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July 25 2026

It blows me away the amount of times i have a single male message me and their opening message is "you free today" or "want to meet up later". Obviously i understand that this site is for hook ups but being sent a message like that without even knowing what i look like, grosses me out! Like are somr men so desperate that they dont care what i look like or what type of person i am, they just want to get their end in any of us. Do any women actually respond well to this apptoach? And for men who use this approach, why the lack of effor to have at least a small amount of interaction before asking to meet?

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  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    19 hours ago

    On the plus side, at least it shows you who to block .. and rightly so.....

  • OpalRose

    OpalRose

    18 hours ago

    There is absolutely a certain percentage of men on here who don’t give a shit what they stick their dick into. Age, looks, physical appearance, mental condition, inebriation, drugs, gender, health… none of it matters. Any hole is a goal. Block and move on. We’ve both already spent too much effort thinking about these people, just in this thread. #notallmen

  • Flirtydancer

    Flirtydancer

    18 hours ago

    It grosses me out too, just like in the chat room when men would spam...any female available in whatever area for the night 🤢 When I get messages like that I usually just delete, block or sometimes respond..'get a sex worker' then block 😂 Definitely not the approach I appreciate at all

  • Shared_HotWife

    Shared_HotWife

    16 hours ago

    Hahaha we sent you one of those messages today… lol

  • Unbecoming

    Unbecoming

    15 hours ago

    It's foul... and a complete turn off

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    14 hours ago

    It's kinda like this. We can't blame the men on this site when women throw out bait too. We are all fishing in a lake with different species. Some fish will hit anything you throw in the water. Others won't bite unless you've chosen the right bait. Reading a woman's profile before casting your line is usually a better strategy than throwing the same lure at every fish and hoping for the best. Ms Foxy

  • Nightglider

    Nightglider

    4 hours ago

    Yesterday’s opening message from a 30 something: Hey babe how are you? I'm with my good mate and we both horny! I can share pics! You free to hang with us both today ? 😈 Does it surprise anyone that this went to ignored folder? As they say in monopoly: Go directly to Jail. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200. 😂 Perhaps they throw the net out wide. For me it has never worked and I try not to understand it either.

  • PandaAndBri

    PandaAndBri

    2 hours ago

    Some guys don’t have game I guess and don’t understand how the female mind works. We like finesse, we like a little word play and even if we are a good railing kinda girl, we still don’t bite at “Hi” or “ Are you free”. They are usually the ones that bitch that they get no takers…. I wonder why 🙄 Bri

  • Wishyouwerehere2

    Wishyouwerehere2

    an hour ago

    Yeah I get those messages from women all the time.

  • CallMeV

    CallMeV

    an hour ago

    Your profile is well written and shouldn’t be receiving those kind of messages. All you have to do is just ignore and don’t take it to heart. A few girls loves that sort of approach tbh, it might trigger them sexually. We can’t blame anyone here.

  • Samwich4wifey

    Samwich4wifey

    -3 hours ago

    Happens to us as well, usually people saying they’re heading our way for a few hours one day, no previous convo or interest shown. Usually unverified profiles, with little info filled out about themselves or what they’re looking for. Almost all get ignored, unless I tell them to call a hooker because they will probably get more results! Or another, couples who are looking for people to join often at 1-3am either because their other guests left or they want fresh meat to join in. No thanks! Our profile states how we engage so it’s annoying and it still happens

  • seekandplay

    seekandplay

    -4 hours ago

    I know a few women who like the random hook ups - not everyone wants to know someone first or have that connection, and that’s ok! How boring if we were all the same. Just delete and move on x

  • Pocketrocket602

    Pocketrocket602

    -5 hours ago

    It's gross and I won't respond to that approach. Unfortunately in the time I've been on this site, I've come across so many men who don't put any effort in at all but expect maximum output so my inbox is turned off to receiving messages because I'm over it. The men who I have met who do put in the effort reap the rewards as I'm a very reciprocal person.