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Naughty Forties
November 21 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was married all through my late 20's and 30's, splitting up 12 days after I turned 40. My marriage was pretty mundane, as far as my sex life went, but I didn't know any better. Once I got out there and started meeting new women, I was taken aback by how open they were about sex...I'd never experienced that kind of openness before. While I'd still consider myself to be on the vanilla side of kinky, I have had a number of new experiences, and have become more open minded about sex. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Welcome to the naughty forties!!! It's OK to get naughty at 40.... Foxy XXX
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I think my best years are still to come and age gracefully I will. I've done lots of things and some not even worth sharing or reminding my brain! LOL I have a more time now, compared to my younger years...my daughter has grown, flown the nest so now is MY time to do the things I want to do. It's all about meeeeeee meeeeeeeee meeeeeeeeeeeeee now. And guess what?? I"m going to ******!! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
HI Araps, I was overall vanilla in deed but not in mind during my 20's and 30's. I was always the person that was a little out there or who felt comfortable talking about sex, etc. Then a friend challenged me to do something about my non existent sex life when I was 39, so I joined RHP. The forum has taught me a lot, and I have met a few corrupters on the way. Thank you Stalky. So when I hit 40... things changed big time. Here is a list of things that I have done for the very first time since turning 40. Had sexual relations with chicks Had sexual relations with chicks with dicks I have been with bi-sexual men I 've had threesomes, foursomes and moresomes with men, women, crossdressers, bi-sexual, straight, vanilla & purple Group sex First DP - anal and vag. Never done the double vag. been to Swingers clubs, sex parties and bi-sexual parties mainly for men. Seen women being gang banged Seen men being gang banged Okay maybe I may have been gang banged once - does 4 and half men count? Is one man and three women a reverse gang bang? Don't care but I definitely want to do it again! Fisted a few different women Squirted for the first time - meh not that fussed. Been dogging Public sex. Bought my first strapon - and I know how to use it on women and men Tandem cock sucking - shared a cock with a woman before and I have shared a cock with a man before I have been fucked on a swing I have fucked people with my strapon while they were on a sling or swing Been in a suckatorium a few times - but alas I only watched the going ons. Had an amazing threesome with two bi-sexual men while we were slithering around in baby oil Spanked men and women for the first time with whips and paddles and with my hand Tied a man up for the first time. Realised that I have a tendency to be an exhibitionist when the mood strikes Realised that I can be dominate in certain situations. Can't think of anything else at the moment........... But I will say Araps, congratulations on turning 40 because now the fun really begins!
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RHP User
11 years ago
But as you become older you give less of a thought to what people think is wrong. You are who you are and I feel sorry for people who have to still be ashamed of what people think about them because of their sexual interests.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was pretty vanilla til I turned 50, became single again and joined RHP......
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RHP User
11 years ago
I missed and wasted my 40's with the wrong person. Can you make up for it with the "fun fifties" ?
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MissBishere
11 years ago
happy happy joy joy to you for your birthday. A kinky scorpio just like me 😀😀😀
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RHP User
11 years ago
So much changed for me in my forties! I don't think its a case of vanilla turning chocolate or anything like that.AT 40 my ex went through a mid life crisis...depression....bipolar.....and it made me step back and take a look at life in general...what had I done ...what did I want to do...I had always been a bit of a deviate but a manipulative marriage took away my self esteem and confidence leaving me totally inhibited. A few years into my forties and I realised if I didn't spread my wings now how would I ever find the confidence etc in my 50's and 60's....not that women aren't sexy when older.....Lord knows Freya is proof of that!!It was now or never....So yes ...group sexswingers clubsused a strap onbeen with a girlNo where near as colourful as Meekas resume! but she and Bigmamma have totally corrupted me! And I luv them for it So again Happy Birthday Araps, hope you had a wonderful day!! and we will expect to now see you at the club
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' So again Happy Birthday Araps, hope you had a wonderful day!! and we will expect to now see you at the club Yep JayJay..... that's a pretty comprehensive list Meeka has there
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am a 40 baby too and I love it. I was always a sexual ratbag though telling stories of my weekend sexcapades at school to the guy sitting next to me while he told me to shut up because I was giving him a hard on, lol. I got in trouble from my teacher when he found an explicit dirty letter that I wrote to another student. My ex husband was a one night night stand that lasted 15 yrs. I have certainly done a lot since joining here but I still don't think I am that kinky
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have not done many thinks and I am nearly 58still what I have experienced as open my horizon and this is great for me and it happened in my 50th. and I know will continue in my the when I stay healthy and happy. Again Happy Birthday
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RHP User
11 years ago
I haven't really explored much at all to be honest. Lots to try though..... ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Happy birthday x I'll be entering the dreaded 40's in Feb, I'll be entering it kicking and screaming :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
To grow old disgracefully...So in twenty years Araps dear, you too can look forward to your Sexy Sixties ,Shameless Seventies,Orgiastic Eighties and your Ninja Nineties... and if you get really lucky the What the Fuck I'm Doing' the Ton hugs Freya xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me not much has changed re being 40s we'll except the Gray hair has started to set in lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hope you had a great day. 40s? All I can say is at 39 I am married, 40 I am no longer married. Was a big fork on the road that is my journey through time. I am not far from ticking over to 47 and so far I learnt its OK to be impulsive, and all work no play is just a waste of good time.
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Araps, Meeka is my God😍. Many things on her list have become my reality, though I've got a little way to go 😉 I'm closer to 50 than 40 but I'm not going to change for anything. I'm on a magical carpet ride, that I think I've experienced because I now have a sexual confidence that I didn't have earlier. I describe myself as being in my fabulous 40s, I'm taking that into my 50s and beyond. So happy belated birthday and many happy returns. Mary xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its as if my labido has been dialled up since turning 40 !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep ... Life began again at 50 for me and I'm still exploring new things that I thought I would never try ... And loving every minute ... 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
11 years ago
My 40s is just an extension of the wonderful journey I am on although for some reason I felt a bit more liberated in my 40s than 30s. it must be because my boys are not teenagers and one is very independent and the other on his way. Iit has given me a bit more time to focus on myself and my needs (sexual, emotional and physical) which I have neglected to a degree when I was in my 30s, when I was married and they boys were very dependent. Physically, I believe I am stronger now than I was in my 20s and 30s due to leading a very healthy lifestyle and very conscious about it. I can't wait what else is there in store for me. Life seems to be getting better,. 50s - bring it on... but not too soon. Lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Happy fucking 40th - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am in the FILTHY FIFTIES My list is wide and varied - no need for details as Perth is a very small place and the mining industry even smaller.
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nattyocean
11 years ago
Hope you had a great time and that your next decade lives up to it's name and you have lots and lots of fun xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Having more fun now than I ever did in my younger years.....Since turning 40, I got the taste for beer, had my first orgasm & first squirting orgasm, got the taste for all things naughty & kinky, got the taste for sex, had some of the most amazing sexual experiences, found myself again, discovered more about my wants & needs, come to think of it, I think I just found what my tastes actually are......💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
but not because of me I started younghowever I relate to the ladies I have met whohave never orgasmed or squirted .Even tried 2 men or another woman and even at 50I still find these women that have no idea whatthere body can do and enjoy.
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
Welcome to the naughty forties Araps.... and they are so much fun! I was definitely vanilla in my 20s, started the journey of fun in my mid 30s with my then partner, and am continuing it by myself in my 40s. My list is by no means as extensive as some but is also longer than others. I have partied and played with some pretty awesome people and have loved every minute of it. Bring on more I say!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' So much changed for me in my forties! I don't think its a case of vanilla turning chocolate or anything like that.AT 40 my ex went through a mid life crisis...depression....bipolar.....and it made me step back and take a look at life in general...what had I done ...what did I want to do...I had always been a bit of a deviate but a manipulative marriage took away my self esteem and confidence leaving me totally inhibited. A few years into my forties and I realised if I didn't spread my wings now how would I ever find the confidence etc in my 50's and 60's....not that women aren't sexy when older.....Lord knows Freya is proof of that!!It was now or never....So yes ...group sexswingers clubsused a strap onbeen with a girlNo where near as colourful as Meekas resume! but she and Bigmamma have totally corrupted me! And I luv them for it So again Happy Birthday Araps, hope you had a wonderful day!! and we will expect to now see you at the club W.T.F ????? JayJay_66 Group sex, swingers clubs, strap ons and being with a girl.....I thought we had something special and that I was the only one :( LOL Only joking, you go Girl :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Discovered, a few years ago, sex with 40 "odd" year old women (woman, &, in this case, 39) a few years ago. What can I say...???.... I had no idea what I was missing out on. Best kept secret ever!!They are sexy as hell. The sex is raunchy. They know what they want. They know how to get it & they know how to return the favour. I'm now in a relationship with a woman that is 41..... dead set, I'm sure they must get better with age
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RHP User
11 years ago
(Hope you had a great birthday) ....and the fabulous fifties are even better!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Happy belated birthday, Araps! I joined RHP when I was 39, not long after ending an 8-year relationship. Since then... well, pretty much what Meeka wrote. I celebrated my fortieth by attending an orgy with around 60 people.
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is the best time of my life. I'm fitter, more outgoing and generally I am in a great place in my life. Life is beautiful esp in my forties lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for everyone's birthday wishes . Is awesome to hear from everyone no matter if its a list a mile long or just getting into the swing of things so to speak. And also thanks to the Filthy fifties as well :-) No need now for a midlife crisis and have quite a few things I hope to tick off the bucket list in the coming years hmmm. Top of my naughty forties wish list atm is continuing more dom/sub bondage, first 3some, foursome and couple, exploring some side of my bi-curious'ness and learning more about shibari. Cheers, W.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am fast approaching my 40th birthday. And having only been single for just over 1 year out of a 19 year relationship I am finding my experiences are vastly different to those of my late teens. I was raised in a very strict religious house so sexual expression was not encoraged. My initial experiences were very tame and vanilla. My marriage was lacking some what in excitement. I fould my enjoyment of sex has significantly increased this last year (I am always horny). I am more confident to try new things (although Meeka you make me blush a little). I am no longer embarrassed to discuss what I like or want to try and I think that has come with age, maturity and life experiences. Ultimately I am not ashamed to enjoy sex and with this comes liberation (finally). I am so excited to see what else is in store for me as I enter my forties and beyond. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gosh sorry about last reply was meant to include: Always have had a naughty mind but not until hit 40s did I ever think about creating a sexual bucket list and then reenacting them :) Forties are amazing !!!!! I feel sexier, kinkier, healthier, more confident, less stressed and totally outta control in best possible way he he he - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
So I have recently turned 40 also and to be honest I think this will be an awesome decade of decadence. Have just moved to a new city and am enjoying meeting some very sexy ladies on rhp who are up for just about anything ! I am fitter and happier than at any stage of my life and am steadily ticking a number of items from sexual bucket list !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Recently turned 40 and decided to join this site :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Happy Belated Birthday Araps! Hope you were able to tick something off your fucket list on the day Forty is coming for me and I reckon I've almost burnt half my list this year and I don't think I've been vanilla since I was twelve. SG
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Hornyalltime72' Gosh sorry about last reply was meant to include: Always have had a naughty mind but not until hit 40s did I ever think about creating a sexual bucket list and then reenacting them :) Forties are amazing !!!!! I feel sexier, kinkier, healthier, more confident, less stressed and totally outta control in best possible way he he he - Posted from rhpmobile Horny, your post made me giggle as you age in your profile pic showed you are 38 years young but your post stated you are in your 40s? Hehehe Cheeky
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Deepdesires101' So I have recently turned 40 also and to be honest I think this will be an awesome decade of decadence. Have just moved to a new city and am enjoying meeting some very sexy ladies on rhp who are up for just about anything ! I am fitter and happier than at any stage of my life and am steadily ticking a number of items from sexual bucket list ! I can certainly relate to being both fitter and happier than at any stage of my life as well
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hope you had a blast! Having only truly discovered my sexuality after I turned 40 I can definitely say the nawty 40's have given me more bang from my buck :-p Enjoy every minute :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
..life for me has never been richer and fuller than in these most recent years. When I look back I appreciate I was just a boy through my 20's and early 30's…and the highs and lows of recent times have all been worth it, teaching me valuable life lessons. Most of all, it's Confidence I found I really needed. It's such a huge asset to achieve everything. To me it's…the absence of fear. Happy Birthday
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'Hornyalltime72' Gosh sorry about last reply was meant to include: Always have had a naughty mind but not until hit 40s did I ever think about creating a sexual bucket list and then reenacting them :) Forties are amazing !!!!! I feel sexier, kinkier, healthier, more confident, less stressed and totally outta control in best possible way he he he - Posted from rhpmobile Horny, your post made me giggle as you age in your profile pic showed you are 38 years young but your post stated you are in your 40s? Hehehe Cheeky lol I noticed as well Lilly
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