RHP

RHP User

M61

No interest

September 30 2018

I'd like to ask all the early 40s to mid 50s ladies out there if there is something wrong with my profile. Is it the way its written? Is it uninteresting7informative? Is it my pics? I recently rearranged my photos to hide face pic but send private gallery access with each message. Am I just not appealing to the female population? The last two views I received were from men ffs. I show interest and send respectful messages to those ladies that appeal to me but get very little to no response. What am I doing wrong ladies? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Patience grasshopper Is the key to longetivity in here and out there. We have passed the magic boundary of 51. It's all downhill from here. Ladies have a very large market from which to choose. You will appeal to someone out there. It's just time.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It's bloody hard work for little reward Annie. Sort of like having two jobs. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hi, To be able to write to any one on this forum is an issue if one is a quest and the age that some have so I,ll say if your over 50 then not many are that interested lots have a look at the profile and that's it , You don't wont any one over 50 so like many here that rules me out and its not a lot different on other forums plus of cause I,m 1800 miles away, I faced the fact that I would not stand much of a chance of finding any one to be able to spend time with, and that includes when I come over to Melbourne and Tas,e my age at 71 also excludes me I know the age guys wont so I don't count also there are other features that rule me out , any way that's life and how I see it. As a ? what would happen if I came over and lived in say Tas,e or Melbourne and I can if I decided too still be the same issues so I quess not, would it be any better ,I know theres more clubs and venu,s would I be better off, ...noeleena...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    We hear you. I suggest you turn your phone off and join a gardening group. Plenty of Ladies there and you'll never know what will grow? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Not really the gardening type red liquorice but your advice is noted. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Zed012017' It's bloody hard work for little reward Annie. - Posted from rhpmobile I can see a couple of issues with your profile but won't enlighten you.You need to work that out for yourself.....and in time, you will.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thank you vampavibe. I knew there would be some flaws with my profile but I'd really like to know what. I can't correct if I don't know. 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Don't fall for that one.

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    7 years ago

    How long have you been here? You've got five listed female friends already, you can't be doing that bad :)

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Do it because they are checking out your lady friends. You know, competition and all that jizz. Oops, I meant Jazz. 😊 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Zed012017' Thank you vampavibe. I knew there would be some flaws with my profile but I'd really like to know what. I can't correct if I don't know. 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile ------------------------------------------ Consider this.... IF someone asks what to put in their profile..... and they act on that....then they're not representing who they are, how they think and what they feel They are simply reflecting what others have said they like to see. ------------------------------------------------------ M.Lad posted the above in response to someone else's request for profile assistance.Thanks M.Lad. And I can honestly say, hand on heart, that throughout the years I've had profiles across a few different sex/dating sites, I've never ever asked anyone for opinions or assistance with regard to my profile. It was/is all me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You have five female friends Have you not actually met them? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • BungCpl

    BungCpl

    7 years ago

    Since you asked... The safe sex thing being I’d required = No thanks, see you later Being from Gilmore probably doesn’t help either, I hear the Tuggeranong area of Canberra is especially quiet for this scene 😏

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Ok thank you for the advice people, Will take it all on board. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    For the interest/opinions of women 10yrs younger and up to your age. Some women (myself included) are interested in the same age demographic you are...10yrs younger than myself and UP to my age. I'm not generalising or making sweeping statements on behalf of all women...I'm just saying sometimes it's just that you're not what someone is looking for. Neither am I. It can be a single reason or a number or reasons...but don't take it personally. And as Vampavibe said...don't change your profile to reflect something you're not..that never ends well! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Tongue

    Tongue

    7 years ago

    I've been on here for ages changed my profile up, still haven't been verified and had hardly any interest and the interest I've had doesn't go anywhere I've been on many dating sight besides this one and have had little to no interest so either I'm doing stuff wrong or I am no ones type... Good luck to you anyway - Posted from rhpmobile

  • abcplus1

    abcplus1

    7 years ago

    A bit of that. We too are passing through that age ceiling. If we send a hundred messages, we get 42 replies according to our profile stats, but the odds of actually getting to a date are way less. We *never* get contacted by women. To be honest, in nearly 10 years on this particular site, we have had zero success (we have actually had better results elsewhere). It is a lot of work, but oh the reward..........

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    7 years ago

    Sounds like a typical bank savings account :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It's not that buddy , it's just that this site is throbbing with hard cock , I think it's about 80% male orientated. There is honestly about 9 single women with paid memberships in my area and only 3 of those 9 would be active at any time . Then factor in the thousands of blokes sending them messages ,it's a safe bet your message will not even get read . I've seen the single women's inbox on this site , unless you're an amazing specimen you're out of luck . Try a dating site , much much better . I'm just here for the forums - Posted from rhpmobile