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Nice guy nasty?

July 26 2010

sex

I like nice guys.. sweet guys...I also happen to like rough and ready sex (I know, I know, this is a surprise).So, do nice guys who like nasty sex exist? I have no problems finding guys who want me to be nasty to them. Are you out there? I'm not talking abusive sexual relationships here, and not quite BDSM as I am not submissive at all... I just want someone who's happy to fight for it. Added to the difficulty is that the kind of sex I'm after is lusty and passionate however I'm not going to broach the idea of this with a stranger as well, I'm not completely stupid and would like to live a few years longer.So what do you reckon, do the nice guys who like it nasty exist? Should I just give up on this idea?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm sure you will get a lot of intrest from a loooooooooooot of guys after this post hun :D xoxoxo

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    15 years ago

    Helloooooooooooo baaaaaaaaaby

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    not sure, i'll ask a nice guy and get back to you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    yeah i think i might have met one once but never realised cause we never really talked about our likes and dislikes then when we met we were both sick so never really got into that side of stuff but he was very very nice..a gentleman really but iv since realised he is a bit on the rough and ready side hehe oh well you win some you lose some....cant get it back xxRxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Can't beat a nice guy who likes it filthier and wilder. Total gent, but a definately evil streak that's yummy

  • Mr_Invisible

    Mr_Invisible

    15 years ago

    The quiet ones you have to watch out for ?Some of can be gentlemen till the bedroom door closes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well I like to think I'm a nice guy.....a gentlemen if you like but! sometimes I am just a little bit evil. Tell the truth only one way you'll ever find out.......so I say take a chance every now and then.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    problem is they are usually already snapped up!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ive got one!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oh yes...they DO exist!! Ms Blind xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Lucky lucky luvifruf and bewtyfl2 :)Ahh Rose, bummer matey.alittlevil - Now I have Abba "Take a chance" running through my head... but advice taken on board.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    woah - thats so unfair. i love it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oh they exist alright! My man is the most charming and unassuming of devils. It's the quiet ones you have to watch out for!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We do exist , been told I'm a nice guy, but I love dirty sex with my lady !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yeah very fucking rough and animalistic , like I'm going to fucking kill you........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Can' think of anything else to say but that.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Nice guys, yeah they are probably the dirtier and kinkier ones because they have put more thought into it seeing ; )Nothing like giving a girl what she really wants...

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    FINALLY after a good many centuries (ok, so maybe not centuries) of asking hubby to be a bit less Romeo and a bit more bad boy with me............he's coming around. He didn't want to hurt me, he was raised never to hurt women physically and he thought i might turn around and slap him or say "fuck you!" if he tried to order me around. When o told him that i might well do those things but only to serve to make him "harder" that kind of opened the door. Alright!!!!! Want to go much, much further now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yep! I got me one too! ;-) (MRS)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Treat her like a princess and fuck her like a porn star. I hate vanilla sex but i do have respect for females.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'AllNiteAllLucid' Yeah very fucking rough and animalistic , like I'm going to fucking kill you........ That's it exactly!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I don't exisit. I am a figment of your orgasmination

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i had the pleasure of finding one of these rare specimens recently and very much by accident, a quiet friend of a friend and i were at a mates place having a few and next thing i know we were in one of the upstairs rooms fucking like randy rabbits, he was throwing me round the room (god i love it when they man handle you ) turning me this way and that pinning me down and lifting me up lol, a very good night from the least expected person

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'mrbungle426'Treat her like a princess and fuck her like a porn star. I hate vanilla sex but i do have respect for females. Scratch that LOVE!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    There is a FB of mine who is very nice, but get him in the bedroom (or anywhere else for that matter) OMG! I can give you his details if you like.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    BoobaliciousFG Thanks its a shame you are so far away or i would wine and dine you then put you over my knee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    My partner is a switch so whenever I am in a subbie mood..........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sometimes it is the "nice" guys that will really surprise you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    well i was referring to you hun xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    they soooooo do exist. you've no idea ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    well i consider myself a nice guy i was a celibate in a long term relationship and am very social i am well traveled and down to earth but i like roughish sex more passionate than whips and chains the pull your hair dig your nails in kind of fun we are out there i know alot of couples as mates and they are nice but have a strange sexual fantasy out of there persona. i think it all depends on the person hope this helps raise a few questions

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Do you mean nice as in, speaks well, respectful, thinks of you constantly? or nice as in just a bubbly personality and care for animals and stuff?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    There's plenty of smiling assassins out here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Give me some toughness.... I like a guy that is nice but can take charge in and out of bed.... too nice and they come across as pussy's....

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'mrbungle426'Treat her like a princess and fuck her like a porn star. I hate vanilla sex but i do have respect for females. Yep! Best quote I've read on here in a long time!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    When I use the term "nice guy" I think of guys who are respectful, who have manners and who are thoughtful when we spend time together. It has nothing to do with what they do for a living, or how they spell, or what education level they have acheived. All of my male friends are "nice guys"(of course I would say that).What I would like to find, is a nice guy who doesn't fuck me like a porn star (most porn is so boring), but with whom I can have occassional "crime scene" sex with. A "hate fuck" if you will. Of course, it's hard to have hate sex with someone you like. I'm not talking about whips & chains, BDSM role play can be so dull as well, but passionate in a more animalistic way.One day I'll find it. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' I used to be a nice guy, and I exist. So I guess that about sums it up. You're all the way up there Nick. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Boring?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Nice guys who like it nasty.... wait... you mean someone who opens the door to the woodshed? Or maybe one of those nice country deliverance boyz... "You sure do have a perty mouth"?... or kiss you tenderly and then say "weeeeeeearh..weeeearh.. c'mon darling squeal like a pig for me"? :pHugsStalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Although... I sure do have a purdy mouth :xI think only ANAL got what I was referring too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    mmmm. fine line the nice guy - nasty in bed yadda yadda yadda. you'll find alot of sociopaths/psychopaths fit snuggly into this pidgeon hole. haha wouldnt a woman much rather meet respectful, mindful but with a mischievious shimmer? lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Forget about the attention of others and focus of Summur! WOW!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    my man is a really nice guy but he loves being nasty in the bedroom - and he's good at it - i love it ;)ms naughtyperthcpl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Dear Polar_Bear_Girl... You can stop looking now, because I AM IT!!!!! I AM EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE AFTER!!!!! I AM THE BEST SEX YOU'VE NEVER HAD!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'TeknoMan81' Dear Polar_Bear_Girl... You can stop looking now, because I AM IT!!!!! I AM EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE AFTER!!!!! I AM THE BEST SEX YOU'VE NEVER HAD!!!!! Hahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahha.... PBG! HE'S IT. STOP THE SEARCH! OMG! OMG! OMG! (MRS)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'TeknoMan81' Dear Polar_Bear_Girl... You can stop looking now, because I AM IT!!!!! I AM EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE AFTER!!!!! I AM THE BEST SEX YOU'VE NEVER HAD!!!!! Really TeknoMan? You'll forgive me I'm sure when I say i don't really believe that to be the case. The type of thing I'm after I would have assumed would come from someone with a bit more experience than you have...Is that where I've been going wrong, looking for the sluts instead of the virgins?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sometimes I find myself fantising about certain women I know and what they would be like in bed. However often our fantasies are very different to reality.If you where to see me at work you would probably think I'm a total square. However outside of work I am totally different and a lot more out there.I'm sure there would be plenty of nice guys who are absolute demons in the sack but I'm sure there would be a lot more bad boys who would rock your world.Nice boys ask, say please and thank you. Bad boys have the balls to take and do what they want!

  • Sigmalonewolf

    Sigmalonewolf

    14 years ago

    well being nice and respecting someone goes with out saying in my opinion.... then it's just about communicating to understand boundaries. the problem is most women dont want to and expect a guy to take control. how can you virtually rape someone without knowing it's cool to do so...... i have met a couple of girls on rhp who DO have the communication skills to get it across and am thankful for their forwardness and we had/have a ball. peace out

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Summur' I'm sure you will get a lot of intrest from a loooooooooooot of guys after this post hun :D xoxoxo lol, myself included. Actually i never knew i liked it like that until recently. so even nice guys get surprised that they can get a bit nasty when it comes down to it lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    This is exactly the type of person I am, I will not pretend to be otherwise and that can make it hard to find and keep partners. Last one left because she couldnt keep up. I still love the nickname she gave me though: Mr Evil, Its because I look and act like a bad boy yet I treated her like a princess and other females with respect. I am always a gentleman until I have you right where I want you then look out

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I've been told I'm really sweet, but if I'm with someone who's into it, I turn really filthy as soon as the door latches.If it's exciting to the other person, what's not sweet about putting a bit more slap in the slap and tickle?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yeah they exist. For instance I'm one of them. Without sounding cliche 'nice on the outside,however deep down Im nasty.' For me i like the struggle for domination during sex. Makes things so passionate, and full of lust.Vex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    haha...Sounds just like me ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Quoting 'mrbungle426'Treat her like a princess and fuck her like a porn star. I hate vanilla sex but i do have respect for females. Scratch that LOVE! haha perhaps i could show you? lol :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I believe some do! I found a really nice, genuine, considerate, honest...you get the pic. The sort of nice guy I had never considered in past relationships. BUT YES, HE DOES LIKE NASTY SEX, FAST, HARD, A LITTLE ROUGH, SLAPS, SPANKS, HAIR PULLS. He is not as experienced as I, not has he done as many variations sexually, but he is prepared to learn, a very keen and willing participant. And, nice guys can have nice sex too, soft, sensuous, passionate and lingering.Having always settled for abusive ex's it is great to have found a nice gut, with a nasty streak in the intimacy of our sexual encounters.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Dear Polar bear girl, Im sorry to read youve had to post a forum to see whats truly out there. I hope you have had some truly good returns and youve found what your after. This topic had very much piked my interest as i believe myself to be the "nice guy" (trying not to sound like an arrogant moron here haha) but ive been told by numerous amounts of my comrades that i am simply to nice for a woman to take notice (again, trying not to spund like a jerk haha!) and i dont see myself as an unattractive man and we all know everyone has their own attractions, so i dont think physical attractions a factor 600% of the time, im just starting to think, that a rude man can get a womans attention and she sees something to follow through on?! Ive seen mates of mine very rarely leave the pub/club with a woman for fun times because he was such a gentleman, do a full 180 be nothing but a jerk and always manage to get there! Im not of course throwing all women in the same boat, i guess im trying to say that the nice guy outside-nasty inside is getting faded away by the cocky full throttle bloke who gets the attention then geys the fun! Im not having a whinge (although it does sound like it aye...haha) im just starting to think youve gotta be nasty in this world to get somewhere and thats where you may be running out of luck polar bear girl, dont give up though mydear, three quarters the fun is the hunt! I hope my rambling makes sense and doesnt waste anyones time, Takecare Jay

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    it depends on my mood at the time, I do find it hard though to express what i do want unless i trust that person 100%. I do not like the same old routine, I like a bit of spice, keeping things fresh. I do get into a bit of light bondage, tried the handcuffs, being spanked, it was a bit of fun and a turn on as well, lucky for me, my former partner was not afraid to go this way, and has been the only one i have tried it with.I tend to be the one enjoying the dominated side, and my challenge has always been, if you can get me to the point I am screaming, you have got it right.My first husband, he was fully repressed, one position and that was it, his idea of foreplay was to come in, shake his d**k and go you want some. He of course would ask and get a BJ, but as for me, it was high and dry time.My 2nd husband, it was fantastic until I caught him out, then it sort of became a point, is it me that is turning you on, or some other female. Lucky i am a good actress, cruel to say it, but I became very good at faking, playing a role, I would get go9ing, then lose it, because I'd have this thought pop in my head, WHO are you thinking of. Did not mean he missed out, everything he asked of me, i did, with a smile on my face, but that was about it. Guess if he knew or found out, I doubt it would dent his ego, but NM.My former partner, he has me pegged. he will know what mood i am in, and he knows just what buttons to push. I had a fantasy about outside, during one of the massive thunderstorms we get here, with the lightening etc in the air, it would be so erotic, I told him this, and well, I was right ohh boy, lucky we have a private backyard!! AND the kids were on sleepovers, i made sure of that, I can't wait until this years wet to try it again.I'm in the process of working things out with my former partner, just to save confusion, once i get past my trust issues, I told him i was on here, and he knows he will have to work hard to get me back, which he has started doing. LOL nothing says it better than a sexy phone call, kids were surprised when i said they could all have sleepovers at mates, and you have a man standing there wearing nothing more than a bow tie, a ribbon tied round his D**k, a bunch of flowers and a huge grin on his face. So spent a lovely night last night "working" things out, found it hard to walk to work in the morning LOL.The thing is, if you can have a person that is willing to try, and not just write it off, it can be well worth it. AND someone willing to listen and try your fantasies, not just theirs.BUT, I do prefer the rough, go hard sex most of the time. I hate selfish lovers who are more into their own gratification, and think foreplay is just for them. Also, never knock something until you have tried it.My partner, he is Mr Straight and narrow to look at, he looks like this gentle cuddly teddy bear, which he can be, but looks are deceptive, I will admit being the one shocked when he introduced the handcuffs, surprised and excited. he has this array of toys and things, I will admit to being pleasently shocked, he is 17yrs older than me, and I thought he would be one of those straight, narrow one position people, I was merely hoping he might be willing to try a few things, instead, he has more than a few ideas of his own.LOL it would be worth keeping him just for the sex side, lucky for him he has other redeeming qualities as well. I love it how he has this clean cut nice guy exterior, but underneath, Ohhh boy, he has it going on in spades!!