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No Condoms Please
April 14 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
I always try and turn it back on them. How do they know I haven’t got something? Or any of the people I have slept with? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
If it is not on...it is not in! - Posted from rhpmobile
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twotootouch
8 years ago
Some forget it is a two way street and they should be thinking of every ones protection including their own ...this is why you don't find a lot of men in the smart queue when it comes to sex written by Mr
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RHP User
8 years ago
If it’s not on, then it’s not on. Or to quote Swingalingson ‘if it’s not on, it’s not in’ ..... Never ever compromise your own safety. If they try to then they don’t respect you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
8 years ago
I've noticed a massive rise in men requesting bareback too. It actually terrifies me in the moment because my mind then wanders to how many times they have been unsafe. And if they're going to Houdini the condom when I'm not looking. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
To plant their seed must be strong lol. I have come across this over the years, every excuse under the book! You sound like you are going through a rough patch though EQ. Personally, I reiterate right before play that condoms will be used (and I make sure the condoms are out on the bedside table/ coffee table... wherever needed in fact) .... and add that if they ask to play without them that its enough for me to pack & leave. I soften that statement with the suggestion I am more tham happy to help out putting it on...delivered with a salacious grin and a wink and they get the idea they could be in for some fun. 😉 Alterior motive at work..if I help, then I know it is ineed on!
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RHP User
8 years ago
...although how does the man know that the woman is safe and won't be sending on the way with more than a grin? Shizen...get over it, kids! ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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aussian43
8 years ago
I have had a lady ask that we not use condoms, but I expect she would have been in the minority. Of course unprotected oral in both directions is quite risky, though at least no chance of pregnancy. Seeing the stories of stealthing going around must be pretty scary for the ladies. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
So many profiles have "if required" which makes me pass them over. Honest, yes, but I read that instances of STDs keep climbing in WA and its not worth risking your sexual health for a lusty session. As for stealthing..... When I was with my ex we both got tested and went condom free, its the best feeling, but only in an exclusive relationship. Agree with MsJonesy, you can slip on a condom and make it sexy, with your mouth or after a nice cock massage ......
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Haleakala
8 years ago
I think this has come up before but there are different interpretations of "if required" I don't insist on condoms or dental dams for oral but do for penetration. So "for all activities" isn't appropriate. The amount of people that say for all activities but then so they don't use them for oral is pretty high. For me "if required" means depending on the activity not "I'll wear them if you insist they are required". - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry, I was meaning for intercourse but should have stated that. I have actually had guys insist that they will not wear condoms, the thrill to them is maybe worth more than their health.
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HotNightsGC
8 years ago
We’ve been rejected purely because we won’t play without condoms. Even though it clearly states we play safe always in our profile. I’m sure some people think they can change your mind upon meeting them. 🙄 Can believe that so many people risk their safety these days. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It’s not only the guys who don’t seem to get the safe sex message My experience is that numerous women have been a bit carried away in the moment and thought they should try and slide on down And I understand that desire and mood.... but it’s not going to happen 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
At the end of the day, its your body, your choice. I blame a lot on technology (too easy to pick up), the "fuck buddy"/friends with benefits" that goes on, because people are too trusting and vulnerable. So when they do meet others, they think its " normal" to forgo. People forget, one night of hot steamy passion (without a condom), equals a many sleepless nights of a crying baby and a lifetime of dollars. I think people forget that. The cost of a packet of condoms is way cheaper than that. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was tested the other week and given the all clear (yey me) but I'd like it to stay that way! I mean who knows where you have been you little tramp x
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Rlee552
8 years ago
... of the people I meet up with I insist on wearing a condom. And yes, they do reduce pleasure but that is a very minor price to pay for safe sex.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was saying to Mrs 300ORGASMS just the other day how it’s strange that the overwhelming majority of people in swinger clubs where condoms, but in private, people are much more relaxed about using them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I work a part time job at a escort agency in Melbourne . No I’m not a escort, but I have no problem or shame in saying if I was I work as a phone hostess, so when you contact the agency you are talking with me either via sms, email, phone or live chat about a potential booking The money is great but man I have learnt more about men from my 12 hours shifts,there, than my many years of dating Anyway The most common request made by clients is bareback, either oral, intercourse or both (second most common request is for anal and third is will the escort perform sex in car ? that would beno, as it’s illegal) We always advise the client that the escort performs safe sex only (if the escort decides to perform unsafe sex that is their choice however they will charge additionally for this and from what Ive heard the client is alway willing to pay) however rarely does the escort agree to this for very obvious reasons. All our escorts are tested each 3 months and must have a clean bill of health in order to work with us As I said, the most common request is sex without a condom. I would say that request is made by 80-90 percent of potential clients. On the other end of the spectrum we have potential clients, fanatical about whether the escort will wear condoms. It’s very extreme, the two requests When I first started working at the agency, this request for bareback stunned me given that HIV, hep and other nasties are still prevalent. Now I just roll my eyes and shake my head. I continually inform the potential client that no, the escort only practices safe sex and this point is argued over with the client more than price. We always inform the client that it is sex safe only. Most will relent and book but I’d say that 20 percent tell us they will go elsewhere and they do. If the escort arrives at their appointment and the client requests no condom and the escort agree then that’s that. It happens and it is entirely up to the escort and whether they charge more, however by law we must advocate safe sex and to me it is a given. If the escort does not abide, we have no control over this once the escort is with the client So from professional experience I would say that condoms are not being used widely and men seem to not care. This shocks me even more given many clients inform us they are partnered (yes they do tell us or the escort) and yet they are still prepared to take the risk. And I know exactly how many clients one escort can see on any given day From my personal experience I’ve only just recently encountered this. I spent 3 years in South America where even though birth control, is still frowned on, being predominantly Catholic countries , condoms seem to be quite acceptable and encouraged It’s only since coming back to Australia have I encountered issues with potentially lovers. I’ve heard every excuse both professionally and personally as to why men won’t wear them . Not one excuse has ever cut any ice with me. Not on, it’s not on. Not negotiable I still don’t understand the mentality of those whose are prepared to risk their sexual health and those of any of their partners present or potentially Do you jump out of plane without a parachute ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
It has been my experience that women hate condoms as much as men - I am struggling to recall a woman who has not baulked at me slipping one on (''do you really think that's necessary?"). I think now with the new-fandangled HIV ''PEP'' thing, or whatever it is, that everyone has become blasé about protection; "most everything is pretty much treatable these days so live now and deal with it later'' - and I am in no way endorsing this attitude.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry, for most women when a profile states “if required” equates to you will go out without a condom when ever you can get away with it. Too many profiles too look through, so an “if required” is an immediate swipe next regardless or what he means by it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
It would be funny if you said, Sorry my doctor says I have to use the condom for a few weeks until the syphilis is totally cured. Haha
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curiousnhorny05
8 years ago
I will never play with anyone without contraception it’s not just about STDs it’s also about unplanned pregnancies. The swinging life is not worth enough to jeopardise our vanilla life, end of story. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was thinking same, maybe try the “I’m very fertile right now, please sign here for fatherly duties.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Quoting 'CandyD' It would be funny if you said, Sorry my doctor says I have to use the condom for a few weeks until the syphilis is totally cured. Haha Well I have brought up HPV once and you've never seen an erection vanish into thin air so quickly He didn't even know what I was talking about till I explained it. So maybe just lack of education? Disclaimer: I don't have it. He was just annoying me and I threw in the question, because it can be carried without symptoms. There's some sexy pillow talk. Hot! Ha ha. I seriously think many people just don't have awareness of what they can and can't catch. Also the mentality of it won't happen to me.
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Quoting 'Pommyfucker' I was tested the other week and given the all clear (yey me) but I'd like it to stay that way! I mean who knows where you have been you little tramp x Exactly! It works both ways LOL.
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Quoting 'temp_territorian' I think this has come up before but there are different interpretations of "if required" I don't insist on condoms or dental dams for oral but do for penetration. So "for all activities" isn't appropriate. The amount of people that say for all activities but then so they don't use them for oral is pretty high. For me "if required" means depending on the activity not "I'll wear them if you insist they are required". I never thought of it that way. I was thinking the same as others that "if required " means we could agree not to use them. I don''t use anything for oral either. Does anyone? Can't imagine giving a blowjob with a condom? I do understand that doing this has risks as well.
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Quoting 'pipsqueak' I work a part time job at a escort agency in Melbourne . No I’m not a escort, but I have no problem or shame in saying if I was I work as a phone hostess, so when you contact the agency you are talking with me either via sms, email, phone or live chat about a potential booking The money is great but man I have learnt more about men from my 12 hours shifts,there, than my many years of dating Anyway The most common request made by clients is bareback, either oral, intercourse or both (second most common request is for anal and third is will the escort perform sex in car ? that would beno, as it’s illegal) Really LOL?? I expected the first two but the car? When I was meeting up more regularly I was constantly vetoing sex in a car. Can't understand the fascination with that, it is so freaking uncomfortable. So limiting . Thanks for your input. Must be a very interesting job.
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
I dont think car sex is a fascination..... its usually..... a) because they are married and have no way of explaining a hotel room purchase on a credit card bill 😒 Or B) they want sex right there & then...and if you say yes once they will always try for it again.
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
True in RL. But to ask for it at a brothel 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Human Nature we always greedy. Been asked few times 'we dont use condom. For me safety first . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is completely correct Many of our clients are physically cheating on their partners for many many reasons (here I have learnt not to judge, there is a story behind each clients contact and it’s none of my business ) but as Ms Jonesy states they request car sex because they won’t go to the expense of a hotel etc. They are also on time constraints. They can nick out of the house with an excuse like I’m just going up the road to get some smokes, or put a bet on, or over to a mates to borrow something, so meeting for car sex is quick and convenient in their mind and they can pay cash, no questions asked It is illegal to perform any sexual act in a car in Victoria and we do not waiver from this even though there is a massive market for it. We are a legalised licensed agency and it’s not worth losing our licence over. Yes it is is requested all the time along with bareback Another reason for car sex is we get a lot of overseas students contact us who are often in shared accomodation so the only privacy they ever get is by having access to car, often not their own and they are after a quick blowjob, not necessarily full service, hence it’s massive market but it cannot be legally met Yes it’s an interesting job Earth Queen. I thought I was pretty opened minded and chilled when 8 first started and I was also very nervous but this job has taught me many things, shocked me, saddened me but has opened my eyes to what we all desire in whatever form, is human contact and intimacy and I have learnt not to judge as harshly as I may have done in the past of which I am grateful for. And it’s true, at times clients are just after company. Sex is not always what they seek but someone to talk to, snuggle up next to and just be relaxed with Btw, if anyone’s interested, Saturday night is not as busy as Friday, Sunday or Monday night in this industry. Saturday night, most of our clientele, who are partnered, are doing couple things !
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RHP User
8 years ago
As this is a question Im asked all the time A escort agency is where girls work for us, we advertise and promote them, organise their bookings and driver and they visit you (hence the request to meet in a car ) known as a outcall A brothel is where sex is exchanged for money at a licensed premises (in call) A escort agency is not allowed to offer a in call service . Different licence
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Gotcha escort vs brothel. Makes sense now👍 Requesting bareback and possibly married/partnered WTF so many 👎🏻👎🏻. 😖. That is sad and I would judge on that. Thanks for the insights to your world. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hotwifeluver
8 years ago
This is something I’ve never understood! With STD prevalence on the rise, why would you risk your health for a few moments of pleasure. Sex with a condom is literally (like the saying goes), having a shower in a raincoat but well worth it considering the risks. Fair enough if you have a regular who you trust and it’s by mutual consent after being tested and tested regularly. Otherwise if it’s not on, it’s not on! - Posted from rhpmobile
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LeMerovingien
8 years ago
I don't find it that different whether I use one or not, sure it's a little better but it doesn't even come close to the bonus of protection especially with people you don't know. The most annoying part of a condom is putting the damn thing on. The only time I've not used one for sex was when I was sure me and my partner were clean. Now for a BJ... I think you're just wasting your time if you try give one with a condom on. Must taste awful and it doesn't feel very good at all on my end. I don't think I'd stop using them unless my partner was on some kind of birth control either, pullout method is a joke.
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luvsilver
8 years ago
I drove escorts and strippers for three years . For the escorts, my job was to go to the house/hotel where the client was , collect the money and make sure everything appeared safe. I would then go out to the car and if the escort didn’t return to the car before time (usually the case) I would then go and knock on the door and the escort and I would leave to go back to the agency or straight to the next job. There was always a lot of the clients that asked about going bareback . We also had clients with certain disabilities whose case workers arranged things for them Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
8 years ago
I had originally listed "if required", because I considered condoms "required" for casual sex and possibly not required for something more or less exclusive (like most couples with their primary partner, aside from any contraception use if no one is "fixed"). I changed it to "always" (for intercourse), because of the interpretation women have of men using this listing, even though that is not entirely true either, because I have gone without for said ongoing arrangement. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
:-) You can relate. Recently because of the long weekends here and Easter,I was also driving ( performing the job exactly as you described ) as well as working the escorts phones in the car, while the escort was inside with the client I like driving. I love chatting with the escort and hearing of the outcome. As you will confirm , I am often in contact with the client via sms etc until the escort arrives at their appointment so by driving the escort I am always pleased when they has completed their appt and they report to me it was a good booking. I’m always glad when the escort has had a productive, respectful booking especially if the client extends, that I have secured for them And I feel terrible if they ever attend a shit booking. I do feel awful but my screening techniques have improved tenfold. But if I send them to a shit booking, as you know the escort always can say no and that has happened Some of my closest friends now are escorts. They are amazing people and I’m in awe with what they deal with including the never ending request for bareback sex. It is the most constant requested service and I still can’t believe that clients are prepared to take the risk and asking our escorts to do the same. Works both ways
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'pipsqueak' I work a part time job at a escort agency in Melbourne . No I’m not a escort, but I have no problem or shame in saying if I was I work as a phone hostess, so when you contact the agency you are talking with me either via sms, email, phone or live chat about a potential booking The money is great but man I have learnt more about men from my 12 hours shifts,there, than my many years of dating Anyway The most common request made by clients is bareback, either oral, intercourse or both (second most common request is for anal and third is will the escort perform sex in car ? that would beno, as it’s illegal) We always advise the client that the escort performs safe sex only (if the escort decides to perform unsafe sex that is their choice however they will charge additionally for this and from what Ive heard the client is alway willing to pay) however rarely does the escort agree to this for very obvious reasons. All our escorts are tested each 3 months and must have a clean bill of health in order to work with us As I said, the most common request is sex without a condom. I would say that request is made by 80-90 percent of potential clients. On the other end of the spectrum we have potential clients, fanatical about whether the escort will wear condoms. It’s very extreme, the two requests When I first started working at the agency, this request for bareback stunned me given that HIV, hep and other nasties are still prevalent. Now I just roll my eyes and shake my head. I continually inform the potential client that no, the escort only practices safe sex and this point is argued over with the client more than price. We always inform the client that it is sex safe only. Most will relent and book but I’d say that 20 percent tell us they will go elsewhere and they do. If the escort arrives at their appointment and the client requests no condom and the escort agree then that’s that. It happens and it is entirely up to the escort and whether they charge more, however by law we must advocate safe sex and to me it is a given. If the escort does not abide, we have no control over this once the escort is with the client So from professional experience I would say that condoms are not being used widely and men seem to not care. This shocks me even more given many clients inform us they are partnered (yes they do tell us or the escort) and yet they are still prepared to take the risk. And I know exactly how many clients one escort can see on any given day From my personal experience I’ve only just recently encountered this. I spent 3 years in South America where even though birth control, is still frowned on, being predominantly Catholic countries , condoms seem to be quite acceptable and encouraged It’s only since coming back to Australia have I encountered issues with potentially lovers. I’ve heard every excuse both professionally and personally as to why men won’t wear them . Not one excuse has ever cut any ice with me. Not on, it’s not on. Not negotiable I still don’t understand the mentality of those whose are prepared to risk their sexual health and those of any of their partners present or potentially Do you jump out of plane without a parachute ? by any of this at all.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Where the male has "if required" And the female has "for all activities Maybe filled out by the male, you won't be cuming inside my girl but it's ok for me to cum inside yours.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If you love her, wear a cover.😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I play in enough group dynamics that I feel like I have a duty of care to always use condoms. Have begun being much stricter with myself, and cutting ties with anyone who pressures against using them as they are higher risk of putting my other lovers at risk. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't understand the idea behind not being safe not just for you but for future partners I get tested regularly and practise safe sex. Have had the odd female partner who requested no condom one who said she only does bare so left. 🤔🤔🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Great_vibes
8 years ago
Those are the guys you want to avoid then. They are the people contributing to the rise in STIs these days. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
"How about couples Where the male has "if required" And the female has "for all activities Maybe filled out by the male, you won't be cuming inside my girl but it's ok for me to cum inside yours. " Maybe the male is happy to perform unprotected oral sex, but the female isn't? I think it better to ask on a case by case basis, rather than presume. I do think people are crazy not having safer sex, especially when they are partnered. It is on both sides. Before I was partnered, roughly half of the women I slept with were more than happy to not use a condom. I will admit, there were one or two times when I took the risk, but it just wasn't worth the added stress. I learned very early on to just wrap it up, and gladly, I was lucky not to be infected with anything. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
For me i always prefer natural because i am not as sensitive as the "normal" man It takes extreme effort or multiple prolonged sessions for me to achieve climax, sometimes even thats not enough wearing even the thinnest rubber means i feel literally nothing, therefore my ability to continue play must come directly from internal willpower ... this is exhausting and potentially boring if my lover isn't showing her enjoyment or providing desire I'm sure you can imagine some of the knock on effects this would have on my life and how that would influence my desires That said i am always willing to wear condoms and always carry one, it's not my choice, if she wants it on, its on But if i get to feel good too, well obviously im going for that option, but id never push the issue or try to convince - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've had plenty of first date fucks where things get heated in the bedroom and a girl will jump on and attempt to ride... I have to stop them and put a condom on. Works both ways. Barebacking is awesome, but not worth a horrendous STI for life with a stranger. Regulars though... Different story. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Condoms are ok, having sex wearing condoms also ok. Blowjob in condom still ok. But going down on woman - no way, as there are no convenient face/tongue condoms in shops for that.. one can use a bag from Coles :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I never shower without a raincoat 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I assume you then tell them that it’s not true. You don’t use condoms all the time because “said” arrangement for a new person in your life is almost like you go without a condom. They don’t know this couple after all. You should probably put it back to sometimes.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I find it crazy that anyone would consider the risks when we live in an age of HIV and other STDs around For me it's condom always until I'm in a steady relationship with you and we both been tested. Call me to careful, but better safe than sorry - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Quoting 'goodtimes_22' "How about couples Where the male has "if required" And the female has "for all activities Maybe filled out by the male, you won't be cuming inside my girl but it's ok for me to cum inside yours. " Maybe the male is happy to perform unprotected oral sex, but the female isn't? I think it better to ask on a case by case basis, rather than presume. I do think people are crazy not having safer sex, especially when they are partnered. It is on both sides. Before I was partnered, roughly half of the women I slept with were more than happy to not use a condom. I will admit, there were one or two times when I took the risk, but it just wasn't worth the added stress. I learned very early on to just wrap it up, and gladly, I was lucky not to be infected with anything. - Posted from rhpmobile I think from my experience around the traps, it refers to intercourse. It raises the question if the guy is liberal with unsafe sex then what is happening at home?Would love a couple with this on their profile to offer their reasons.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've only gone without condoms ever for two women and all the time while not using condoms, we were excluding others. One was my (first) girlfriend. "Always" on RHP is used even by couples, but only in reference to playing with others, correct? I assume most couples go without, with each other, at home. Or, if I join play with a couple, I should demand that they must use condoms at home, when without me, as well? Or if couples play without in their own bedrooms, but use them with other people, should they also put "sometimes"? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
If someone has been a couple not using condoms with each other, and they then break up, how many years must pass as condom wearing singles before they can put "always" again? Or is it they can never put always, because they have both not used them at some point in the past and/or would consider the possibility of not using them again with a future partner. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
"Always" does not mean forever and ever, until the end of time (or death, whichever comes first) :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The amount of times I have heard come on let's bareback, I'm clean etc, you want to play grow up & play like an adult & put a rubber on & the amount of times that guys don't even have any condoms with them.....Why should I supply them, if so I would need small, med, lge, extra lge etc etc, who knows what size you are until you met. Even if you told me you are clean got the medical certificate to say you are, as one lady said earlier turn the tables & say how do you know I'm clean....I could be the carrier, with no effects with me, but you could catch something. So enjoy your time together
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Dumbledore
8 years ago
I am 100% D&D free as well as having a recent doctor certificate to actually prove so to any potential partner, I don’t mind wearing them at first, but if people of both 100% clean and disease free, I prefer bareback if we both are comfortable with it, since I think it reduces sensitivity especially for the man - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Coming from a male perspective. If I was asked by someone (especially someone new or only met a few times) to not wear condoms or use protection I would say it's a deal breaker. We have all probably experienced sex without a condom before and yes it does potentially dull the sensations. But I always feel much more comfortable being in control of the situation and using one than just taking the risk. Thankfully almost all people here that I've interacted with have all wanted safe sex as well.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wear a condom for the love of gawd. I know two gal's who have gotten std's and one of them has done the right thing the other fucks about 3 men min a week, never tells them she has the STD (herpes) and never wears a condom. When they get it. (Not all the time). They contact her and she will give a story about how she just found out she has it to. Legally she is not able to be held accountable and will continue spreading the love. As the male of this couple if you think the average guy (or girl) won't lie to your face and say they are STD free to get what they want you should not be on this Site as you are far to immature. Good luck or wrap it up or let it drip. Your call - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've read a few replies. Skipped over a few too as would take me a while to read them all. I have in the past been trusting with the people I've meet and played with. I have been tested every 3 to 6 months. But condoms only stop the STI's transmitted by fluid exchange. What about Genital warts, syphilis and Genital Herpes. Then there is the risk while performing oral sex. If someone brushes there teeth and has a small amount of blood through gum disease, then giving oral sex can transmit sti's. There are lots of factors to take into consideration. And really, if you are going to sleep with multiple people, no mater what, the risk of contracting an STI increases. I seen one response saying that the new Prep drug to prevent HIV infection, that is all it prevents. Play Safe People and know who your inviting into your bed. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I read ur initial comment as you have an ongoing arrangement with a couple and you don’t use a condom when you are with them. But I was probably speed reading and misunderstood what you said.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry re spelling mistakes...... didn't pre read before posting. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Can wave a doctors cert under your nose, but what if they had unprotected sex the night before with someone with an STD.....Would I believe someone who said "But Im disease free" No. Or feel sorry for someone who found it hard to orgasm wearing condoms. No. Its a personal choice to respect your own body.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just kiddind, I never had the chance to use it and that's probably because I have met no one feom this site lol I am cursed for sure but at least free of STD OR HIV. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
If you are a couple or have an exclusive arrangement (and have gone without together), does that mean you can never put "always" once you start a profile here (ie to include others?) Most couples I know are post kids and many of the men are post vasectomy, some women have the equivalent. I highly doubt all those couples are using condoms privately. In fact, I have been with couples, privately and at parties, that haven't used them during intercourse with each other. If you include sex within the marital or otherwise exclusive unit, almost no one here can claim to have always used condoms. Also, a virgin has written a post on the forums. What does he put down regarding condom use? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The only safe sex is abstinence or monogam. You're kidding yourself if u think condoms shield u from STIs. They do on a very limited basis. Wearing a condom is better than not wearing one, but don't fool yourself. Swinging or multiple partners is very high risk. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawkeye_au
8 years ago
Since coming on this site, I've only done no condom twice and, both times, the girl requested it. I always carry and offer it. Safe sex goes both ways. We all need to be equally responsible for it. Stealthing is a dog act and any male that does that should be strung up by their balls.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Why would anyone be willing to have unprotected sex with a complete stranger??? ***SHUDDER***
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RHP User
8 years ago
Common sense! Respectful! Small penises on some guys? (little boy in a big poncho) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As most of what has been said about this topic has been covered, I will add one more point. A vasectomy is not a guaranteed fix. Not that I had one done. I've read articles in the past and the odd accident has happened. A married couple did not plan on having an addition to their family. It goes to show that not all procedures are foolproof. - Posted from rhpmobile
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