to speak with her asap. dont let him do it sharon.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Gcrob83' Quoting 'TassieRose' i nearly tick all the boxes...so do i count as perfect hell yeah i do...cause im someones perfect woman knowing my luck its the elephant man...but hey he might treat me ...well who knows hehe good luck finding her Rob....if you want nearly there, im here lol xxRxx I'd be a fool not to have a spare key cut to my front door for you get it cut babe im on my way...mwahhhhh xxRxx
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